Paul's Night Of Beauty. . .I had been asking Paul about my "love handles" for quite some time. I'm not willing to be put under to get rid of them because that scares me, so this seemed like the perfect alternative -- as it was non-invasive. For the record, my hand was strategically placed (not going to lie) so the cameras and Paul could not see exactly what it looked like. In person they are far worse. Promise. My husband keeps telling me he likes them and I am not allowed to touch them. I am very grateful that I have a husband that doesn't find looking too thin attractive. Phew! I have to say, I can't give a real assessment of how it worked because I was too busy to keep going back. I am going to give it another shot though.
You saw Lisa, Adrienne, and me in the waiting room discussing Taylor and Russell. I didn't know why Lisa was making a point to say Camille wasn't friends with Taylor. I knew that wasn't true and was trying to figure out why she said that. All of us are friends. Some of us closer than others, but we are all friends with each other.
I am happy they showed Kim discussing with Paul the medication's she has been taking. I think that clears things up for some people. I didn't know exactly what she was taking, but I knew that the doctors had put her on something and I saw a difference in here -- and not always for the best. That is why I got so upset with Brandi for making that comment about Kim and crystal meth. I knew because she said that on camera millions of people would see that. I know from experience, once something is said on camera, true or false, it follows you forever. My sister Kim has struggled enough with her issues. I didn't want that to set her back. She is a strong girl but fragile at the same time. I told Kim after her visit with Paul that she had to talk to her doctor's and get that sorted out. Paul didn't feel she was on the right medication for her anxiety and didn't think it was the right combination of meds.
I think kyle has every right to worry about her sister, that's what family members are for. and I have to say Kim's taste in men! yak, this dude, Ken is so unattractive and seems to be high on something too and kim wouldn't go with Lisa's friend tht good looking man. she seems to have a very low self esteem and doesn't see herself as the very attractive woman she is and she could definitely do sooooooooooo much better that this Ken Oh God anybody could, this Ken should not be permitted to reproduce.
Had to reply to the top comment about your hair. I think if you want to keep your hair that long, put some long layers in to give it some movement. Reminds me of the long straight thick 70's hair. Give yourself an update! Kim has nice layers in her hair maybe you should try her stylist. =)
Kyle, I love your hair! and on a serious note, i intently watched the meeting between you and your sister kim. I can see the concerns on both sides of this. I hope and wish nothing but the best for your private issues. Trina
Kim is happy with Ken. She's not hiding him from everyone. Just you. You are a very harsh critic.
You want your sister to be happy but not with some guy who is very controlling. That's your job.
I fully understand your relationship with Kim. I come from a family of 6- 3 girls of which I am the youngest girl. I have been called on too many times to count, to clean up their mistakes and to listen to their 'never' ending drama. I too love my sisters dearly but if I, in any way can help prevent the next round of events, I will. Their drama is draining for me and my family and there are moments I am not very nice about their choices.
You are my absolute favorite, stay strong!
Love you Kyle!!! I think the dynamic between you and Lisa has changed like others are mentioning but just watching the epidsodes so far there is something different about her. She seems a little bit shady to me this season. I'm not sure what is going on with her and it appears something is going on with the two of you. Whatever it is I'm sure there is a good reason for it because you seem to have a good head on your shoulders and seem to be a genuine person. You tell it like it is and you don't act fake to please people. If you like them you do if you don't then you don't but you keep it classy and remain cordial in public.
last show it seens like you were jealous about the dancers that you have to steal the show....it pretty dumb and embarrasing.
Kyle, you are the most down to earth of all the girls...and like you say, you are the most lucky, even if you aren't the richest....you are the richest in love. I really notice how much you and your husband love each other, it is so obvious. At the seance he was sitting with you holding your hand, and you were actually breathing in his smell....a sure sign of a woman in love! What a great family you have, wonderful friends, wonderful life. Enjoy and appreciate every moment!
So far , this season has not been flattering of you. Lisa had your back all last season as well as the reunion. I wonder if she now questions why.
What happened to the Kyle that I adored last season? I miss that witty, classy beautiful woman. Please bring her back!
Love The Housewives of Beverly Hills. It's everyday that families all over the world deal with the ups and downs of life. Everybody has skeletons in their closet, I don't care who you are. That's what fiends and families are for to be there to support each other.
My God, Kyle...what have you become! You are so mean & rude... I have no idea what Mauricio sees in you!
kyle, SMH! yes you want what's best for Kim but she needs to learn for herself . Let her go. You can't let your sister consume your life. you have a gorgeous family and theres so much you can do that is good for others .
Kyle, I too have been coping with anxiety and depression my whole life. Finding the proper medication combination to level myself out was a struggle I thought would never end. My family being there to support me and understand yet not excuse my erratic behavior during those times was absolutely key. It's such a beautiful thing to see the way you and Kim are working on strengthening your relationship again because she absolutely needs you. Many people have been saying since RHOBH premiered that I am like a gay guy version of Kim, so watching you ladies' stories unfold has been both entertaining and inspirational for me. Thank you for being real because, as you know, there aren't very many "real" people on reality TV these days. PS- If you could continue to give that nightmare Brandi hell, that would be AWESOME!!!!!
Why do people tell you what to do? I know you are on TV but I think you and Kim know each other better than we do.
Kyle - Don't you think being on RHBH is adding to Kim's anxiety? Dump the show and she can dump her meds.
I was shocked about you comments regarding Lisa and behind her back. Lisa speaks the truth and you want to be careful you don't lose a friend. We all know now what Taylors marriage was really like so.Who's the bunny.
It was a shocker to me when Taylor told you at your house that Lisa was going around saying Taylor has no friends...it looked to me like you and Taylor are saying things to each other off the camera....I believe you and Taylor are planning what to say on camera...it just looks that way to me.
I think Kim might be trying to pull back from you. You say Kim was isolating. Is she just avoiding you? You've said as bad a things to Kim as Brandy has. At least with Brandy, we saw the peculiar behavior. When you did it, the country was shocked. If any comment is having a lasting effect, it is your comments at the end of last season. And remember, Kim hadn't done anything wrong. Your BFF Taylor was doing what she was doing because you told her about your sister's drinking problem - and Taylor pounced. Then you know Kim has high anxiety, so what do you do? You let a group of people confront her. You are a mess.
Nothing to say to Kyle, everyone has expressed all there is to say, but to some of the posters...PLEASE learn how to use YOUR, YOU'RE, THERE, THEIR AND THEY'RE.
examples: You're right, not (your right), they are ready or they're ready, not there ready. You're in love with, not your in love with, and so on.
When reading these post, it obvious that most of these people are intelligent and know how to express themselves. It has been studied that too many people never grasped the difference in how to use these most simple words. If in doubt, you can go to a website and look up the proper use of each.
Bravo, please take a moment and help these very sharp, intelligent posters. I love to read their perspectives and opinions, but have difficulty when they use these words inappropriately.
maybe she missed those events because she was really hanging out with that guy or something. If he makes her so happy though, then why does she need anti-depressants? Topamax is a bad, bad drug to mix with anything, hope she is off that one, in particular. Brittany Murphy and Anna Nicole Smith took those with their other pills, Kyle. Also, ignore the people bible thumping about your seance. :)
I really do not understand how you've consistently put Lisa under the bus this season, I hope that you stand up for her as the season goes on. Least season you let Taylor pick on your sister, and now she's driving a wedge between you and Lisa. Lisa has always been kind, just because she says what is on her mind doesn't mean she "prays on the weak." I hope that after watching this, you apologized to your so called "friend"
Kyle, I have a sister too and regardless of where we live or what our situation is I will always worry about her. Even when things are great I always pray they will always remain great for her. Seeing the problems that Kim has been having I would totally act the way you have acted. It doesn't matter how old she is or who is younger or older. It's your sister, you love her, and you worry about her. I also know my sister would do the same for me and I am the older one. We just want to make sure we are both healthy and happy and safe.
I have never commented on any of these blogs before but after seeing the most recent episode I felt the need to. Kyle, I understand you wanting to make sure your sister is okay and doing well but the way you go about it doesnt seem quite right. Instead of just asking her how she is doing and then listening to her, you criticize everything she does. I completely understand her reasoning for not wanting to tell you about Ken sooner. She knew how you would react. The way we all saw you react on the show is exactly what she was avoiding. Its like you never want to give her a chance to show you that she is happy because you always have something negative to say. I've had previous relationships that I didnt tell my family about for a while because I wanted to make sure that it was something that I felt was right. Its not that there was anything wrong with the people I was dating, or that there is anything wrong with Ken, some people just need time to themselves to make sure that it is a serious thing before bringing their family into the situation. I hope you and Kim are able to work everything out because you all are sisters and I know if anything ever happened between me and my sister I wouldnt know how to deal with it.
Kyle, what is most clear is that you love your sister. None of us are perfect and I think it's honorable how much you care for her. Yes, you are hard on her sometimes but we have all been that way with those we love. I miss my two sisters immensely and wish I did not move out of state. They harass me all the time to come home and it makes me fall wanted :D
i adore all of you ladies. best to you all. i do think that an apology to lisa should be made. i don't think that you meant to say anything harsh about lisa but got caught up in trying to make taylor feel better. i hope that you can patch things up with lisa. RHOBH is my favorite of all the shows and i hope it runs for a very long time. peace and love to you all.
Kyle, For someone like you who has a drop dead beautiful husband and children you always seem to get into everyone elses business. Let your sister kim be who she is and live where she wants and date whoever she wants and stop trying to mother her!! You have really changed alot since the start of the first season to where we are now in the show. Sometimes you seem so mean and fake. And your so beautiful and for sure not fat so why not just relax and enjoy the amazing life you have. Also just a hint...Taylor had issues last year and still has them this year.You should stay out of it!! Take the classy high road like Adrienne always does. I have a feeling by the end of this season Taylor and Brandi will be gone!! Lets hope so anyways...But I do still enjoy you on the show. Just be nice and not so judgeing of everyone. Your little Portia is so adorable when I see her face on the TV it is worth a million dollars. I only wish my little girl was still that age. Have a wonderful holiday season!!
i kinda agree as a personal journey i went through lots of medications till they found the right fit for me. i hope you contuie to support your sister in this time of need mentally as well as on the medication sometimes certian medications can over medicate where feelings no longer seem important from others i would have to say try to attend some of her dr appointments if your allowed. other than that i think you been doing a good job trying to bear it together and understand it as a bystander can. i know without the support of my family i would of done allot worse on my own. keep helping even when you feel its not appercieated and all love to you and your sister. hopefully the meds will be sorted soon
Why would you say such a nasty thing about Lisa. Who has ALWAYS had your back. I think you are jealous of her and are tearing her down. She has always been a good friend to you and you should return the favor. I actually don't think you deserve a great friend like her.
Kyle, Kyle, support your sister and just try not to tell her who to love. She 's grown and can take care of herself. I believe her doctors will help her find the right meds. Ive seen someone on anxiety meds, so it takes awhile. She doesnt need zanax though because it is addictive! tell her this hon. You're a good sis to her. I also can tell you that she was afraid to tell ya'll about her boyfriend because she feels ya'll are judgemental and dont think anyone is good enough for her. She does love him I can tell and see it in her eyes. Just be there for her when she wants you to be like the person above said. Shes right. Love to you all!
I was so hoping that when Kim said she met a guy by the mailbox it would be the mailman! I would be worried too.
Kyle, I think it's funny how you were great friends with Lisa and she always went to bat for you whenever anyone said something rude about you... Lisa always had your back....to bad I can't say the same thing about you.I honestly cannot believe some of the things you have said about her this year...the only one that seems to have Lisa's back is Brandi ....I hope they become good friends ...at least she knows how to be a friend.
I like many viewers, used to like you. That's all changed now, naturally, after seeing who you really are. Lisa has her catty moments, but why did you lie to her face about the whole Taylor situation? That's not how a true friend behaves. Also, your attitude towards Kim at Paul's practice was totally out of line. Who are YOU to boss around a mid-forty year old woman? Not to mention interrupt the conversation between her and Paul in order to do so. You are extremely condescending and know-it-all when in reality you don't seem to know too much.
Bravo please post this!
kateedidwhat-I thought the same thing about the psychic! Shouldn't these spirits be living other lives (according to her beliefs in reincarnation)? Why are they hanging around? A lot of addicts do turn to religion when recovering. Seances are against Christianity. Don't know if that was just an excuse for Kim but it is a valid point. Kim may be avoiding a lot of the events w/the ladies b/c they could be times where she gets anxious, weakens and gives into temptation. Something was very off about her on Game Night and I don't think it was just her prescriptions. I've been there, I know. She's in a tough fight. If she needs time outs until she's ready, don't talk about it behind her back w/the other ladies. In fact the whole show may be too much for her in this fragile state. I wish she could talk openly about how she's coping and trying to recover. It would be so helpful to a lot of people. My guess is that she isn't ready b/c she's falling off the wagon. Addicts will lie about that to family, friends and even doctors! So the fact that she told Paul she's abstaining from alcohol, doesn't mean she truly is. She's so different in her house and around Ken than when she is with you and the other ladies. I have a very judgemental sister who is always disapproving of me. I've gotten to the point where I have little contact w/her. You look and act very much like her. Soften a little Kyle...maybe a lot of these negative comments will have a humbling effect. Check yourself girl!
I have to admit I don't care for Ken too much either. And I agree, Kim may be lonely. But you were the one who was encouraging her to go out and find someone and stop hanging on to her children to fill her void, remember? So she did.
I don't want to be mean. Obviously, I'm just a viewer and don't know you. But it seems like you have really turned your back on Lisa and your friendship with her.
Last season, you and Lisa were my favorites. This season, I'm sorry to say, but I only really like Lisa (and Adrienne). I am sad that you have seemed different this season. I'm disappointed. I hope things starting turning around in this new season. I want the old Kyle back!
But I do love your family, and have to say you are absolutely gorgeous.
You have to stop believing that you are the center of the universe and therefore entitled to tell your sister what to do at every turn. You are so judgmental towards other women and a wishy washy friend to people that have been loyal to you. So sad to watch this side of you evolve on TV.
Hi Kyle, I just LOVE you. Don't pay attention to all these haters.....I think you are often misunderstood. You're strong and have strong opinions, I think that's a great quality. And for complete strangers to judge your relationship with your sister is bananas....LOVE you!!!
I cannot believe the snide comments you have been making about Lisa this season...this is not how friends treat one another.
I lost my mom this past March to cancer. It was fast and furious and it left me and my family at a complete loss. The seance gave me a little hope. Thank you for doing that on TV.
I'm very concerned about your sister's use of Topamax! That explains her comment about not sleeping. I was given Topamax to help prevent recurring headaches. The doctor told me that insomnia was a side effect and she wasn't kidding! Needless to say, I stopped taking them after less than one month. I was always tired, my mind was foggy, and some really bizarre thoughts were popping into my head. Maybe it works for some people, but I figured I'd rather take OTC things when the headaches hit! Thank goodness for Paul showing concern. Sometimes it takes a neutral 3rd party to get to the bottom of things.
I think that Kim has the right to be with whomever she picks. I think as her sister you have the right to be concerned but not overbearing. Let her be happy and make her own mistakes. I hope she sees her doc and gets the meds under control. Medication has so many side effects and she seems to be getting them. If she can be happy with her new guy then so be it. She may even not need meds if she finds happiness...real happiness with him. All you can do is support her, get to know her love, and be there for any mishaps. You have a great marriage, but dont compare your life to hers.
I am commenting AGAIN and hoping you have the guts to post it. Get your sister help, if she refuses stage an intervention, that girl is in dire need of help and its irresponsible for Bravo and her family (that you would be YOU) to continue to encourage her to air her mess on national TV. That said, you yourself are a hot mess.......you need some counseling. You have this very strange but incessant desire for constant attention..it can never be about anyone but you. Whats going on? Is there something going on to cause you to act this way? At times its hard to believe this is the same Kyle I liked so much last season. You are at times truly hard to watch like when you acted like a circus performer at Pandoras party...that was like a jaw dropping moment of embarrasment for you.
Don't you think if Lisa was going to spread gossip about Taylor what she would be saying would be the truth? Why don't you defend Lisa? What Taylor is accusing Lisa of is so not Lisa. Even the viewers can see that.