I think it is very clear that the issues I have with Lisa come from a place of hurt because I cared so much about her. I wasn't having a great year this year because of some health issues and my father and I not talking, so I really needed my friends. During this time Lisa distanced herself from me and started cozying back up to Kyle because I wasn't coming off so well.
I wasn't 100 percent ready to have the conversation with Lisa. I was really hoping to do it one-on-one and not with the guys around. I was hurt because I went from being best friends with Lisa to her not returning my calls and getting close with Kyle again -- someone she has always talked trash about.
I had also been hearing about Lisa closeness with one of my ex-husband's mistresses. She was even going as far as asking me to talk to this woman about her up coming marriage.
Brandi, I have watched this show from the begining. Of all the housewives this is the best. One thing I want you to see, is Kim and Kyle will turn on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They have managed to do it to all the other housewives that have left the show. Don't wht bargin they have set up with Andy but now your are next. Remember, Lisa has something to fall back on you don't. People will get tired of reading about your past dating life.
WHere to begin! You are an insecure, out of control, jealous bully! If it walks like a duck...and p.s. Scheanna is TEN times the woman you are!!
Brandi, you really need to act like an adult. You caused so much trouble because you were jealous? That's just bad. And the scheana thing? Really? Se is a friend of her daughter's and an employee -- she doesn't hang out with her! For goodness sakes, get a grip!~ And I seem to recall you brnging CEDRICK to Lisa and Ken's restaurant after what he pulled, right? Did Lisa hold that against you ?? No.
Brandi, we're not privvy to the behind-the-scenes stuff, I get that. However,how do you not see through this situation w/Lisa that you created? Are you ready for some truth?
1. You CONSTANTLY approach Lisa w/a group. Is that a 'friend' move? A friend would argue it out one-on-one. PERIOD.
2. You hashed it out w/Scheana and said you two were at a 'better place'. You should NEVER have projected ANY sort of truce if you still hated her.
3. Regarding Lisa and Carton...didn't you do the same thing? Didn't you run to Lisa about Adrienne? Have you always been friends with Kyle? Didn't you run to Kyle about Lisa and make nicey-nice? C'mon. Really?
4. You are hurt about Lisa's relationship w/Schaena, so you backstabbed her. If Lisa had shunned Schaena, you would never have thrown her under the bus. HOW STUPID OF YOU. Who cares about Lisa and Schaena? Are you THAT possessive, you couldn't share her friendship? Is this highschool? Lisa's not your ex; it's not tug-of-war time w/Schaena. Get into therapy and stop projecting! LISA WAS GREAT TO YOU!! Maybe too mothering/annoying--but she had your back like a TITAN! And Ken--despite his antics, is probably the best man you've ever had in your life after your father. You truly did trample on their friendship and kindness. There were times that Lisa was DEAD WRONG to have your back--and she knew it!! But she did anyway, didn't she?
If Lisa didn't plant the story about Mauricio, than this fuss over a bag and magazines is stupid (Kyle can be upset though, it's completely her right). The real issue between you and Lisa could have been talked out. You took your anger with Schaena out on Lisa. PERIOD. You always say you have your OWN mouth, AND you've said Lisa never told you to say things--but in the next breath, she controlled you like a puppet? GROW UP. Bottom line, you manipulative like everyone else. Lisa didn't do YOUR bidding w/Scheana so you turned on her. Maybe Lisa's stuck-up or flighty or a bitch, but she was your girl--YOUR Bitch (in the good sense), and you blew it. Adrienne, Lisa, now on to Yolanda. It's very transparent.
I believe that you love Lisa and Ken, and your decision to backstab Lisa is due to hurt/anger at Schaena and Eddie...so work that out. It's your baggage, no one else's. That said...while understandable (bc Eddie sucks), don't expect Lisa and Ken to forgive you. There's a reggae song that says 'sorry for maga dog, maga dog turn 'round bite you'. It means that someone helps and protects a victimized person and that person suprises them with hurt and cruelty. Sorry, but THAT IS YOU now. If I was Lisa and Ken, while I may eventually accept your apology and be cordial, I would never count you as a friend again.
You told her to stop mothering you... Hello!!! She took a step back because you asked... LIFE GOES ON.
All this over analyzing everyone’s words and actions isn’t helping you.Take people for face value.If your husbands exit plan wasn’t enough of a wakeup call on people then how can you expect all these brand new friend of yours to obey you and support you?Just be independent, trust no-one.
Also what up with your friend? The one with dark hair I saw her on a rehab show as a recovering alcoholic and every time I see her with you she’s got wine in her hand?
Brandi, I use to like watching you. Now it's disgusting to watch how you turned on the two people who stuck up for you during the past season. Now that you're in the "IN" crowd you have no need for Lisa and Ken. You should be embarrassed and ashamed.
Shame on you Brandi, you like to create drama and you drink way to much, you should reflect on who was really on your side when you misbehaved.
Really Brandi - It appears to me your issues come from a place of drinking! You are a different person when you drink. I think you imagine things. And you appear to be very ungrateful and vindictive.
Why didn't you blog last week! I use to like you but unfortunately you're excuses and accusations are so ridic and i can't anymore! Good luck to you!
You are the definition of white trash - stop victimising yourself and blaming everything that is wrong in your life on others. You are a woman in her 40s and you behave like a teenager, it's embarrassing. I hope they fire your trashy ass!
EVERY negative thing that a woman will ever say about another, every negative action that she takes, will travel out into the universe, & then, without fail - ricochet directly back to HER. In other words, keep things to yourself. As you have proved, "Once They Stop Talking To You, They Start Talking About You!"
Your issues come from a place of hurt. I don't believe that. I don' think people like you can get hurt. I believe people like you use and hurt other. I think you used someone to get on the show, then threw her over for someone you thought was more important. Now you are throwing her away cause you don't need anyone anymore. Your dirty loud mouth, drunken behavior, loud disgusting fights, and with Lisa's help your first modeling job in years. You now hat have to worry so much about money so you can drop those that you don't need anymore.
I don't believe you. No one can back your story. All you can do I talk about the magazine over and over and about how hurt you are. Your aren't hurt. People like you can't be hurt. You husband didn't just leaving you for another woman he ran as fast as he could. He probably figured out exactly who you are and what type of person you really are. I hope someday you learn your lesson and that lesson is "don't bite the hand that helps you or next time there will be no one to help you.
Also if you are on the show next year I will not watch.
Still no blog, huh? Guess you aren't such a "straight shooter" after all...afraid to face the viewers wrath. Good luck with that! Hope you enjoy the sales of your book, because it is the last success you will have. We are so done with you.
So sorry Brandi- I use to be team Brandi - but not any more. You made a fool out of yourself. Trying to get on the other girls good sides, your jealousy and resentment towards Lisa is shameful. Shame, shame, shame on you Brandi - we all can see right thru you.
Truly the selfish destructive person.
You are the ring the leader that causes the trouble.
You need help
Anyone that cannot see the way Lisa manipulates and lies to stir things up is crazy!! Brandi is the real deal. I have watched her go through a lot on this show and I think she is finally seeing her own self worth. What "friend" brings around a woman that cheated with said friends husband? And asks them to speak with them about marriage? that is sick and twisted. Lisa does nothing for anyone unless it will benefit her in some way. She even has poor Ken fooled. And Ken is a disrespectful ass. You don't speak to women like that. If I was Yolanda's Husband I would kick his ass.
Just think of all the money you have lost on your book by being an idiot.you could have made so much more...
Let's just put it this way....you are a hateful hag. Jealous of Lisa and Kyle, so you start a whole bunch of crap (Yolanda at your side) and attack the one person who has defended you through everything! You suck!
Done, just so you know Bravo if you do not get rid of this person I am switching you off. I understand ratings and all but this has gotten vile and Brandi you are vile. I hope you grow up someday for your sons sake. Your ex husbands affair is over and done with just like the marriage please let it go. I am also divorced and glad that my ex and I do not have to relive all the "bad" things we did to each other, we both had culpability, own it. Move on you have your "hot minute".
Brandi your behavior is hardly attractive and anyone with an ounce of class would tire of being around you. The filth that pours out of your mouth is disgusting. And every time you are around, it starts up. Look back at the way you behaved in Lisa's restaurant. If you behaved that way in my place, it would put an end to things pretty fast too. I think it's time you looked inward, rather than outward. You are your own worst enemy.
Why are you even on here !!! Your not a housewife go find your own little show all about you whinny self!!
Brandi, get a grip. Demanding that Lisa dump someone who wronged you is nuts. That is a problem you have with that person not with Lisa. So be mad at Shena. Your life is a mess because you are the kind of person who likes to blow things up. You act like a child! You say terrible things to people and blame others when they get upset with you. Grow up!
Lady you are delusional and you are paranoial with all that bad that's happened in your life. You are losing yourself and trying to blame others about your problems. Brandi, Lisa don't need to change her waitstaff for you, if you had a problem with the girl that did your husband, you should have said something instead of tolerate it and then blow up a year or two later. It's quite silly...you control yourself!!
I can't believe how absolutly pathetic you are. Lets see if you post a blog this week or if you stay in hidding.
GET OVER IT!!! Lisa did not have an affair with your ex. Your problem comes from being a narcissistic drunkard. You are hateful and bitter, simply intolerable.
Oh good grief. You and Yolanda need to take a grow-up pill and get off this show! I really dislike you! Lisa is YOUR friend... you sure aren't hers!
Brandi, you need to take a long, hard look at your life. You are completely self-absorbed and have no concept of what loyalty means. But you can't see it - and until you do, you life will continue to be a hot mess.
waaahhh waaahhhh waaaahhh. You are afraid of Lisa? REALLLY? Not buying it. You attack on a regular basis for no reason other then wanting to be the center of attention. With friends like you....the world would be a pretty miserable place. Grow up. You can do it! Many have done it, there is no reason why you can't.
This is ridiculous! Brandi is acting like a high-school girl! Attacking Lisa because she's jealous? Its as plain as the nose on her face! Twisting things and getting the girls to all gang up on Lisa? I haven't seen such antics since I was in high school! Grow up Brandi! Get over yourself already! And the scheana thing? Jeez girl, get a grip you sound so Ridiculous!
@bravoinlove Really, a woman who cheats with a pregnant womans husband? Perhaps your mother did not teach you better.
@ingo Everything you've said is beautiful, and right. I used to like Brandi, but not anymore. You don't treat others like that no matter how hurt you are.
@TheReal.Allthetime Me too!
@lucy22 Lisa didn't "bring" Scheana around. Scheana has worked for Lisa for five years. How many employees tell their boss who they're sleeping with? And how many bosses fire employees for sleeping with someone two to three years later?
If Brandi was being "real" she would've blogged this week. Instead, she's hiding. Most viewers know why.
Oh, and why are you whining about Sheana now? You've been on the show 3 yrs! Oh wait, I remember - because you've got all you wanted out of Lisa, so now it's on to Yolanda! YOU are the one "Playing games"!