Porsha Stewart

Porsha dishes on meeting NeNe and Cynthia and explains her 265 days a year comment.

on Dec 4, 20120

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The big day had finally arrived. Here I am just months from having major surgery for a fibroid that caused my unfortunate miscarriage. That day I was full of so many feelings and mixed emotions. First let me say it took a lot of prayer and thinking to decide to share that part of my life with you all. As you now know, I decided to open-up because if my story can help one female to take notice of what her body is telling her, if my story can cause one women to ask her doctor for a fibroid test prior to trying to conceive, then it will not have been told in vain. I try to formulate a plan, pray on what I desire, and many times it comes into fruition. However on my path to having a healthy baby, well, it didn't happen that way for me.

I was really devastated following the loss of my first pregnancy, not just a physical pain, but an aching sense of loss and loneliness like my body had let me down. Feeling sorry for myself, I did my research and discovered the U.S. National Institute of Health reveals at least 25 percent of women suffer from uterine fibroids. As many as 77 percent of women may not even know they have them, because there are no symptoms, which is why I had no clue. I will faithfully continue to stay prayerful that I will become a mother for the second time. I learned that it’s not my timing but the big man upstairs who holds my destiny in his hands. I must add that I’m hoping next time it will be a set of twins. LOL, pass the yams! PS: I appreciate the prayers and love shots. *Smooches*
 
Bon Voyage Kim

Wow! That lunch sure did go from good, to bad, to ugly real fast. I think it had to do with Kim’s “I’m coming," “I probably shouldn't,” to nope “I’m NOT going with you guys.” Unfortunately I didn't get the chance to meet Kim, however after watching her it seems she is really into family and therefore on her list of priorities they come first. I'm the exact same way. I can also understand the ladies’ reaction to her answer and why it wasn’t very well received. Seems they had been looking forward to the trip as a last ditch effort to save their friendships. I really felt their sentiment was genuine towards one another and was quite proud of NeNe for keeping calm, because honey for a minute I thought the diva was about go into real diva mode.

 

147 comments
hall2mark
hall2mark

Poor girl.  Don't you know when you make sly remarks about your fellow castmates it all comes back to YOU!

MissCane
MissCane

Porsha is not a young girl.  She is in her thirties,  very shallow and her lack of intelligence is not an act.  Her vindictive references to Kenya's age can only backfire given the fact that most of the RHOA are the same age as Kenya. She didn't know how old the others were?  Not to mention the show's demographic. A Moron and there's nothing so adorable about morons In 2013 she still validates herself solely  by being someones granddaughter and wive. She also has a nasty streak.  Calling Kenya a whore was totally uncalled for. .

JacquiAbleToConverseAsAnAdult
JacquiAbleToConverseAsAnAdult

Porsha, while you are a sweet person, I think you did a dis-service to your grandfather.  A mind is a terrible thing to waste, and you come across as an air-headed idiot more often than anyone on the show.  If you were white, you would definitely be blonde.  You seem to focus on materialism like so many other people in society which is sad, because that isn't the legacy your grandfather wanted to leave for you.  Toastmasters, English 101, Public Speaking and some general knowledge courses might benefit you instead of being on a show that will only highlight your ignorance.  To be so rich yet inarticulate and come across as clueless is sad and embarrassing.  Making excuses for your lack of knowledge only makes you look even more stupid.  Perhaps its the way the content is played on the show, which is all the more reason why perhaps you should re-consider being there in the first place.  Accomplish something for yourself other than being the grand daughter of .... and the wife of...... take the time to make yourself a greater person who your grandfather would truly be proud of.  I think he would be embarrassed with what you've shown a couple of times on the show.

BReal46
BReal46

Also adding: On the Andy Cohen Live After show, you were trying to make light and  joke of your misspoken comment regarding the 265 days a year (365), and said that it is 565 days, and that you were doubling it, and laughed.  You straight up clueless idiot, if you were doubling your 265 error, it would have been 530, and if you were doubling the 365, it would be 730.  Read a book, and learn your Math.  God help her.

atlantawife2012
atlantawife2012

265 days a year,who saids that?  come one bravo bring the wives back from the first season.We also need to see the real house wives of Atlanta...Who are in great marriages and who are working moms and doing well.All the b...calling and name calling come on.This should be called ghetto wives and unmarried wives show...Not House wives..Kandi needs her own show she is on another level-higher level.Come on Kandi you do not need this.

lulugriffin
lulugriffin

You are so naive and clueless that you make the rest of the cast seem nerdy....and that's going some.  In addition, the fight with Kenya was totally your fault. It was the past and should have stayed there.  You just needed some attention and got it.. When you accomplish something on your own, you can boast, but until then stop living off of your grandfather's legacy. It's his and not yours.   You wish you were as attractive as Kenya.

 

Poor thing.

 

P.S. and I am not a fan of Kenya's....but right is right

tboune
tboune

Porsha, You are truly delightful to watch. Your naiveté is honest & refreshing. It shows that you are a genuinely kind person. 

pyt
pyt

I hope they let us see more of Porsha because she is so funny and clueless. For instance she threw shade at Kenya for not knowing how to cook to nab her a husband, but yet she is just now figuring out how to cook a pot roast. LOL I love this girl. She was burning Pilsbury biscuits on camera in that big ole pretty kitchen. She is a pretty as she wants to be. Fun to watch. 

laces
laces

Joining in with your supporters, Porsha!  I love your honesty, and saw how you really tried to accept Kenya, but she is .......well, just continue to be your sweet self.  Keep your excitement and joy about your life, and your concern for others.  It is great to see a young woman with  wholesome values who is enthusiastic about life and has no shame.  I wish you joy.

ShaneeceDixon
ShaneeceDixon

You know Ms. Porsha, I must say that you were absolutely right about Ms. Kenya. That girl is messier than a five-year-old. The footage that we saw this Sunday was only the beginning. At first, I was wondering how could she be flirting and acting that way with her boyfriend right there? But of course, it makes sense now. She's obviously been faking her relationship with Walter for the sake of good TV. It's so sad that a woman of her caliber has to stretch her self-worth so far for 15 minutes of fame. I would be surprised if Bravo allowed this post to be published, but it seems as though you'll be a fun addition to the RHOA cast. Good luck girlie!

JazzyJ0223
JazzyJ0223

I like you Porsha, you made a mistake with the "265 days" comment and these people on here are brutal! They are commenting as though they have NEVER made a mistake and it's sad. Maintain a thick skin and level head because HATERS are rampant, try and remain positive, don't stoop to Kenya's level please and focus on your family and your philanthropy. I wish you the best on starting your family. God Bless!!!!

Truthtold
Truthtold

It is so disappointing to read the comments of those that is worshiping this chick. Yall dont even know this chick or maybe yall do bc i dont see no one with common sense glorifying her. To worship someone that is being ignorant on purpose or is truly ignorant and phony just shows how many blind people are in the world.

This chick has told two different stories on how she met her husband, she said she dont know how to drop it low after being on an ATL tip drill video back in the day, she was immature and ignorant and boastful at a charity event. Come on people. So what she is pretty, so what her husband is an X NFL player, so what she has chanel and louis vuitton bags. Be a fan to the one that went to college and graduated, to the one with their own buisness, to the one that is humble.

Vanna1908
Vanna1908

I like Porsha!!  Although she may not appear to be the sharpest tool in the barn, she has good intentions.  None of us are perfect and so I will not hold her to those simple mistakes.  After all, a sweet girl with a good heart and spirit is just what this show needed.  I am hoping that she and her husband will be around for the long haul. 

traylorparkcrew
traylorparkcrew

Porshe! So proud of you this time around.  I like the fact that you recognize your mistakes and can laugh as well.  I agree with you regarding Kim putting her family first.  However, it's quite disappointing when people try to save relationships with a person who is known for flaking.  Maybe things will be better off without someone who is non-committal to everything that's not beneficial to them.  As far as Kenya is concerned, you are spot on with your analysis.  It does come off as desperate because she is in TRAP mode 24/7.  If a man wants to be with you then he will accept you as you are...if you can't cook or just dislike it, then don't trick the man into thinking you can; be upfront and honest from the gate.  This will take a relationship very far.  Look forward to the next episode :D 

Rachel_Pleas
Rachel_Pleas

Porsche I like your personality.  I like how service orientated you are.  We can even over look your comments sometimes.  Keep up the good work, I think you will be a great addition to the show!

kjones0160
kjones0160

Hi Porsha, I so love that you and your Husband came on the trip. You guys look like a beautiful couple. You found a catch and I know that Kenya won't even think about touchin that! You let her know your no JOKE and you can handle!

Ryan_Amari
Ryan_Amari

Your bubbly personality...even with the "freudian" slip of the days of the year is what the show needs its fresh. Seeing you and your husband and that he is older and settled has even made me consider that possiblity for myself. But one piece of advice: By a hand-held timer. that way the biscuits wont burn....

leslie.williams.165685
leslie.williams.165685

We all know what you meant to say you have such a sweet spirit about you I like you on the show your a breath of fresh air. Keep doing what you do and never stop helping others your heart is in the right place and God will truly bless you.....

socialbutterfly908
socialbutterfly908

Youre a great addition to the show. Your blog was well written. I think Kim should have been flattered the ladies were so disappointed she couldn't leave the country that far into her pregnancy. Cynthia who planned the trip was full of it. She knew no way would Kim leave the country being pregnant. I don't care how far along Kim was. Truth is not only was Kim pregnant, she had a toddler at home as well.Trust me I'm not a fan of Kim, but in her defense, I understand why she didnt go on the trip. She was pregnant, had a small baby and was having home issues. Had she gone, I would have thought she was delusional, at that time, Kim had a lot on her plate. Kim still has a lot on her plate, she has two babies and a lifestyle she can't afford. It takes a lot more than asking, believing, and receiving. Just who does she believe in? Santa Claus? Ive never once heard her say thank you to God. It's nice to see Kim married to a good man and a nice family. I hope she comes back. I think the girls will miss her.

gingerbread241
gingerbread241

Forget about other peoples behavior you need to worry about yourself and what image you want.  First you invite a woman to your charity event.  Incorrectly introduce her with the wrong title.  Nice or not she earned that title.  Then to make light of it and insult her by saying her title is old and insult her charity is disrespectful and wrong as a philanthropist.  To refer to this woman as "crazy" is poor on your end. 

Now you meet two other people and you say something like "265 days a year" and make an excuse that you had little time to prepare means you are not ready to take this seriously.  If you are trying to live up to your familys name do your homework and show some respect. 

jaxmcevoy
jaxmcevoy

I think your ADORABLE!!!  Seriously a breath of fresh air after listening to the OLD miss USA or whatever the heck she WAS!!  You have everything you could ever want or need a true RHOA and you still spend so much of your time giving for charities.... I think you a welcome addition to the RHOA!! :)

hotgirl2012
hotgirl2012

Hey girl. one suggestion think before you speak. Everyone knows that is 365 days in a year. stop trying so hard to be in the girls click your are not ready. NeNe, my girl will eat you up if you cross her. That;s my girl, she keep it real

Blink
Blink

No worries about the 265, it was somewhat of a hilarious moment.  And let's be real it's not like you're on the show with scholars.  Many in the cast have shown their "not so smart" moments.  It was nice to see a civil conversation with the RHOA, where the subject matter was giving back.  Out of all the RHOA, I think you will have more in common with Cynthia.  And keep talking about your grandfather's charity, it's way more than some of doing.  That's your method of giving back, and you should be happy about that. 

keey@40
keey@40

Porsha you really had me worried when you held up three fingers, twice but your mouth was saying four babies. The 265 days I tried to go in and leave the holidays out but I still couldn't figure that out. But I'm still hopeful that it was all just scripted for a good laugh because i was rontf laughing at that. If you had to do a bad interview please not with NeNe Leakes she will make you look as if it you are a dummy. I'm enjoying the show tho.

JackieS
JackieS

Just not getting how she says it was nerves when she said 265 on two different episodes,you need to go back to school,Bravo even let Nene clown you!

Pa33ion
Pa33ion

Yaaay! Go Porsha! Go!!!! We're definitely team PORSHA!!! Xoxo

realdealkc
realdealkc

Porsha....I'm 44.  I have a daughter your age...and I think you are AWESOME!  seriously, you are my favorite housewife!  I think you are a wonderful wife and I would be proud to have you as my daughter....265 days or 365 days a year!    Hey...who doesn't say stupid things now and again.   My favorite scene all season was you burning the biscuits...AGAIN!   

Penabutta
Penabutta

I like you Porsha, you are very refreshing. But you did say "265 days" with a straight face. Girl, you had me worried. Ok......we're going to blame it on nerves *lol*. The world sees Kenya for what she is, please do not stoop to her level by bringing her into your blogs with negativity and then ending your post with a positive message. It's not a good look.

Lilguil3
Lilguil3

That's OK Ms. Porsha, I still respect you as a positive Black Female representing  young Black America. 265, or 365 just as long as your doing good day to day. May God continue to bless you, your family and endeavors !

blak-beri
blak-beri

Porsha, your funny. I think you are a very nice person. Forget Miss USA Kenya .

Fairy2013
Fairy2013

 @BReal46 LMFAO!!!  That was great!  She is a numbie and I love that Kenya said it well.. "I don't have time to play nice with Dumb..Dumb."

grisleyplanet
grisleyplanet

 @tboune

 What is do delightful and refreshing about the ignorance of a 32 year old woman who can barely put together a coherent sentence?  Porsha has made so many ridiculous comments and mistakes in the English language that I cringe every time she opens her mouth for fear of what may come out. My expectation for someone who is a spokesperson for a charity, the magnitude that she says her grandfather's is, is that minimally she should be  the least half-way articulate.

Javo
Javo

Dang! you mad huh?  LOL    

Nastybaby
Nastybaby

 @JazzyJ0223 Her '265 day' comment wasn't the only error that she made like this.  She also said "fraudulent slip" (instead of "Freudian"), made a vulgar display of wealth and put the spotlight on herself at a charity for hunger, no less, and didn't bother to have a notecard to keep herself on track when referring to Kenya's title (not that I care for Kenya--I don't--but Porsha made herself look unprepared with the slip-up).  Really, the latest comment made her look even more like a ding-a-ling.  I'm sure she knows how many days there are in a year, but there is a certain point in life where a woman needs to shirk the 'airhead' persona and be mindful of what comes out of her mouth.

Sheila0729
Sheila0729

 @Truthtold I like her now because she seems like a sweet person. At first, I was honestly annoyed by her "oh what are we in again. Oh yeah, a reccession" comment. Then I realized that she was not making fun of everyday people, she is just not that bright of a person. Her husband seems mature and smart, so I guess they balance each other out. It is sad that highly educated women have such a hard time finding a good man because men are intimidated while women like her can catch a sucessful man by being a "brainless barbie". Hey Life isnt fair. It is what it is.

BMBarbie
BMBarbie

@Ryan_Amari You may want to study "Freudian slip." I'm not trying to be snarky, but mistaking the number of days in a year doesn't really count. That just counts as a slip. Unless you think Porsha subconciously wishes there to only be 265 days in a year...

HennyPenny
HennyPenny

 @Ryan_Amari

 No, no, no! the show doesn't need her mislabelled "Freudian slips." What they are are evidence of a poor education and her determination to remain in the dark. She keeps making the same mistakes, refuses to admit them, and thinks she's funny. A trifecta of stupid. Ignorance is just making a mistake.  

SweetHarts
SweetHarts

 @socialbutterfly908  Have you ever heard of just say NO instead of giving 16 excuses...  Cynthia and the other girls wanted to include her that's why they waited and changed all of their schedules to assist the trip towards her dates she stated that she was available...

 

Your hope is out the window, cause KIM is forever gone... Good for her, she has run her course...  We saw last night just how good her man is when he addressed the camera men... I'm just saying...

 

TEAM PORSHAS

haileybop
haileybop

 @gingerbread241 sounds like you're nitpicking! Bottom line: if Kenya was a secure woman she wouldn't get so bent outta shape about the Miss USA/America thing! It's an honest mistake not an insult!.. and it IS the same country! Its not like she called her Miss Third World.

 

Also, I saw the change in Kenya's demeanor as soon as she saw Porsha with Kordell and saw how he adores his wife, Really Kenya instead of attacking Porsha Kenya should ask her for pointers on how to get and keep a man.

Babydoll70
Babydoll70

 @gingerbread241

 Plus, not knowing how many days are in a year has nothing to do with preparation, she needs some common sense and some book sense.

nursenj
nursenj

 @realdealkc

 porsha is 32 yrs old and at 44 you have a daughter her age? am confused.

HennyPenny
HennyPenny

 @usmc1975

 They should yank her off fast before she makes it worse for women in general. There's somethin wrong, downright immoral in making fun of those that cannot understand or defend themselves. She is a walking talking danger to herself. Her pride not her ignorance will be her downfall.

SweetHarts
SweetHarts

 @HennyPenny  @Ryan_Amari  WOW...  Yes, yes , yes HennyPenny how loud can you say  "  I'M SUCH A HATER "...

 

IS THE ONLY EDUCATED SPIRIT YOU SHOW  /  KNOW... I'm just saying...

 

TEAM PORSHA

melsweet
melsweet

 @nursenj  @realdealkc

 maybe she didn't realize porsha is in her 30s, maybe she thought she was still in her 20's.  the explanation is probably a simple one.  no need for the incredulous response, geez. 

nursenj
nursenj

 @melsweet  @realdealkc

 maybe she doesnt need for you to read her mind or know what she meant and speak for her. maybe she should check someone's age before saying that. maybe you should stop reading people's mind GEEZ......