Brandi Glanville

Brandi thanks Lisa for removing the Sur waitress and thanks the waitress for telling her story.

on Jan 17, 20120

Lisa was very kind and asked the waitress to leave and although I told her I was fine, I am glad Lisa did that. Then we had yet another surprise visitor. . .the "C" word.

Cedric and his date came strolling into Sur like it was nobody's business. I did not invite him, nor did I even know that he was coming. Part of me sees that Lisa and Cedric really do care for one another and wishes they could resolve things. But as I have grown closer to Lisa, I realize and understand some things are just unforgivable. After Lisa and Cedric interacted I wanted to do my part and help get Cedric out of Sur, as Lisa had done for me with the waitress. I nicely asked him to go, and he did, thank goodness. I could finally breathe that evening and Lisa and I were in need of a giant drink after all the drama.

By the time Ken and Paul came over to confront me about the gay bullmastiff comment I had made in Hawaii, I really had very little of myself left to give. The truth will set you free right? I told the truth and I apologized. Nothing more could be done.

The drama continued later that night with Kim and Taylor. I chose to stay out of completely because I had had enough of my own that evening. However my friend Jennifer, whom I had brought with me that evening (a rehabilitation and addiction specialist) did attempt to speak to Kim at the party and help her but to no avail.

It has been a very fun and dramatic season on RHOBH. I have made some life long friends and if I don't come back for another season, I will take away from this the experience and the friendships I have made.

xxxb

339 comments
Fi_NZ
Fi_NZ

I can't stop laughing about the Gay Bull Mastiff comment!!! And you are so funny and honest and I love you being on the show!! I can't believe that nobody else has had the balls to speak out about Kim's addiction. It was glaringly obvious that she was on something, so good on you. I hate how her and Kyle treated you at the Game Night at Dana's. They were so rude and immature! xx

LoveUinTx
LoveUinTx

Brandi, This show needed you. You are a straight shooter among many split tongued ladies. The fact that Lisa is your friend speaks admirably of your character. I hope Kim and you will reconcile. Kim doesn't seem to understand the value of your honest (and not co-dependent) friendship but then she is in a fragile place.

See you next season!!!

Snowbird333
Snowbird333

Brandi put class in the show and taught us how to hold one's tongue without looking like a shrew or old schoolgirl. Except for Camille, Lisa I would watch my back that someone doesn't stick a knife in it. I would love to see you tactfully add tolerance, class and patience to the show but I think you are above that now and would not lower my standards to even be a part of that group anymore. Your image is sealed as to what a lady is and how one behave. You are amazing and I highly respect you and hope I can learn from you.

psychicyo
psychicyo

wow... I cannot imagine sitting there and having a waitress who is serving me be the one who helped break up my marriage. Not to mention that smug look on her face you say she had. I don't know if I could've remained as cool as you did, seriously well done Brandi. You know what they say the best revenge is happiness so keep smiling you'll have the last laugh yet!

Lambypie68
Lambypie68

Would love to see you added to the cast. Better yet...they could get rid of Taylor, Kim and Dana.... that would make room for you.

Colormekisses
Colormekisses

You and Gerard Butler would make a great couple! Gerard, if you are reading this you need to call Brandi up, would love to see you on the next season! xoxo

sweden
sweden

I just want you to now that you have a big fan club here in Sweden!!! We love you, go girl!!!!! Don't let anyone put you down. Hugs from a cold Sweden.

kf
kf

Brandi, love ya! Hope you are there next season, because you are the most genuine person on the show...

BrandyParker
BrandyParker

From one Brandy to another (Brandi) ~ I started off the season hating you and ended it by loving you. I really hope Bravo is smart enough to cast you again. You held your own, you are very real in my opinion, I know plenty of women that can identifiy with your ex-marital situation, your mouth is worse than a sailor and truck driver's ove child....but you are refreshing. I guess all you have left is to gain about 40 lbs. in the next season to truly hit home to all of middle America. Job well done. BTW - Don't forget that Brandy...with a Y...is an original. ;} Bring her back Bravo!!!

Donnaquilt
Donnaquilt

I'm another fan of yours, Brandi! I hope you are back in the next season, although if Shana/Taylor is back I won't be watching. You are fun and stay strong!! You have a lot going for you. Believe in yourself!

jb7
jb7

Aw Brandi. Gerard Butler. You are one lucky lady.... sigh....

ambIN
ambIN

You are my absolute favorite! Watching you and Lisa together the other night on WWHL was the best. You two were like giggly grade school friends trying to hide a secret. Love, love, love you! P.S. I recored WWHL and will NEVER erase it!

s_shelagh
s_shelagh

Brandi, I love that sassy, in your face attitude, that very few can pull off... You do it perfectly Lady... You made this show awesome this year.. What could have been such a downer with Dana, Kim & Taylor, was delightful with you and Lisa... I love that you brought your game to this show.. and I can only see good things ahead for you... Eat your Heart out Eddie...Brandi lives!!!! Lots of Love, Shannon PS Wow Gerald Butler, I know it was great.. Lucky HIM!!!

Robin Black
Robin Black

I'll never understand why you didn't INSIST that the woman that cheated with your husband, and felt compelled to share that fact with the rest of the world on a TV tabloid show, stay and serve you meatballs all night. You were physically looking down on her and you could have enjoyed looking down on her figuratively too. Silly girl.

jane P
jane P

Brandi I must say I did not like you I got that when I watched game night you was a little hateful.But as the season went on you tried to make up with kim.She is a little wacky I hope she does not come back,I hope you come back I like you . I geuss you can't judge a book by its cover.Great job.Your friend in Marblehead,Ohio

jlc
jlc

Brandi--YOU WON. You look amazing, you are having fun, and above all--seem very HAPPY. Rise above all of the drama your ex perpetuates. You are so much better off -- and deserve only the best! Keep smiling--rise above--and best wishes to you !

lynden
lynden

Brandi, Great reveal about Gerard Butler! You deserve an 11 after the zero you were married to. I love Gerard Butler...you lucky girl! Come back next season! You have your confidence back! You're great!

Cindy Schyker
Cindy Schyker

Brandi I hope you come back next season. You are a great addition to the show. I do not understand how Kim gets away with treating you the way she does. I would rather not see her back next season unless you can put her in her place.

Viewer99
Viewer99

Brandi, I too am a fan. As for being close to Lisa...watch out. Kyle is "Jelly" (jealous). Kyle likes to be the center of attention. That waitress shouldn't work as a waitress. I bet she hooks up with lots of men that way. I hope to see you next season.

bchie
bchie

Brandi, loved the results of last nights poll! of course we all knew Queen Lisa Is & will always will be #1. SHE is such an ALPHA female.....SOOOOOOO glad that you placed 2nd..quite a feat...what a DEFEAT for shana/taylor & dana...BRAVO the people have spoken! let them go!!!!!

Soccervixen
Soccervixen

Brandi,

So hope to see you back next season. I think you're great. I think you and Lisa together would be wicked fun. Keep being you!

Victoria

Ricky Ticky
Ricky Ticky

I hope you come back next season Brandi! Team Brandi!

Murisa
Murisa

I hope they bring you back!! You were my favorite this season!

amanda miller
amanda miller

Brandi you better come back for next season! your were such a great addition this season. I want you to be a full on housewife not a housewife friend. Get rid of Dana and Keep Brandi Bravo!

fanofallbutatl
fanofallbutatl

I hope you are asked back-permanently! You are a breath of fresh air, someone I would want to hang with. You hold your head high amidst all the drama with your personal life and manage the nasty antics of your castmates. Looking forward to next season of HOBH

Lacy_Grace
Lacy_Grace

Brandi, Wow. You have been a breeze from an entirely different ocean lady! I felt really sorry for the way some of the BHHWs treated you the first few events you attended. [They should have known better and shown more class and integrity!] But happy for you that you, Lisa, and Camille have especially hit it off and that you're getting along better with everyone. [Poor Camille was last seasons' target and no one realized until later that she was carrying the weight of her Douc#@ Ba% husband cheating on her and setting up house with the s@#t in NY! Really happy for her that life is getting so much better -- she deserves it.] But I digress...

The main thing I wanted to share with you is about your ex "Eddie." I'm sorry I don't know who he is-- just heard something brief in news about his affair with Lee Ann Rimes and that he had been married. I'm sorry you were put through that KRAP but it sounds like your ex has an addicitive/compulsive personality (and maybe a sex addiction) from hearing more recently about his many "flings."

You are RIGHT to acknowledge that Lisa's waitress did you a favor. I wasted about 5 years in a relationship with a guy with those traits (he was gorgeous - fitness pro and bodybuilder and I was a fitness leader, swimwear & commercial model) so we were the "charming couple." Problem is, his charm was muddied by his compulsive/addictive personality. When he was tired of gambling, golfing fanatically, and spending money, he transferred his compulsions to topless dancers and began having affairs that he would SWEAR never happened. Of course eventually he was caught when he brought one of these women into our personal fitness studio and allowed her to "train one of our upscale clients" with him. My other trainers and staff sounded the alarm bell and the skan%'s fiancee called me to ask if I wanted to go to Barbadoes with him (to pay our respective mates back!). I said, "He#% NO!" Like you, I was eventually grateful to this woman because it finally gave me the strength to extract him from my life!

The waitress at SUR and any of the other women your ex may have had a fling with, weren't the problem -- HE was. And, unless he has some Divine reckoning, he will probably never change, so NOW, Ms. Rimes can put up with his Bu*^ Sh%@ and believe me, she WILL get her dose. No woman (regardless of beauty, talent, charm, etc) can keep someone like our respective exes from being the dirt bags they are! They'll just keep doing what they do to yet another person. BTW, saw a recent photo of Rimes and she looked anorexic, pale, and was sporting a really bad boob job (too big and placed under the muscle - looked freakish). Looked like the new hubby was already taking a stress toll! Oh well, what goes around....

Final thought regarding Kyle and Kim. I really think Kim will behave entirely differently toward you now that she's in recovery and hopefully staying there. She was SO different from last season - if you watched, you'll see what I mean. Think the mix of Rx and alcohol (and whatever was making her and Ken sniff so much) was just putting her out of her mind. But beware of Kyle, she LOVES to be (or THINK) she's "the favorite" houswife and oh so wonderful...but that woman was a bully in the first season AND this season (and she doesn't have addiction or lonliness to blame). She's a brawler and I REALLY hope that she (and Kim) get over that ridiculous habit of pointing their fingers in people's faces -- that IS SO Junior High!).

Remember there is one thing far better than revenge -- that's LIVING WELL! And next time you see that waitress at SUR tell her something for me, "You don't DATE married men, you have AFFAIRS with them!" Live Well Brandi.

COforBRANDI
COforBRANDI

Brandi, hats off to you, you have been treated poorly by the father of your children and you are still building yourself back up, don't let ANYONE interrupt that! I think you were painted as sort of a flake in the beginning of the season, but now people know that if your kid tinkles on the lawn or you say c**k out loud and don't find shame in it is because you know what what is truly shameful, hurful and wrong. You don't sweat the small stuff and your humor and frankness sets a good example for your sons who need to see a strong woman take the lead role in their lives. Someday that waitress will regret her behavior, she was young and just plain dumb.. and you're right, her public display helped you claim your freedom from a horrible relationship. As for LR, she divorced her parents, her husband can't be far behind! I really hope you're back next season. I've gotta think that if Kyle and Lisa grew to like you, the rest of America can't be far behind.

Jomomma
Jomomma

Bravo would be majorly stupid to not bring you back next season! Loved seeing you and Lisa on WWHL tonight and I totally agreed with the poll answer. Lisa is still my favorite but you are definitely my 2nd.

You've been a breath of fresh air to the RHWOBH, so here's hoping we haven't seen the last of you on Bravo.

Because I'm the Mom
Because I'm the Mom

Hope Bravo reads the comments to your blog. Enjoyed your honesty this year.

Happydog
Happydog

Brandi! You are SO fun! You have made this season the best ever. You are beautiful, witty and so deserving of another season. I adore you and thanks for all the fun you brought to the party this season!!

Thalia P.
Thalia P.

Brandi! You are so funny and in such amazing shape. What's your workout secret that keeps you looking so fantastic?!

sonya H
sonya H

I think it's a shame that the girls make it so hard fo you to fit in with the snarky comments and bad behavior especially at your party. If I have to watch one more episode of Taylor getting drunk and feeling sorry for herself I think I will quit watching. She is pure drama of look at me 'Im skinny, look at me I am abused and Unhappy. Your mad at me im sorry, please accept my apology...I'm mad at you I cant accept your apology. Give me a break. I hope the seasons going forward there can be less catty claws out high school chearleading squad antics and more looking out of each other.

cheryllleee
cheryllleee

I wasn't sure what to make of you at the beginning of the season because all the tabloids said you were a friend of Cedric's who was coming on the show to start drama. You, Lisa and Adrienne are my favorites. You're blunt, funny, real and completely unpretentious. Way to go. I hope they have you back!

I find the Taylor and Kim physical and substance abuse and mental issues hard to watch, depressing and annoying. When I watch RHOBH I want to see fun people living it up! It's not some dismal intervention show for pete's sake.

nyc_viewer
nyc_viewer

You are such a great addition to the group!!! We love you!!!

love to cook
love to cook

You are great ... bravo please keep Brandi!

Clearwater
Clearwater

Brandi, Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for hanging in there. I have to tell you I just didn't like you at first but you've got my attention now. I think you fit nicely in the group, with the exception of Kim but clearly she's got issues.

Stay positive with your wonderful sense of humor!

Julie41Mom
Julie41Mom

Brandi, A friend of mine told me a couple weeks ago about how good your show was. I watched a few episodes and got hooked. I recorded every episode so I could get caught up on everything going on. I have to tell you, I TOTALLY agree with you about what you said about Kyle and Kim at Adrienne's Spa party. You were not the only one at fault and obviously Kim didn't even try to make ammends. The way she behaved is typical juvenial behavior, she was jealous of you. It's sad that she did not try and get to know you. You seem to be a fun, honest, good person! I'm glad to see that Lisa changed how she felt about you as well. I like Lisa a lot.

LolaLalaBean
LolaLalaBean

When I heard that Brandi Glanville was going to be on RHOBH I had a very negative opinion. Only knowing about the drama associated with you in the tabloids I had no interest in your becoming a housewife but I have to say I was all wrong. You have been humble, polite, funny and kind. You've become one of my favorites and I'm very sorry for having judged you without ever knowing you. I hope you will be back next season. You've added a great dynamic to the show that was missing. I love how you don't have a filter (I don't either) and you speak your mind. They really need someone like you on this show!! Best wishes to you:)

MG Avalos
MG Avalos

Brandi, I sure hope you come back, You make me laugh so much !!!

Lesha773
Lesha773

Brandi, Brandi, Brandi, always so humble, if you don't come back next season, Bravo would be a fool. Being "different" attracts viewers and you are very different my dear in a great way. You are real. You admit things that most people would try to hide. If my ex cheated with a waitress when I was pregnant and then moved on to an ugly country singer he was making a TV movie with and God only knows who else along the way, I'd be pissed too. Anyone would, and yep, slashing the Harley tires I think was justified. We all are subject to do things we wouldn't normally do in the heat of anger. The difference between most people and you is that YOU admit it. And that makes us like you! Most beautiful woman are full of themselves and dificult to relate to, and while I think you are aware of your beauty, you don't seem to think of yourself as "better" than anyone else - you are a girls girl and down to earth. I know you probably get sick of hearing about LeAnn Rimes but I find it almost funny how much you obviously get under her skin... remember mockery is the best form of flattery and in regards to LeAnn Rimes you should feel very flattered. She has tried her hardest to dress like you and change her body into yours. She always seems to do something over the top whenever your fame is rising or Eddie's true colors are revealed... For example, the Sunday before this particular episode of RHOBH came on, she has a foot tattoo reading "the only one that matters" I guess told her that she was the only "other woman" that ever mattered. HOW NAIVE can she be? And you are SO right, a Zebra never changes his stripes. Take care and make 2012 a wonderful year!

BeBeLish8
BeBeLish8

Hope you come back next season!! You ARE a breath of fresh air, particularly with the overwrought and tired drama of Kim and Taylor (I hope they both get the boot enough already!)

Foonda
Foonda

Brani, I don't say this about too many people; but you are a rarety! You are the type of WOMAN I aspire to be...may sound corny, but it's true. I envy your honesty with others, but especially with yourself ; that you are truly pleased to be in your own skin; your gentle and, fierce approach; your open mindedness and your fun and impulsive soul; and the list goes on! No, I'm not one of those that love you, but I truly respect you as the awesome, genuine example of a woman that you are. I know I only see what is shown in the program, but it appears that your character has already spoken for itself. Anyways, you are the best thing that's happened to the show...in fact, maybe you should have your own show!!

Florida_Gal
Florida_Gal

Brandi

That little segment discussing the 'gay bull mastiff' comment you made was hysterical. LOL. Finally, Lisa found someone to be playful with and the show is getting back some of the pizazz that I had hoped to see.

Here's hoping that Lisa, YOU, Camille & Adrienne will be in Season 3.

Lisatxgirl
Lisatxgirl

I like you on the show. I find it funny how during the weeks that the show is in Hawaii and the talk of you in your skinny bikinis, the the copy cat Leann is in Hawaii and wearing skinny bikinis. You months before looked far more hot and classy!

Viewer Brandifan
Viewer Brandifan

Hey Brandi, I hope you are coming back next season, and I think many others do as well. There are some cast members we wouldn't miss at all if they didn't come back - but I think a lot of fans of the show are rooting for you to be invited back! Hopefully we'll be able to enjoy your sunny and breezy personality next season, because it's been some much needed fun this season.

K. Anderson
K. Anderson

Love you Brandi! You are my favorite! You are hilarious and make me laugh every episode! It is refreshing to see such a beautiful girl with such a great personality! Eddie was a fool to leave you over fish face LeAnne! It will all come back around one day, karma is a biznitch!! You deserve so much better!

PS. I ran across a lifetime movie about LeAnne Rimes, where she played herself...she was very young....all I can say is WOW...Eddie left you for someone who used to have the most jacked up face/teeth I have ever seen...and still does! He is an undeserving idiot, you can do way better!

catny
catny

Loved watching you this season!! You are down to earth and real, which is rarely seen in Beverly Hills!! You are a beautiful person inside and out. Bravo better bring you back next season!!

sara29
sara29

Brandi I love you!!!! You're absolutely my favourite now. Please come back next season I trully enjoy watching you on the show.