Camille Grammer

Camille shares why she was so nervous to speak at the luncheon and gives us an update on her mom's sitatuion.

on Oct 17, 20110

I already touched on Game Night in my last blog, but I do want to address a couple of comments Kim made that evening.

First: slut pig -- that was a riot. Hilarious, I loved that. We should have slut pig shirts made. Between that and "Big hands, Big feet, Big disappointment," we could have a whole line this season.

Now to Kim's other comment, when she mentioned me making her uncomfortable last year: I thought Kim's comment was a bit sarcastic, and even though she was joking I felt that it was a bit of a dig. It hurt for a second, but, after everything I’ve been through -- "sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me." I think when you’ve been through so much, the catty stuff doesn't seem as important. But at that second, it did bite a bit, because I've never gone after Kim. I've never said anything negative about her, and, if anything, I've always been fair to Kim. When Brandi cornered me and asked me a very uncomfortable question, I didn’t want to say anything about that because it’s not my business.

165 comments
Linda Hollingsworth
Linda Hollingsworth

Camille, you are lovely and so blessed to have your mom with you now. I lost my beautiful mom to breast cancer and miss her so much. Cherish every moment together. As for Kelsey and his mousey new wife.......ugh! What was he thinking? I was disgusted he was trying for primary cutstody, really? What a jerk he has turned out to be. I am no longer a fan. Your new boyfriend is adorable and I hope he treats you really good because of all the housewives you are the one who deserves it the most! I admire your gentle but strong spirit on the show. You are very kind and really different from the other housewives. You are a class act. I am so happy you have found someone you enjoy being with. Sending a hug your way! Best wishes, xo Linda

Rubbina
Rubbina

Hello,

Just wanted to say how much happier you are this season. You are one to admire. Good luck with everything and hope you find your perfect match.

All the best!

mommylawstudent
mommylawstudent

I LOVE YOU THIS SEASON. You and Taylor and Adrienne are my absolute faves. So happy to see you doing well and seeing you happy. You desrve the best!! Lisa Kyle and Kim (aka crazy girl) are horrid and need to seriously GROW UP. YOU rock Camillle!!

Houseman
Houseman

Just a short note to let you know i like you so much more this season than seoson 1. Keep up the good work (on your self)!!!

Stay close to your self..... it makes you verry sexy!

Ciao!

davesjen
davesjen

Camille! Where's your spark and fire?? I want the old Camille back - the one who wasn't kow-towing to Kim and Kyle! You know exactly how Brandi feels - how about a little support for a sister?? Being PC doesn't suit you........

Leisa
Leisa

You are so Funny...I love all your funny faces and looks. You have got a lot of Class too, I really like you, you are my Favorite too!

HoneyBee3
HoneyBee3

you're awesome! one of my favs = )

Mcgwire the yellow lab
Mcgwire the yellow lab

Bless your heart, Camile. Last year I thought you were on your way out; this year, you are the voice of reason and understanding. KUDOS to you!!

Real Watcher 1007
Real Watcher 1007

Camille - You're a much 'softer' person that you were last season - more likable. However, I believed you last season when you said the Kyle lied- Kyle is a toxic personality and a huge phony ! Kim is pathetic, and obviously needs a friend besides her sister. Please stay above the pettiness - stay classy.

hey me!
hey me!

Of everyone, this season and last, you seem the most genuine. You aren't malicious like some of the others or wishing ill will upon others. Hollywood is it's own microcosm, but outside of that, I think you are the only likable one of the bunch in the real world. Ok, and Adrienne.

PaQtii
PaQtii

Your my favorite housewife Camille........classy and fun and you seem to be a good friend........I think you handle yourself with class and style and yet you still enjoy life and have fun, keep it up girl! :)

ViewerogRHBH
ViewerogRHBH

Camille--You are SOOOO much funnier this season! Love it!

kay10
kay10

You were my favorite house wife last year and I am glad people are seeing you in that light. I think people were intimidated by all of your beautiful homes. Maybe Nick didn't help your situation. But the truth is coming out. Continue being you Camille.

Viewer from GA
Viewer from GA

Camille, after watching how badly Kyle behaved at Game Night, I think I owe you an apology. While you did say and do some things last season that were wrong, I now believe Kyle is capable of saying what you say she said to you in Las Vegas last year about "why would anyone be interested in you without Kelsey there...." Hopefully you have a great rest of the season. Liking you more and more.

DAVINA CELA
DAVINA CELA

Camille, hello I just want to let you know that I have been watching you since the beginning and you have become one of my favorites on the show, It is not your responability to keep things calm, their all big girls, I wish the best for you and your mother and children. By the way I will never watch anything that has your ex in it again. Keep smiling because I think you are going to shine!

lancaster813
lancaster813

Camille - OMG - Just LOVE the new you. Based on Kyle's behavior this year I TRULY BELIEVE YOU NOW, regarding what she told you about Kelsey and the Hawaii trip. She villified you last year. Now YOU are my absolute fave!!. Yes, you were a little obnoxious as Mrs. Grammar. Now you seem much more REAL and I just love you, Screw Kelsey - let him talk shit on any show he wants. His ego probably took a real blow when you made the "big hands...big disappointment" comment. Stay quiet and take the high road!! If you find yourself getting angry, sit back, take a deep breath.....and count your millions!!! lol

Princess Diva
Princess Diva

I hope your mom gets better. You weren't my favorite last year and the jury is still out for this year. You seem more laid back but, time will tell if the old Camille comes out again.

CatDog
CatDog

Maybe your life is the way it is because you don't respect God enough to capitalize His name?

Anna3223
Anna3223

Camille, you can have all the excuses and reasons in the world for not getting involved but you could have at the very least told everyone to stop. Kyle and Kim started it and were attacking Brandi from the start of the night. You didn't have to choose a side but at the very least you should have stepped in and asked them all to stop.

PammeK
PammeK

Watched the interview with Kelsey on CNN this week. It was harsh. How do you respond to his remarks?

Linda Illinois
Linda Illinois

Camille, good riddens to Kelsey. You seem to be a much nicer, decent, respectful person without him. No more pompous attitude please. Be the good person you are and make good choices when to insert yourself. Enjoy life in a positive spirit.

Pamela Dee
Pamela Dee

Good for you not getting yourself into the fray. Showed class.

esther194
esther194

Why does everyone think it was up to you to break up the fight! It was Dana's home!!! No one mentioned that Taylor was the one who jumped right in the middle to break it up when the 2 mean girls actually got up and physically advanced toward Brandi. I can't stand Brandi, but K&K were terrible that night!!

Marielena
Marielena

Camille,

I am truly sorry for the way Kelsey handled your private affairs. What an @$%^$#!!! Last season your were made out to be aweful by Kyle and you were right the entire time and this season proved it by the way Kyle is treating Brandi. Please don't go to the sidelines and see the same thing happen to Brandi that happened to you when you know it is not right. How old are you all? Kyle was a favorite to so many viewers until now. I can't believe she is a mother and acts this way. I wish you the best Camille and you have gone through all this with class and grace. Always stick up for what is right. Good Luck :)!!

Elpheba
Elpheba

Wow, can't believe these posts being mad at you for not defending Brandi. I think you were wise to stay out of it. You're not responsible for how Kyle and Kim act.

Mumzer
Mumzer

So disappointed that you didn't defend Brandi especially considering what you went through last season.

Claudia C
Claudia C

Camile, I also have to say you where quite out of it last year, but i did see something in you that made me have faith that you were a classy lady, and seeing you this season shows me and the viewers that it rang true. You are definately my favorite. Your funny and beautiful, I was wondering why your sexy man friend Nick hasn't been on the show yet?? Anyways, I pray your mom stays strong and regains her health again. Keep on being the best you. CC

Viewerguiltypleasure
Viewerguiltypleasure

Camille I really like you since season one because I do think you have a good heart! But I was disappointed that you watched the whole thing go down without stepping in to stop the BULLYING!! You were in that situation last year when Kyle was constantly attacking you clearly because she was jealous of you and probably still is! It was so obvious that Kyle, Kim and Dana started the whole thing! Brandi was just reacting especially when her son was attacked! You are a mother so I know you understand this because you would not tolerate anybody attacking your children and your parenting style. Stay grounded and get rid of toxic people in your life! You and your kids deserve a GREAT LIFE after what you've been through! God bless always...

ILHousewive
ILHousewive

Last season I couldn't imagine i'd ever say this, BUT this season...I REALLY like you!!LOL! i have a feeling this is the REAL you! And last season you were NOT yourself because of everything you were going through with your divorce. I hope im right, because watching you this season i see a very intelligent, caring sweet woman. Prayers and warm thoughts for your Mom and Family

deb
deb

Camille, just wondering whatever happened to handsome Nick? Was he more of a friend of Kelsey's or did he know what had been going on? You two had always seemed so close.

celeste5
celeste5

not a fan at all last year but this year u r being a class act...i am proud of you..you have matured and its obvious that u r sincere and know what it means to be a good friend

FanFare57
FanFare57

Seeing Kyle spew bile toward another HW, I'm surprised how laid back you are. You know what it's like to be her target. She seems to need somebody to hate and ridicule. Kim is completely wasted - in spirit and action. How you could sit there like a lump and watch those 2 evil sisters bring Brandi to tears, is beyond me. Maybe you lack empathy. Or maybe, you're afraid of being on the wicked sisters' bad side. At this point, do they even have a good side?

As for your luncheon speech. I'm sure everybody understood that you were nervous. It can happen to anyone; especially when talking about something that is close to your heart. I support your efforts for cancer research. It hasn't helped everyone, but it's very necessary in making strides for some of the victims. I thought your mother looked amazing. I wish her a speedy recovery and long life!!!!

RL
RL

Camille, I am enjoying seeing your different sides this season. You are funny and even self-deprecating which not everyone can be. While Kim shouldn't have been called a crystal meth user by Brandi, she was not a nice person to someone she just met. At what age does a woman stop behaving like a high schooler? Her behavior was childish and I believe it stemmed from her having her sister there whom she knew would back her up even though she doesn't do the sam for Kyle as we saw last year. That situation should have been handled so differently especially by the hostess. Anywho, I was touched by the scene with your mom and I pray for full recovery for her. God bless you and all your family. Stay beautiful and strong!

knuckels
knuckels

Well Camille I think your pretty cool this season. Keep up the good work sister & stay strong!!!!!!

soccer mamma
soccer mamma

Hi Camille, you are so likeable this season! It feels like we are getting to see the real you. I bet it's making your ex nervous :)

ViewerInAnaheimHills
ViewerInAnaheimHills

I wasn't a fan of you the first season Camille, but you are my favorite this season and I absolutely adore you! You have such grace in the way you now carry yourself, and I think getting rid of your dead weight, so to speak, has a lot to do with it. You are much more likable and better off without your ex. Anyway, I just wanted to tell you that you are my new fav!

Ps- I'll be praying for your mom!

Linda from PA
Linda from PA

Camille, My thoughts and prayers are with your mom, you and your family. Your mom is a beautiful woman. She appears to be so inside as well as outside. I liked you last season, and I feel that you were portrayed in a bad light. This season, your true self seems to be coming out. I love your class and style. I am sure you went through a lot from Kelsey, but you seem to have come through it a more confident, secure and happy person. I love watching you this season even more.

pattyn
pattyn

Camille, I liked you on part 1 of the Game Night, but on part 2, I feel like you sided with Kim and Kyle and you shouldn't have they behaved terribly -- way worse than Brandi. And calling someone a slut pig is NOT funny.

perez0973
perez0973

wow camille, big change in you. i love it!

Rebecca Howell
Rebecca Howell

I think the real Camille is great. Last season I think she was defensive and feeling nervous about her life and marriage. I love the new Camille. She is really so much more real and lovable.

Long island Mom
Long island Mom

I think you are a classy lady and I just want to say that I can see where you get your good looks! Your Mom is Gorgeous!!!!!!

HWViewer
HWViewer

Camille - You did a great job at the charity event for cancer. Your mom seems to be a lovely lady, that is encouraging you to choose what you like - as in the choice of sunglasses. I wondered if maybe you are starting to regain some self confidence that you lost while with your ex - keep up the good work! So sorry to hear what your mom has gone through with ovarian cancer and now with the bladder. I recently lost 2 wonderful friends this past summer to ovarian cancer complications - they had both been in remission for quite a while before the cancer started attacking other organs. Your journey along side your mom is not an easy one but you are both so graceful! Hope the fighting calms down some - best to not get involved as you seem to be trying to do! Kim has some serious dependency issues and a lot to recover from and we can never really know why they clash so much as sisters but they both seem to be covering up some unhappy history together. Brandi is no cripple and surprised how many people think that gives her the right to play the 'poor me' role. A 4 year old should know, by proper parenting or supervision, not to pee when a guest in public view - she has a lot to learn in that area and not sure where she expects him to learn manners (for any status) if not from her...maybe she needs to hire a nanny to go after him while she has a cast and stay off the high heels! I really don't see her blending with the rest of the group at all and I am not wealthy, a prude, famous, or associate with them. She's just seems to be, along with Dana, out of place and 'odd' (to put it mildly). Best wishes to you in your future and with the show - I still enjoy watching the group from last year and look for some attitude changes fairly soon...after all Lisa and Adrienne are grounded and you're right behind them! :-)

ARegularFan
ARegularFan

I am so glad Kyle corrected Kim for making that comment. Did you see Kim's face, though? It's so obvious why Kyle needs to mother Kim. Loving you this season, Camille. I absolutely hated you last season. Your namedropping and showing off was almost (almost) as bad as Dana, but you're so wonderful and tactful now. It must have been the marriage that brought out the worst in you. Hope we get to see your bf this season.

Sending Prayers
Sending Prayers

I have been fundraising for breast cancer ever since my friend's mom was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer in 1998. Each year we raise money walk for those women in our lives impacted by cancer and each year our list of names grows. I am happy to say that my friend's mom is still with us and doing great. I just wanted to say thank you for bringing awareness to early detection and for fundraising for such an important cause. I wish your mom all the best and good health for a long time to come. We will be keeping you both in our thoughts and prayers.

imb4me
imb4me

There is nothing hilarious about Kim calling Brandi a "slut pig"....absolutely nothing, period, the end.

Viewer56
Viewer56

I thought Camille did defend Brandi by stepping in and stopping the fighting the first time. She did it despite the fact she gave Brandi some good advise that was ignored. I'm sure that was awkward enough. This wasn't her home or her guests so the responsibility shouldn't fall on her shoulders.

Viewer1969
Viewer1969

Camille, you are so classy and a role model to everyone woman who finds herself surrounded in drama. You stay neutral without offending anyone! I don't agree with previous posters who felt you should have defended Brandi. She is clearly capable of speaking up for herself. You spoke the truth about what Brandi said! Furthermore, Brandi is new to this group. Jumping to defend someone that you don't really know would have been premature and immature.

I hope your mom gets well!

God bless you and your family.

p.s. please make BIG HANDS, BIG FEET, BIG DISAPPOINTMENT! into a t-shirt. That was priceless!!