I didn't tell anyone about this conversation with Brandi because I didn't want to create any type of awareness to the silly hair incident, until a couple of days later over a beautiful lunch with Yolanda in Malibu. In my opinion, we were getting to know each other and I felt like I was bonding with Yolanda as we talked about how both of us grew up as very simple girls and then both modeled. I was very happy and was even talking to her about my mommy, which is my soft spot, when suddenly she says, "OK, this is boring. Let’s talk about what happened at Carlton's lunch". I was taken aback and didn't understand what exactly she was talking about until she told me that Brandi had called her to tell her Lisa had been very rude to me at Carlton's lunch. My response to Yolanda was, "Maybe Lisa was having a bad day or maybe she was on her period, because when I'm on my period I'm not exactly at my best."
Yolanda pushed for more details on what had happened, so I told her about the "silly" hair incident. After discussing this little "incident" with Yolanda and with Brandi, I felt I HAD to tell Lisa because I am not two-faced; I do not talk about someone with different people and not tell the person in question, which is why I needed to tell Lisa directly to her face.
I know that at the time Lisa was unfortunately trusting her BFF (Brandi) instead of the "new girl" and probably thought I was trying to create conflict. However, I think that everyone's true colors come out in time, and I believe that Lisa is the type of person that will appreciate a straight shooter and an honest person. I really didn't like how Brandi turned it around and tried to make it seem as if she was "having my back giving me a warning." WHAT EXACTLY WAS SHE WARNING ME ABOUT BY TALKING ABOUT HER BFF?
After watching the episode, I realize that I probably could have told Lisa just once or twice (including my reenacting of the incident LOL). I need to stop repeating myself so much; I do it all the time. It probably stems from the fact that I think in Spanish and have a terrible Spanglish going on, so I repeat myself until people let me know they understand what I'm trying to say. . .All of that combined with too much Latin passion!
Note to self: "Start trying to think in English!" LOL
Until next time. . .I send you all a big kiss! Happy Thanksgiving!