Kyle, you say that you want everyone to get along, yet you discuss everyones issues and create the drama that you say you don't want. You fuel the fire so to speak. Perfect example is your toxic friend Faye. It is no business of hers that she fix Brandi and your dinner party. You should prompt her to keep her judgemental mouth shut. No one thinks it's her business. But you know how she is and told her everything knowing she would only see one side and address it at your house. Then you follow Brandi outside and make her think that you don't want her to be upset. You constantly discuss not wanting Brandi to leave your house, but you really don't side with her in anything. I think you like the drama, you can be two faced and you think you know everything and that everyone wants you to fix it. Kyle, stop pretending to be something you are not, and stop getting involved in everyones business. Maybe you don't have enough to worry about. Also, keep Faye on a leash.