Lisa Vanderpump

Lisa imagines Game Night if she had been there and discusses Pandora's wedding plans and making conversation with Brandi.

on Oct 18, 20110

Hello again,

As we jump back into the melting pot of emotion I feel relief at the fact that I wasn't there at Game Night, but also regret for the same reason. It was a situation that gathered momentum so rapidly, and as you have seen in the aftermath, regrets are plentiful. . . and too late.

Would I have been able to calm the situation? I don't honestly know, but one things is for sure -- I wouldn't have made it worse. . .I was saddened by the actions of many that night. Even when Kyle came to explain the situation the next day, I was naively unaware of the depths of devastation and anger that had been reached...let's leave that aside for a moment.

219 comments
Lamontp1
Lamontp1

Lisa!! You can not maintain your friendship with Kyle after game night. Please, you are of a different class. Think of your Grandmother: what would she say looking down on Kyle's treatment of Brandi? Be a lady, Lisa, as you always are....

Maria Carstairs
Maria Carstairs

I love the show even with all the drama and I recorded the chapters just in case I miss one. I love Camile outfits she dress, very classy, great taste. Lisa you always look great. I'm dying to know the name of the Band that will play in Pandora's wedding I'm originally from Buenos Aires Argentina and love latin music and that male guitarrist and singer is great, I tried to google what I heard you saying about the Band name, did you say Froodge? I couldn't find it, even that I spell it in many different ways. Could you please Let me know. Thank you Maria Carstairs

Maria Carstairs
Maria Carstairs

I love the show even with all the drama and I recorded the chapters just in case I miss one. I love Camile outfits she dress, very classy, great taste. Lisa you always look great. I'm dying to know the name of the Band that will play in Pandora's wedding I'm originally from Buenos Aires Argentina and love latin music and that male guitarrist and singer is great, I tried to google what I heard you saying about the Band name, did you say Froodge? I couldn't find it, even that I spell it in many different ways. Could you please Let me know. Thank you Maria Carstairs

ViewerGeorgia1941
ViewerGeorgia1941

Lisa You and Kyle are well suited acting like two immature morons at Camille's

Lisa, You and Kyle were acting like two immature morons at Camille's charity lunch.It's really not ladylike to whisper and snigger at another guest who is sitting within earshot.You really need to grow up and start behaving like the Mature woman you are .Please treat your husband with more respect and stop Being such a control freak.

Charity

C and C
C and C

Lisa- I think you are a role model for women everywhere. You are beautiful and you have shown that woman can have what ever they want, as long as they work hard and go for it. I was however, dissappointed with your comments toward Brandi. I hope you have learned your lesson, you seem like a really nice lady that has a fair heart. Don't let others pull you down to their childish levels.

was afan but losing intrest
was afan but losing intrest

lisa i am so happy you have come to your senses i loved you from the start but was really starting to not like you so good for you i have my Lisa back lol . can not wait for the wedding!!

Francesca_bc_Lauren_was_taken
Francesca_bc_Lauren_was_taken

Lisa, you are my favorite! (Next to Brandi) Your blog makes perfect sense. I had thought you were a little mean, but it all adds up I think. You're only human! And your blog just emits a language of class. (And education) Love your style!

sheri wine
sheri wine

Lisa, Your book sold out on QVC, where else can I find it ?

gina r miller
gina r miller

I love the watch Lisa always wears...what brand is it?

fifilarue
fifilarue

I am glad you wrote this. I was finally coming to the sad realization that I could no longer defend your taking sides against Brandi. Since you are my favourite, & I wanted it to stay that way, I was trying to convince myself that you had been gravely misled about what transpired. Now it does seem that that is what happened. There is certainly a lesson about finding out where the truth lies here.

viriya
viriya

hi! Lisa congrat...on you daughter proposal. but you need to stay out people business and stop being mean to Bandi, she did not do anything to you, and you keep talking bad about her.

Leisa
Leisa

You are my Favorite!!! You have so much Class and you are pretty funny too!!!

sarahgOC
sarahgOC

You are never suppose to wash your chicken it creates more bacteria you should really watch the cooking channel or bone up on this so you dont make anyone sick.

Maryland girl
Maryland girl

Lisa,

I hope you see that Brandi was not at fault on "Game Night". You owe Brandi! So sad, so sad.

IntoRHperiod
IntoRHperiod

All I can say is that I hope next time you think twice before you judge someone based on one side of the story. You said "I believed Brandi to be the aggressor and there she was in such close proximity to us all." and you treated her just as rudely as they did at game night. Now there are regrets? I learned back in high school that if you aren't there then you have no real idea what truly happened- so you definitely shouldn't have taken sides so quickly. shame on you.

Trista22
Trista22

Lisa, just love you...your too funny...love your sence of humor with Mohamed. His home is unbelieveable...beautiful. Lisa, honestly anymore I find myself watching the show just to see whats going on with you and your family.

GirlChez
GirlChez

Lisa you are my absolute favorite and the only reason I watch this show!

ppatte61343
ppatte61343

hey lisa... people say the b word when they feel attacked, defensive, angry, whatever. GET OVER IT, not every lady is always a lady..you seem to be pretty catty most of the time..i dont believe thats a gracious quality!

meangirls2
meangirls2

hmmmm maybe you need to rewatch the game night episode and rethink your position. Kyle and Kim don't need your help.

momamma
momamma

I hope you learn from this...there are two sides to every story, and the truth often lies somewhere in the middle. With only Kyle and Kim's side (in which they paint themselves so differently then the video shows), you meddled against Brandi. Shame on you. I think being the "new girl" into your group would be terrifying in itself, and from the start, you judged her for being friendly with your enemy (who snowed you for HOW MANY years??), and you all laughed at her for how she dressed. It was an ugly display that I wish I could show my students about how not to behave.

Karen Pennycuff
Karen Pennycuff

Don't let others dictate how you treat others. You have not given Brandi a fail shot. Like most of us, she was not born with a golden spoon in her mouth. Don't flaunt your fortune and look down on those that have not had the same opportunities as yourself. Help lift people up and you will be lift as well!

Karen Pennycuff
Karen Pennycuff

Be happy that your daughter is getting to a nice young man. Let your daughter have the simple wedding that she wants. Get rid of the party planner. He will make her special day a nightmare. This would be a great time for you and your daughter to have a great experience just listen to what she wants. Don't let this opportunity pass you by.

Evyllynmorgan
Evyllynmorgan

LIsa I get you Judge Brandi because she friend with a person that betray you, but Brandi did not do anything to you. I cant believe you took Kyle side so blindly

Texas Viewer
Texas Viewer

Oh and congrats on your beautiful daugther's engagement! I can't wait to see the wedding pics!

Texas Viewer
Texas Viewer

Lisa you are a good loyal friend to Kyle and I do not believe you were naive about game night, Kyle just didn't tell you the truth and sadly you responded to Brandi in an unkind manner. If you had been told the truth you would have been fair in your interactions with Brandi. Kyle should treat her loyal friends a little nicer. She was all over Taylor in a weird way in front of you knowing it would hurt your feelings, then mouthing off to your adorable husband when he was just stating his feelings, not attacking Taylor. Then leading you to believe Brandi just attacked them and allowing you to treat her as such. You at least deserve the truth from a friend especially when its all on film and you would of found out what really went down. You looked like a mean girl too but I know your not, Kyle just mislead you...again.

joeyr
joeyr

You and Adrienne are my favorite housewives. You both have more class in your little fingers than the rest of them do in there whold bodies. Kyle & Kim are the most immature, rude, phony people on the show. They both make me ill. Keep up the good work.

tashma hall
tashma hall

Dear Lisa, Your daughter looks and reminds me of a young Bo Dereck. Your cookbook sold out on QVC, now what do I DO ?

Ally
Ally

I had come to expect better behavior from you. As for Kyle and Kim, well that was no surprise.

Gayleen
Gayleen

See what I'm saying, as much as most have liked you in the past all it take is one incident to change someones opinion about you. Bravo may know what there doing but in the end they don't control us the viewers. I'm going to record and watch all this play out, let's see who survive. Tell your friend Kyle & Kim to post there blog. Ask them what's the problem are they scared??????

Maggie's Mom
Maggie's Mom

You're terrific on the show. Don't let Kyle get to you. Don't know what's happening with her this season but it's not becoming. I'm a little puzzled as to why your're treating your husband so badly. When you bascially told him to sit down when he attempted to say something at the dinner when your son-in-law to be announced the engagement, you told him to sit down like he was a 2 year old child. Did you really want to demean him?

housewife conisure
housewife conisure

why is it ok for Kim to not write a weekly blog-all of the other women do it-she shud not be allowed to do the show-unless she follows the same rules as everyone else.

bettyboopy
bettyboopy

Lisa, the comment that you made about the Freakish Wedding Planner, "will he be handing out bags of money as wedding favors" was hilarious!!!! He is ready to spend all of your money on that wedding!

JmansMom
JmansMom

Lisa, congratulations on your daughter's engagement. Save face and don't allow Kyle to get away with thinking that her and Kim's behaviour towards Brandi was acceptable.

Princess Diva
Princess Diva

Lisa I absolutely love you. You are adorable and I love your accent and the way you dress. You are a hard working lady and you have all the perks because of it. I know why you don't care for Brandi and I wish she would just go away. I already don't like her....I'm happy for you and Pandora and I hope the wedding is a spectacular event!!!!

Bad-to-the-bonapetit
Bad-to-the-bonapetit

Lisa, I love you on the show,but please,you have got to let Cedric go. You are holding on to that period in your head and it is affecting the way you treat others whom you believe have an association with him. You are too much of a lady for that.

CatherineM
CatherineM

Watching you and Kyle giggling and whispering about Brandi was excruciating. Did you think you were invisible? It was behavior normally reserved for the socially inept. You both failed 'social graces 101'. Shame on you both.

rhwfaninmd
rhwfaninmd

Hi Lisa, You are my favorite housewife of all time. I am surprised at how many people are so quick to criticize you for one little snarky, but witty, comment made by you at lunch, which Brandi probably did not even hear that day. And I guess the next time you have a conversation with Kyle, so you get all the facts, bring in a judge and the other witnesses, so there will be no confusion. Good grief, from what I have seen of you you are always willing to see both sides of the issues and to work things out. I think you set a good example for how to be gracious and kind and I wish I had your ability to keep a cool head or run for the hills when necessary. Your daughter and her fiancee are absolutlely adorable.

selenak
selenak

I think most of these comments about Lisa taking Kyle's side is ridiculous. Lisa didn't know Brandi at that time. All she knew of her was that she hung out with Cedric. Kyle and lisa have been friends for years. When your friend gets into a fight with someone that you don't know well; you take their side! That's what good friends do. They don't say, "wait a minute best friend, i must hear the other women's side before i make up my mind." That's ridiculous! Lisa was simply being a loyal friend to Kyle.

Lisa, you are a class act and a good friend. Don't change.

HousewifeHYSTERIA
HousewifeHYSTERIA

LOVE you Lisa. I am happy for you and your family, and enjoy watching your segments most of all. The tour of your garden with Pandora and the wedding planner was FUN FUN FUN! Keep up YOUR HAPPINESS AND POSITIVE outlook. You live a good life!

manhattan
manhattan

I'm a little shocked by your comments. I had thought you had more character.

julia125
julia125

You really acted classless when you were sitting across from Brandi at the table. Giggling with Kyle. You might as well have been at game night making fun of her. I find it hard to believe a grown woman would act that way. Grow up.

Cecilia2468
Cecilia2468

Lisa you are my favorite but please don't let Kyle steer you wrong. There's always two sides to every story.

Marielena
Marielena

Lisa, You and Adrienne are my favorites, and now I"m adding Camille and Brandi to the list. Camille wasn't given a fair chance last season and this season we clearly see why. Brandi has not been given a fair chance except by Adrienne. YOU are a classy lady and to see that you take Kyle's side for stupid reasons makes the viewers question what they think about you. Don't change that. Speak for what is RIGHT and give Brandi a chance, i honestly think you would probably like her more than Kyle. Good luck and I hope Pandora's wedding will be on the show.

Cali gal
Cali gal

Lisa ~ I love your comments about the wedding planner!! Just watching you keeping him under control is a great escape from some of the drama - Beverly Hills darling! ~ shooo shoo shooooo!! :))

cindiii
cindiii

My Darling Lisa, you were rude to Brandi because for some reason you are desperate for Kyle's approval. You asked Brandi where she lives not to be nice but in an attempt to remind her that she's not your privileged next door neighbor because you think that sort of thing matters. Then you immediately made a joke at her expense referring to Churchill. You were rude and you owe Brandi an apology for that.

Compton219
Compton219

I didn't think Brandi was rude but you and Kyle were. You were so quick to call Brandi rude but Kyle wasn't saying anything either so why weren't you calling her rude? Plus you were so quick to jump on the "it was Brandi" bandwagon. Whatever happened to being your own person and not taking sides in something that doesn't involve you? Its childish "don't be friends with her cause i'm not" bs.

zocola
zocola

Congratulations on the upcoming wedding. You will be a stunning mother of the bride. I wish them all the happiness and love in the world. You are so beautiful, inside and out. I am sorry about what Cedric did to you. How could anyone expect you just to forget it. It will take some time to heal that. Give Ken some kisses. I hate to see you turn him away. You are a lovely couple.

Toni in Houston
Toni in Houston

Lisa, pleeeeeease..you are such a pretty lady and I love to watch you with your daughter and your son. But, please don't be rude to people when you don't even know them and act like Kyle. You can be a friend without trying to put another woman down and make her feel uncomfortable. Very disappointed.

watcher45
watcher45

Really? You know you only see what they put on TV. Quit making assumptions about what really happened and who was whispering what. Did you hear it? I think not. It's a TV show for entertainment. Everyone, including all you "righteous" people out there make mistakes. Just sit back and enjoy the ride!

older not wiser
older not wiser

Lisa, with siding with Kyle regarding Brandi's son peeing on the grass. Is there more germs there or letting your dog drink out of a glass at a formal dinner party? Always two sides to a story, and I feel you took the wrong side.