Kenya Moore

Kenya weighs in on Chuck's shocking comments and Peter and Cynthia's blowout.

on Jan 70

MAN CAVE TO MISBEHAVE

What the hell? A married man of less than 5 years tells his wife he wants a man cave of his own in the form of an apartment across town! Cynthia is a better woman than me. I imagine my response to that request would be to pack all of my husband’s belongings and throw him out on the curb where he should be for that kind of nonsense.  Married men don’t get their own apartments “to escape” their lives with their wives. That’s what the strip club is for. LOL! Seriously, marriage is for better or for worse. It appears that the communication in their relationship needs a lot of work. You cannot operate independently when you have a lifetime partnership and commitment with someone. No, I’ve never been married but I have been in long-term relationships lasting longer than most marriages do. So yes, I do understand that communication and honesty is the foundation of ANY relationship. Bar none.

129 comments
Judysea
Judysea

Peter and Cynthia's communication is just fine Peter has no interest in talking to his wife. There is a lot going on and this fight and his anger is a mirror of their relationship.

tjjpt
tjjpt

You have your own eccentricity but you are much much classier than Nene. 

sdwdivinetruth
sdwdivinetruth

Hi kandi you are a real power house,Nene is a real snake in the gress.fake fake...ass that walk of her's this was a sat up by nene Apollo acked like arel man man in that room,i command kenya's friend he only did what a real man sounld have done.cynthia i love you but you could just keep your mouth zipped...

lvbravotv
lvbravotv

While I am not a huge fan of Kenya...at least she does blog each week.  Unlike her cast mates...I thought that was part of the job?  

Phattygurl202
Phattygurl202

Peter has every right to be Upset ! The Reunion to this show is gonna be crazy !

flygirlinmydreams
flygirlinmydreams

Too funny---the hairline comparison (simile or metaphor, I think simile)---Kandi and Phaedra were hilarious when discussing it. Spot on!!

LoLo72
LoLo72

Kenya shouldn't give anyone communication advice when after all we've never seen her with her "African Prince" & Walter was a fake relationship. 

michelle.lucas.3150
michelle.lucas.3150

One of the first blogs by you I can agree with. Yes Chuck is a total jerk. Chuckie is the perfect name for him. Total Child's Play.

balharbour
balharbour

I just love you Kenya and the way you go after these bitches!  Let that stupid Kandi lose all her money and marry Todd!  Mama Joyce and you are right from what I have seen - maybe just let Kandi get what she deserves for being so stupid and mean all the time - especially to you and my old favorite Kim Z.  I have to admit to quitting watching the show for a season after my favorite Kim Z left the show - but I like you and now I am back watching again!  Heard your man got you a Bentley on WWHL tonight - good for you Kenya!  Now those jealous bitches (and AC) with  be coming for you angrier than ever!  Keep up the good work Kenya and maybe you should do Apollo on a hidden cam and sell it online - that would shut up that Phaedra once and for all and make you some coins!

Robyen
Robyen

I love how you always have to call out Porcha about being upset about her divorce.  REALLY?  How much of a scene did you constantly make about Walter, your boyfriend.  NOT your husband.  NOT your fiance.  Probably NOT really your boyfriend.  Shut yourself up when it comes to Porcha dealing with a real relationship problem.

 

Also, you barely talk about your African prince, we don't see him.  Is he real or just your imaginary boyfriend?

karen.allen.1460
karen.allen.1460

OMG, every single time your talking about Walter...you need to grow a pair.

randrew
randrew

I understand where you're coming from, but who the heck are you to be giving advice? You seem to want to fix everybody's problems but yourself. Back away... back very far away.....

christeelove1
christeelove1

Get well soon Kenya! As for Peter and Cynthia's marriage, it's really none of your business. You can't tell a woman what she should and shouldn't do when it comes to her husband. Still waiting on pictures of your African prince!

MadamekvluvsRHWOA
MadamekvluvsRHWOA

I usually am not a Kenya fan myself but kudos to her because everything she said in the blog was correct

 

bosheba
bosheba

Kenya you are so right about Cynthia's sister. Anyway you look absolutely gorgeous in red. Your look on tonight's episode at Cynthia's party is just divine. I think you should switch from yellow to red as your favorite color.

Katerk
Katerk

So Kenya thinks that because she was born out of wedlock in the 1970's and it was to quote her " it was a huge stigma to have a child out of wedlock, especially  in the Black community" WHAT? They're isn't a stigma for Black women to have kids out of wedlock, that is the status quo!

 

Black children have been born out of wedlock for 200 years in this country. A stigma? OMG who the heck are you trying to fool? Her knowledge of these facts, or LACK OF, is just as bad, if not WORSE as Porsha not knowing  that the underground railroad was not a REAL train.

 

I am so over this show and the inherent stupidity. I think I'll go play an online game. Yeckkkkkkkk!

mbloom005
mbloom005

Love the blog. Kenya I initially couldn't stand you because you tried to get with Apollo and the fake relationship that got you on the show.  But I have to say, this blog is making me start to like you. Chuck is disgusting. What 40 something year old man brag about some boyhood crap he did to women? What makes it worst, he goes there with Phadrae after he ask Phadrae for favor. Really? It was his wife that brought it up trying to be funny. If he was "stashing" women then his wife may want to be concerned that he still stashing women now.  Love the blog!!!

lisa2
lisa2

Kenya, I really like you.  You have a good spirit.  I feel sooo bad about the lady that birthed you has and continue o treat you.  Please try to forgive her, for your own well being.  Your dad is not a very loving father.  You should have been coddled and cherished as a little girl and you were not given the opportunity and that make me very sad.  But God has a lot of love in store for you.  Just look to Him for acceptance and He will add all you need to you.

Marie12
Marie12

I'm Team Kenya all the way.  Kenya can do no wrong in my opinion.  Bravo should change the name of the Real House Wives of Atlanta to the Kenya Moore Show and Company or Miss USA Atlanta, something like that.  Kenya makes the show worth watching.

p-note
p-note

Kenya you have absolutely nothing going on in your life that is of significance or that I want to watch! All you do is start drama! and act a fool... See the other ladies are entertaining because they all have so much going on in their lives!! You got nothing honey! 

punay1
punay1

Kenya, as a beauty queen and as you say, a "classy lady,"  it should be beneath you to gossip.....  and to talk about other people's business that remotely concerns you,  endlessly.  But what can  we really expect from you? 

 

You really should find another storyline.

cns
cns

Why do people ask why does Kenya comment on the other ladies and cast mates? It's a blog and she is suppose to comment on what is going on in each show. That is the purpose of a blog. What is she supposed to do comment on Top Chef? LOL. Now that wouldn't make any since. If the other women on the show did their job which is to blog about every episode then they would be doing the same as well which is comment on the cast mates. The only reason why the other cast mates are not blogging regularly is because they are afraid to take their licks for their improper behavior. People like me have been waiting for the others to post blogs so that they can give the a piece of their mind but  they are pretending to be busy because they are really afraid of the backlash they are going to receive. In closing Kenya Moore comments on each episode because that is part of her job assignment with Bravo. When she comments on herself then she is label as attention seeking. Phaedra please call your bulldogs off, they are making you look more desperate than ever. LOL.

cars121
cars121

Some of your observations would have more credibility if you weren't guilty of engaging in behavior that is as bad or worse than that which you criticize.  Your seemingly 'genuine' moments are overshadowed by the countless messy/desperate ones.  Were you to actually build a history with people of being real, they might be inclined to believe that you indeed are capable of changing for the better.  Good luck with that.

LoveBravoBB
LoveBravoBB

Kenya,

You throw everyone under the bus to make yourself feel better. Go to cognitive therapy. As a doctor, it's a self-esteem issue from your childhood.  It's painful to watch you hurt others and yourself.

TNK103
TNK103

Great Blog! Normally not your biggest fan but this was on point. That Chuck is an A**hole!

MzK
MzK

Kenya, where is your storyline?  Also, please know constantly speaking about Phaedra when she is not giving you a thought is showing that you really need to grow up and move on.  When she started pumping her milk, you should have just walked away and left it all right there because she was clearly showing you just what she thought about you and your conversation. 

 

And Kenya before you speak about Cynthia and Peter, please remember the relationship you fabricated with Walter and how he spoke to you and treated you before you make comments about someone's marriage.

cbennett1
cbennett1

I don't understand why you feel the need to comment on the other cast.  It has absolutely nothing to do with you.  I don't even know why you are on the show.  Bravo take notice.

golden10
golden10

I agree, Chuck is a total jerk! Nene and Phadra should have stopped that non sense!

Nastybaby
Nastybaby

Don't talk about miscommunication between couples when you and Walter weren't even driving on the same highway, as far as THAT is concerned.

 

By the way, why do you blog about the issues that are not even related to you??

ksmalls
ksmalls

I'm amazed that grown ups can get upset over the simplest things.  I really feel they are just showing up for the cameras to boost the ratings.

thedawn
thedawn

 @LoLo72 I'm pretty convinced that the African Prince is non-existent. Did you see her interview on WWHL with Flo-Rida? When Andy Asked if she was in a relationship, she replied something like..."I'm not married". If she was in such a fabulous whirlwind of a romance there's no way she would imply that she's available. Wendy Williams' staff also made a similar observation after her appearance there.

BeWiseNotFoolish
BeWiseNotFoolish

@balharbour Excuse me.  Are you totally mad as in crazy or just plain upset?  It sound like you take the show personal.  What did the other ladies do to you for you to call them out of their names.  Your intonation is so uncalled-for and a reason why men don't respect women.  I seriously doubt if anyone on the show is jealous of Kenya.  Really doubt it.  She's driving a Bentley, but that Bentley wasn't sitting at the table comforting her when she tried to speak with her father about her mother.  A car (despite who manufactured it) is just that - a mode of transportation to move individuals from one destination to another.  Suggesting to Kenya to make a sex tape with a married man (and for money at that) speaks volumes about your lack of character.  And to think, this world is full of "people" like you.  Sad and Scary at the same time.     

DallasIvy
DallasIvy

 @bosheba Mal is looking for revenge against Peter because of the way she was treated at that anniversary party. I know Cynthia would like nothing more than for her sister and husband to get along, but she should be careful.  Either way, if Mal and Kenya knew that they both really don't care for Peter they would probably be the best of friends.  They are both somewhat conniving as well.  Who blabs to their brother-in-law about private intimate details of the marriage that were only shared in confidence?  Peter's testosterone levels must have dropped by 20% when Mal brought up the fact that he and Cynthia had not been intimate.

ksmalls
ksmalls

I don't think Kenya is that far off track, in some parts of the african american community like most other communities there is a stigma of having children out of wedlock.  It's just has been in the passed three decades it has become a more acceptable behavior in our community or lets just say people don't like to talk about it and sweep everything under the rug. And back when Kenya was growing up it was looked down upon.  I'm older than Kenya and I remember when people used to look at that as a bad thing to do.  In our society one should be or hopefully be married first and then have children as written in the bible.  Having a baby is not a sin, but fornacating is a sin.

flygirlinmydreams
flygirlinmydreams

 @Katerk

Hold on! Why does this go back 200 years? One BIG reason---slave owners and male slaves raped female slaves. Hello, history? After emancipation this changed somewhat, but I think when women of any ethnicity/nationality allowed unprotected sex even after several means of birth control came into existence, despite knowing/believing the male wasn't going to help raise an unplanned child, the situations increased. I know, I know when we're young and highly hormonal things happen, but after at least one "slip", we women are smart enough do something (even "right after") just to not complicate our own lives, forget the unconcerned guy.

I feel most sorry for grandmothers who raised their children, then have to raise grandchildren (of dead-beat dads) because daughter has to work one or more jobs as the sole supporter. Really---grandmother already paid her child-rearing dues and still can't live out her days doing her own, much-deserved thing.

Women control this situation, basically, if you understand me. If women would buy Kandi's toys and tell the deadbeats to take a hike and be more selective when they do "engage", then maybe, maybe----you know, not so much.

Pray the rosary!

marandia2
marandia2

 @Katerk 

No she is Kenya is correct in that statement. I am a 59 year old female and back in the day , even when I was in high school, it was a stigma to have a baby out of wedlock in the black community  if your family held to a certain standard. I know of girls whose parents tried to hide their pregnancy's by making them wear a gridle to school. Even to the extent to try and discard the baby to keep family secrets.  Maybe you have never heard of this , but if you were raised during a certain era these things really did exist. Kenya story is very famliar to me.

Phattygurl202
Phattygurl202

 @lisa2 naw I don't agree here sweete, Kenya is cool sometimes, but she has Undercover motives ! 

 

msmith76
msmith76

Who are you her assistant?

NeNeP1
NeNeP1

 @MzK You definitely hit the nail on the head.  I could not have said it any better.

cns
cns

 @cbennett1

 It's all the cast mates job to blog about every episode every week and Kenya Moore is the only one that does this. It her job. She stands up every week and take her licks unlike the other housewives that claim they are to busy to blog. They are really just afraid to stand up and take their licks as well, hence the reason why Porsha and Phaedra do not blog.

Ronica
Ronica

 @cbennett1

 I believe that is what Bravo asks each cast member to do.  Blog on each episode, that includes everyone featured in that particular episode.  She is not stepping over any boundaries, at least she blogs weekly unlike a few cast members 

Dub9000
Dub9000

@cbennett1 She comments on other cast members because she doesn't have viable story line....just lies and twirls.

Dolphin3636
Dolphin3636

 @Nastybaby Phaedra and Kandi aren't blogging. :) Somebody else has to talk about that. Cynthia finally posted January 8. :)

ksmalls
ksmalls

All of these women have their own hidden agenda.  Kenya is a mess, but oddly to say I like her for some reason.  She puts some spice in the show.  And when things gets out of control NeNe will try to talk some sense into her.  When dealing with a person like Kenya pay her no attention because that's all she wants is attention she never got growing up.  You'll be surprise how that plays a part on how people behave.  They are stuck in the past, because of what they didn't get as a child.

msmith76
msmith76

I think both Kandi and Phaedra blog on ocassion.  They just don't have much to say.  They perfer to take swipes at people on TWITTER.  Phaedra perfers to roll her eyes along with her short round friend. Its NeNe who does not blog.

msmith76
msmith76

Well you are right at least she blogs.  I do not like that TWITTER CRAP.

Ceci2468
Ceci2468

 @Dolphin3636  I totally agree. Blogging has become so scarce. Someone has to bring up the issues.

24hrhousewife
24hrhousewife

@Dolphin3636 @Nastybaby It pisses me off when they don't post a blog. We take time to watch their how, I feel it should be mandatory for them to blog. I think Kandi is just avoiding it period because of her mom etc.