I'm fond of Brandi. I personally enjoy her. She's funny. She's entertaining. I'm also fond of Kyle, she is very funny and witty, so it's hard. I mentioned in an earlier interview of a new blossoming friendship with Brandi and an established relationship with Kyle. It's awkward and it would be nice for the women to get along, especially after the year I've been through. I want peace in my life. I want all of my girlfriends to enjoy each other because life is too short. We should take every moment we have and enjoy it now. Put all this cattiness aside and have fun. I am optimistic that with time these girls will become great friends.
Brandi has gone through a hard time herself, and she's two years ahead of me. I'm still going through the process as Kelsey and I haven't settled our legal affairs yet. During this time in my life I just want to heal and move forward. I hope my girlfriends can understand I don't want to be thrown in the middle of any arguments. I'd rather have them resolve their arguments, and if I can help I would love to be a part of it. What's so complicated about all of this is that I like everybody. I like each and every one of them, so it's difficult to watch them argue. In that situation, what's the correct procedure? What do you do? Do you give advice when asked? Do you overstep boundaries and offer advice?
We will see down the road how things work out. At this point, I didn't know Brandi that well. I'd met her three times but we hadn't shared any alone time together. I do sympathize with her because what we're going through with our exes is very similar. I'm still living through it and healing. I've come a long way and I'm in a really good place right now. My life and focus are my children, and caring for my mother with her health issues. So when I'm with my friends I want to enjoy their company and not get wrapped up in the distractions. I just hope for some peace and harmony for all of us.
There are still so many twists and turns this season you wouldn't want to miss. So don't make any assumptions of what will happen next.