Omg felt for you!

I personally am getting sick of Taylors explosions they just go on and on...

You looked awesome in that dress don't keep trying to fit in you've gone above & beyond :)!!

Hope things are better with you and all the wives you seem like a very good person to have as a friend :)

Brandi i think u r great! don't change a thing about u. u c it like it is n tell it. we need more honesty in this world. too many phonies on this show n other shows. i thought u were a breath of fresh air. most of the ladies r out to lunch.

i would have kicked all of them out. do they remember that it was a friends house? take the trash out.

u rule n keep enjoying ur life!

It was your party and your responsibility to control your guests, which is what you did by asking Taylor (and, by default, Kyle) to leave. And I don't think that you were rude about it.

Kyle is the least gracious guest I have ever seen. I would never invite her to my home, even if she knocked on my door in the middle of night in the pouring rain.

No more alcohol at these parties.

Whatever you do, just keep being sweet to these ladies. Have you ever heard the saying, "don't argue with a fool, people may not know the difference?" Be cordial, but run for the hills (no pun intended). Kyle is extremely mean spirited (although now that the blogs are so clear in the viewers feelings about her, I'm sure she'll put on a whole different face next season). Regardless of what she does, just keep being nice and do not sink to her level of taking jabs or being critical; it won't be helpful. She was worse than Taylor at the beach party. Taylor obviously has some real issues, Kyle just has some real nastiness in her, what's her excuse? Your other two friends there seemed very sweet, hang with gals like that:)

The only ladies with any type of class on this program is Brandi, Adriane, and Camile. I actually liked Kyle and Lisa when this program aired, but it changed very quickly after watching the two-part episodes of "girls game night" and "adriane's spa day". Kyle and Kim were so mean and disrespectful to you, especially on game night. Kim is a complete whack-job and Kyle feeds right into it with her. Stay away from these three... they're nothing but trouble.

Brandi,

You are far smarter and much more attuned to the idosyncracies of these ladies, then any of them want to admit. Stop insulting yourself, and let these women either accept you for being you, or forget them!

I too hope you become a regular cast member, and think that you and Lisa will become closer, as Kyle's influence wears thin.

You are the most genuine person on all of the Real Houswewives series. I have been getting bored watching most of them, but you have been a great addition and have made watching these shows fun again. You give viewers what we are sorely missing: humor, honesty and intelligence.

The only thing I'm disappointed with is that the you did not include the bj classes at the party. What kind of uptight women do they have on these shows who don't want to learn a thing or two? I know I certainly would love to hear an expert's opinion on the matter!

Brandi, you rock! Has Kyle apologized to you yet for game night. She owes you an apology for nailing Kim in the the first encounter - now that she's in rehab, you have been vindicated for sure. Stay away from the crazies Kyle and Taylor. You are so real and they aren't. p.s. wasn't impressed with Jen while she was on sober house. she's a drama queen too. be careful.

Brandy I really hope you let the comments about Taylor just roll of your shoulders. The chick is a complete whack job. She has put everyone through hell, I do have a soft spot for women of domestic abuse. There has to be other things going on. I'm over it, she needs to stay off tv. Anyways! LOL I loved your dress, who the heck cares about nipples anymore, as far as your comment about Kyles husband talk about insecure!!! I would want to be married to a man if I thought a damn comment was going to spin him around into a player. Hold your head up high woman!!! I think your great!!!

You , Camille & Adrienne are my favorite's....kyle always needs attention, Liza can't even move her lips when she talks, low class british, Kim is a whack and so is Big fish lips Taylor.... Very rude of Taylor to insult the former house of Herb Ritts, Does she know him by the way?....She can't even afford to have her own house now, Taylor needs to attend a house of class & ettiquette...Oh by the way, She needs to take her "spoiled brat" daughter along with her too......

A green laser light how rude, what is wrong with kyle she is such a mean woman.tayler was out of controll she needed to be put in a straight jacket.hope she is off the show next year and replace with you,glad you didnt invite butt kisser dana --and kim the comment she made about you not excisting and the cheetos priceless..and that house was bitchen what a wounderful freind to loan it to you.

I have never posted before either,but I gotta' agree with "I always thought this show would stay my hidden guilty pleasure, but I absolutely must comment here... Never in a million years did I think Brandi and Camille would be my favorites (naturally Lisa is up there, but that is a given). Taylor needs to get off of the TV." and of course add my own .02

Brandi, after what you have been through, for Kyle to suggest that you would hit on someone else's husband is just ignorant. I've 'bout had it with Kyle this season. Although she seemed to be a breath of "common sense" air last season, this season she seems to be operating in full on bitch mode. I have three boys, and if one of mine had peed on a bush, I would have laughed too. Kyle's condescension about the lack of manners was ridiculous. Even Adrienne seemed as if she wanted to tell Kyle to shut up about it. Yes, mommy's of girls don't quite get this, but hey, if you have boys, it's all in a day. I would be glad it was the bush and not the pool too!

As far as your party....why the hell didn't Taylor just stay the frick home?? Oh wait, I know, because she is a friggin' drama queen. I'm sure her life was less than awesome right then, but there was no excuse for that screamin' scarecrow mess of a performance. She is the constant victim and wants to blame everyone except those who are responsible. Camille didn't do anything wrong.

Stay true Brandi, you are a breath of fresh air.

When a guest is overbearingly rude & decides that your venue is perfect for her "breakdown" or whatever, you have every right to tell her to GO. Kyle should have kept her mouth shut and taken Taylor out to the car immediately. How would she have liked that at her party! Oh wait a minute... she kicked out a woman who acted rude at her own "white" party! I didn't think I'd like you because I don't like a potty mouth, but you've shown real character and dare I say it, class. Kyle has not shown the same qualities this season.

brandi :)

you are hot, young and savvy - in my opinion... all their comments and snide remarks are because they are jealous deep down inside... but won't admit it... i love it that you are on the show and it's making them all CRAZY. stay true to yourself! xoxox

I hope you are a full time housewife next season! Very down to Earth. Enjoy watching you. Dana...not so much.

Brandi - Hang in there. You seem like such a "real person" and you have tried so hard to fit into the group. I used to be a big Kyle fan but her treatment of you this year has made me start to dislike her. You were right to ask Taylor to hit the bricks. She is a whole mess of crazy and that was going no where but down. Poor Camille just said what everyone already knew and tried to call her out on her sham and you were put in the bad spot of hosting the party. Keep being real and ignore the mean girls. Karma...

You were totally wrong. DD started and escalated this fight and Camille did nothing to stop her friend . Taylor is very fragile, and DD kept egging her on..she should have minded her own business. You should have asked DD and Camille to leave or ended the party for all at the same time.

Team Brandi. It's official.

Why can't women just accept that acting like school girls is only okay for..well..school girls? When menopause is knocking on your door, it's time to stop behaving like a pouting brat *coughkimcough*. Forget the "filter" Adrienne seems to think you're lacking; the Richards sisters' behaviour makes you look like an Oxford graduate in comparison. The most disappointing person, however, would be Camille: for someone who claims to relate and empathize, she sure is spineless. For the sake of own redemption, she should have fiercely defended you but instead she tucked her tail between the legs, thankful that she is no longer the target. Don't bother keeping up with the many faces of each housewife. Best of luck to them keeping up with you.

At first, I didn't really care for you and Kyle was my favorite from the Housewives of Beverly Hills, but so far, I'm starting to dislike her. She really is mean and always makes mean remarks about you. I'm starting to like you more and I'm glad you are standing your ground. Don't worry about fitting in with these "ladies." Just be yourself.

Brandi,

I think you did 100% the right thing at the party. You did the right thing by asking Taylor to leve she was unraveling and escalating. It also seemed pretty obvious from the getgo that Taylor went there with an agenda and wanted to fight.

In my opinion Kyle is a mean girl and Paul had it right when he mentioned jealously from especially Kyle when you first appeared this season. Your nipples weren't showing at her fundraiser and she was caddy then. I thought Kyle and Kim's behavior at Dana's behavior was appalling and cruel. I used to feel sorry for Kim because she had a sister like Kyle, this season totally changed my opinion. Kyle always has to be the center of attention whether she is doing a split in the middle of your party or in the middle of Pandora's engagement party on a table.

The only thing I don't like about you Brandi and it hurts me when you do it.... please don't call yourself a slut or a whore it is hurtful for me to hear you say that about yourself and no matter who you are it has to be hurtful to you. Frankly you deserve more loving behavior and comments about yourself. I understand that it is a defense mechanism it just hurts me and makes me sad for you. I don't care what you have done in your life a woman never deserves to be called that. There are younger women out there watching, I don't care that the nips were showing you weren't in a group of couples trying to steal someone's man.

Have faith and be yourself.

P.S

I think you did the right thing by asking Taylor to leave. She was over dramatic and stirring up problems with everyone. She put this upon herself by making snide comments first.

Brandi I feel bad for you. You had no idea the emotional craziness you were coming into. Nobody really realized what mess Taylor was in until after this season was taped. Seriously she was a mess that night and there was no way for you to know any backstory to that histeria. Don't wince too much when you watch yourself... this looks like a rough season ahead and you came in smiling looking for fun. I am rooting for you!

Brandi, while I admit to not being a fan of yours since the beginning because of your comments and actions. This time I think you tried to do the right thing and have a good nite with the other ladies. I think that Adrienne should have warned you about the problems between Camille and Taylor and how bad it was so that you could have asked one or the other not to come or ask both to ensure NO problems were brought up. But she only glossed over it during the meeting she had with you. You tried to have a good time with the other women and Kyle's immature comments about you and actions with the laser just were unnecessary. She needs to learn how to say things to get others to laugh with her instead of her laughing at someone. Your party looked great and you did everything to ensure the ladies would all have a good time but Taylor had to ingore the fact she was at a party and become snarky and actually the center of attention. D.D. did as any good freind would and tried to get Taylor to stop the comments and try being nice/talk to Camille. Even Kly let you down... she knew the state Taylor was in but failed to watch over her to keep the fireworks from starting. She also should have to you so that the intake of alcohol was watched as well. Taylor was itching for a confrontation and had it. Her crying was fake.. no tears during or after. Her anger was real and she really had no one to blame but herself. As for not inviting Dana... don't blame you, she didn't put a stop to the crap at the party at her house and let you undergo the crap... she should have told you AND Kim and Kyle to either knock it off or leave. But she just let the show go on. Taylor owes you a big apology!!!!

Brandi, I just started watching the show and love it. I think you had every right to throw Taylor out. She is going thru something but won't admit and blaming Camille is not the right way to deal with it. To me Kyle is the mean girl bully. Talk behind Taylor's back and then acts like she is a good friend and wrong to come in your house to only insult you. Can't stand her

You bash Kyle and Taylor for talking about 'backup' before the party and say they shouldn't have come. Yet, Camille and Dede had the exact same conversation before the party in the limo but you have no anger toward them and do not suggest that they should have stayed home. About Mauricio, it's not classy to talk about another woman's husbands 'hotness', whether it's a compliment or not. And, your dress wasn't 'slightly sheer', it was completely see-through. And, that dress, no bra combo was you begging to be the center of attention. Finally, Kyle was dancing and having fun at a dance party. It was absurd for you to get annoyed by that.

You poor lady.All that drama.I would of kicked her out. Loved your dress. Kyle I would rather look at Brandi's dress than to constantly watch you do the splits.

Even though I feel for every abused victim, that does not excuse Taylor's behavior. All was very easy to avoid, makes you wonder if she's exploiting her sad situation for fame and money. Dont want your secret known, dont go under the public eye Dont want to place yourself in danger or make situations worse, dont do a reality tv Dont want see or interact with certain people, decline invitations Dont want drama, dont make snide comments Dont want discuss issues, just walk away Dont want to loose control, dont drink And the list can go on and on...and seems since RHOBH started she is always in middle of all controversy but then act as vicitm. And even though I symphatize with her horrible situation, I dont with her way of using it or handling it

You were a class act at the belly dancing party! You handled yourself well. You did the right thing telling Taylor to leave. She clearly needs help. I love that you're on the show!

Hey Brandi, kudos to you for even trying to get in with this group. Wise words I was told when I was a teen: "When you are beautiful, you will always have people who are jealous of you". You cannot win when people are jealous: you're prettier and younger than the rest, so only the secure will be able to befriend you. Be yourself and if people like you they do, if they don't: leave them behind.

Dana is insecure and needs to do some self-psycho-analysis to get some spine and character then sucking up to the other women/bragging will be unimportant to her.

One word of caution: you are an emotional person, so impulsive, unfiltered things fly out of your mouth without thought. Just stop and think before you speak a little. Be secure and you will be loved. I think most people can see that you are a good person and have a good heart. Those who cannot can go to h*ll. Chin up girl, be confident and stay true! You are needed on this show.

Don't forget that Kyle split a bottle of wine with Taylor in the limo on the ride down to Malibu so they were toasted before they even got to your party. That was a recipe for disaster, given what everyone knew was going on in Taylor's life, and also that she was starving herself, and has reacted badly to alcohol other times on the show. Taylor should have enough self-awareness not to drink when she is distraught by now. Kyle should behave more responsibly. You don't give alcohol to someone who can't handle it. (You'd think her experiences with certain family members would have taught her that by now.)

You have come a long way, Brandi. I think the Ladies' behavior was horrible. You were right to ask Taylor to leave. She needed to regroup and she had Kyle to care for her. Speaking of Kyle I just do not think you get her humor. She was joking about her husband. I really think she was honored by your compliments and that is her way of acknowledging them.

Can't help but like you....stay real!! :)

Wow how many people did you insult in this blog?

Brandi - so sorry you have been treated so badly by these ladies. Kyle is a mean girl and everyone knows it. I can't imagine how she would like it if everyone made fun of her behind her back and to her face like she does you.

You were absolutely appropriate in asking Taylor to leave. I think Taylor tried to cause drama in every episode just to insure that she would appear in every episode. Have you every noticed how most of the time she acts like she is crying but then we see no real tears? She acts all upset then makes a joke or has a long conversation with Paul at Lisa's gate where her primary concern is bashing Lisa and talking about her facial injections.

Stand tall girl not everyone is mean or stupid. Lisa had the wrong impression of you at first because you were reported to have been close friends with Cedric but Lisa is decent and realized she was being unfair and has admitted. If you are waiting for the same from Kyle, forget it, it is never going to happen. She will act like she is okay with you and then slice you to pieces behind your back - steer clear girl and hang in there.

Brandi - you are beautiful and funny!! love you on the show!

I live in a conservative city and I am generally regarded as a bit of a Miss Manners. You were a great hostess and asked the appropriate party to leave. As far as your "nips" go you were at a private party with ladies only. I realize cameras change it a bit...However, I only see jealousy with Kyle's remarks. Take note, less alcohol in the future. I hope you are made a cast member. Kim's ugly blouse and Cheeto nibbles are not terribly interesting or inspiring. I also believe that your friendship with Adrienne speaks volumes about how cool you both are.

Brandi- I think you are the most real person on the show. Kyle gets on my nerves with her "I know it all" attitude, her sister is a hot mess & she knows it. The party was nice, D.D did go over board but it was clear that Kyle & Taylor were going with intentions to start drama. I think these "ladies" with the exception of Camille & Adrienne are just jealous that you are younger & prettier than they are. Keep being you! :)

Hi Brandi - I really hope they make you a regular on the show, you are so nice and fun and much more down to earth than the others. Clearly Taylor is insane and should def be bounced off the show. I don't understand why the girls can never just have a good time when they go out!!! All they want to do is put down other people and fight, it's like just go out and have some fun already!!! You seem like a really nice person and I hope everyone can stop fighting!!

Hi Brandi - I really hope they make you a regular on the show, you are so nice and fun and much more down to earth than the others. Clearly Taylor is insane and should def be bounced off the show. I don't understand why the girls can never just have a good time when they go out!!! All they want to do is put down other people and fight, it's like just go out and have some fun already!!! You seem like a really nice person and I hope everyone can stop fighting!!

Brandi I actually really like you. You are nice and not fake at all. Everyone I know feels the same. Just do you girl

I was SO glad you had the balls to kick Taylor out! I've wondered on more than one occasion of Taylor behaving like this at someone else's home or event, why no one has ever asked her to leave (Camille's mountain house, Lisa's Tea Party). That woman is a trainwreck and while sad to behold, it's still not an excuse to make an enormous scene at someone else's home. She should have left on her own the moment things got heated with Camille's friend. Kyle should have gotten her out of there, frankly. I question Kyle's friendship with Taylor. It's odd that such an in-your-face-tell-people-their-lives kind of chick like her can't sit Taylor down and tell her to get it together!! As far as you fitting in? Please don't. You and Adrienne are the most real people on this show!!

also, you and your friends are all hotter than any of the girls on this show! real, sexy, supportive women!

Love you Brandi! Hate LA with a passion. There's a special place in H__l for cheaters. Boy, it will be crowded that's for sure! Keep being yourself. p.s. You're beautiful!

Brandi I know it must have been difficult for you watching the footage, but you did the right thing by sending Taylor home. She was the core of the toxic situation and when you remove the core, the air becomes fresh again. I understand now why she reacted this way and behaved that way, but in the moment you did the best you could do to diffuse it, and I agree with your decision. I honestly do love Kyle, but she really needs to stop attacking you. The two of you seem very funny and very charming; you two would be a dynamic duo if kyle would let her guard down and just get to know you. Stay who you are, and keep plugging away. The ladies tried to shut out Camille lasxt season and that worked itself out; stick it out, and they'll eventually let you in. God bless you!

Lol I love the lady in the gold, "You are all embarrassing yourselves by being out of control. We are an evolved species." She's so chill! And Brandi- You go! I don't care what Kyle says. SHE slapped YOUR hand. Not the other way around. And if there was some middle aged woman acting nutty at one of her parties, I'm sure she would have flipped. She seems like the type who would flip out if napkin holders were missing... I mean seriously. You were completely right in asking her to leave. That diffused the situation much better than all of the yelling and screaming and crying... It's ironic how you are the youngest in the group- and yet, you seemed to show more maturity than anyone else there. Way to go girl

Watch the show again. Taylor kept saying I don't want to talk to Camille now and De De kept pushing her to talk to Camille. Then Taylor agreed to talk to Camille ALONE outside.....she said this over and over but no one listened to Taylor and EVERYONE was in Taylor's face saying "you need to talk to Camille". Then she got kicked out of the party.

How would you react when 10 women corner you and say you have to talk to a friend that you were in a fight with. This is exactly what her husband did to bully her into what he wanted. Taylor had no breathing room.

What do you do when you are upset and want to collect yourself...normally people want to leave a room....Taylor was not given that opportunity.

My husband watched the show with me for a few minutes and then said (looking at Brandi), "What is she doing on the show? She seems normal." Exactly. Normal, genuine, sweet, and beautiful. Stay just the way you are, and please stay on the show.

Simple, honest, to the point, and all true. You did the right thing.. and considering it wasn't YOUR home.. it was the SUPER right thing to do.. Kyle did also, by being her friend and taking her out of there, getting her safely home... Well said.. Brandi. well said.

If you asked me I would tell you that I think Taylor whould kiss your feet when you threw her out. You actually stopped things from getting out of control both on and off camera. You saved her from further embarrassment. She should realize that.

Brandi you are such a breath of fresh air to the show. Last year I really like Kyle but she is turning my stomach with the way that she is acting this season. When she was flashing that laser at you to draw attention to the top of your gorgeous dress and the fact that you did not have a bra on was the last straw for me.....she sounded so evil when she was laughing. Just keep being the very nice person that you are!!!!