That brings me to my day shopping for furniture with Kandi. First let me share with you the name of the store, since I received so many questions about it -- Mathews’ Furniture Galleries. It is where I purchased the majority of our furnishings. What I love most about the store and the reason I took Kandi there is that for a creative decor lover it is a playground. I chose the majority of the fabrics, wood finishes, and frames for most of the pieces in my house. I guess it’s safe to say I have a thing for home decor. Here's a thought, maybe soon I'll do something with that talent…
Well let’s jump right in to when Kandi asked me if I had a pre-nup. I was thrown completely off. I really like her and felt comfortable with her, but here I am about to answer a personal question for the world to see. So I just fly out with a no. In my opinion a marriage is a sacred union between two people coming together as one with love being that foundation -- being one in mind, body, and spirit. This means I want to agree with my husband and have like minds, I want to bond with him in the flesh (meaning anything that has to do with the natural things, whether it’s a sexual, monetary, or family issue etc.). I also want to become one spiritually with my husband so that we are equally yoked. We have the same beliefs when it comes to God and how WE have our purpose shown to us by God. So through bonding with him in mind, body, and spirit there is no place for a piece of paper to stand between us. However I totally can see anyone else's point of view and understand why she or anyone else would choose to have one. For me I see it as a “to each his own” issue.
Just would like to add (better late than never) , that you should never take advice from divorced people. They can never see their fault in the failure of their marriage. Just because someone is loud, appearing to be strong and successful in their job, does not mean they can handle a personal relationship. I was very young when I married and still am to the same guy. You picked a terrible time to go on television. You were new into your marriage and just figuring out where and how you guys would progress as a couple. If you really took your vows as seriously, as you have been stating, then it was recoverable before you got on the television and slammed your husband. Plus, implying he is gay, just because he doesn't want to have sex with YOU. Great example...Holly Berry. Please take time to yourself (away from everyone) and decide what it is you really want. From what I saw on the new episode, all the people around you are making you second guess your decisions. Out of love for you they think they are championing your cause, not good. I wish you the best, but if you want to fix your marriage, get OFF the show!
I LIKEWATCHING YOU ON THE SHOW. I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND DID NOT WANT MARRIAGE ANYMORE. YOU ARE PRETTY AND GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE. HOPE TO SEE YOU ON THE NEXT SEASON.
Delusional no.Do I want anyone to go through verbal or mental abuse as long as someone provides, no. You only saw what Bravo wanted you to see as well as I. This was reality entertainment. Unfortunately relationships were displaced during the show. Unless you know her and him personally and know the conversations that have taken place between the two off camera, these are only our perceptions of what we've viewed. None of it really matters it is what it is.
Hi Porsha, I woke up this morning thinking about you and the legacy you have inherited. I understand you are going through a hard time, but I think it might be an opportunity to stop and take inventory. Your family has given you a great many gifts, not only are you young and beautiful, but you were born with a megaphone in your hand. A platform that could allow you to be an agent of change. There are girls around the world who are unable to be educated because of culture, prejudice and fear...and you have this forum stemming from a history of peaceful and meaningful change. In this time of flux in your own life, you might consider using the resources you have to reach out to powerful and compassionate people such as Oprah and Mia Angelo. Youth and beauty are fun, but temporary...and it's not what you'll be remembered for. You were born into a family with a legacy and the opportunity to let that legacy carry forward. Not just be remembered, but continue. Your reach is global...and there's so much you could do. During this time of change in your life, it might be a good time to consider what you want your legacy to be. Do you want to be an agent of change or a pretty woman who runs around elbowing other women to show your star shines brighter than theirs?
Porsha when you are married to a man that is a great provider-when there are so many that are not you should be very careful of who you associate yourself with, jealousy do exist. Yes, I know you could have provided for yourself You had a man that was offering to provide and work hard for you, so that you would not have to work hard at all. Too many young women have a tendency to listen to single friends, people that were married and now divorced or people that have not been married long enough to say grace over to give them advice of what to do in a marriage. I saw the outcome coming in the show that aired. Take this as a learning experience, be careful who you listen to. You could have had it all in your marriage however, it is the way that you go about it. Respect and protect what is yours let no one come between that. Be blessed in your future endeavours. Love, Wisdom2
You're delusional. I guess you think verbal and emotional abuse is acceptable as long as the man is the breadwinner. SMH. You need to get a clue.
The woman on the show had nothing to do with the failure of Porsha's marriage. She went into the marriage unarmed, which means zero education and no back-up plan. Kordell had leverage (money and education), which he used against Porsha.
When Kordell watched the show, he realized that he married a "dummy" on wheels, who was overconfident, without justification.
FYI: Porsha's mom and dad were divorce. Kordell was 11 when his mother died, and his dad, Robert Sr., who had separated from Florence, scooped him up. Neither Porsha nor Kordell had examples of marriage from their parents to emulate in terms of commitment.
so so sorry to hear of filing of Divorce I hope things turn around and you both work things out!!!
Porsha just don't let him push you around like i seen. of the show,you need to hire the best atlanta lawyer. You go for the juggler.finally. i would you to you step up and
Porsha, sad that it's coming out that your life isn't so perfect after all. I do believe you are very naive - to think that lots of money and a beautiful home creates a perfect life and marriage... there's a lot more to it than that sweety. Your husband should walk besides you not in front of you. You're both adults and he should respect and treat you as one. You also need to wake up about the baby thing - he's right about that. Baby's need their mommies, not their nannies. If Cordell's not ready to take on the extra responsibility, then you should respect that and bide your time unless you're willing to take it on yourself. You're lucky he's willing to foot the bill though. Nowadays many women have to hold down a job while trying to raise their babies, just to make ends meet. You're lucky you can be a stay at home mom, what a blessing that is.
Porsha,Why would you let your Husband talk to you like that?I have been married 12 years and meant my husband in high school.If he ever talked to me like that like he would not have any balls left.You need to stick up for yourself!!!
I see a lot of these woman bad mouthing you and calling you stupid and ignorant but I believe you are a very smart and beautiful woman..the kenya fans makes it seems like you are obsessed with her but who invited who to lunch? She can't stand the fact that people will like you and trust everyone is not team Kenya. She can call you dumb as rocks but you can't call her ashy? Continue to do you Porsha and let the haters hate.
0_lala I don't hate people who don't know any better, but there's a real problem when ignorant people seem to LOVE being ignorant. Porsha first invited Kenya out to lunch. During that lunch she jumped right in getting nosy about Kenya's marital status when the focus should have been on her charity event. After Kenya was rudely treated at the charity event, Kenya invited Porsha to lunch - and she accepted. But reconciliation can only happen when you own up to what you say/do that's out of whack, which Porsha in her false pride clearly did not do but between the two should have been more of the one to do so for how she treated Kenya. Kenya invited her to lunch with the intent to take steps to reconcile with her but was faced with a loud, tacky and I venture to say premeditated rejection from Porsha. I don't have to hate Porsha. ALL of her many vindictive displays have cost her her own marriage, not anyone else. The Lord giveth, the Lord taketh.
Yes, I'm divorced. But after seeing that my attempts to reach out toward getting on the road to healing were being rejected for being told by my ex that he didn't have any issues, the difference between me and Porsha - and I was in my early 20s - is that I DID THE FILING.
Divorce time will be a "real world" test for Porsha to see just how long it will take for her to snap out of that princess syndrome she's been existing in, if it will happen at all.
will just show the truth my friends !!! Porsha you and Phaedra deserve each other !!!!! please out of the show you and her are just a like sisters !!!!!!!!! Not watching anymore because of two of you so so tired of this gossip thing and =besides call someone ashi is very classy from you
bravo is throwing porsha in with the different ladies but it aint workin. she does not belong on this show housewife or not.
has everyone see next weeks sneek peek video. the episode with kordell and porsha. something is not right
the way kordell talks to her like she is a child or something, maybe she needs that the way she has been acting lately.
THIS GIRL IS STUPID. IS'NT SHE??? YOU SEE HOW OBSESSED SHE IS WITH MS MOORE??? NOW SHE SINGS LIKE BEYONCE???
and she never got up to sing like beyonce, mary j and rhianna. lol. and why did cynthia pick porsha to help with the pagent knowing she is a ditz. now watch her ask kenya for her help. and what happened to the modelling school
Porsha's bravo bio says she is 'wise beyond her years'- that made me laugh. Whoever wrote it for her obviously never had a conversation with her. The constant berating of Kenya is hard to watch and her husband seems to enjoy the Kenya bashing as much as she does. I hope he is watching the episodes now to see what really went down- that his wifey isn't the one doing the apologizing, but rather the instigating. All the hair and makeup in the world isn't going to make you classy. It is so old with these housewives thinking the other ladies are jealous of them. On what planet does someone not liking you or your behavior translate to them wanting to be you?
Live a little, learn about life, and grow up. Then come back to the show. You are an accident waiting to happen...
You claimed that your singing voice sounds like Beyonce/mary J Blige/Rihanna. I can't wait to hear this. Especially since you showed your butt when Kenya shared that she has been mistaken for Beyonce in public. Something tells me Kenya looks more like Beyonce than you sound like Beyonce.
Porsha, I am so glad you were able to see through Kenya, she is a very dangerous person. I think you are a very smart young lady and you and your husband are beautiful people.
Porsha you are so obsessed with Kenya, you need to go on with your life and just keep her name out of your mouth, even your husband is tired of the hatefulness coming from you. You also are trying so hard to get everyone to dislike Kenya, it is so high school.
blessed2do who invited who to lunch to back stab another housewife?? who is immature... please - kenya is a mess. and you know it!
Porshe, you lie well. And I mean that both figurtively and literally. Why is it that everytime you get caught up in some mess you play down your part and take on the other person's roll in trying to smooth out the situation? Others may veiw this as nieve to put things politely or just plan ignorant on your behalf, but we all know just as well as you "all that glitters ain't gold." Kudos to you for snagging a great man, but honestly, no ones jealous or envious. There's somebody for everybody. There really is believe it or not, and no one wants what was made for someone else. We all have individual paths to take in life. In watching yours unfold, I hope that you gain more substance, character, and just be real at least.
OH MY GOD... bye ashy what black woman says that to another black woman. porsha has GOT TO GO. how old is she 6
yvonnegraham I think Porsha has a color complex when it comes to black women. She and her husband's discussion about his black versus Cynthia's husband's "burple"...? " Ashy" has a pejorative connotation toward dark-skin women of African descent and I am sure Porsha knows it. If she doesn't, then she IS like a six-year-old.
I was watching the re-run from last Sunday, where all of you are talking after the fashion show. What struck me is that, girl, you're getting more gorgeous with each passing day. You were glowing with an inner electricity. Keep doing what you're doing, whatever it is, because it's working. You and your husband are such a beautiful couple and obviously very happy.
So glad you're staying away from Twirl Girl. She's one crazy piece of work and so jealous of you she can't see straight.
@ZenHousewife Well you got one right, Porscha is a beautiful girl...happily married? I guess things aren't always what they seem.
Agree, the more I watch the more I'm concerned about Porsha's husband. He seems now to be very controlling and she is afraid to stand up for herself and say what she's really thinking or feeling. I hated the way he was jerking her around about having a career and a baby. Sorry pal, you can have both! When my 1st husband replied to my informing him that I wanted to re-enter my career field when my youngest child was two, "Not as my wife, you don't!!!" I immediately started making plans and took the kids and moved out two weeks later. Kordell reminds me of him now and if Porsha has any sense of self preservation she should hit the road.
Hi, Porsha, welcome to RHWOA. I have seen this program for years. Congratulations and continue to think the way you do.
Yolanda Garcia Berdecia
San Juan, Puerto Rico
I adore you like I said before but I think that you are very naive and not in a disrespectful way- their is an innocence about you and for that the Lord will protect you.
Prenups are very important you have to look at life as a business- people outgrow each other and things change even the unthinkable-everyone don't marry for love like you do but one day you may understand.
I like your personality but hopeful you will be able to stay on because you know we love the drama the fights and all the foolishness and that's not you but I must say it's refreshing to know that people like you still exist in the world.
Meaning you are a sweet heart filled with God's love
May you have continue success-
im so over porsha talking about kenya at every turn. STOP IT ALREADY. its gettin old and tired
So, are you also tired of Kenya saying mean things about Porsha? And, Phaedra? Lets be fair.
yes i am. lil porsha started calling kenya names outta the gate. old, raisin, and she keeps goin on and on and on. not cute