Cast Blog: #RHOA

Peter "Must be Losing His Damn Mind"

Cynthia: It Was Awkward Seeing Phaedra Uncomfortable

Demetria: I Have No Beef with Kenya

NeNe Explains the Wig

Phaedra: I Was Hoping Apollo Wouldn't Create a Scene

Kenya's Not Interested in Roger Bobb

Claudia: "I'm the Samantha of the Group"

Kenya: Cynthia Commanded the Runway

Phaedra: You Don't Often Come Across Hair Burglary

Cynthia: "I Pray We Can Make Peace"

Claudia: I Could Relate to Cynthia's Insecurities

Cynthia's "Non-Conversation" with NeNe

NeNe: The Pit Bull Act is Not a Good Look

Kenya: If It Looks Like a Fraud...

Phaedra: "I Moved Past This Years Ago"

Claudia: I Am Not Asking for Sympathy

GIF Recap: Saltines, Anyone?

Kenya: Why Would Apollo Try to Hurt Phaedra?

Cynthia: "My Heart Went Out to Kenya"

Phaedra: "NeNe Made a Fair Observation"

Claudia on Her Sit-Down With Porsha

GIF Recap: Pushed to the Brink

Cynthia: Porsha's THOT Comment is Too Ridiculous

Kandi: Cynthia Can't Win for Losing

Phaedra: Cynthia's Behavior was Unbecoming

Claudia on NeNe's Thirsty Comment

Don't Insult Kenya's Virtue

GIF Recap: New 'Wife, New Shade

Phaedra on Being "Super Mommy"

Kenya: I've Never Been Anyone's Whore

Cynthia: I Felt a Connection with Claudia

Kandi: I Felt Bad for Kenya

NeNe Talks Zumanity, Apollo's Shocking Reveal

Claudia on Meeting the 'Wives

GIF Recap: She's Baaack...

NeNe: "I was a Rock for Phaedra"

Cynthia on Her Friendship with Kenya

Kandi: I'll Always be Honest with Phaedra

Phaedra: "It was Apparent the Marriage was Over"

Kenya: This is My Season of Redemption

GIF Recap: Oh the Zumanity!

Peter "Must be Losing His Damn Mind"

Cynthia shares her reaction to her sister's extended stay and the fight with her husband.

Welcome back to another drama filled episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta! Let’s go!

We all know that I am not a big fan of surprises, and for whatever reason my life seems to be full of them. Surprise! Surprise! My sister Mal is back!!! And not only is she back, she plans on staying for a while. Like two months! Inhale. Exhale. OK, remember when Mal walked out of our anniversary party? Well, until now (and a few awkward phone calls here and there), we have not seen each other. She has been traveling abroad with her husband Chris (he plays basketball overseas) living between Paris, Argentina, Puerto Rico, and Korea for the past two years. Initially, for the obvious reasons, I welcomed the space (not more than Peter did! LOL!). However, at the end of the day, Mal is my only sister, and I did miss her. After a while, LOL.

So again, although there were a few phone calls over the past two years, we never discussed our big anniversary party blowout and things were just never the same between us. That said, I was happy when Mal showed up on my doorstep. Well, that happiness was kind of short lived when I realized she was moving in! Now, y'all know, family or not, ALL house guests eventually have an expiration date. But hey, a lot of time had passed and I was open to going with the flow. Like most things in life, things started off great! We played catch up and our sisterly chats were loving, funny, and even a little shocking!

Let me go on and get this out of the way right quick -- when Mal told me that she and her husband have sexual relations two to three times a day, I almost had to be carried out of the bead store! But then I thought, most of the time they are only together six months out of the year. When he is abroad playing ball, she spends half of the year with him and the other half at their home in Houston with her daughter. So then it started to make sense. When they see each other, it's always like a honeymoon and they get it in. Then she comes back to the states, and has six months to rest and reboot! In any case, I know that sex is a big part of any healthily marriage, and I have been doing my wifely duties on a more consistent basis since my fibroid procedure. Enough about that!

Speaking of wifely duties, let's move on to Peter. Lord, where do I start? OK, no marriage is perfect. Peter and I are most definitely a work in progress. To say the least! I understand Peter's frustration about Mal popping up on us. For two months! I think he would have been more receptive to a long weekend, a week, or even two weeks. Two months is a long time. I don't know! I felt like I was stuck between a rock and a hard place, because I understood Peter's point, but I was also kind of excited about reconnecting with Mal.

When it comes to family, sometimes you have to deal with things that you may not want to deal with. Let's see what happens.Next, I attempt to talk to Peter about husband/wife stuff -- finances, goals, business, and our sex life. Um, that didn't go too well. Did he really suggest getting a man cave across town? I am just going to cough that up to early signs of dementia. Clearly, he must be losing his damn mind!

Last but not least, I have a very big problem with the way Peter communicates when he is upset. He wants to get all loud and throw around a couple of his choice curse words. I am a communicator, and this drives me crazy. I am all for a good drag out argument every now and then, but the person that talks the loudest and uses the most curse words is not necessarily the winner of the argument. Therefore, I refused to turn up on him (let’s be clear, we all can get loud and cuss when we want to), because I think it's just a dumb way to try to have an effective conversation. Keep us in your prayers!

 

Thank you all for watching! I appreciate all of you. Trust me there is more drama to come! Make sure you tune in every Sunday night at 8/7c. Only on Bravo!

 



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Kenya's Not Interested in Roger Bobb

Kenya Moore was glad she and Demetria McKinney were able to clear the air about the Roger Bobb situation. 

MAMA DRAMA

It saddens me to see Kandi still going through such heartache with her mother, and blended and extended family. This should be the happiest time of her life, but it has been overshadowed by the constant infighting. I hope for peace for Kandi and that she can focus on extending her family with a new little one soon. She deserves it.


I thought it was a very touching scene to see Kandi be so kind to her cousin and offer advice to Phaedra on how to deal with her children and incarceration. I loved his advice about being truthful. My heart goes out to all children being separated from their parents.

WOMAN TO WOMAN

Women are taught to be in competition with each other most notably in relation to men. A business meeting becomes suspicious, a compliment becomes flirtation, and a handshake becomes a threatening, aggressive takeover.


I’ve known Roger Bobb in a professional capacity for well over five years having worked with him as an actor in various productions. I hold him in high regard, as he is a talented and focused producer. Additionally, I have known him to date several of my good girlfriends; therefore I have never considered dating him myself. It was a surprise to me, and the world, to learn that he has been dating Demetria for over seven years (off and on). She stated herself that they were secretive and no one knew about them.


I sympathize with her in that situation, because a woman in love wants to proclaim her love to the masses so that not only other women are aware that her man is taken, but that he only has eyes for her as well. Demetria was denied that opportunity because of their situation. I was proud of Roger for claiming her as his lady. I also wanted to put Demetria’s mind at ease by being truthful about my intentions with Roger. I have none! We were able to talk like two adults and move on. With that said, I’m a hopeless romantic and am in love with love. Eight years is a long time and I wish them all the best.

MIDNIGHT TRAIN TO...

Congrats to NeNe for selling out her “fashions” on HSN at midnight. And I’d like to extend an early Christmas gift to her as well. I have arranged to have one of my hair and makeup people do a makeover on her gratis. And Moore Hair Care samples are in the mail to help NeNe grow out her own natural hair. Go to kenyamoore.com for details. I am also still hopeful that NeNe makes the $20,000 donation to the Detroit Public Schools Foundation as she promised. Now that would be an amazing gift to the children of Detroit who need all the help they can get!

BACK TO THE FUTURE

I’m excited to get back to what I do best, which is acting and producing. Prior to RHOA I was a working actor for well over twenty years. I’m excited about the possibilities that lie ahead. Stay tuned for MOORE to come! My Sheen Magazine cover shoot featured on the show turned out to be amazing! On stands December 23, 2014 please get a copy and support this positive and uplifting publication!


Celebrity Apprentice premiere airs Sunday January 4, 2015 at 9/8c right after an all new episode of #RHOA.


This is a wonderful time of year and I wish you all a very safe, blessed, and joyful Holiday. May you be surrounded my love, light, and peace.


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