Kenya Moore

Kenya thinks all the ladies want to make her the fall guy.

on Feb 110

ALTERNATE UNIVERSE

This was a very difficult episode to watch for me. Firstly, I expected more from these women. Regardless of what personal feelings they may have against me, I am a woman first. We are all women.

I watched Kandi explode into a blackout rage stating she would “kill” people and “drag them.” We all have triggers and are not perfect. My issue is not with Kandi’s fit of anger, but with the acceptance of her behavior from the women over the same point that I attempted to make: NO ONE SHOULD EVER PUT HIS OR HER HANDS ON YOU.

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MichiSixx
MichiSixx

I truly hope that Kenya Moore reads this and responds. I wasn't going to comment on the "pillow talk" throw down, as I don't generally post to blogging sites of any kind. I joined specifically to ask some questions that I haven't seen asked or answered. I could have missed them, and if so, I do apologize.

Okay-Chris started his little speech. Kenya got up and walked across the room. Chris did touch her arm, and, as I wasn't there in person, I can't say whether it was aggressively touched or he simply touched her. Brandon had every right to get up to support Kenya, as it all seemed to go terribly

wrong IMMEDIATELY. First of all, what I haven't heard mentioned at all is the fact that it was PETER who jumped up FIRST, GRABBED BRANDON, DRUG HIM BACK OVER TO HIS SEAT, AND FLUNG HIM DOWN. How Apollo got involved is still beyond me, and I truly like Phaedra and Apollo. It's been repeatedly said how Apollo beat Brandon down. AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT SAW PETER'S HANDS EITHER AROUND, OR NEAR, BRANDON'S THROAT? AM I ALONE IN FEELING THAT PETER WAS JUST AS MUCH A PART OF THAT FIGHT AS APOLLO? Even if he didn't throw a punch, which is hard to tell, since it was so fast, at the very least he successfully held Brandon down while Apollo was trying to jump him and hit him. Did Peter hit him as well? I don't understand why no one called Peter out on any of that and Apollo took the full brunt of the fight.(I am not defending Apollo for his actions, at all) AND, to add insult to injury, after all that was settled down, Cynthia did jump in Kandi's face. Peter did walk up to that situation in an aggressive manner as well. And Cynthia's sister Malorie not only pushed Kandi, she pushed Todd as well. Kandi took the higher road and apologized for her role at the spa. Cynthia plainly said, well, you were wrong, and if my sister pushed you, I apologize for her. Cynthia never apologized. I do not blame Kandi for going off. I would have done the same thing, had it been me. Right or wrong, I would have had the same reaction.

I just feel like ALL OF CYNTHIA'S FAMILY WAS LET OFF SCOTT FREE WHEN THEY PLAYED MAJOR ROLES IN BOTH ALTERCATIONS IN THE FIRST PLACE. ALTERCATIONS THAT NEITHER INVOLVED THEM DIRECTLY. I do not care for Peter, I have no respect for Cynthia. I love Kandi and Phaedra. Nene....seems to me that Nene hasn't been around all season. Her mean spirited ways says that Naynay's been in the house this entire season. She's on a level higher than these other women? Please. We all put our pants on one leg at a time. And the more you crawl high on your self propelled pedestal, the farther you have to fall. Rich bitch or not, the second part of that title has been true throughout this season. If things don't change, I may have to find another program in their time slot next season.
Please accept my apologies for rambling, run on sentences and typos. I've just sat here through the entire season again because I didn't want to watch the Oscars, and this just keep creeping in my mind.

I would honestly like to know why Peter, Cynthia, and her leach siser Malorie were not held accountable for their "ratchet" actions. SMH.

Peace Out



anewme
anewme

NeNe is a bully she knew what she was doing when she gave the so call Pillow Talk Party..she is Jealous ..go get a Bentley NeNe..you are Rich..stand your ground Kenya Ne Ne started like always..with her Big Mouth

Jussarah
Jussarah

Kenya wasn't wrong. Chris, with his street-self, should have stayed in his seat, because that was the protocol. Porshe asked him why he was getting up, and it was allowed.  Then, how come Kenya could take the floor, and she didn't charge at anybody like they tried to say. Chris shouldn't have grabbed her.  What is somebody would have grabbed his wife. Chris and Nene set it off. Why would Chris want to make a scene in the middle of the floor with his bad teeth and outdated lumberjack?

jaxdfax
jaxdfax

So what producer would want Nene in any how? She isn't accomplished, she has an exaggerated opinion of herself and she treats people abysmally. The good news is she is never wrong especially when she is so. So she has got that going for her. Maybe her agent can say its all for the show. Good luck Grand Dame of the American Theatre. Break a leg.

househusband26
househusband26

Nene needs to go shes old and out dated and trouble maker she need a new show ......she too old to have pj party 

Porquesoyreal
Porquesoyreal

Nene acted just like Kenya.  She knew what she was doing by having the pajama pillow talk.  The questions were to set things up and get everyone heat up.  Now, why is she blaming everything on Kenya, even though Kenya got up of her space, she did not touched, grabbed, or fought anybody, Christopher did grabbed her arm, and what's that different from him grabbing Kenya's arm than Cynthia's sister touching Kandi? Nene, you knew what you were starting.  I'm not Kenya's fan but this incident, you're guilty too Nene. 

rayray1
rayray1

I think when the ladies see the full episode themselves, they will see that they all played some part. Christopher did in fact grab Kenya's arm. I don't think he was intending to harm her, but she was advancing towards his wife. Kenya was up and advancing, but I don't think she would have physically touched his wife. Brandon was only protecting Kenya, just as Christopher stood up for his woman. Kandi was in fact pushed by Malorie, and Todd's instinct was to protect her. Peter seemed to be aggressive, but talked to Todd in the end. Cynthia did come up to Kandi. The point is, no one listens when everyone is yelling. Porscha was ironically the smartest one, by getting the hell out of there! I commend Brandon for thinking of Apollo's kids, and not pressing charges. God knows Apollo wasn't thinking of his kids. Apollo may have even gotten inadvertently hit in the eye, but he acted like an ass. They all acted crazy. I like that Kandi could admit her behavior was wrong. I still don't think that Kenya started it all. Nene said it was supposed to be fun, and "pillow talk." But she asked questions about all the problems everyone was going through. She made digs, she belittled. She didn't bring up when Gregg belittled her in a radio interview, a few years back. That was the LEAST romantic, fun, sexy pillow talk session ever! Christopher got up before Kenya, Kenya got up before Brandon, and Nene was up before all of them, prancing around like a runway model. She broke the rules first. She created that whole rachet mess. How can you turn up the fire, and not expect the water to boil!!

BrooklynBravo
BrooklynBravo

Nene season one claimed to be victim of DV but would condone Christopher grabbing Kenya like that...girl bye.  Kenya is no angel but Christopher was totally out of line. 

rebels18
rebels18

You are right no one should put their hands on another person. But girl you are one strange duck. Do you have some kind of medical problems because you act so weird? You want to make  noise because it makes you relevant on the show; if you didn't stir the pot no one would know you were even on this show. After all you are not a housewife, are you?

deedeekid
deedeekid

Sorry Kenya, you are sneaky and shady. There was not a sincere reason for you to even hold this Charity event. You used this Charity for the purpose of getting back at Nene and it back fired. You both looked like fools!

JayeTyre
JayeTyre

Kenya, I commend you for holding your ground and I do not believe you were wrong in any way. NeNe purposefully started all of that drama and did a terrible job of back peddling her way out of it. She must have taken too much Xanax that night and it just may have been a blur. Clearly she was on something and not just alcohol that night. So Kudos to you Ms. Moore ......   

Marta13
Marta13

Kenya, instead of saying all this about Nene on your blog, I dare you to say it to her face!!  You don't have the nerve!!  Nene Is always truthful and says it like it is.  I don't think you can or do.

Remote
Remote

Well, true to form, NeNe's newest (self-serving) blog is full of.....er......lies.  The Reunion will be explosive, especially when Kenya furnishes the proof that she DID e-vite Nene.   

spring9628
spring9628

I get  Kenya, she is a flirt, so what she has the beauty, brains, and body (and so what, she is single).  She tells it like it is.  If a situation happens, she doesn't take sides for sides sake, her loyalty is to the truth. She will try to get along, but only to a certain extent, and not kiss a**.  She is her OWN WOMAN, like it or not 

onaadams
onaadams

TO KENYA --  After seeing your dad visit and how negative he was -- I think you handled it very well during the filming.  I started to feel for you.  You are very witty and you add a "spark" to the show.  Loved the ice skating scene.  You know how to skate!  It was hilarious --  Catch me if you can!  How funny was that!  I feel at the time Ne Ne was truly PO'd -- but not at you -- I feel she was upset re her career, which had been cancelled temporarily.  Love all the gals on Atlanta HWs.      

No.More.Witch.Please.
No.More.Witch.Please.

I cannot stand NeNe, but I would be pissed off too if I were in her shoes.  Of course, she handled it wrong because she never knows how to act, but Kenya fully set her up because she was too afraid to just talk to NeNe, and figured her intentions would get her off the hook.  As always, the drama miraculously found NeNe, Kenya, and the 7th housewife, Peter.  This isn't really fun to watch anymore...MeMe has an out of control ego the last two seasons, and Kenya has created dirty, cringeworthy drama that I don't like to witness.  

mommaknows
mommaknows

Everyone needs to understand, Kandi has been fighting her mothers accusations at Todd. She was bound to boil over at any moment. She was not at fault.

sherrylmc
sherrylmc

Why are we seeing more and more of Nene's friends on RHOA?  Pretty soon this show will be called "Nene Leakes and Friends".  

spiritoflaughter
spiritoflaughter

I'm thinking that most of those on here do not celebrate the truth.  Just a few weeks or month ago Kenya was talking big about how she new how to get somewhere on time, kept repeating that and more shade trying to get on Nene;s good side, and the rest of the girls that showed up late were taken to task by Kenya over and over again.


Then, when Nene has planned this pj night, Kenya is so late that Nene just shut the door on her.  Hmmm.  I think Nene was entitled to do that since it was Kenya that was spouting about the late non respecting women on the Savannah trip, which we all know, or should know was only lip service in order to be thought of as a respectful woman.


So, Kenya was at her worst.  She never called Nene to say she would be late.  Nene had every right to shut the door in her face.


Kenya is a tarnished human being.  She is her biggest fan.  She only does something if it will put her in a good light.  Nene shut her down and turned out the light on Kenya's pitiful attempt to turn things around with Nene.  She never discussed what the whole evening was for, never even asked Nene if she wanted to, or did she have the evening free, etc.  She had only sent out an e-vite to everyone.


Nene should have gone with her first intuition and stayed home.  But since she came she did the alternative and shut Kenya up about her lying ways.


Nene is an up front, in your face, truthful entity.  You people on here have no idea what it means to be truthful.  It's a rarity.  The truth usually hurts, but saying or doing it, clears up any room for bull....  Try it sometime, it is very freeing to always deal with the truth.  Anyone can lie.  It takes courage to live your life in the truth.

JPEREZ
JPEREZ

nene started all that drama, and now she blames kenya.  christopher williams did put his hand on kenya.  nene neva wants to admit when she is wrong.

Livi43
Livi43

Well, it's obvious Ne Ne is jealous of Kenya. She's also acting like a child in grammer school fighting over much wanted attention. I hope Kenya replaces Ne Ne as most popular on the show. Mz.Ne Ne go back to Hollywood, Oh, I forgot they kicked your behind back to ATL. 

carmelizeddd@gmail.com
carmelizeddd@gmail.com

Immature Nene Leaks on yet ANOTHER rampage lol. Stop being such a bully, and maybe you would see that YOU and YOU ALONE are the real reason EVERYTHING happened. As far as the others go...why was Apollo so dang angry, He assaulted that man and, Nene instigated the whole situation.


Vashti1
Vashti1

Kenya, in my opinion, you sort of started the confrontation, when you got up out of your seat heading towards Natalie...NeNe instigated it. You and NeNe both are crazy and need to stop thinking that you are above everybody else. Success is nice to have, but sometimes, it doesn't make you a better person. Sometimes, we allow things go to our head and set ourselves up on a pedestal. You were crowned Miss U.S.A years ago, you are not her anymore. That crown has been tarnished by your conduct and character. 

TristateFan
TristateFan

@BrooklynBravo Agree, Christopher should have kept his hands off of Kenya.  Brandon had every right to step in. Who cares if Nene blames you, Nene better take that finger and turn it around.  She is responsible for the demise of her party.

goldwing@22
goldwing@22

@deedeekid

Exactly1 Also would someone tell Kenya that she needs to perm her real hair before she tries to claim the weave as her own hair. Lord knows that's weave, look at the ends of the hair and you can see the weave ends. And she switches from black to red weave every so often, who does that if that's their  real hair. Come on tired queen it's time to give the lies a rest, you are to old for the lies! I mean you have fake everything else so having fake hair is no shame, everybody is wearing it.

goldwing@22
goldwing@22

@Marta13

she's a tire old weave wearing drama queen who lies, especially when she's confronted!

lawanda7
lawanda7

@Marta13  Do you really believe what you just said?  Nene never gives anyone else room to speak when she's confronted.  She's loud, obnoxious and completely a raging bull when ANYONE attempts to dissolve an issue or matter.  Look how she was with Peter (which I'm no fan of), he was calm and collected and then she started finger pointing, getting loud, and all in Peter's face.  So please change the lenses that you see Nene through and accept that she is a instigator.

shawty
shawty

@Remote

 E-vites are made for people that you are inviting to an event.  Nene was the guest of honor, you don't e-vite the guest of honor. However, Nene would've never responded to Kenya's attempts of trying to get in contact with her, and that's the truth. 

Kenya, don't try to win someone's friendship or affection by being manipulative, very unattractive.  And instead of Nene's charity, throw an event for your OWN charity.

"You never can win when you dirty honey, you never can win" , you AND Nene need to take heed to that.

pamboo13
pamboo13

@Remote The issue wasn't the e-vite the issue is that Kenya did not inform Nene that she would be honored or even be asked to stand before the crowded room and speak. Who does that? Kenya was clearly being shady...she even said it before hand. "I'm going to kill her with kindness" which implies that one is NOT being sincere. Nene knows that type of behavior well because she does the same thing. Both Kenya and Nene are sneaky and shady...so I guess either one can fool the other.

jaxdfax
jaxdfax

@No.More.Witch.Please. I don't agree though I respect your opinion. I think you are right Kenya was afraid to approach Nene and opted to "make nice" with this gesture without direct contact. Could she have done it differently....sure. But I don't see it as a set up. I think you were dead on that she chickened out and didn't handle it perfected but I think her intentions were honorable. Is not fun to watch. I guess I agree about more than I thought. LOL

NJ-Roses
NJ-Roses

@sherrylmc  NeNe's friend Chuck and his wife came on so that Chuck could embarrass Kandi and Phaedra.   Cynthia's friends Christopher and Natalie came on to talk about Kandi and to confront Kenya.  I guess that pretty much answers the question.

NeNe and her supposedly innocent side-kick Cynthia set up their "friends" to do their dirty work.

The only one they left alone was Porsha.  I guess that they don't see her as much of a threat.

candycayne
candycayne

@spiritoflaughter I know EXACTLY what it means to be truthful.  Interestingly enough, Nene claimed that Christopher did not put his hands on Kenya (which we CLEARLY saw on tape that he DID), so how is that 'truthful'??

When Kenya arrived to the pajama party, she did apologize because she was picking up her friend from the airport.  As I'm sure most of us know, leaving a crowded airport ( like Atlanta Airport) can sometimes cause people to run late.

As far as the Evite, She probably should have contacted Nene directly.

Also, it's interesting and sad to me that someone who was previously in an abusive relationship can say to another woman, "You're lucky you didn't get your ass beat!" Kenya, has at least, apologized for her behavior...something I haven't seen too often from 'ol Nene.

Nene always thinks she's right, and everyone else is wrong. I think that taking responsibility for one's own actions is a BIG part of being truthful.

anjelrules
anjelrules

@spiritoflaughter  I totally agree. When you're honoring someone at an event an evite is appropriate for the guest. However, the guest of honor should have not only received a formal invitation. Kenya should have also personally informed her of the itinerary for the event. I must admit Ne-Ne is over the top and big headed about the reality fame, but Kenya was 100% wrong in her approach and she knew exactly what she was doing. She's always professing how much class she has, well her approach to that event was classless.

Only the other hand two wrongs don't make it right. Since she decided to make an appearance at the event I believe just like Peter said ultimately it's not about Ne-Ne, it's about the charity. Her actions showed that unconcerned about bringing awareness to the charity which is to empower women to be more supportive of one another. Sometimes you have to give up your right for the wrong, by that I mean Ne-Ne was right to be offended by the way Kenya handle the invite, but if that is a charity that Ne-Ne supports she should have supported the charity in spite of Kenya's efforts to make her look bad.

debharrington
debharrington

@spiritoflaughter  Kenya was an hour late to the pajama party (Nene said how late) and she apologized because he was picking Brandon up at the airport. Yes she should have called, but she apologized right then and there and said that she should have texted. That is a lot more than any of the other women have done for being late in the past and Nene has been late to several events in the past. You know these women are never on time. At least Kenya handled it correctly (although it is never OK to be late because that's saying your time is more important than other people's).

intuitive1
intuitive1

there's a classy and gracious way to get any point accrossand the TRUTH is she will never be that. the TRUTH is that NeNe is insecure about herself.  her in your face attitude only means shes trying to convince people that she's better than everybody else, their opinons/feelings don't matter.  but everybody can see through her. another TRUTH is she's  afraid to show vulnerability.  she sees it as a weakness.

candycayne
candycayne

@JPEREZ Thank you!!! She always thinks she is right but everyone else is wrong!!!

Roseflowers
Roseflowers

@Vashti1  


*Sigh


I really would like to understand why some people believe that Kenya should have been submissive.


So, could you please explain to why you believe that Kenya, undeniably a woman, should have remained seated while a verbally abusive and exceptionally tall man angrily stood over her? 

mll50
mll50

@Vashti1 - Success?  Niether one of them can claim that.  They are both desperate to stay on the show since it i their only current paycheck.  Both of them need to head elsewhere.

Hogan
Hogan

@TristateFan @BrooklynBravo No Kenya fan, at all! However, I agree with you. AND, NeNe may be in the act of destroying her career in Hollywood - who would hire her the way she is acting now. It is kind of worse than any of her other behavior in any season. She really should be behaving herself - what she earned last season is not going to last too much longer. I feel sorry for her, very sorry.

goldwing@22
goldwing@22

@intuitive1

 I am so ready for the action, and to see what kind of weave Kenya will have on! lol'''

jaxdfax
jaxdfax

@anjelrules @spiritoflaughter Don't think it was an effort to make Nene look bad. She (Kenya) cannot force someone to act asinine. The person has to make that decision and I think it wasn't Kenya's intent.


It would have been better to call Nene however she was hesitant due to Nene's nature. (my opinion)  As far as Nene's behavior you are dead on. Its not about being right; its about doing right. Nene was an embarrassment. It was beyond hideous, for me.