Kyle Richards

Kyle discusses the dramatic turn the White Party took.

on Dec 19, 20110

The last thing I needed on top of my stress was Kim and Brandi fighting. In watching the episode, I saw that it was even worse than I thought. I had only caught tidbits, as I was consumed with the Taylor and Russell issue. I really was surprised to see Kim was that rude to Brandi. She honestly is a kind person. My sister has had a difficult year, and although I cannot speak for her nor do I condone her behavior, I cannot help but think that has something to do with it.

When Taylor and Russell were coming up the walkway, all smiles with a gift in hand, I was overcome with emotion. I could barely speak. Everyone felt so strongly about the situation. Emotions were running high. When I ran after them in the car, I felt so sad looking at both of them, ready to go home. Taylor and Russell both said he knew exactly what Camille had said. I was confused. Either A: Taylor told him a different story because she was scared, B: what she had told us in the past WASN'T true and he really wanted to sue for slander, or C: it was true but he was protecting himself because it was said ON camera. . .who knows what the answer was. . .my heart breaks watching these episodes with Russell. So much sadness. This has been a rough year in so many ways.

Next week, more of the White Party.

Until then. . .
xo , Kyle.

436 comments
Ms. Meow
Ms. Meow

Kyle, you are so sweet and so beautiful! Please let go of Kim and her troubled world so you can relax. You take it all so hard and no one can ask for a better sister than you however it's time for tough love. She's been such a source of unhappiness & disappointment for you. I hate to see this when she pulls these dramatic stunts on you. Let her go and get the desperate help she needs!

Viewer Linda Dion
Viewer Linda Dion

Kyle, I come from a family of alcoholics. I highly recommend that you try to get to an Al-Anon meeting. It's a group started by the wife of one of the founders of AA. It is for family members to help them deal with the dysfunction of dealing with and living with an alcoholic. It took me a little over a year of almost daily meetings to finally get to the space where I realize that alcoholism is a disease. I have been able to advise my daughter that she may also have an addictive personality to help her avoid a life of alcoholism. I was very involved in volunteering in the organization and have heard that in Hollywood and other places where there are high profile people, that there are closed meetings that you can attend only if you are a celebrity or famous person. I hope you give it a try and attend at least a couple of meetings to see if it's right for you. Best wishes and thanks for showing America that famous people are also family people.

KellyAnnD82
KellyAnnD82

I knew it! I knew he was a mean creepy stalker! but no suprise there because Kim would attract someone at the same level as how she feels about herself! its very obvious by how she treats others that she has major insecurities. Kyle, kick Ken's ass, nah, just kiddin. let Kim make her own mistakes. you cant deprive her of her pain. nobody learns thier lessons if they're always being saved.

GKSRHOBH
GKSRHOBH

I'm dying dying dying to know what eyeshadow you were wearing at the white party!! Gorgeous! Please share!

ViewerAna
ViewerAna

Time for Kyle to take care of her family and let Kim be Kim! If she makes mistakes, they're her mistakes, she'll have to learn from them. OOOOH I don't care much for Ken, but its his looks I guess more than anything, seems Kim is trying very hard to be happy and lead a normal life. Stop with the constant crying, you act more like a teenager!! your husband's birthday was ruined by YOU nagging Kim!!! that issue should have been between you and Kim at another time.

Mcdotty
Mcdotty

Hi Kyle :) My comment is not associated with this episode - but an observation of this season. I think you are GREAT! I respect your honesty and intergrity. No, you are not perfect, nor do you claim to be. You are REAL!

It is natural for people to get defensive/argumentative in certain situations. Realistically we should all take a deep breath when we are faced with those awkward situations, but we don't (Some do, like Adrienne (woot woot), but not most). Not everyone 'owns' up to their behavior and apologizes for it. You do, ALWAYS , and that is an admirable quality.

I understand your emotion towards your sister, and the need to take responsibility for her actions, and I can imagine the uncomftorable feeling you get when she says/does things that you don't agree with. I 'get' your sense of humor and your sarcasim. I relate with you on a lot of things. Too bad I don't live in Beverly Hills , I think we would get along amazingly! I love your relationship with your husband and your daughters - it is something people strive for.

You are very blessed and I can see that you appreciate all that you have. Although you may be wrong in the moment, you always acknowledge it later, and never hesitate to take the blame for your actions. Now, the task for us all, is to figure out to breathe before we react (Again, Adrienne, help us out?!?!) :)

MaryP1197
MaryP1197

Kyle, Release Kim. She knows you'll always be there so maybe you are enabling her?

11prudence
11prudence

Kyle- After watching the Hawaii show - your sister seems to be quite disrespectful to everyone and especially you and Mauricio. Cut her loose until she cleans up her act! Your part is that you keep getting involved with her when you continues to upset you. You could help your sister by letting her know you'll help her get some help. She's been slurring since last season and she's making a complete fool of herself. You mentioned the elephant in the room.....

Renee Mael
Renee Mael

I think that Kim needs to be addressed at every moment. The girl needs help and is a train wreck. That's what happens with addicts is everyone places it under the rug and is so afraid of family drama. I think Kyle needs to focus on her family and her marriage. Kim needs some serious help.......otherwise everyone will be reading her obituary. THE GIRL NEEDS HELP! Call her out at every moment.

Buddysgirl
Buddysgirl

Kyle, I just watched the Hawaii episode and would like to say that I understand your frusration with Kim and now Ken. They are obviously both intoxicated. However, your constant fighting with her on camera and in front of your friends appears to be for ratings! If you truly cared about your sister you would not make it public. You were entitled to be upset with her late arrival and missing the boat ride and making everyone wait. I myself would have been livid. But your behavior in front of everyone was wrong! It is neither the time or place. You should not be bring it up in front of everyone! I know we do not see what you have been thru behind the scenes so we can only judge what we see. You are starting to look like the mean girl! You disguise your digs with humor but a dig is still a dig. You drag everyone into your family issues but then defend when anyone gets involved with Kim. You can't pit them against her then defend her! Your husband is now starting in on her on camera. At least Adrienne and her husband try and be more respectful in discussing your sister. Please get the producers to get her off the show until she is more stable and gets help. Why would you want her to act this way and bring attention to it on camera if you truly cared!

JWil
JWil

I have to agree with alot of the other posts here. I love Kyle and Mauricio but I think they were both way out of line addressing Kim's behavior in front of guests. It's totally understandable that Kyle has a problem with how Kim is acting but the Hawaii trip was Mauricio and friends to celebrate his birthday. Bringing up Kim's issues at the dinner table was not only inappropriate but what a drag it must have been for the guests. They were there for an enjoyable getaway. There's a time and a place for everything and that just was not the place for family drama. Kyle's behavior was just as selfish as Kim's.

Amer
Amer

Kyle, you seriously should have let things go with Kim until another place and time!!! You made your husbands birthday all about Kim and just refused to let Kim and her boyfriend have any fun with you guys at all. It's true that Kim has serious issues and I think her boyfriend is up to no good, but you harp on things and try to embarass Kim in front of everyone, so she then just shuts down and everyone winds up hurt and sad!! All you are doing is pushing her further into the arms of her creepy boyfriend, because she will never feel she can come to you, knowing you will just rub her nose into the fact that you were right about Ken. Take heed, before it is too late, and just love her and be there WHEN SHE WANTS YOU TO BE!!!!!

Viewer
Viewer

Oh Kyle I can't stand to read all those people who want to bash you.... Really I think you go out of your way for someone who doesn't have enought respect for themselves let alone for you. Please know that there are people who would give their right arm for a great sister like you. I don't care who Kim was when she was little because thats not her now. You can't continue to live in the what was... I have dealt with addition in my own family and know how hard it is to cut the ties. Best wishes to you are your family

limelight
limelight

No one is asking you to be responsible for you sister's actions. Stop making her your scapegoat or an excuse for a hectic, over dramatic life. Let her be responsible for her own actions. You and Mauricio actions were ridiculous at the dinner table. You just don't do that with family in front of the company of others. She's your sister, not your daughter. Get over it.

Whatever problem your sister has she cannot get healthy with you in her life always putting pressure on her to be someone she is not. I hope she cuts her cords with you, get healthy, and surround herself with people that really care about her... You act like a high schooler working hard for a popularity trophy with your circle of friends.

gvnn688
gvnn688

Kim's behavior was terrible but to call your sister out and humiliate her in that manner is equally appalling.

Spikie
Spikie

Kyle, I am in very much respect of you this season. I get that you are who you are; motherly, caring, overly concerned, etc.. but I believe that to be because of the Love you have for your sister. Whatever happened with you and your family, and the house, and whatever?... That is the past. Everyone needs to move-on and heal. Go to therapy if you both need to, fight it out there, so-to-speak. But do not waste any more of the both of yours precious, GOD given blessings of life, love, and family, over stupid stuff. I truely believe that Kim, is in an abusive relationship, and it will end up no good. All he wants to do is, " CONTROL" Kim, and keep her in line. And the way one does that.... Give her what she wants, just a little anyway, and then, "TAKE" what you really want from her. And this is so true, in all abusive relationships. Do not give up on your sister, keep loving her, being there for her, and encouraging her in all good and positive things, and ways, and choices she make, that are. Reminding her as well, she can and is fully capable of living and having a great life, as ..."KIM" I know, you always have been doing this, just know, never give up. She does love you, she is just lonely, and in this mood, has choosen badly. She needs your support, and all her friends as well. If indeed they are, her friends.? Be her friend, her sister, her support, and when, as you have, her shoulder to cry on. And remember, she is there for you. But you need to let her know, because maybe, for her, she thinks you do not need her. Let her, into your life, as you have, and do, your friends. Love each other, be good, be kind, and take care of one another. Aloha.

lindy1
lindy1

Kyle, are you the only sibling willing to still put up with Kim? You had a houseful of people, and you should have stopped Kim from making an ass out of herself with Brandi. Hope it was a good party because we didn't get to see much of it! I also agree that Camille should have been the one to stay home.

mel@redondo
mel@redondo

Dear Kyle, I am a grandmother, & I savor every moment with my children & grandchildren in life. I can tell that you savor the sweet moments with your darling children as well. You are a great Mother. I really wish you would blog soon. I know you do give this show 110% of your energy & in efforts to do your best for the crew & to get this job done. Thank ou for sharing your life with all of us viewers. I & most of the viewers don't know what you go through in your life, but it is obvious to me that you love your sister. I don't want to spend more than a second on my opinion, because most of what I want to say is thank you for a great show. At the dinners Kim wasn't fighting fair with her cell phone comment, I know you will never give up on your sister but,but, please consider seeking a therapist when it comes to how to treat Kim. You may be against it if you don't have any severe problems, but the time I have spent with a therapist have been for minor things & I enjoyed every minute of it. It's kind of like a spa, everyone could use another's advise every now & then, especially one trained for it. I feel it is a luxury & a calming thing to do. Anyway, you're great & I wish you all of the best! xx

Youngersister
Youngersister

All I can say is that you should have paid less attention to your sister and more attention to the guests that came to have a good time. And get over bashing how Brandi dresses! Good grief! You gals have smoking bodies and have no reason to slam her.

That last dinner in Hawaii was so uncomfortable to watch so I can't imagine how the guests felt.

Oklahoma Viewer
Oklahoma Viewer

I felt for you and your husband. My own husband was watching and said what is up with those two (Ken and Kim) He felt they were just along for the ride and not the event. It is tough because you apparently have had a Mauricio card to pull on Kim to stop, obey or behave and now Kim is laying out a Ken card and you are rebelling deluxe with "Ken is not family". We all need to understand boyfriends are partners and in live in situations understood as family but not by marriage. This is an imposition on families everywhere everyday!

BH fan
BH fan

Kyle--You and Lisa are my favorite housewives. I have a crazy sister too and I understand how difficult and frustrating it must be to have to make excuses for Kim all of the time. Team Kyle!

Cindy B
Cindy B

This is about the Hawaii trip, not the white party. You get in Kim's business way too much. She is a grown woman (older than you, If I'm not mistaken) and can do whatever she pleases, even if that means making mistakes. You are very judgmental and mean and rude at times. Leave your sister alone. What she does is really none of your business, especially when it comes to her relationships. If she's happy with Ken, that should be all that matters to you...IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. I would have been furious with you if I were on that trip and had to sit through what would have been 2 very nice dinners if you had not ruined them by picking on your sister. If you are truly concerned about your sister, you should discuss this in private with her, not in front of her boy friend and all of your other friends. If I were Kim, I would have been completely humiliated and embarrassed. Hopefully, though, most people will recognize that the person who should really be embarrassed is YOU, not Kim. I understand that she is late a lot, etc., but you and your husband (whom I normally like) would just not let it go about them missing their flight. I didn't notice it having an effect on your fun, so why did you have to harp on and on about it? I can understand that everyone would be annoyed about having to wait a half hour on the catamaran for them but you should just have left without them. Take Lisa's advice...she and Adrienne seem to be the only women on this show with any common sense and/or class.

Hol
Hol

Kyle, your sister has some serious problems that YOU cannot fix. You've gotta let her hit bottom and stop feeling "bad" for her, Lisa is SOOOOO RIGHT. When Kim made the comment, "telling the truth, what's that all about" she really doesn't get that she lies ALL THE TIME. Your heart is in the right place, and remember even if you just step aside doesn't mean you don't love your sister. Unfortunately, this Ken guy is also an enabler, hello... why do you think she picked someone like that? He buys into her BS !!! Maybe Kim should sit down alone and watch herself on TV, bet she wouldn't like what she sees..

housewifeofillinois
housewifeofillinois

I am experiencing some of the same emotions as Kyle with my own family. My brother had a baby and it is clearly not fathered by him because of the race of the baby. She is adorable and he has been an outstanding father to her, but when I finally confronted him and his wife about it in a very understanding and accepting way, he exploded on me and refuses to clarify whether he knows the baby is not biologically his or not. It puts everyone around them in a tough position. I am very honest and cannot go along and pretend like I am not aware that something is obviously off. Kim does the same thing with Kyle, if Kim would just be honest, instead of skirting around the truth, everyone's lives would be better.

FanFare57
FanFare57

After watching the Hawaiian confrontation, it isn't simple to pick a side. Kim definitely is childlike and irresponsible (all of the time). Her choice of soul mate is questionable since he is a homely, paranoid windbag. That said, when you continually and publicly confronted her about her behavior; it didn't help anything. Maybe, you could have taken her aside and spoken to her privately with your grievances. You left her no way out except to abruptly leave the scene. Perhaps you want to protect her from herself. However, you're also smothering her in the process. Brandi made sense when she declared that Kim will ask for help when she wants it - not before. Try to live your own wonderful life and not take over Kim's sad one...

Johns Mom
Johns Mom

Let it Go Let it Go Let it Go, Kyle, the Hawaii trip was not a disaster because Kim missed the plane or was late. It was ruined for everyone that you scolded and questioned Kim and Ken at no end...that was rediculous Kyle. Let it Go! You always just beat a dead horse. I see this as a pattern constantly with you. Yes, Kim was wrong and should have apologized and or just never gone to Hawaii to begin with, but there is a time and place to have these conversations. Not at a dinner party in which everyone is expecting to enjoy themselves and have put out allot of money to have a vacation. I wish you well, but you have some growing up to do also. Kim needs and intervention and I pray she gets help..

Wendy F
Wendy F

Dear Kyle,

None of us REALLY know you or your family, but from what has been shown of your relationships with people, it is apparent to me that you are an extremely strong, tough, caring, loyal and passionate woman. Especially when it comes to your family. I have a sister that I am very close to and I completely understand that all of your concern with Kim's life comes from a place of deep love and a sister bond that goes much deeper than any outsider can even begin to imagine. Since the show was taped months ago, things are probably much different in your lives presently. For one, I am very happy to hear that Kim has entered rehab and I pray that she will be able to find the strength to love herself and believe that she deserves better than she has chosen. (I have to add that I have "loved" her since I was a little girl and watched the "Escape to Witch Mountain movies, so in an odd way, I feel a little invested in her well-being). I believe that you have been spot on about Ken. Watching last nights episode (1/9), it is apparent that he is a scary, controlling and manipulative man. Kim was probably drawn to him because he doesn't appear to ask her to be a better person, doesn't encourage her to be healthy, and in a strange way, I think that she is comfortable with his controlling nature. It makes her feel safe. At least for now. But we both know that it is inevitable that she will have herself backed into a corner that she will have a very difficult time getting out of. It is my hope that as I am writing this, that Kim has already untangled herself from this dangerous man.

I guess to sum it all up, I think that you are a beautiful person, inside and out. Don't change the way you are. Anyone would be lucky to have you as a sister and a friend. God Bless you and all the best always.

marcias
marcias

People who are consistently late seem to live in their own worlds and are usually self centered. They don't get that it is rude and inconsiderate to the people waiting for them. I also get why you confronted Kim at dinner, it is so frustrating to watch that behaviour and just pretend everything is okay. I could definitely relate when you got angry when you are arguing about her being late and why she missed the plane and then she brings up a story about you using your cell phone while driving. I have experienced that many times and you can't get into an argument with people like that because they are not rational. They don't want to face what they have done wrong so they divert to something you may or may not have done. I feel sad for Kim. Hopefully she will get help and getting away from Ken would be the first step. He seems so shady. Also, is he retired or unemployed. Good luck and hopefully some day you will have your sister back.

carmencromartie
carmencromartie

People, do you really think Kim was just late once and Kyle and Mauricio lost their minds and were being mean?? Or is it more plausible that this is another in a very long line of bad behaviors.

carmencromartie
carmencromartie

For all the people dogging Kyle, you want her to act like a siant when she's clearly been dealing with her sisters addiction and actions for years. At some point you're going to snap and not be so nice to the poor addict. It's a very difficut thing to deal with and I think she is handling the situation Wonderful.

P.S. Saw Kyle on Wendy WIlliams and she said her worst moment on the show was how she treated Brandy. I love a woman who can admit her mistakes. Still love you Kyle.

Lindsay
Lindsay

Kyle, I actually understand how difficult Kim's behavior is for you to understand and deal with, you love her, and that's wonderful. That having been said, I think you are spending entirely too much time worrying about something you have no control over. You can't help Kim until she wants to help herself. In the meanwhile, your full attention, during the trip to Hawaii, should have been on your husband, but clearly, it was not. Ken is an idiot, but he's what your sister seems to want, and there isn't too much you can do about that right now. Stop inviting Kim if it is going to ruin the holiday for you,(and everyone else)if she is late or doesn't show up. Also, you and Kim have some anger issues that you may have to address when and if, she pulls herself together. It's obvious she doesn't get along with Mauricio, and that may be conflict that you don't wish to air on TV. If that is the case, it should be discussed on the show at all, it's frustrating and annoying for viewers.

flutterbyu
flutterbyu

Kyle...Kyle...Kyle. What are you thinking? Why in the world would you take your sisters inventory in front of everyone, then your husband and you talk to Ken and Kim like children? Even though they act like kids, you should have taken it up with the two of them privately when they arrived. Instead of listening through the wall, walk next door and speak with them about your anger. Why wait until you get them in front of everyone when you know her well enough to assume she would not speak the truth anyway. Don't be a drama queen. With that said, I understand she has an addiction and you are fed up with her and the antics. It is painful for all the viewers watching, we get it. Even though you have come out of your denial, at this point in the show she is still in it. Read what you can from Al-anon, go to a few meetings to educate yourself on how best to deal with going forward in helping her.

Ms. Bee from St. Louis
Ms. Bee from St. Louis

Kyle, Kyle, Kyle.. You are not Kim's mother. I understand your concern for her. But..you constantly embarrass her. Why? You do know the old quote "some people find the need to invalidate others in order to validate themselves" right? You are becoming one of those people. You did it with Camille and Kim last season. And this season Brandi and Kim. You team up with your sister when you want to make someone else look bad, but you take a stab at her every chance you get. You are becoming the most hated housewife. I think that Taylor is your friend because you can be superior to her. You need some intervension with your sister. Why don't your other sister deal with you and Kim I wonder.

Pamila
Pamila

Kyle, I have watched two season of this program. Kim is always late or is a no show. If you do not want her to be late and to avoid all the drama, do not invite her. No matter what 99.999 chances she is gonna be late. FACT. I hate to be the bearing of bad news but I figured someone needs to tell you.

sami121299
sami121299

I understand how you feel as I have a sister also fighting addiction. It's very hard to separate from her. I make myself available for her when she decides she wants help. Otherwise I let her make her own mistakes and deal with the consequences of her actions and there are always ccnsequences when you are using drugs. Hang in there Kyle.

Sueshe
Sueshe

It's one of the hardest things in life to live in a dysfunctional family. I was raised in a dysfunctional home (mother was an alcoholic), and my older brother has been dysfunctional all his life. It's easy for others to make comments, but unless you have lived in this environment, you can't say how you would handle it, or how you could feel by their actions. It's most painful. You keep going back hoping things will change, and all it is is a painful slap in the face, over and over again. You are there because you LOVE THIS PERSON. It would be easy to walk out the door and never see them again, but it's because of your love, you keep going back and keep the doors open. I can so relate to all that is going on and understand every move you make. At first I thought you were quite harsh on Kim, but now this season truly brings out the real Kim. And she definitely has dependency issues, as proven with the countless excuses she has made. Like me, you just keep giving her chances to make change, but it's nothing but heartache as you watch the demons take hold of her life. Only Kim can make those changes, you can not. It took me 34 years of mental abuse from my mother to figure that out. And once I did, I was more at peace with myself knowing that I did all I could, and that the next move was hers. My mother died from alcoholism at the age of 69. I was absent from her life for the last 5 years....Her choice. I couldn't take the pain anymore. I feel for you Kyle as you try and handle these problems. It's one of the hardest things that you will ever have to deal with, and one of the most painful as well. You need to concentrate on your family and that's what is most important. When and if she's ready she'll be back, and then that's the time you open the door to her. Good luck and bless you....You are in my thoughts and prayers!!!

MontanaTT4
MontanaTT4

Kyle last night I watch you in Hawaii and how your reaction is with Kim's behavior. You are a mom and wife then a sister. You are not Kim's mother and I know you know that. You only want the best for her. But we as parents know as with our children tough love is not always easy. You are forever having Kim's back. How lucky she is to have you but you really are doing her no good. Sometimes you just have to step back and say no more chances. Yes she is struggling but sometimes you have to hit bottom before you can climb up to know how good things are. Kim is not a little girl she is a grown women and mother. In the end she needs to find the way so she can be all she wants to be for herself and her children. Your job is to be a sister (not a mother) and a support system. Your friend Lisa is a very smart person and only means well when telling you advise. God Bless you and your family. PS. I hope you read this it is meant only to help.

luckycharmseven
luckycharmseven

Hawaii Kyle I like you but OMG!! Can I say for once Kim make perfect sense. Kyle both you and your husband ruin that trip for yourselves, by attacking Kim. You guys just don't know when to let things go. So they were late, ok, but they were there so just have fun, MG. Who care why they were late, maybe they were making mad love, if they did not want to talk about it, why were you guys pushing it so much. Kim is not your child. You totally were trying to call your sister out in front of everyone. I am glad both her and Ken got up and leave the table. You have to know when and where to talk about things. You did not invite Taylor because you did not what the drama, but you bring the drama with you. Like Lisa told you don't mention anything about them being late. Holy, this control that you have you need to give it up, you are only hurting yourself. You can love your sister, look out for her, be there for her without having to control the WOMAN not your CHILD every move. You are clearly concern for her, but you don't have to control her. I can go on an on as you did, but that is all I am going to say.

kristinjp
kristinjp

I mis-judged you at the end of last season. I am sorry.

Diana Lopez
Diana Lopez

Seriously Kyle...you kept ruining the dinners for your husbands birthday in Hawaii! you should have pulled kim aside to talk to get rather than how you did it...i would never do that to my sister...so tacky! ANd your my favorite housewife....

Lindsey G
Lindsey G

I feel terrible for you that people are posting such harsh comments. As you said at the end of season 1, you and your sister have a long and complicated relationship, and I think it is becoming more clear to the viewer what that might mean. Kim is beyond a handful, and you obviously love and worry about her. I think you've handled lots of difficult situations the best you could and with grace. I think the viewers who are posting such harsh critiques should try imaging for a second that they are dealing with a difficult, private and complex issue that is now being filmed and put out there for others to judge. I doubt many would have handled these matters as well as you have. And having to re-live them months after the fact would be so painful for me. You have a lovely family and wonderful friendships. I look forward to continue watching you in seasons to come!

All the best

SLInman
SLInman

Kyle, I love you, your family, and the passion you have for your family and friends. But I agree with a previous poster. You should attend an AA 'open' meeting. I believe it may help you better understand Kim's world, and how chaotic it is. All you can do is keep loving her, let her know you are there for her, and then back off. I love you, and will pray for ya'll.

elpheba
elpheba

Kyle listen to what Lisa was telling you. She is right on. There is nothing you can do about your sister's behavior. You're not helping her by letting her problems get to you. Find an al-anon group and quit being co-dependent.

Helsbels
Helsbels

This comment is more re: Hawaii trip episode rather than white party. I try time and time again to like you Kyle but the way you treat other women - sometimes espec your sister - is annoying and catty at times. You are the one who kept ruining the birthday dinners for your hubby by going ON and ON about it and rehashing it over like beating a dead horse. Your sister took the high road and all you could say is that she was denying it. ANY guy (Ken included) would stand up for their girlfriend when someone is coming at her (and embarrassing her in front of everyone instead of doing in private) like the pit bull that you were coming at her like. I am not saying Kim was right to blow it off but I found myself repeating out loud; "LET IT FREAKIN' GO KYLE! Sorry, I say it as I see it. I hope you learn from these fan postings & I pray you think twice before making any future catty comments about other women on the show - it only makes you look petty and insecure rather than ladylike and elegant. You are no better than anyone else.

Chamilton2
Chamilton2

Kyle you are a lot better person than I am. I would have threw my hands up a long time ago with kim's nonsense. I mean, what was even the point in her going to on the trip if she wasn't going to attend anything & she had to have know it was going to cause a problem. It just makes no sense. She frustrates me for you. She needs to act like an adult & get her stuff together. Oh & by the way I love you & mariceo & how you guys treasure family so much.

Joanie Radford
Joanie Radford

I have watched the housewives of Beverly Hills since the beginning and love it, but tonight I really got upset. If Kim really has a problem with drinking or drugs the way you are treating her Kyle is enough to throw her off the cliff. First of all you do not know Ken and to judge him the way you are is just unfair. Ok they missed the plane that really is not a big deal and if they don't want everybody to know their business then what is wrong with that. I can understand you wanting her to be there, but would it not have been better for you to talk to her in private. Have you ever thought that she may not want to come to all the dinner parties you all have because it is hard for her to be around all the drinking. All of you need to stop acting like your without fault and that your saints because I'm sure there are stories that can be told about you. And what I want to know is why is missing a plane or being late for a dinner party make someone crazy. You guys need to find something more important to talk about and make sure you ask God to forgive you for being so ugly. And really you need to stop and think that maybe Kim would like to be at all invites but it might just to be to hard for her to handle.

Sam64
Sam64

Everyone would have had a much better time if you and Mauricio did not keep bringing up Kim being late. She was right to be defensive....you knew the reason she was late so why Harass them the entire time.

dollyjr
dollyjr

Kyle, Gotta love ya.i look forward to see you every time.Your one of the prettiest Housewives.Your husband is very handsome.your little one so cute.You have everything.last let kim go.You cant change someone that doesnt want to change.I believe Kim is in her own world, let her go, she will come back.

Nursecarolyn
Nursecarolyn

P.S. yeah, Kim's boyfriend gives me the creeps. Always follow your gut Kyle, it will never let you down. As a nurse, when I tell a Doctor, ' it's a gut feeling', they are right on it.

Nursecarolyn
Nursecarolyn

Kyle, My sister is going through a very hard time right now,facing chemotherapy once again. She is angry and frightened. All I can say, as her sister is, no matter how bad it gets, no matter how much she acts out....I am here. Always. I love her forever, unconditionally, period. I feel you have the same bond with your sister, so just continue what we both know is inevitable, be there to catch her when she falls.