What's up, my loves? I hope you all had a great weekend! I was so late on last week’s blog that I decided I would play catch up with you this week. *Smile* Did you all enjoy the episode?! I know I did, even though I must say it left me with mixed feelings about a couple things. Boy, I tell you it never gets easy seeing myself on TV. Seriously, it’s one thing to film and an entirely different experience watching yourself in action.
In the last episode you guys know that I met Cynthia and NeNe for the first time. Honestly, it was a little nerve wracking seeing I had so little time to prepare. My goal going into the meeting was to give the ladies more information of my vision for how I would like to increase donations for the foundation as well as experience a more intimate side of the founder, Rev. Dr. Hosea Williams, by having them over to his home. I was also hoping they would like to become active with the foundation and participate in a Public Service Announcement. Gathering up my confidence, I was up for the challenge. I’ve seen and witnessed NeNe from a distance volunteering at my family’s charity events. She really seemed pleasant, but we never actually met. I knew that she was known for being outspoken, so I couldn’t help from wondering if she would be territorial when I joined the group.
I had already met one crazy person who was a friend to this group of ladies, so I was even more cautious this time. When we did meet, I was pleasantly surprised. Cynthia, NeNe, and I automatically clicked and enjoyed our time together that day even celebrating with a toast to giving back. *Boom* We spoke about marriage, children, and our love for helping others. I was thinking to myself that this is how you converse with REAL women who have REAL lives. After meeting NeNe and Cynthia, I was able to get a sense of their spirit and vice versa. PS: And yes, it was hilarious to me too when I said 265 a year. LMBO! It was a combination of nervousness plus national TV, which equaled an epic fail. *Giggle*
Poor girl. Don't you know when you make sly remarks about your fellow castmates it all comes back to YOU!
Porsha is not a young girl. She is in her thirties, very shallow and her lack of intelligence is not an act. Her vindictive references to Kenya's age can only backfire given the fact that most of the RHOA are the same age as Kenya. She didn't know how old the others were? Not to mention the show's demographic. A Moron and there's nothing so adorable about morons In 2013 she still validates herself solely by being someones granddaughter and wive. She also has a nasty streak. Calling Kenya a whore was totally uncalled for. .
Porsha, while you are a sweet person, I think you did a dis-service to your grandfather. A mind is a terrible thing to waste, and you come across as an air-headed idiot more often than anyone on the show. If you were white, you would definitely be blonde. You seem to focus on materialism like so many other people in society which is sad, because that isn't the legacy your grandfather wanted to leave for you. Toastmasters, English 101, Public Speaking and some general knowledge courses might benefit you instead of being on a show that will only highlight your ignorance. To be so rich yet inarticulate and come across as clueless is sad and embarrassing. Making excuses for your lack of knowledge only makes you look even more stupid. Perhaps its the way the content is played on the show, which is all the more reason why perhaps you should re-consider being there in the first place. Accomplish something for yourself other than being the grand daughter of .... and the wife of...... take the time to make yourself a greater person who your grandfather would truly be proud of. I think he would be embarrassed with what you've shown a couple of times on the show.
Also adding: On the Andy Cohen Live After show, you were trying to make light and joke of your misspoken comment regarding the 265 days a year (365), and said that it is 565 days, and that you were doubling it, and laughed. You straight up clueless idiot, if you were doubling your 265 error, it would have been 530, and if you were doubling the 365, it would be 730. Read a book, and learn your Math. God help her.
BReal46 LMFAO!!! That was great! She is a numbie and I love that Kenya said it well.. "I don't have time to play nice with Dumb..Dumb."
265 days a year,who saids that? come one bravo bring the wives back from the first season.We also need to see the real house wives of Atlanta...Who are in great marriages and who are working moms and doing well.All the b...calling and name calling come on.This should be called ghetto wives and unmarried wives show...Not House wives..Kandi needs her own show she is on another level-higher level.Come on Kandi you do not need this.
You are so naive and clueless that you make the rest of the cast seem nerdy....and that's going some. In addition, the fight with Kenya was totally your fault. It was the past and should have stayed there. You just needed some attention and got it.. When you accomplish something on your own, you can boast, but until then stop living off of your grandfather's legacy. It's his and not yours. You wish you were as attractive as Kenya.
P.S. and I am not a fan of Kenya's....but right is right
Porsha, You are truly delightful to watch. Your naiveté is honest & refreshing. It shows that you are a genuinely kind person.
What is do delightful and refreshing about the ignorance of a 32 year old woman who can barely put together a coherent sentence? Porsha has made so many ridiculous comments and mistakes in the English language that I cringe every time she opens her mouth for fear of what may come out. My expectation for someone who is a spokesperson for a charity, the magnitude that she says her grandfather's is, is that minimally she should be the least half-way articulate.
I hope they let us see more of Porsha because she is so funny and clueless. For instance she threw shade at Kenya for not knowing how to cook to nab her a husband, but yet she is just now figuring out how to cook a pot roast. LOL I love this girl. She was burning Pilsbury biscuits on camera in that big ole pretty kitchen. She is a pretty as she wants to be. Fun to watch.
Joining in with your supporters, Porsha! I love your honesty, and saw how you really tried to accept Kenya, but she is .......well, just continue to be your sweet self. Keep your excitement and joy about your life, and your concern for others. It is great to see a young woman with wholesome values who is enthusiastic about life and has no shame. I wish you joy.
You know Ms. Porsha, I must say that you were absolutely right about Ms. Kenya. That girl is messier than a five-year-old. The footage that we saw this Sunday was only the beginning. At first, I was wondering how could she be flirting and acting that way with her boyfriend right there? But of course, it makes sense now. She's obviously been faking her relationship with Walter for the sake of good TV. It's so sad that a woman of her caliber has to stretch her self-worth so far for 15 minutes of fame. I would be surprised if Bravo allowed this post to be published, but it seems as though you'll be a fun addition to the RHOA cast. Good luck girlie!
I like you Porsha, you made a mistake with the "265 days" comment and these people on here are brutal! They are commenting as though they have NEVER made a mistake and it's sad. Maintain a thick skin and level head because HATERS are rampant, try and remain positive, don't stoop to Kenya's level please and focus on your family and your philanthropy. I wish you the best on starting your family. God Bless!!!!
JazzyJ0223 Her '265 day' comment wasn't the only error that she made like this. She also said "fraudulent slip" (instead of "Freudian"), made a vulgar display of wealth and put the spotlight on herself at a charity for hunger, no less, and didn't bother to have a notecard to keep herself on track when referring to Kenya's title (not that I care for Kenya--I don't--but Porsha made herself look unprepared with the slip-up). Really, the latest comment made her look even more like a ding-a-ling. I'm sure she knows how many days there are in a year, but there is a certain point in life where a woman needs to shirk the 'airhead' persona and be mindful of what comes out of her mouth.
It is so disappointing to read the comments of those that is worshiping this chick. Yall dont even know this chick or maybe yall do bc i dont see no one with common sense glorifying her. To worship someone that is being ignorant on purpose or is truly ignorant and phony just shows how many blind people are in the world.
This chick has told two different stories on how she met her husband, she said she dont know how to drop it low after being on an ATL tip drill video back in the day, she was immature and ignorant and boastful at a charity event. Come on people. So what she is pretty, so what her husband is an X NFL player, so what she has chanel and louis vuitton bags. Be a fan to the one that went to college and graduated, to the one with their own buisness, to the one that is humble.
Truthtold I like her now because she seems like a sweet person. At first, I was honestly annoyed by her "oh what are we in again. Oh yeah, a reccession" comment. Then I realized that she was not making fun of everyday people, she is just not that bright of a person. Her husband seems mature and smart, so I guess they balance each other out. It is sad that highly educated women have such a hard time finding a good man because men are intimidated while women like her can catch a sucessful man by being a "brainless barbie". Hey Life isnt fair. It is what it is.
I like Porsha!! Although she may not appear to be the sharpest tool in the barn, she has good intentions. None of us are perfect and so I will not hold her to those simple mistakes. After all, a sweet girl with a good heart and spirit is just what this show needed. I am hoping that she and her husband will be around for the long haul.
Porshe! So proud of you this time around. I like the fact that you recognize your mistakes and can laugh as well. I agree with you regarding Kim putting her family first. However, it's quite disappointing when people try to save relationships with a person who is known for flaking. Maybe things will be better off without someone who is non-committal to everything that's not beneficial to them. As far as Kenya is concerned, you are spot on with your analysis. It does come off as desperate because she is in TRAP mode 24/7. If a man wants to be with you then he will accept you as you are...if you can't cook or just dislike it, then don't trick the man into thinking you can; be upfront and honest from the gate. This will take a relationship very far. Look forward to the next episode :D
Porsche I like your personality. I like how service orientated you are. We can even over look your comments sometimes. Keep up the good work, I think you will be a great addition to the show!
Hi Porsha, I so love that you and your Husband came on the trip. You guys look like a beautiful couple. You found a catch and I know that Kenya won't even think about touchin that! You let her know your no JOKE and you can handle!
Your bubbly personality...even with the "freudian" slip of the days of the year is what the show needs its fresh. Seeing you and your husband and that he is older and settled has even made me consider that possiblity for myself. But one piece of advice: By a hand-held timer. that way the biscuits wont burn....
No, no, no! the show doesn't need her mislabelled "Freudian slips." What they are are evidence of a poor education and her determination to remain in the dark. She keeps making the same mistakes, refuses to admit them, and thinks she's funny. A trifecta of stupid. Ignorance is just making a mistake.
HennyPenny Ryan_Amari WOW... Yes, yes , yes HennyPenny how loud can you say " I'M SUCH A HATER "...
IS THE ONLY EDUCATED SPIRIT YOU SHOW / KNOW... I'm just saying...
@Ryan_Amari You may want to study "Freudian slip." I'm not trying to be snarky, but mistaking the number of days in a year doesn't really count. That just counts as a slip. Unless you think Porsha subconciously wishes there to only be 265 days in a year...
We all know what you meant to say you have such a sweet spirit about you I like you on the show your a breath of fresh air. Keep doing what you do and never stop helping others your heart is in the right place and God will truly bless you.....
Youre a great addition to the show. Your blog was well written. I think Kim should have been flattered the ladies were so disappointed she couldn't leave the country that far into her pregnancy. Cynthia who planned the trip was full of it. She knew no way would Kim leave the country being pregnant. I don't care how far along Kim was. Truth is not only was Kim pregnant, she had a toddler at home as well.Trust me I'm not a fan of Kim, but in her defense, I understand why she didnt go on the trip. She was pregnant, had a small baby and was having home issues. Had she gone, I would have thought she was delusional, at that time, Kim had a lot on her plate. Kim still has a lot on her plate, she has two babies and a lifestyle she can't afford. It takes a lot more than asking, believing, and receiving. Just who does she believe in? Santa Claus? Ive never once heard her say thank you to God. It's nice to see Kim married to a good man and a nice family. I hope she comes back. I think the girls will miss her.
socialbutterfly908 Have you ever heard of just say NO instead of giving 16 excuses... Cynthia and the other girls wanted to include her that's why they waited and changed all of their schedules to assist the trip towards her dates she stated that she was available...
Your hope is out the window, cause KIM is forever gone... Good for her, she has run her course... We saw last night just how good her man is when he addressed the camera men... I'm just saying...
Forget about other peoples behavior you need to worry about yourself and what image you want. First you invite a woman to your charity event. Incorrectly introduce her with the wrong title. Nice or not she earned that title. Then to make light of it and insult her by saying her title is old and insult her charity is disrespectful and wrong as a philanthropist. To refer to this woman as "crazy" is poor on your end.
Now you meet two other people and you say something like "265 days a year" and make an excuse that you had little time to prepare means you are not ready to take this seriously. If you are trying to live up to your familys name do your homework and show some respect.
Plus, not knowing how many days are in a year has nothing to do with preparation, she needs some common sense and some book sense.
gingerbread241 sounds like you're nitpicking! Bottom line: if Kenya was a secure woman she wouldn't get so bent outta shape about the Miss USA/America thing! It's an honest mistake not an insult!.. and it IS the same country! Its not like she called her Miss Third World.
Also, I saw the change in Kenya's demeanor as soon as she saw Porsha with Kordell and saw how he adores his wife, Really Kenya instead of attacking Porsha Kenya should ask her for pointers on how to get and keep a man.
I think your ADORABLE!!! Seriously a breath of fresh air after listening to the OLD miss USA or whatever the heck she WAS!! You have everything you could ever want or need a true RHOA and you still spend so much of your time giving for charities.... I think you a welcome addition to the RHOA!! :)
Hey girl. one suggestion think before you speak. Everyone knows that is 365 days in a year. stop trying so hard to be in the girls click your are not ready. NeNe, my girl will eat you up if you cross her. That;s my girl, she keep it real
No worries about the 265, it was somewhat of a hilarious moment. And let's be real it's not like you're on the show with scholars. Many in the cast have shown their "not so smart" moments. It was nice to see a civil conversation with the RHOA, where the subject matter was giving back. Out of all the RHOA, I think you will have more in common with Cynthia. And keep talking about your grandfather's charity, it's way more than some of doing. That's your method of giving back, and you should be happy about that.
Porsha you really had me worried when you held up three fingers, twice but your mouth was saying four babies. The 265 days I tried to go in and leave the holidays out but I still couldn't figure that out. But I'm still hopeful that it was all just scripted for a good laugh because i was rontf laughing at that. If you had to do a bad interview please not with NeNe Leakes she will make you look as if it you are a dummy. I'm enjoying the show tho.
Just not getting how she says it was nerves when she said 265 on two different episodes,you need to go back to school,Bravo even let Nene clown you!
Porsha....I'm 44. I have a daughter your age...and I think you are AWESOME! seriously, you are my favorite housewife! I think you are a wonderful wife and I would be proud to have you as my daughter....265 days or 365 days a year! Hey...who doesn't say stupid things now and again. My favorite scene all season was you burning the biscuits...AGAIN!
maybe she didn't realize porsha is in her 30s, maybe she thought she was still in her 20's. the explanation is probably a simple one. no need for the incredulous response, geez.
maybe she doesnt need for you to read her mind or know what she meant and speak for her. maybe she should check someone's age before saying that. maybe you should stop reading people's mind GEEZ......
They should yank her off fast before she makes it worse for women in general. There's somethin wrong, downright immoral in making fun of those that cannot understand or defend themselves. She is a walking talking danger to herself. Her pride not her ignorance will be her downfall.
HennyPenny usmc1975 Ohhh...my aching bacon and burning biscuit! lol... this girl is such a "Big Stupid"
I like you Porsha, you are very refreshing. But you did say "265 days" with a straight face. Girl, you had me worried. Ok......we're going to blame it on nerves *lol*. The world sees Kenya for what she is, please do not stoop to her level by bringing her into your blogs with negativity and then ending your post with a positive message. It's not a good look.
That's OK Ms. Porsha, I still respect you as a positive Black Female representing young Black America. 265, or 365 just as long as your doing good day to day. May God continue to bless you, your family and endeavors !