Cast Blog: #RHOA

No Pre-Nups for Porsha

Porsha explains why she wasn't interested in getting a pre-nup with Kordell.

Happy New Year! I hope everyone had a great holiday break. As for me, I really had a chance to relax and spend quality time with family. I didn't get to go out of town like we had planned, because we had to stay nearby. However my forever romantic hubby found a way to turn it into an in-town vacation. We spent the week at the St. Regis where we got married and had a ball going to some great restaurants and shopping. For me the best part was spending the day at the REMEDE Spa. Our son had a chance to leave the country with his mom; he went all the way to Germany to visit family. We missed him while he was away, but we were able to spend some much needed one-on-one time to spice things up, hehe!

Now we are all back to normal, and I'm loving it. In the mornings I kiss my hubby and Syre off to school and work, and then before I know it I'm cooking dinner and it’s time for family movie night. Anyway, I just wanted to catch you guys up on what I've been doing.

Let’s dive right in to the latest episode. First let me say I’m so glad you have gotten the chance to see a little more of my personality and actually get my sense of humor. LOL! I can tell from watching myself I'm getting a lot more comfortable in front of the camera. How precious is NeNe’s glam-baby? Bri'Asia is so adorable I just wanted reach through the TV and pinch her cheeks. I’m supposed to be baby-sitting soon, and I must say I’m looking forward to the practice.



Speaking of cuteness everywhere, I loved seeing Riley interact with her mom and Todd -- they have become such a little family. For me Riley's relationship with Kandi reminds me of myself and my mom. It was always just me and her most of the time, and I was very protective of her. In my mind Ms. Diane belonged to me and only me, LOL! That brings me to my day shopping for furniture with Kandi. First let me share with you the name of the store, since I received so many questions about it -- Mathews’ Furniture Galleries. It is where I purchased the majority of our furnishings. What I love most about the store and the reason I took Kandi there is that for a creative decor lover it is a playground. I chose the majority of the fabrics, wood finishes, and frames for most of the pieces in my house. I guess it’s safe to say I have a thing for home decor. Here's a thought, maybe soon I'll do something with that talent…

Well let’s jump right in to when Kandi asked me if I had a pre-nup. I was thrown completely off. I really like her and felt comfortable with her, but here I am about to answer a personal question for the world to see. So I just fly out with a no. In my opinion a marriage is a sacred union between two people coming together as one with love being that foundation -- being one in mind, body, and spirit. This means I want to agree with my husband and have like minds, I want to bond with him in the flesh (meaning anything that has to do with the natural things, whether it’s a sexual, monetary, or family issue etc.). I also want to become one spiritually with my husband so that we are equally yoked. We have the same beliefs when it comes to God and how WE have our purpose shown to us by God. So through bonding with him in mind, body, and spirit there is no place for a piece of paper to stand between us. However I totally can see anyone else's point of view and understand why she or anyone else would choose to have one. For me I see it as a “to each his own” issue.  Well guys, I have enjoyed chatting with you all, but I need to run to the grocery store again. Somehow of the million things I bought, I forgot bread and turkey. Next time I promise it won't be so long.

 

Oh I almost forgot, did I tell you all that everyday somebody says I look like Lady Gaga? LMBO! I know you’re thinking what I'm thinking, I totally resemble her more than one of my cast mates looks like Beyonce. Haha!



Lots of kisses and hugs!

Yours Truly,

PorshaDStewart

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Claudia: I Felt Good About the Reunion

Claudia Jordan shares her thoughts on NeNe Leakes' breakdown and the reunion as a whole.

Bravotv.com: What was going through your mind when NeNe walked off?
Claudia Jordan: Well the reunion was quite an experience. When NeNe walked off, initially I wasn't sure what was going on to be honest. But I did notice she seemed to be trembling, so I knew she was definitely feeling something very real to her. I just didn't know what set her off at that point. So at first I was a little taken back. I had never seen her cry, but we are all human and everyone has their breaking point.

Bravotv.com: Do you think NeNe had a real breakthrough?
CJ: I honestly did think at that moment she really did. Her demeanor was different afterwards. And I even heard from her after the show. That to me was a good sign that perhaps we could all really move forward and start fresh. I know I'm always open to squash some beef, especially if it's nothing deep rooted and something surface. I don't see why not. But like I said on the show, we all have a story and things that we have had to deal with and overcome. I think we need to not think our problems are bigger than the next woman's and respect one another's struggles -- whether we think they are major or minor. One woman's problems are not more important than the rest. And I think if we can all learn to be sensitive to the next woman, then we are on our way. Hopefully that moment was the catalyst for change in NeNe and in others as well.

Bravotv.com: Do you feel like everyone ended the reunion in a better place?
CJ: I'd like to think so. I do think some will probably never be open for change and are just stuck in their own way, while others really took advantage of the opportunity to take something from it all. I'm not going to worry about those that do not wish to grow and move forward. I will just focus and give energy to likeminded individuals that want to get along, move forward, grow, learn, and progress. I know I felt good about the reunion. I know I didn't chime in a whole lot. And I think I had good reason. You don’t get to see everything, but I felt it was important to let the people who had real issues with each other hash it out with no outside opinions, just like I said in the Philippines. When people interject their opinions and thoughts when it’s not their issue, it just adds confusion to the situation. One of the cast members in particular is good for that. Always adding "well I think..." when it has absolutely nothing to do with her, and I feel those extra unnecessary comments can potentially add fuel to the fire and then there is no coming back. So if my silence was going to help the progress of the group moving forward, then I will take that "L."

Yes, it's "cute" to "read" and get in an epic one liner or rant, but sometimes you just need to shut the hell up and let folks deal with each other and let them do them. I have no problems with that. Plus my opinion on everyone’s situation doesn't need to always be heard -- I wish more of us felt the same way. I will say that this seemed to be a great starting point for folks to move forward and put their money where their mouths are when it comes to being a grown ass woman. I really hope everyone wants to. It'd be great to see how things could go if we spent less time fussing and more time co-existing peacefully. #ThatIsAll

 

As the season has come to an end for me, I just wanted to say wow! What a roller coaster ride it has been! I had no idea getting into this that any of it would happen. I thought I'd come on board, have a little fun, bring a little light-hearted fun, and make some new acquaintances. This show is huge and everywhere I go people come up to me and say such amazingly sweet things, and I am truly humbled when they tell me how they can relate to me and appreciate my realness. I was particularly touched when a teenage boy who was gay and biracial that had always felt like an outsider reached out to me talking about suicidal thoughts he had. We spoke and I was beyond moved when he told me that he could relate to some of the things I spoke about and that I somehow inspired and encouraged him to keep going. Those are the moments that make all the drama and fussing and fighting truly worth it. I want to continue to use this amazing platform for important issues. Again I thank Andy, Carlos, Joy, Lauren, Stephen, the entire cast and crew for this amazing opportunity. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

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