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Why Kyle Doesn't Defend Lisa

Brandi knows why Kyle isn't coming to Lisa's defense, but she doesn't know why Camille misses Adrienne so much.

Vegas pole dancing went better then I thought it would go. Almost all the lady's seem to enjoy themselves except Marisa. Pole dancing is great exercise and if anyone needs to find their inner sexy it is Marisa. She is a beautiful woman who has seemed to have lost track of her sexuality. Being a strong independent woman is not just defined by your nine-to-five job or your ability to make money, but also by your sense of self and the sensual woman inside of all of us gals.

Listen none of us would be swinging around poles if there were any pervy men sitting around gawking at us. . .gross.

Paul gets laser hair removal and Adrienne seems to enjoy the pain it is causing him, I guess that's love for you. As far as Adrienne being in Vegas, I didn't invite her to my work trip due to our legal issues. . .

Adrienne has many, many, many business ventures going on that she is investing money into like shoes, phone covers, vodka, skincare, purses that say Maloof all over them. . .I hope she makes money from those purses, but the only initials I want on my purses are LV.

I am getting paid to host parties for women of all ages, sizes, races etc. -- no men allowed. I am not investing my money into anything, especially not purses with my name plastered all over them.

Kim gets a nose job, and I think more power to her. It's not my place to judge and if she is happy I am happy. However, it did concern me that she might have to take pain meds with her newly found sobriety I thought this could be dangerous. I think when it comes to plastic surgery, if you don't want to talk about you don't have to. And, trust me, in this group there is plenty of plastic surgery going on with almost everyone. More to come on that later in the season. . .

Some people talk about it and some people don't and that is their prerogative. Everything I've ever done, as embarrassing as it is, is in my new book Drinking and Tweeting (out Feb 12th).

At dinner we all expressed concern for Kim. We all want whats best for her. I invited these women to Vegas and I am glad they all came to support me, so why Camille brought up missing Adrienne at my dinner, knowing full well of our legal issues I will never understand. Yes, we had fun in the past with Adrienne and now I'm having fun with her lawyers -- so clearly it's not the best dinner conversation.

Jennifer explained why I was so nervous about the reunion. I was nervous because I was asked to meet up with Adrienne to talk about going after Lisa and for no other reason. Why else would I be nervous? The ONLY reason I called Camille was to get her take on what was about to happen. Camille said to me I know they are going after Lisa but I have no issues with Lisa and you shouldn't worry about it "just be yourself." That was the extent of it. Then at dinner, Camille calls me a liar and just minutes later confirms I was telling the truth but she didn't like being put on the spot. That wasn't cool to me, I have always been lovely and kind to Camille, so I was upset when she called me a liar. Well Camille and I have now moved past it all. We are not as close as we once were, but are fine.

Camille brought up that Adrienne was upset that Pandora didn't choose to do her bachelorette party at the Palms, which is ridiculous because it's Pandora's choice and no one elses. So I say why was Adrienne upset because she doesn't own but two percent of the Palms. A bitchy, but true statement. I probably wouldn't have said it had Pandora's bachelorette party not been brought up and Adrienne not been threatening me with a lawsuit.

Why Camille is upset at Lisa and yelling at Yolanda, I still don't understand. Lisa has always been forthcoming about having a partner in her restaurant SUR and being 51 percent owner. In fact I think there is a show about it called Vanderpump Rules.

Kyle seems to defend everyone but Lisa and I think I know why. Kyle gets upset that Lisa defends me, and ultimately I believe Kyle is just jealous of my friendship with Lisa. Kyle needs to realize its easy to say, "Let's move on," when she was the one that hurt the Lisa. Of course, Kyle wants it all behind them but sometimes you have to face the music first.

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Kyle: Kim and I Will Never Agree on This Matter

Kyle clarifies the Kingsley issue and responds to Brandi's most recent accusation. 

I don't want to write this blog. I didn't even want to watch this reunion, to be honest. There. I said it. But here I go....
Let's just dive right into the text message from Lisa Rinna to Kim.
I was very shocked to hear about that text. There is no excuse for that. I believe Lisa R. knows that. I can understand Kim being upset about that. I am sure she was taken aback, as we all were when we heard it. However, I don't think Lisa Rinna is a dangerous person. She just made a really bad choice.


Now onto Amsterdam and the space cake talk. Brandi went after me in Amsterdam regarding the space cake, because she doesn't like me and wanted to deflect from her own behavior once again. This was her big chance to say something about me, calling me a hypocrite for not partaking in the space cake. I have said it before, and I will say it again: I NEVER said I haven't smoked pot. I HAVE. It's just not my thing. I have a lot more fun having a few margaritas. Kim knows that. I would have appreciated her chiming in there. Also, I have NOT eaten a pot brownie or a space cake ever, and my husband had warned me that it would not suit me well, knowing my personality. You cannot gauge exactly what you're ingesting, and it wouldn't be smart. I didn't want to have a bad experience and "freak out," so to speak. Brandi herself wasn't partaking, because of her own reasons (which had to do with her divorce, as she explained), so wouldn't that make her a hypocrite then? WHY did she care if I did or did not choose to? Because she wanted to jump at the chance to make me look bad, since her behavior and her drinking had been front and center. Her drinking was out there, because she puts it out there, and she has nobody to blame but herself. If I HAD chosen to eat a space cake, she would have jumped on that, too. Anything to divert from her own actions which she was comparing to ours. All of us may have a few drinks, but NONE of us behave like her when we drink.
I only address this because it was on television. Her opinion of me is completely irrelevant to me. I only cared, because I am a mother, and her trying to make me out to be something I am not is reckless, as is everything else she does.
Ok. Enough of that. She beat that non-event to death. I think we can move on now.

Now this is the hard part...Kim and I had not spoken since Nov 1st. We both knew the situation with my daughter, Alexia, and Kim's dog, Kingsley, was bound to come up at the reunion. We don't get to pick and choose what we want to talk about.
Alexia had spent the night at Kim's house on Halloween. The next morning, Kingsley bit her. While scary, at first it didn't seem that serious. However, what the first doctor failed to notice was that the tooth had pierced the bone and also broken it. Five days later, we found out that her bone was infected and she needed surgery to clean out the bone. Kim was upset, because I had posted pictures from the hospital. Like I said at the reunion, I NEVER said her dog bit Alexia. Never mentioned her OR her dog. TMZ ended up finding out that it was Kim's dog, and she blamed me, because I posted the pictures from the hospital. I did not do that to hurt my sister in any way or to "get Instagram followers," like she suggested. With all of my family coming and going at the hospital, people were bound to find out and talk.


We were all with Alexia at the hospital trying to distract her and have fun. As any mother would do. We were all trying to make the best out of a bad situation. We invited family and friends to visit and tried to keep her spirits up. In hindsight, I wish I hadn't posted that picture, but I certainly didn't mean to hurt Kim. She posted a picture when she was in the hospital this year. Yolanda and Camille have done so regularly. And where is her responsibility in all of this? However, I do feel bad about what it has led to. And I've told her that. I also felt terrible because I know she loves Kingsley, but I also love my child. It was a difficult time for all involved. I didn't blame Kim personally regarding the dog and was willing to drop it and move forward, yet she was too angry with me regarding the Instagram post to be able to do that.
I wish that since I was willing to let go of my anger regarding my daughter being bit and what she had to go through that she could have let go of being upset about the Instagram post. I HAVE to believe she knows I did NOT do that to hurt her.
For Kim to throw out that she would say something about Alexia ( like she did to Lisa R. regarding Harry ) nearly took my breath away. But her dog is off limits?
So there you have it.
I don't even know what to say or do anymore. Clearly, we will never agree on this matter. And now we have more issues to work through, like my hurt and anger over Kim threatening to say something about my child. I know she loves Alexia, and it was just her being angry and "in the moment," but it's going to take me some time to get past that. All I know is I am glad I don't have to relive all of this again on TV. Now I need to take a step back .
Hopefully, time will heal my relationship with Kim. Time and having an open and honest relationship.
It's been a very difficult season. That's for sure. Thank you all for watching.
XO,
Kyle

P.S
Some things I would like to clear up:

A) I NEVER asked for Kingsley to be put down. I love all animals and know how much Kim loves Kingsley. That was never part of our argument.

B) Brooke's wedding : Brooke did a small ceremony at my sister Kathy's house (part of it aired this season), so that Monty would be well enough to walk her down the aisle. The wedding we were referring to at the reunion is her actual "big wedding " coming up. And NO, I did not do anything "unspeakable" or "unforgivable" at the wedding at Kathy's house like Brandi has (once again) put out there. It was a beautiful, perfect day that Brandi Glanville is now trying to throw negativity on. She was NOT EVEN THERE. On top of everything else Brandi has done, she now wants to turn that beautiful day that my family celebrated into something to lie and gossip about. Shame on her.

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