Carlton Gebbia

Carlton shares why she got past her problems with Kyle and what she thought of Joyce's "self righteous" remarks.

on Jan 8

And thank god I wasn't there I would much rather be with my magiclal family. I honestly have the best time with my children. They are so healing. Our children are funny and kind of heart and soul. They are my life. We are a very close family. We always have been and as wild or inappropriate as some may think I am. My children are proof that you can be both. They are grounded, polite, and soulful. I refuse to lose my spirit just because some don't agree with my language or whatever. I live for myself and my family and no one else's negative opinion of me will effect or will change me.

Oooh golf looked fun. . .I'd probably play in platforms too.

Dan Sartor is a talented tattoo artist and an artist who we have known for years. David and I both decided to get tattoos to celebrate the birth of our son Cross, we already have tattoos with our girls' names.

For a gift last year David had a surprise pentagram necklace made for me by "King Baby" with our children's names engraved on it. Sometimes with silver jewelry it has no substance to it, it's flimsy, but 'King Baby' jewelry has some real weight. It's a solid gorgeous piece of jewelry. Dan loosely based his design around it. Yes, I know some may have an aversion to tattoos -- but again not really doing it for them now. Mine are all very symbolic and they make me happy.

I wanted a pentagram with my children's names around it. A pentagram is a five-pointed star which represents the elements -- Air, Earth, Fire, Water and Spirit being the goddess Mother Earth the top point. For me having this on my body sort of serves as a protective talisman deflecting negative energy and protecting my family.