Brandi Glanville

Brandi Glanville shares her feelings on her confrontation with Kim.

on Nov 23, 20110

 

OK, so I first want to say I had so much fun watching Kim and Ken hanging the Golden Gate Bridge replica over their mantle with a single nail! Thank goodness her kids are full-grown, because that is not baby friendly! I think it's safe to say any dream of being a interior designer is quickly fading.

And wow, can I come back in my next life as Lisa's daughter? Those wedding invitations are divine! Lucky Pandi!

On a more serious note, I'm a little confused why the ladies are playing both sides of the coin with Camille and Taylor. They support Camille and tell her that she was right to bring up what Taylor confided in them. On the other hand, when Taylor is complaining about Camille, they don't say anything. Which is it, ladies? You can't have your cake and eat it too. Friends that act as a go-between are not real friends.

Coming from personal experience, when times get tough, that's when you realize who your real friends are! Unfortunately, I've had to deal with my fair share of fair-weather friends since being forced into the limelight a few years ago. Even now, some of my former best friends are selling false stories about me to the media. How terrible!

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soooommmeeerrr
soooommmeeerrr

Kim is craaazy and who cares if she likes you. I agree that Kim and Kyle started the drama on game night by acting like catty pre-teens. I used to like Kyle, but that's starting to fade this season. I understand where you were coming from completely. Things got heated and you said stuff you didn't mean. It happens, Kim needs to get over it! If I had some crazy snotty bitches insulting me at a party, I'd probably start talking a bunch of smack too. I don't think I could stand living in BH...I like it just fine here in the real world. Those of us that live here think you kick ass, who cares what these ladies think!

PiperB
PiperB

I liked that you were the bigger person and tried to make up with Kim. I hope you can be friends. I don't agree that you should stay angry. Kim is obviously going through some things and really she should take a break from the show. I would hate to see her go but it's not really benefiting her. You on the other hand seem to be doing well. You seem fun in spite of your current circumstances. Keep having fun :D

NY Viewer
NY Viewer

Forget about Kim; you can't fix crazy. Btw, your description of Ace singing Kennedy's birthday song with the drink in his hand made me burst out laughing. That was exactly what I was thinking!! So glad you're on this season

Ashley Fan
Ashley Fan

Glad to see you're still hanging in there, and don't even sweat Kim, she's a waste of time.

T-
T-

Brandi, I hear from the media your friends with Cedric. If so Please pass a message to him.Thank you. Also Brandi your beautiful.. PLEASE- PLEASE- REMEMBER BEAUTY STARTS FROM THE INSIDE and no matter beautiful you are on the outside, ugly from the inside can make the outside ugly! Beauty fades when mixed with mean & nasty. So let others hang themselves! You dont need to say a word. You have been done wrong by your husband! rise above (he's & so is that- what's her name?-..( I dont even listen to her music) terrible ugly! what they did to you and your children, so sorry. I hope all will be well for your children! Stay strong Mama for them! They look to you for stability! I see his motives of being closer to kids might be to avoid certain things your trying to achieve on legal paper watch your back, you know what I mean? Tone it down on the show your better than that! Some things your saying on the show certain lurkers i mention above may use against you later, in real life! There's more I like to say, but don't want to air it for all to see, some of these things and you have been already thinking about. I like you because I can tell you are real and I can see you have trouble trusting for a friend, please don't let the show ruin you by going to your head- keep grounded and don't be fake, remember where you come from and how you got there! I think some people lose focus from fame and money. I see Angels with you-( many) your never alone even when you think your alone..angels of peace and comfort so when you feel down Brandi, remember their there for you, ask for your heart to be healed, you shall recieve and be healed! Believe! and I know you do! Work threw your issues professionally it helps with sanity :) Brandi let love find you, in this area time is your friend. Your children will know, and your heart will confirm! Peace, Love & Joy be with you and are also angel names! Thank you...Good Luck- Take Care...T- "Letter for Cedric"- Cedric.. Count the blessings that were given to you. You know if they did'nt ask you to move out, you still would be there living for free. Your only angry because you had to and get a real job time to grow-up. They did you a favor, because you were looking like a huge dead beat on the show! How embarrassing, is that what you wanted to look like a " Blood Sucking Lazy Leach and a Dead Beat?" They really did do you a favor. Now you can make your OWN famous life. YOU on your own! It will make you a better person! Your only going to look more crazy-stupid now, also more pathetic if your going to write a book of lies? That's how your going to re-pay them? Come on-Forget about it! so what if she said some things about you when you moved out, get over yourself, look what you did to Lisa and her family you used them up and don't forget you lied to her, you betrayed her first ( what was she suppose to do?) She deserves to vent, she was hurt from you! Think and use your brain for once! Seriously, Cedric what goes around comes around the best thing you could do right now is redeem yourself and if your going to write a book make sure you tell the truth on how well you had it at their home.. come on, you paid no bills- free room and board- she bought you clothes- fed you- took you to the finest restaurants- on trips and she flipped the bill. (think- think and Thank her) Redeem and tell all... the truth! Then maybe people would bye and read your book?.Maybe? Life, you can only do once, just ask the older and the wise! Your a nice looking young man and have a full life ahead of you many years left, so fix what is broken now, so you can look at yourself in the mirror everyday and see honest person and sleep at night with sweet dreams- not nightmares, you know someday you may have children that may look up to you , maybe you do now as in neice"s and nephew's. Set an example. Be charming,not fake charming either. Just saying Cedric- Karma..karma...karma! Count your blessings while your ahead and be happy you had the oppurtunity to meet these people, that helped you in your time of need, write nice things like that. Then if there some true things that happened not so bright & shiny- then people will be more prone to believe you. BUT, I'am sure you were not abused by them! you'll be much more respected, as you need to give them respect for what they did for you. GIVE RESPECT-GET RESPECT. Every where you go in this world SPREAD LOVE NOT WAR! Fix it so good things come to you. The Truth will set you Free, and you like free... so free your soul! GOOD LUCK! Cedric,I hope you make the right choices for yourself.

TessaLynn
TessaLynn

Brandi, you are so funny! Btw, I realize you have to do some mingling with Heckle & Jeckle (aka Kim and Kyle) for the sake of keeping the ratings afloat, but you really don't need to. Your encounters with the other ladies are witty & so hilarious! I do believe Lisa has met her match as far as wit and humor. You're the icing on the cake for this show...sheer laughter!

cookt
cookt

You are not at all what I thought - love you being on the show!

Indy mom
Indy mom

Brandy you are a great addition to the show.

Blondie8180
Blondie8180

I-told-you-so:

Rewatch the Game Night episode. Kim said loudly, "I don't want to be on her team!"(referring to Brandi within earshot of Brandi) then yelled/whispered to Kyle, "She hates us!" at which point they cackled and Kyle actually threw her leg up in the air with excitement. They also only played with each other and didn't use clues Brandi would recognize -OH!- and Kim hid Brandi's crutches. So when you say Kim didn't start this, I hope you are implying that Kyle did because if you do not think it was one of the Richards sisters, I would have to suggest that YOU put down the bottle before viewing.

Cheers!

MichelleNYC
MichelleNYC

Brandi, i've said it before and i'll say it again, these women are SO JEALOUS of you. Keep up with how you are and don't change!

Anna Colinski
Anna Colinski

Brandi, you are my favorite.. don't be tricked into thinking Kyle is on your side...ever. Kyle is on KYLES side. Always.

 Penelope
Penelope

Brandi, I like you a lot. But please stop with the comments about Kim and Kyle, it only makes them relevant. Just concentrate on your family and be glad that they are not your friends. They are doing you a big favor!

KristenInDC
KristenInDC

Generally when someone doesn't like you its their own personal problem however its not always jealously as everyone posts. Sometimes people just don't mesh with other people's energy. Kim is not the type to let people she doesn't know in, which is fine. Kim was a very beautiful woman who was also famous I seriously doubt she's jealous of someone she refuses to even commune with. Brandi I think you're trying way too hard to be liked. Its better to just be yourself, not everyone is going to like you and thats okay. Camille got through last season having only one friend on the show it seems like you have Adrienne and possibly Camille. That's good enough.

Housewife from NY
Housewife from NY

As another viewer said, I also have had a harder time warming up to you on screen. I think that you are a little too blunt at times, a bit of good old fashioned tact can go a long way to improve how you are perceived. I think you are a good person with a big heart, we're just now getting to see that.

As far as "the sisters," sadly they didn't give you a chance. I think both, for whatever reason, were operating under the assumption that you need to earn their respect or friendship on this show. This is not the case Kyle and Kim! And you both would benefit from adjusting that behavior. Why not begin by giving everyone a fair shake. Let them earn a bad opinion from you if deserved and not vice versa. There was no possible reason for them to dislike you or "not want you on their team" right out of the gate. That was petty. And as awful as the comment you made was...it certainly wasn't unwarranted. You were treated very badly, and you lashed out. Most would find that understandable. You made your apology (or attempt there of) time to move on. I actually have always liked Kim. I enjoyed watching her in Disney movies when I was very young and have overlooked a lot of strange behavior in the previous season. Her talk with Adrienne's husband in his office was very enlightening. She has struggles, she always will. But targeting you is not going to help her in her struggles. If she doesn't want to be your friend, fine. But she should leave it at that and not make comments about you or behave so horribly when you are together at social functions. Kyle disappoints me. She just seems to play both sides and eventually that catches up to people. Not a great choice for a BFF, but she can still be fun to hang around with when you are all together. Hang in there, I feel you are just starting to come into your own on the show.

hulali
hulali

You are so funny to watch and I think you are handling everything much like I would if I were in your shoes. Kim is so unstable and the Meth comment was out of line but it was blurted out in the heat of the moment and you have apologized (or at least tried to). Kyle is being over defensive towards Kim because of how she treated her last season. If Kim is having a hard time getting over their limosine incident then she will probably never get over the Meth comment, so stop trying to appease her. Poor Kim (and Kyle) they are just digging their own grave by making constant negative comments about you. The Richards sisters have become synonimous with the term "Mean Girls". We all watch the show and the viewers know whats going on. Just look at all the positive comments you get!.

Special K
Special K

Brandi~ I think you are a breath of fresh air to the Beverly Hills gang. Brandi, stay true to yourself and you will have true friends from the show, we already know the Richards girls are not.

sammyBaby
sammyBaby

I think you’re amazing and would be great fun to know. In last night’s episode, I was shocked to hear that you and your husband had been together that long! I’m sure your ex-husband and his new wife crawl all over these sites, so I’ll say what a creep he is. And his new wife is just as much of a CREEP in allowing herself to get involved with a married man who had small children. Shame on them both. Passion inevitably lessens after that many years. I am so lucky to have found a grown man who loves his children and his family to work at it and keep it alive. I am so fortunate to remain so happy for over 15 years and I wish you had found a grown man like the one I did and not some actor punk who would run off with his co star. So cliché. Next, he’ll have a reality show like Tori & Dean do after Dean dumped his original wife and son. Uhg. Keep up the good fight Brandi. Keep strong for your son.

Lindsay
Lindsay

Hi Brandi, For the record, you are a much nicer person than some of the other women, and you have to accept that and move forward. I think those that matter like you, those that don't at this point will change once they come to know you better. Don't make the mistake Dana is, trying too hard isn't cool! Embrace those who accept you, walk away from those who won't! Hang in there!

anneaw
anneaw

Brandi, you've put up with a lot worse than Kim (ex's new wife) so stay strong. Your ex will be sorry someday, and Kim is just plain ignorant. She isn't worth your time and friendship.

Becky R
Becky R

Hey Brandi,

that wasn't much of a blog, and you really didn't address anything, but who cares you don't owe anyone anything.

Take care of yourself and your kids and don't mind the rest Becky

ReiR
ReiR

I honestly didn't expect to like you as much as I do watching the show! You have really impressed me with how you've owned up whenever you've done something wrong and tried to see the other person's point of view- and appologized. You've went above and beyond what anybody else would do dealling with a clearly unstable person like Kim. I hope to see more of you next season as you really bring a great down to earth feel to the show and seem very funny! Also gotta say love how it seems you and Lisa are nice to each other and support each other a bit in the blogs- I think you are both great!

HechizeraEncantada
HechizeraEncantada

Brandi, you rock girl!!! I really like you, and I can see why Adreinne introduced you to the group.

Kim...well you basically said what many were thinkging...right or wrong, it was said, it is done. The KK sisters are not to be let off the hook here, as Kyle started this rude behavior toward you from previous, but to focus just on game night, she did it again there. I am reading a lot of posters saying to watch this, learn, blah, blah, blah, blah BLAH! BE YOURSELF!!! You know what, you will have much more respect for it in the long run. Many of us appreciate genuine people, not fake want to be's...so do BRANDI, the way only BRANDI knows how to do it!!!

PlanetJéy
PlanetJéy

It takes a strong person to swallow their pride, admit they were wrong and apologize. While I don't think you had anything to apologize for, I understand that you are part of a group and need to try and mend fences in order to keep the peace.

I thought the BJ party was absolutely hysterical. But I guess we aren't as repressed and puritancial as the women in Beverly Hills. (At least the ones on this show). I think you are a breath of fresh air this season.

XOXO Jéy

JaniceM
JaniceM

Brandi, give it up with Kim or anyone else who doesn't like you. It's nothing but jealousy on their part. That's all it could be. You haven't done anything wrong to anyone. On Game Night, you went there to have a good time and you were bullied. Stay strong. So many of us here adore you. I REALLY hope they make you a permanent member of the show next season. Don't trust Kyle for a second either.

jcgurl
jcgurl

Why don't you just leave Kim alone. Haven't you harmed her enough? Don't you get it, she doesn't want to be friends with someone who can be so mean to someone one they've never met. I hated your VJ comments to Kyle.

Laura RS
Laura RS

Hi Brandi!

I think you are gorgeous and make the show more interesting to watch. It seems Kyle and Kim feel threaten at the fact that a younger and more beautiful woman is on the show. Will you have your own show by the way? Will watch if you do! Can't wait for the next episode it's going to be good!

belles09
belles09

I LOVE YOU BRANDI!!! You are the most real and unpretentious of the bunch. Hang in there. U rock!

Viewer 44
Viewer 44

Kim's over reaction to the incident is so repulsive that an apology by you seems to not even be called for at this point. She is trying so hard to protect her own ego, and deflect attention away from her own egregious behavior that night, that she is just digging herself in deeper. She came into the room bad mouthing you and being nasty without ever having met you. She hid your crutches. She was incredibly rude, and she incited her sister to be rude and mean as well. Every time since then that she talks about it or you in her closeups she just looks more and more pathetic and psychopathic. She needs to let it go, take full responsibility for what happened, and become human again.

my name is Adrienne too
my name is Adrienne too

Kim is a nut job, but it's not your place to bring her issues to light. I hope you and Kyle become friends, you two seem like the two funnest girls in the bunch. I mentioned on Kyle's blog that we are only seeing a portion of what I'm sure are complicated friendships between all of these ladies, and since you are too, it's probably best that you keep your judgements to yourself since you have an actual opportunity to get to know these women personally and not just what's been cut to air on tv. I am sure there is more to them than what we see on tv, much like I'm sure there is more to you than what we have seen so far. Good for you for trying to apologize so humbly to Kim and Kyle, and good luck with everything else - the thing with your ex and Leanne is such a joke, you dodged a bullet. I'm glad to see you working since he clearly won't be able to support you and your family since nobody cares to see him on tv anymore! Keep that karma in mind as you try and navigate through this group of ladies, and also try and adopt some of their more ladylike ways. I am rooting for you though :)

Also, totally not being catty, but did you wear the same dress you wore to Adrienne's fashion show on another episode? GIRL!

Elpheba
Elpheba

I think Paul hit the nail on the head when he said the women are jealous. You are the prettiest of all of them and it doesn't look like you've had anything done, you look so natural while the others have tight faces and their lips are so fake. I thought the porn star thing sounded like a lot of fun. I felt sorry for Kim last year, but she's a hot mess this year. I hope she can get it together for her and her kids sake.

summerderb
summerderb

It was Kim or Brandi who started the argument on Game Night! It was Kyle with her snarky "IQ test starting with you" comment and Kim's "I don't want her on my team" comments. I thought Brandi bit her tongue long enough... I don't blame her for fighting back and even questioning the white elephant in the room. Kyle knew what Brandi was saying was the truth...that's why she tasted Kim's drink, kept following her to the bathroom and paused - worried and confused - outside of the bathroom. Kyle also had no better comment to Brandi's, so that is why she brought up the boys peeing on the grass.

Jean-Claude
Jean-Claude

Kyle is OUT! you and Lisa are my new favs!!! Hope to see you guys together more often!!!! Kisses.

robin k
robin k

Brandi, This recent post you started in again on "picking" on Kim over the bridge hanging. I think you need to step back and see that there are other "meds" out there that people can be on that create behavior problems. I know you are hurt over your ex, but you still have the sour grapes and it shows on how you pick on people. Dana can take care of her self and has her own issues. Not to sure your party theme is becoming of you.

NotKyleFan
NotKyleFan

Brandi, I totally agree with Dr. Paul, you bring a "young, beautiful woman" and the Green Giants (the two sisters) get greener! . I like the fact that you are straight forward and speak your mind. You are a beautiful lady and I enjoy watching you on the show. I hope you stay.

S.B.
S.B.

You were hilarous immitating the singer with the drink in his hand lol

KeriM
KeriM

Brandi, My husband in is LOVE with you! He's got great taste. :)

LauraGamm
LauraGamm

Brandi - I think you are a very nice person. I agree with some things and disagree with others. First, you should have talked to your son at that moment about urinating in public. Its not cute or acceptable. Secondly, I think Kyle started with you from the very beginning at her charity event, and needs to back off. You were attacked and attacked back -- but the crystal meth comment was too much. Was kim high on something -- absolutely. Also, just some of the comments -- you like all of us need to edit ourselves. You have joined a tough crowd. Its going to be bumpy! On another note, loved the video tour of your home. You should be proud that you live so nicely with your sons....its not down-sizing -- its living within your means and doing it well. Not everyone lives in a 10,000SF mansion for heavens sake! Beverly Hills is such a small place as I am sure you know through your travels. Keep it real and don't try to compete -- that's what Taylor does and it doesn't work! Best of luck to you on the show! I think you are a great addition!

jacquelines
jacquelines

I was reading your blog and at least you tried from your part to have a conversation with kim and if she doesn't want to well to bad then that is all i have to say . You move on with your life and that's about it. Besides you are pretty and i am starting to like you for some reason lol! take care!

Lilibeth
Lilibeth

Anyone that adopts homeless dogs has a wonderful heart and soul. Don't waste your time worrying about that terrible tempered person. She's a waste of time. I hope you stay with the Housewives...

I-told-you-so
I-told-you-so

Kim did not start this. I strongly suggest that viewers put down the bottle when they pick up the remote.

brinn s
brinn s

Stay strong, Brandi (and I'm not just talking about the show)! You have a ton of supporters in the real world!

Karrey Hanko
Karrey Hanko

one lesson to be learned, be careful what you say about people. I had you pegged when I watched a certain episode with my daughter. I am a Nurse and told my daughter that Kim was slurring her speech because she was on antidepressant drugs. I would be pissed too if you have accused me of using "meth".

Donna1
Donna1

You were right on with everything, call it like it is. Kim and Kyle showed who they really are, MEAN GIRLS.

betfan
betfan

Love you Brandi! Hope they make you permanent. If you want to be that is! Personally, I think you can do better!

Housewife Heidi
Housewife Heidi

I am not sure I understand your position on this show. You are a bitter pill, and hard to swallow. Don't get me wrong, you were "done wrong" by many. However, it's how you come out on the other side that's important. Please focus on being positive and not so crude. I think it will show you in a better light.

Best wishes

michellert
michellert

I love how you speak the truth. A breath of fresh air.