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Scheana is a Punk Rocker

Ep 8: Bravotv.com's Editor ponders the end of Kyle's dinner party, psychics, and being the other woman.

Hello my little Vanderpumpers. Did you enjoy your special dip into the world of SUR? Are you surprised the psychic didn't tell you such a thing was coming? Did you make amends with your former husband's mistress because you were inspired by Brandi? Let's try to put this all into perspective shall we?

Faye-d Out
We return to the dinner party at Kyle's, with Brandi walking out from the whole kerfuffle in the face of Faye's comments. Kyle goes out to try to calm Brandi down, and in the face of that storm out Faye doesn't even feel bad enough to send an orchid. While Brandi's tears are massively flowing, Faye spins her theory that Brandi and Lisa are in cahoots, a theory that doesn't go over too well with Lisa.

After much caterwauling and Kyle's best attempts to smooth things over, Lisa walks out and gets Brandi to finally leave. And comes back in only to leave herself. And another dinner party goes down in the disaster book. . .

Good Vibrations
After all that bad vibes, we see Taylor trying to get herself into a better headspace. Yes, the lady Armstrong has entered into the pantheon of Housewives who have consulted a consultant to the other side. And this lady has a lot of different ideas about things. She's got fire fingers, sacred elixirs, and apparently a mainly to Princess Diana.

Of course, Taylor wants to push on actually answers. She wants to know if she'll have to go to court or if a settlement will be reached. And the lady tells her it shall be -- of course she doesn't tell her exactly how it shall be.

Yes, Taylor is going to have to give up her wedding ring and a few select handbags to cleanse her legal matters. It's pretty heartbreaking. Even though her marriage wasn't all great, but it's a major sentimental piece and I'm sure she wasn't ready to lose it.

Eventually Taylor decides that the ring didn't mean a thing (Kim Z. shout out), and settles the case with it. Finally she can move forward and make peace. Congrats Taylor!

Nama-Stop Talking
Next we see Kyle and Marisa discussing the finer parts of the diner party bust up. Are the girls in high or elementary school? Does Brandi really feel bad? And can I discuss all these high-points while doing Warrior Two?

Yes that's right, they tackled all of the post-party drama mid-yoga.

Seriously, have you ever felt more sorry for a yoga instructor ever? Poor gent was just trying to get folks in shape and he was having to hear the deep particulars of the group's confrontations. You don't see me going to spin class and using it as a therapy session, though perhaps I should. Tomorrow when I go I will spend the session explaining everything wrong with my relationship with my parents in deep detail. And I bet I'll feel both physically exhausted and mentally clear afterwards.

The X Factor
But let's get right to it. The crux of this episode is all about Brandi's big meeting with Scheana. At Lisa's behest, Brandi was finally moved to sit down and potentially accept the apology of her ex-husband's former lover.

Yup, it was going to be awkward.

Scheana did her best to start things off on the right foot, with tears and an apology. Of course, Brandi met those tears with a barb about how she was the only one allowed to cry, so things didn't look super great.

But in the end the ladies managed to find a common ground, and it seems like Brandi will be able to dine at any of Lisa's restaurants while Scheana is working. . . we'll just have to see how much she tips her.

Next week the group tries to make amends over dinner. . . and it doesn't go well. But until then, tell me what you thought of Scheana's pleas for forgiveness, Of Kyle's yoga form while working out, and most importantly what you think happened to Princess Di.

Lisa R.: I Am Done With Kim Richards

Lisa Rinna discusses her confrontation with Kim and dispenses some advice from her experiences this season.

We did it. We managed to get through Season 5 of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills without anyone going to prison! It got close at times, but thankfully, we did it. I went into this promising myself I would tell the truth, own my sh--, and always, ALWAYS come from a place of authenticity. Much like everyone else, I am human, and I make mistakes. Sometimes, I act on emotion before really allowing myself time to process, and that can lead me to say or do things that I’m not always proud of. But I make sure to own what I say and do, learn from the mistake, and hopefully grow into a better person because of it.

So, we start off with an emotional glimpse into my family life. It’s time to take down the beloved swingset we have loved and heavily used for nearly 13 years. There were so many wonderful memories attached to that swingset that we will cherish forever and how what a poignant representation of the end of our girls’ childhood as we know it. I wish we could have given it to another family to use and love as much as we did, but unfortunately it was made of wood and had become a hazard by this point. It was just too dangerous to pass along to another family, or else that’s exactly what we would have done. Watching my family during this transitional phase only reiterates just how important each of them is to me. I am fiercely protective of my husband and girls and will not tolerate anyone trying to falsely tarnish the love we all have for one another. The fact that this was even attempted that first night in Amsterdam was both an injustice and violation to my family and me. As a matter of fact, it’s such an injustice, that as we all saw, my inner Dalai Lama moved aside to let my inner gangster take over!

“Don’t let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.” -Dalai Lama

On to Adrienne’s party…I feel like I need to remind you that I was done, done, DONE with Kim Richards at this point. I went to this party with zero intentions of talking TO Kim, ABOUT Kim, and definitely nothing around Kim’s forbidden topic of sobriety. I have been scolded, yelled at, and thrown really f---ing hard into the lion’s den about it, so for my own sanity and peace of mind I. Had. To. Be. Done.

Rather quickly, it became quite evident that Kim was out to hurt Kyle.

Lisa Rinna

Now keep this in mind as I see Kim Richards walking toward me with a certain look of misguided determination in her eyes. When she sits down and asks me to talk about her sobriety, I honestly think I died a little inside. Was this for real? Was I being set up? What kind of warped reality did I find myself in at that moment when Kim was in front of me demanding I talk about "the situation" yet again?! Oh yeah, no way was I going to become a pawn in her weird little mind game. Rather quickly, it became quite evident that Kim was out to hurt Kyle. Kim was making it very clear that she chose not to believe what Kyle had told her, and she was trying to drag me in to help take down her sister. Let’s be real here for just a moment: We all know Kim doesn’t like, trust, or want to be around me at all, so why does she need my confirmation or validation of the conversation? Kim was going to hear exactly what she wanted to hear, regardless of anything I said, because that’s exactly what she does with everything anyway.

Nope. Not gonna play into Kim’s games for a second. I needed to stay honest to myself by not discussing Kim’s sobriety, and unfortunately that resulted in agitating and pissing everyone else off. Listen, I completely understood that both Kyle and Eileen had their opinions and strong need for me to justify Kim’s questions, but the “she said this and she said that” back and forth was just too much. Like I mentioned in last week’s blog, I did what Brandi asked by going to Kyle with this information, and it was now up to the Richards sisters to figure out.

Until I felt an overwhelming feeling that I wasn’t taking Kyle and Eileen’s side. I wanted to support them, so I confirmed the conversation only because Kyle needed me to. Not because Kim wanted me to. Big difference. So, I put aside my own opinion and point of view to support Kyle, since she felt so strongly about it. Walking over to Kim, only to have her shush me and snap at me and speak to me as if I were a child, was only allowing for more red flags to fly. As you saw, I took it in stride and temporarily buried it, but I really don’t do well with people talking to me in such a disrespectful way.

The two different times I spoke to Kim about it that evening, once with Brandi and once without, I felt the need to remind everyone around me that the conversations we’ve all had about Kim were always from a good place, a place of concern and worry, much like what Brandi and Kim apparently only reserve for their own friendship. I never had any intentions of making Brandi look bad during our lunch conversation, because I really felt she was speaking from the heart about her friend, Kim. It’s just a shame that she didn’t feel the same about my role in the conversation, and, yet again, she denies what was actually said. But I guess you live and you learn, and you slowly start to identify a person’s true colors, which is all just a part of this process.

It’s important to mention that I was also concerned for Brandi and her father. I had reached out to her about her father at that time, because I know how hard it is to have a parent with ailing health, and I was sympathetic to the obvious pain she was in. Though much like I remind my daughters as they navigate their young social lives, it’s important to treat others as you would like to be treated. Speak to others as you would like to be spoken to, and never allow your pain and unhappiness to be an avenue to lash out and hurt others.

I am still left bewildered and baffled with absolutely no closure from that party. I was just kind of left sitting there at the party dumbfounded by the turn of events and also by the way I was treated by Kim Richards. It’s so not OK to speak to people the way she does. That said, I do think Monty is a very sweet man, and I absolutely wish him the best.

So, off we go into a three-part reunion beginning next week. You’ve seen the previews by now, and it’s every bit as crazy as you’re thinking it will be. Lots of tears and screaming and F-bombs, and that’s just from Andy! Just kidding. But seriously, it was a nightmare of epic proportions, like a roller coaster you were trapped on for 10 hours. I’ve never experienced anything like it...

Thank you for reading my blog this season and really making me feel welcomed to the show. I had no idea that I would be embraced by such a great community of fans, so for that, I am forever grateful! Keep tweeting me so I don’t miss you all too much!

“Say how you feel, find your passion, love with every ounce of your bones, stand up for things that matter, don’t settle, don’t apologize for who you are... Be f---ing brave”

Until next time…

XO,

LR

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