Brandi Glanville

Brandi asks you to bear with her for the rest of her Housewives experience.

on Oct 25, 20110

I want to start off with a big, heartfelt THANK YOU! As unwelcome as I first felt when I started this Housewives journey, it doesn't even compare to how overwhelmed I now am by the outpouring of support and love from all of the amazing RHOBH fans. (Here's looking at you Melly from North Carolina! Thanks for your call on Watch What Happens Live last night!)

It’s true: I was so nervous to see how this season was going to play out, but so far, so fabulous. The best part? I am just being me! All of the wonderful responses I have received mean so much, because what you see on camera is 100 percent me -- F-bombs and all!

As I said last week, I’m done talking about Game Night (if you have any questions, check out last week's blog). To be honest, I don't really want to get into Spa Day either. I know you have questions, but as you can see on TV, it was painful then and it still hurts now.

But here's the good news: were moving past it -- all of us. I don't need to rehash how Kyle made me feel, why I was driven to tears, or why it's never a good idea to rock a onesie when you're on crutches. You saw the episode, so you should already know: none of it was good.

348 comments
davora
davora

Brandi, you are a very beautiful girl. I am sure there have been lots of jealous girls your life. Kyle being one of them. She is afraid her husband will look at you a lttle too long with his wandering eye. I admire your strength and confidence.

New York Fan
New York Fan

Brandi, you rock. No doubt you're not perfect, but in a show made up of out of touch mean girls you are the perfect mix of straight talk, vulnerability and toughness. I guess your fake cast mates can't handle a real person. Rock on!!!

Mumzer
Mumzer

To rhobhinsider, that's not a nice thing to say. I don't care what "comes out" this season or in 10 years. There is no excuse for grown women to act like bullies ever. If they made the decision to dislike her (despite only knowing her for a matter of minutes), there is something called courtesy and respect; something we all deserve. They could have tried to make her feel comfortable or at the very least refrained from saying out loud, "I don't like her" and truly acting like bratty little girls. No excuses, no matter what.

julaidsmom
julaidsmom

Brandi, I think you have a lot of supporters because the audience recognizes that they now have more in common with you than any of the other women on the show. Truthfully, any ordinary woman with no show-biz experience or zillions of money would not be good enough for those ladies, which is why it was so hard for them to accept Camille. While I admire Adrienne, I question her handling of the spa day incident at her house. She seemed so adamant in having you apologize for what you said but refused to ask the other girls to do the same. Also the way they all surrounded you as you and Kyle spoke would drive anyone to tears. Lisa, Taylor and Adrienne all next to or behind Kyle, naturally made her feel more powerful and added to your vulunerability. I don't think you owed anyone an apology, and you were in the right when you left (wish you had do the same at game night). Furthermore, if Adrienne was trying to make peace she would've also discouraged the laughing and gossiping, and demanded an apology from them too. She also could've walked her disabled friend to the door!!

Gia D.
Gia D.

Brandi, You are a beautiful bad-ass and my favorite on the show. The jealousy and all the ridiculous attacks are a direct reflection of who those women really are. It's nice to see someone on the show that isn't plastic. You are such a beauty!!

DESHEA
DESHEA

Brandi ~ You are genuine and it's refreshing.

MairaP
MairaP

Brandi- you're awesome. You're hot and you have a personality...though it's best to keep our real feelings on what others are up to to ourselves at times just for the sake of peace but you are right on in standing up for yourself and making those other older, more wrinkly, flabby women jealous! Go Brandi, Go Brandi, Go Go!

majormiles
majormiles

Brandi. your are a sweetheart. Dont let them get to you. Kyle you need to get some class again. I use to like her but not anymore. She has turned in to a snot!

DanLeono
DanLeono

Brandi, after watching the Game Night episode, I feel bad for you! You actually seem like a very sweet person. I do think Kim is a sweet person too though, so hopefully, you two can work it out... please try! Thanks!

RoseHuz
RoseHuz

You make the entire show worth watching! You are a real person who speaks her mind and whatever you said, at the time, was warrented. Even my husband started watching the show just to see what you would do and say. Wish you the best in your adventure, can't wait to watch what happens next...

Carrie75
Carrie75

Hi Brandi, so glad you said that I wish I would have read ahead before making my comments last week. I am glad your moving on and I do hope things get better for you. I can't wait to see what happens. Good Luck.

peebs
peebs

Kyle sure didn't say anything to Taylor last season when she was constantly talking crap to kum all the time. Remember ... I'll take you out back and go oklahoma on your butt, Hey Kyle, why didn't you defend your sister then? She didn't deserve that from Taylor but she sure deserves it from Brandi,

Keep
Keep

Kyle and her clique would have made fun of you if you'd performed the splits on the table, but not because you're a slut or because there's anything wrong with you. It would have been because Kyle, for one, has to be THE center of attention at all times. And the look on Lisa's face showed Lisa was jealous of Kyle.

It's just like when Kyle ran behind the curtain after Estella's surgery. Instead of allowing her husband to comfort his mother, she had to make sure he comforted her instead - behind the curtain. The look on Paul's face said he knew what Kyle was up to - a bunch of melodramatic look-at-me nonsense.

Stay yourself. PLEASE.

rhwocnc
rhwocnc

Brandi, You are a great addition to the RHWBH. I can not believe how mean Kyle & Kim & Dana were. Kim does have a problem & Kyle know it. If they had be fighting each other (as they usually are) Kyle would have said it. They acted like they were in high school - soooo immature! I would expect more class from Beverly Hills housewives. I have never seen grown women act that way, from anywhere. Kim, Kyle & Dana (I would call her worse than Pam) owe you an apology. Glad to have you! ~tc (A real housewife from Orange County, North Carolina) :)

Kris626
Kris626

LOVE YOU! Even though you said some hurtful things, you said them in the heat of the moment...being verbally attacked by a couple of mean girls! Stay strooong

2CoolMel
2CoolMel

You seem like a real class act, f-bombs and all. I fell off of my chair when you let it go on WWHL! For the record, I kind of liked the Onesie on you :) Stay strong..

Lynne S
Lynne S

I have never written on a blog. That being said I want to say how sad I was to witness the treatment you received by the 'sisters'. My heart felt for you not being included, at the party and the luncheon. Kim was showing how 'little' minded she is. For those who have had a seeming upper station in life they showed such poor upbringing. Their cattiness is apparent, and their jealousy. You are a beautiful kind woman, who did not use discernment in one specific moment. I wish you peace for you've been through a lot. I was even disappointed in Lisa, as well. Money does not buy class...that is apparent.

Anniefreeze
Anniefreeze

I'm a new fan of Brandi.... Stay real. You will be just fine.

Michelle44
Michelle44

Brandi, you are a refreshing new addition to TRHBH! Kim and Kyle were so rude to you at game night AND spa day so I don't see why any of the other housewives wouldn't stick up for you. You handled yourself SO well on spa day and I know that those tears were fake. You have become my favorite housewife on this show. Don't be discouraged by bullies, you have full support from so many viewers! :)

Artist50
Artist50

I don't like all this talk about teams - we're all women just trying to get through this journey of life. All these fans you have now Brandi were in love with Kyle last year, so don't rely on them too much. We shouldn't be criticizing and arguing with each other, we should be supportive. I like Kyle and I realize she made some mistakes, but so did you. Let's get this show back on track and quit fighting! I had to quit watching Orange County and I don't think other fans like the bickering. We want to see how you guys live in Beverly Hills. I loved the glimpse of Adrienne's spa and the engagement party was outrageous. I'd much rather see a camel at a party than you women making enemies of each other. Now be yourself and have fun, but control your temper and quit being so defensive, you're much to lovely to talk so rudely.

Traci Seats
Traci Seats

I love the fact you are REAL and put people in their place!! You go girl!!

litaboston
litaboston

You're a great addition to the Housewives!!

Jo in TX
Jo in TX

Love ya! Making me feel like I am around a friend when I listen to you. You're a lot of fun and a great mom!

yea i said it
yea i said it

LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU GIRL~!!!!!~ YOU ARE SO AWESOME AND BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE SO JEALOUS OF YOU HONEY SO DON'T LET THEM BRING YOU DOWN...YOU ARE RITE ALSO ABOUT KIM THEY ARE JUST TO STUPID TO SEE IT AND COWARDS TO ADMIT IT......KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK HONEY I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

MadgePadge
MadgePadge

I bet Kyle Richards didn't figure on you becoming the new favorite....

Sarah_T
Sarah_T

Brandi, Thanks for being such a REAL person! I'm sorry you've had such a crappy time with those mean Richards sisters. They really are witches! I was proud of you apologizing, even though you really didn't need to - it showed you are mature and have class. After Kyle's "apology" when she ended up blaming you for everything under the sun, I would have cried and left to. That woman is the absolute WORSE! Just know you have many, many fans who are so glad that you joined the cast! I would have probably stopped watching if it were not for you. Give your boys lots of hugs and thanks for joining the show and being such an awesome person!

Super Hands
Super Hands

My wife makes me watch this but your beauty and class make it a wonderful experience. Beauty is on the inside and the outside, you have both. Hope the mean girls knock it off and appreciate you for who you are. And stay away from Cedric, he's a parasite.

BXGal
BXGal

Rock on mama, you are real and beautiful and those fake shallow woman can't handle the truth. "I will kill you if you talk about my kids" was a bit much, and yet I would have said the same thing. Who cares if the kid peed on the lawn they are boys, Kyle doesn't have one so what does she know. Hope you stay you and not become corrupted by the Hollywood plastics.

Southjerseymom
Southjerseymom

Brandi...stay strong! Don't let the mean girls get you down! I have a little boy...and who cares if he pee's on the lawn!! Actually, that's kind of how we potty trained him:) You are a beautiful woman! I used to think Kyle was a great woman too..., untill I saw her bully you!!

Rebecca
Rebecca

I'm a sagittarius and 'shoot from the hip' too and I'm proud of it. People are too sensitive and your drug comment was definitely warranted! They bullied you and it was sickening. You are very likeable! I would've stuck up for you!

Geminitwin
Geminitwin

I loved Kyle last season, but I have to admit, her and her sister were on you like a couple of wild jackals. Hang in there girl, you are doing great, and holding your own ground.

corkster34
corkster34

Brandi, You are a beautful, honest woman inside and out. Love your spirit and fire. keep up the good work, hopefully you will be a full=fledged cast member next year.

BrittanyFL
BrittanyFL

Kyle and Kim looked very childish during the spa episode. You are so strong to have stayed as long as you did!

Joanne Johnson
Joanne Johnson

Brandi, America knows who the means girls are! We love you!

Soph
Soph

brandi sending you mad love and support from switzerland! don't ever stand down to such bullies!!!

randiii
randiii

brandi, you are gorgeous!! inside & out. keep doin your thing girl!

Conscience
Conscience

Don't worry about the evil people around you Brandi.....there time is over! God bless you!

Joan
Joan

Brandy, I really like you. The way Kim & Kyle came at you. they are both mean. So happy you stuck up for yourself..

brinn s
brinn s

Brandi you are the best part of RHOBH, you are the reason I watch! Keep bringing the real!

nicoleI
nicoleI

Brandi, I wish i had a friend like you girl. Great blog. :)

DOT02122
DOT02122

Brandi, Love, love, love your balls ~ color me truthful.

Viewer nyc
Viewer nyc

love you Brandi! You got me obsessed with watching this season! You are refreshing and more real than anyone on the show!

Viewer nyc
Viewer nyc

love you Brandi! You got me obsessed with watching this season! You are refreshing and more real than anyone on the show!

Jay Jay
Jay Jay

You did not deserve that attack at spa day.

dollxo
dollxo

brandi you are MY FAVORITE.