Ken is my hero of the episode. A man who defends his lady is a true prince. I personally wouldn't take it any other way. I understand why he was upset from the beginning of the party. I admire how he stood up for his wife, defended his friendship with Mauricio, and told him flat out that the accusations were false. And, above all, I admire that he was not giving the Hollywood hypocritical kisses to everybody. He let them know what he thought about their behavior.
The most painful to watch was that Ken barely even touched Yolanda when she swatted him away. My husband and I didn't see the alleged aggression when it occurred. After Ken and Lisa left, Yolanda was shaking like a leaf, almost crying, and saying that she had never had a man put his hands on her. This became a big deal at the party and Carlton, Kyle, and myself were all shocked and felt genuinely sorry for her -- to the point where my husband gave Yolanda his jacket. Now that I have seen the "abuse" and it looks much more like Ken just reaching for her hand, I can't believe she would go to such lengths and try to assassinate his character.
In the middle of the drama called RHOBH, I still had fun at the party, as I had a lot of friends there and I had my husband there. Whenever we are together we manage to have fun even in the most dramatic circumstances.
All I can say is: enjoy life. It is a blessing and it is way too short, so don't try to make everything so heavy.
Sunday I am making a big announcement at my event so please stay tuned.