I don't get it. Brandi trashes  people all the time with her  blunt rudeness and it is considered refreshing and different. Nene expresses her opinion all of a sudden, she's a bully and has a huge ego.  What's the difference between the two? At least we know Nene wouldn't mention something extremely personal about someone's life like Brandi did. Nene was talking about what she observed, and what she believed was her experience with Brandi, who was drunk at the time they met. Not everyone can like each other. 

Brandi, I watched WWHL with Nene on it and she said you were saying anything about anyone you want and that you are a mess. Coming from Nene that took me by surprise. But I simply adore you and I am not sure why.....maybe because the other women kept attacking you. But I love your personality, your good looks and your ability to forgive easily. My point is that I hope next season you are neither victim or villain. Stay sweet, don't talk about the other ladies (well, that's stupid of me cuz you never talked bad about your friends). I would put this on twitter but I hate that site and I can't maneuver on it. It is not user friendly at all. Love you, hurry with your second book and never, ever trust Kim or Kyle. They will step all over you at any time because they are very angry about the fans loving you, and they are elitists who look down on you. 

Wow, you seem to have everyone fooled. Sometimes wolves do dress in sheep's clothing. Please don't hide your mean girl ways behind "honesty". You bloggers need to wake up or I guess you can just keep buying her books!

Hi Brandi, I love your honesty. Stay true to yourself xxx

I loved your book!  I was hoping it would hold me over till next season - a Brandi pacifier if you will,  but I devoured it page by page -  now what is there to hold me over till next season?  The Real Housewives of OC?  They are like the mark down rack in the back of the store - you get a deal on it but you don't love it.

#addicted #sunburned

LOVE you, Brandi.  I was a little ashamed at thinking Kyle would like Kim to fail in her efforts to get/stay sober.  How happy I was to know that I'm not a mean person, but that I'm not the only one who feels that way!  You are a breath of fresh air.  Your true friends are Lisa and Yolanda.  As for the others, keep your back to the wall, darlin'.   Love you.  Love the show. Loathe faye arsenic; she is Kyle's mouthpiece. She's never around at most events.  She is fed all the gossip by Kyle.

You are a strong woman that doesn't take shit, have a free spirit and are definetly not a shame of showing your beutiful body. It's mothers like you, that rase up sons that knows how to treat women right. If I didn't knew better, I would think you grew up in western europe. There is not a fake bone in your body

I agree it is not helpful to Kim's sobriety to have her sister Constantly complaining about it and making her cry at parties , it's like Kyle does want her to fail. I think  , honestly , Kim was a bigger child star and there is sibling rivalry Kyle has and Kim doesn't understand. it must have been hard for Kyle to have her sister get all the attention. Anyway they both are not solid people, not genuinely reliable and painful to watch. You have beauty and truth like Yoland and Lisa. I hope you find either a really good man or career , hopefully both. Love to you! Ignore the haters , half are probably the fans of a certain singer. Keep the faith and keep moving forward..

Rock on, Brandi!  You, Lisa & Yolanda - & of course Ken & Giggy - are my favorites!  Perhaps a poor word choice, but I totally got what you were saying about Kyle in regard to Kim.  A lot of family members of addicts display the same sort of attitude.  Not because they wish the addict to fail, but because they're afraid the addict will & cause more disappointment.

I was so disappointed to see the smiles and looks of pleasure from Brandi over other people's suffering - she seemed to take pleasure when others were fessing up to their mistakes and problems.  Mean doesn't begin to describe it.

You need to learn to control your mouth so you can teach that important skill to your children. 

Dear Brandi I really don't care for you, just so you know!

PLEASE I'm tired of Brandi trying to act like poor me!! do u see the smirk on her face after she

talks her Shi### and y is ok to put her nose in other peoples business and say what she wants to,, but not anyone else!!! GO AWAY BRANDI .....

Love you! Never change! Kim is holding a bizarre grudge and Kyle is jealous. That you and Lisa are friends show that good people find good people. I am sorry that your husband wa such a douche but you are a strong, beautiful woman and I am sure you'll find someone wonderful soon altho if you don't, who cares? You have your boys.

Brandi - I enjoy your very raw personality, however, I think people will take you FAR more seriously if you refined your words. The "F" bomb has its place, but I doubt that that place is in your mouth every two seconds that it's moving, ya know?

Mature, refine, evolve.  No one will benefit from that more than your boys, and they are worth it, yes?

Just sayin'...

Love you Brandi, you would be so much fun to hang out with, LOL.  Any man would dam lucky to have you!!  Stick with Yolanda and Lisa!! 

You are wreckless with your words...quit trying to act innocent. You have everything coming to you that you deserve. 

I know what you were trying to say.  I have a family member with addiction and I always get the impression Kyle is mostly worried if Kim is going to do something wrong or trip up but I never get the "I am here for you"  vibe.  I also understand how draining living with an addict can be so I can cut Kyle some slack on the eye rolling sometimes, but it is obvious Kyle doesn't think Kim is worthy to share the spotlight/  

have to give you major props for keeping recent activities run by you fun, positive, and high spirited. everyone got along and let her hair down, and we got to see what was so likable about each housewife involved. more such scenes, please. must admit i groaned when you were first introduced to the show, and in fact i stopped watching most of the past season because i got so stressed out at the tension and ugliness caused by some of the others, like kyle and camille (went from victim to vicious girl in a heartbeat because she was asked to back up a friend, taylor). hoping your developing friendship with yo and lisa continues to make the show lively and fun again. best of luck to you.

Brandi, one of the best things about you is that you speak your mind and it is also one of the worst things about you.  Some things just don't need to be said, even if you think you have a right to.  You can hurt people with your words and opinions.....and I stress "your opinions".  It wouldn't hurt for you to sensor yourself a little bit.

Sounds good !!!! to some of people lol not me.Lisa only being nice to you to aggravate Kyle, meanwhile  she uses you to do her dirty work lol. Quit playing this victim role you and Leann lmao are of the same character. Me I think you are on the prowl for a husband with $$$ so you can catch up with  the other housewife's income.

I don't think Kyle wants Kim to fail, but I think she expects her to fail.

Brandi.....my heart really truly goes out to you and the sadness and suffering that is clear in every episode of the show.  You remind me so much of myself many years ago, when my then 'husband' thought he had fallen in "love" with someone else.  The truth was he needed to be with someone that had lower expectations of him and he found comfort in that.  For TOO long, like you, I lashed out at other women...angry at the world for the hurt endured by me and our children.  I flirted and dated married men....because deep down, I wanted  someone else to hurt and I was seeking validation.

It took me a while to realize that I was not someone my children could be proud of or look up to.  Since they did not have that in a father...what a treasure and gift to give them to find that in me.  All of the pain and hatred you exude and send through your attacks on your cast mates...will hurt you and your children the most!  Now I am in an AMAZING, LOYAL and LOVING relationship with a wonderful man that my children love.  

Allow yourself to become a woman that deserves the same and even more!  Your ex is NOT happy, but the woman you portray on the show does not seem like much of a better choice than where he is.   Move on, heal, grow and love yourself and your children in a way that shows respect of the bond and love you have for them!

Best wishes 2 U

You saw what we viewers saw concerning Kyle.  Maybe fail was the wrong word choice but we understood what you meant.  Love you and wish you only good things and much success.  Lisa is a good and loyal friend.

Brandi,

I love everything about you, period.  No one can ever say that you are not authentic, as you speak your mind and many people with a weaker personality, feel threatened by that.

You are beautiful, a great friend and mom.  In my opinion, loyal to the core, and who wouldn't want to be with a person like that?? 

So you repeated the truth about Adrienne?  She had to have repeated it for you to know, right?  Ms. Karma is smiling at you now. :))))))  All the best with you and your beautiful boys.

I think you had some good points, and its good you say the things that people wouldn't dare say, but be careful how you say things. And some things shouldn't be said at all (such as statements that cause lawsuits or suggesting that someone pooed on their pillow on national tv). 

You just need more tact because otherwise it comes across as malicious even if you don't mean to be. It ends up making you look bitter, vengeful and it twist your character (or at least it makes it appear that way to people), when maybe you didn't mean to sound that way.

You were really like-able and relate able to me when you first appeared, right unto halfway through this season. I can't say I'm still a fan anymore, but I really want to be again,  I've always admired you standing up for yourself on game night and other times, but you just seem to be getting ruder and you seem have no control of your anger.

I still think Adrienne, Kyle and Kim will always be in the wrong, and you were always right for standing up for yourself.  I hope the next season shows a more positive side of you-what we saw more of before everything went crazy.