Carlton Gebbia

No matter how hard Carlton tries she can't like Kyle or understand Joyce's need to bring high school into things.

on Dec 9, 20130

So she doesn't want to get her hair wet in the four foot deep pool and then Kyle starts in with her way too casual utterance of irresponsible labeling. Again, "peer pressure." Give me a f---ing break. . .Not even close! How many labels does this one have under her girdle? so far I've heard "bullying," "ganged up on," and "peer pressure." There does seem to be a pattern: Labels associated with teenagers in high school, who seriously have endured the severity of those name. But I don't think she knows shes not a teenager.

Oh and the dinner from hell was soooo fun! More labels, this time Joyce uses "bullying" referring to Brandi teasing her with the wrong name. This is bloody exhausting! If as adults we constantly reverted back to childhood memories of bad name calling we'd never get out of bed! These adults and their diluted labels. Oh and yes there was that wonderful welcoming toast as host to her dinner. . .I mean Joyce toasting herself. . . Crickets! God this is an evening that will not DIE!

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Tracalli
Tracalli

Why is it alright for you to openly  lust after Brandi and talk about kyle saying something about Lisa's chest??? You re so judgemental about everyone on the show, look in the mirror Witchie Poo, nobody is scared of you and your spells!

As far as Joyce goes you will never be as sweet or pretty as she is !

Beacon22
Beacon22

u r so jealous of Kyle! U don't know who u r and it's so obvious. So sad..... What I love is how Kyle goes on so happily without you!!!!

Lilly703
Lilly703

What I find unbelievable about Carlton is how judgmental she can be.  You are extremely defensive with Kyle and are offended by everything she says.  You are friends with some of the women and don't take offense to anything they say.  Furthermore, you are sharing a great deal of your sex life on the show but act offended when someone asks your religion?  Seriously? 

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

I am wondering why they are showing other videos instead of Brandi with her racial remark to Joyce.  I have been looking for it and not able to find it.  I am Black/African American female and find it was racial.  I am glad that Joyce put her in her place and I it was nice that she educated people.  Ethnicity is different from race.  Brandi also stated Joyce is confused and doesn't know she is. If I am not mistaken Joyce broke it down that she know her ethnicity and race.

I think Brandi is jealous of Joyce.  I have to say I really like Joyce and she doesn't have a problem speaking her mind. 

 

ygal56
ygal56

What were you thinking BRAVO!!!!

AndiandAmanda14
AndiandAmanda14

How insane that you would be offended by Kyle asking about your religion when you have crosses plastered in every nook and cranny of your home?  I'd ask too.

AndiandAmanda14
AndiandAmanda14

No matter what Kyle or Joyce does they can't win with you.  Meanwhile Brandi can spew some pretty ugly words towards Kyle and Joyce and you don't come down hard on her like you do Kyle and Joyce.  Brandi can be outright racist and you make excuses for her.  Meanwhile you criticize Joyce (Brandi's target) for not letting go.  What?  You're targeting the wrong girl here.  As far as your "friends" considering you delightful and witty, really?  I see a very dark and mean person with no sense of humor at all.

cblank
cblank

Carleton,

You have crosses all over your house, why did you give a nasty look at Kyle when she asked about them? You need to have some respect for people not just the animals.

astacalombado
astacalombado

This freak is plain Evil Looking and brings nothing to the show! Bravo I hope you read all the post viewers post about Carl and really take serious to it.. Because like many ask Why is she on the HW's.. She so disliked by many..

raspberrytea
raspberrytea

Carlton, What bothers me the most about you is your respect about nature (and bugs) is greater than your respect about your fellow human beings. No matter what Kyle or Joyce do you manage to find fault in them, "damned if they do or damned if they don't". You find the speck in the eyes of others, but missed the plank in your own. How sad.

BigRealitybuff
BigRealitybuff

I am so embarrassed for you.  You are those annoying moms at school that I try to stay far away from. 

jvcatlvr
jvcatlvr

Carlton is always preaching about how she is so "respectful" of nature and all in it.  Well, how does she explain about what she wears, what she eats, and also the fact that that big ole house of hers destroyed trees that were cut down to allow her to build it and  show off?  What a hypocrite.

tparker101
tparker101

Carlton you just don't like kyle. She can say anything to you and you will be offended but Brandi called you a C**t and you liked her for it…….that makes a lot of sense. By the way all of you guys trying to force Joyce to get in the pool is peer pressure FYI!!!!

 

Tracalli
Tracalli

Wow, I find you to be a hateful, mean person. From the first minute that you appeared on the show you were negative. And why is it alright form Brandi to call you the C word but Kyle can't open her mouth around you. Poor Joyce , just leave her alone, really I think that you are jealous of her because you will never look like her! I hope that Bravo does not keep you after this season.

mary.katherine.79
mary.katherine.79

But you DID mention that you used to practice "dark Wicca", with the clear understanding that it was some kind of "power".  Joyce understands much more than you're ABLE to give her credit for. Joyce saying her God is powerful should not have offended  your claim to love nature and all that.  It was a crush to your ego, and you can't seem to  get over the fact that you have as much "power"  as a shoelace, because that old black magic has you in your OWN spell. 

 

You have no ability to see the bright side of things. Kyle left your side because she was hosting a party and that's so dark to you that you STILL mention it.  lol  Lighten up, Kiddo. 

 

If someone left  the room in the middle of my sentence I would just laugh at it.  It is pretty funny. 

karencerv
karencerv

If we all practised Wicca, our earth, air, water, wildlife, and atmosphere would not be de-forested, polluted, poisoned, driven to extinction or ozone depleted. Most humans suck...don't compromise yourself for anybody. I'm enjoying watching you on this show!

freemom2
freemom2

I never knew that Morticia Adams was british :)  Carlton is scary, like she would eat your soul:0

Chanyn
Chanyn

You are truly a classless person!  Your voodoo is crap and why they allow you to continue on this program is

unbelievable!  Your there...I'm not watching any longer!

KcMom41
KcMom41

OMG, you got interrupted when talking!!! Horrible!! How could that happen to someone so important as yourself?! You should be outraged!! Oh right, you were! Make sure you stay pissed over that one! Keep judging Kyle for such rude behavior! What right does she have for not being perfectly proper & polite in your presence!!!! You should start a blog on how to teach Kyle proper behavior that you approve of!!

KcMom41
KcMom41

You said, quote, " you like women who can laugh at themselves & not take themselves so seriously". The only one behaving that way IS Kyle! It will take a life altering illness for you to stop complaining & nitpicking over non-issues, you actually appear to look for issues, or even simple words, in order to be offended or mad! Once you experience a serious problem to your health or your children you will never choose to be so shallow--look to those who have had near death experiences--they find even the largest insults & difficulties to be meaningless & incapable of shaking there happiness & peace. Hope you find that someday.

KcMom41
KcMom41

You have too many "Issues", as you say!! Get over yoursel!

kr13
kr13

Bravo Carlton!  

As a practicing Witch, Elder, and High Priestess in the religion for over 40 years, I empathize with all your concerns of whom to disclose anything so personal to. And that has no bearing on the love and pride I take in who and what I am. It stems more from the fear of ignorance that can lean towards cruelty towards my faith.

Like you, I am often reserved when disclosing any of my belief system, until I've a "read" on the person inquiring.

I am appalled with recent comments on "The Wendy Williams Show" and "Bethenny Frankel". Both made by the shows' hosts. Kyle was a guest.

I do hope you're familiar with the many anti-defamation leagues we have as resources for these very issues. As stated many times, were this a Jew, Christian, Muslim, or any other main stream, actions would be taken. They should be here as well. I see this as an opportunity to educate.

If you do read this, please contact me @ravenhawk13 via twitter. More than happy to assist in any way.

Bright blessings to you and yours.

The Rev. RavenHawk

p.s. I haven't been the same since that house fell on my sister. *wink* 

JulesG.
JulesG.

Carlton one thing is clear is you and I should say any American are at odds. You seem to love misunderstanding or not allowing any peace. You are very Dark spiritually when you hang with The Bumbling Drunk Brandi and the Goddess (not) Yolanda. Only one other comment, there is nothing more hideous. Than a pair of over sized implants on a skeletal body. Please cover up. Do we understand each other?

MomJD
MomJD

I agree with you that the term bully is inappropriate when applied to these alleged adult women. Kyle is always stirring the pot, and then turning around and claiming victim status, which is a powerful position to take, in a sick way. It's a dodge for talking smack about everybody else. This has been going on for years. I hate it, too, when a person walks away in mid-sentence. I laughed when Kyle kept interrupting Yo when she was trying to explain that a conversation is when two people take turns listening to each other. Joyce is an airhead and is fast becoming Kyle #2. Keep on doing your own thing. Joyce, like most dingbat Christians, thinks her beliefs are the only true beliefs, and seems unaware that it's a big world out there. Like you, I don't want to hear about her spouse's alleged endowments -- he's not that cute. I'm also bored with her bragging that she is young and beautiful. Beauty fades, but dumb is forever!

0815
0815

Do you like what you see of yourself after watching the show?  Just wondering?!

 

BJA
BJA

you are a bitch.

kat1129
kat1129

ughhhhhh thought you were going to a great addition....you add NOTHING

Tina12061971
Tina12061971

 @freedomlover  The "very clueless man, I mean woman comment actually made me chuckle".  Im not sure why you felt it necessary to respond to my post discussing issues like being ladylike, bullying, peer pressure, manners, immaturity, and arrogance.  Maybe if I had mentioned any of those, I would understand.  My post had to do with the ignorant religious comment that came out of Joyces mouth.  Nothing more.

hotintexas
hotintexas

Carlton what composure you have with Kyle!!  Kudos to you for your class!  You have a beautiful home and I can tell you have such a warm, sweet, honest soul.  You are a great addition to this show.  Wishing you all the best and love how you keep it real!!

Itokagi23
Itokagi23

 I have to believe that there is good in someone who loves and respects animals the way you do! I do feel that those of us who do, have little patience for some humans!

Fromtheshowmestate
Fromtheshowmestate

So let me get this straight - of all the crappy comments that got made during the Palm Springs trip, the thing that seemed to get your back up the most was Kyle using the term "peer pressure"?  The only time I was disappointed in Kyle during this episode was when she didn't challenge you.  She should have said "well what would you call it"?  I would have loved to have heard your commentary on what term you would prefer.  Yolanda and Brandi are Joyce's peers (I am sure they would disagree), and they were pressuring her relentlessly to get in the pool - even asserting that not doing so was being a bad hostess.  Seems like a pretty clear cut case of peer pressure to me. Lady, you need to take a seat. 

debsdebs
debsdebs

Maybe Joyce didn't want to get in the pool because she was afraid you or Brandi might kiss her?  Yuck!!!

nickcole23
nickcole23

I love you Carlton!  You are sexy, dark and mysterious, and I you are on the show.  I love how you speak and hold yourself.  I'm a fan!  I would have loved to be Brandi and share the "friendship" kiss.  So happy you are on the show and make Kyle sweat.  Much love goes to my dark sexy woman. 

freedomlover
freedomlover

Also, to prove what a hypocrite Carl is, doesn't she wear the skins of slaughtered animals?  Don't they have the right as part of nature, to live the life they desire?  She is the biggest hypocrite in the show, and that is hard to trump Leanndi, Listrum, and Yolinda.  She loves nature unless she wants to misuse and abuse it.  She respects all creatures so much, she wears them on her body.  If she were truly a champion of nature, she would be a vegan, and never wear leather.  She is such a waste on this show.  Please Bravo, find someone who isn't such an insult to the viewer's intelligence.  This show didn't need another two faced phony hypocrite on it.  Her Mean Girl's Club are already three too many.  Get rid of Leanndi, Yolinda, and Listrum.  You notice, like tends to gather together.  All condescending, arrogant, back stabbers, with double standards for themselves and others.

freedomlover
freedomlover

Hey, why would Carl think it isn't rude, crude, and socailly unacceptable to make fun of someone else's name?  Leanndi was just joking around.  Have a sense of humor, people.  Afterall, didn't Carl have a sense of humor when she called her children, "Fate, Time Share, and Clueless?  LIstrum, and Yolinda were right.  Joyce was just too sensitive.

 HYPOCRITES ALL.  Carl is what is called an Energy Vampire.  These people seek out positive people so they can attack them, and drain all of their victim's positive energy into themselves.  They can only find social friends when they are as negative as they are, like Leanndi, Listrum, and Yolinda.  They even encourage these other negative friends, and I use the term, friends, loosely, to attack others with them.  This enables them to create much more negativity in order to prey on their victims and drain even more energy from them, then if they had acted alone. A positive person like, Joyce, is a typical choice to single out.  This is the only way a crippled personality like, Carl, can feel good about herself.  Kyle's cheery personality is also attractive for these vampires.  The only way to be around such ghouls is not to be around them at all.  They can't, and won't change their character defects.  If Joyce, Kyle, and Kim were not on the show, neither would Carl.  She has to have positive energy to exist, or she would dry up inside.

freedomlover
freedomlover

People like Carl are what are called, "Energy Vampires."  They thrive on negative energy.  They always target those who have positive energy, which they seek to drain from that individual by attacking them without cause.  That is why she targets Kyle, Kim, and the very positive, polite Joyce.  Carl is transparent in her actions.  She will always gravitate towards other negative people, because they don't have the positive energy she needs to feel good about herself.  They are the only kind of people she can actually socialize with.  As all can see from the show, she only hangs out with the most negative, hypocritical, and condescending people, who are like her.  Their negative energy holds no attraction for her, so they get a pass, and are indeed encouraged to be aggressive with her.  The more negativity that is stirred up, the more positive energy she can suck up from the positive ones being attacked.  She is so one dimensional.  Is this the best Bravo could dig up from the grave for its viewers?

kparrott
kparrott

Carlton, I didn't like you at first, but you are starting to grow on me.  I just don't know why you insist on hating Kyle!  What has she ever done to you? 

sweetie1426
sweetie1426

I like you Carlton I think your a good add to the show a lot of people just dont want to like you because of your faith and because your not not falling for Kyles BS and thats just sad!!!!

ammratan89
ammratan89

 @DeeDee5304 Brandi does have bad mouth, sure she does really knw what is appropriate and what is not. but if u have watched her constantly on the show, u sud knw that she is not a racist person. It was a bad joke but it was not her intention to offend black ppl. She has heaps of black friends if u are following her on twitter u wil knw =)

jvcatlvr
jvcatlvr

 @Tina12061971  @freedomlover

 She can't read and Brandi was drunk when she read it to her.  But Brandi "sincerely" apologizes so we should all be forgiving,...again!ha

jvcatlvr
jvcatlvr

 @hotintexas

 hotintexas - are you serious?  Carlton has NO composure with Kyle.  She has NO class, she sure doesn't have a warm, sweet and honest soul.  Pretty house, maybe.  Not my style but maybe.

jvcatlvr
jvcatlvr

 @Fromtheshowmestate

 Totally agree.  Getting offended at the term peer pressure was absurd.  If ANY of the women would get offended at that, it would be absurd.  Even the ones I feel are great.  Beyond belief.  Carlton, use your witchcraft and get a life!

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

 @freedomlover   You're obsessing now.  You know that don't you?  No one else is going to start calling these women by your made-up names.  Even if viewers agree with your message, your preoccupation with the name-game is seriously off-putting. So you can stop now.  Please.

astacalombado
astacalombado

 @kparrott

 Kyle walked away from Carlton when Carlton was talking! So there for she can't stand Kyle.. Me personally I'd RUN from Carl.. Not because she scares me but because that's one awful sight to see!

jvcatlvr
jvcatlvr

 @sweetie1426

 The ONLY reason I dislike Carlton is that she is so judgemental.  Some can say anything and she will just laugh it off, while others say something and she gets all offended.  If I lived beside her, I would feel I might offend her by wearing slippers to get the mail!  Her religion has nothing to do with it.  I would dislike her if she was or wasn't a Wiccan. 

Cocobeans12345
Cocobeans12345

 @sweetie1426 No, I think the reason why a lot people don't Carlton is because she contradicts herself (i.e., "women could rule the world; if only they got out of each other's way), she's unnecessarily rude to Kyle, and she's a follower (Brandi can say something completely offensive and Carlton would lick it up because she's enamored by Brandi).