Cast Blog: #RHOM

Karent and Lisa's Attacks

Alexia was shocked by some of the ladies' behavior at the lingerie party.

As I write this blog it brings joy to my heart knowing that I am an inspiration to many of you. I want you to know that my strength comes from your thoughts, prayers, love, and support in these difficult times, and again, being strong is the only choice I have.
I had promised myself I would not talk about Karent, but that was before watching this episode of course. How can I not, right? Finally in this episode Karent’s mask is unveiled, and we see the Karent that Adriana, Ana, Lea, Marysol, and myself have been talking about; her true colors and real character come to light. First she tries to start trouble with Marysol about her fur cape, but Marysol, oblivious to her attack, ignores it. Furthermore in her interview she states that Marysol was being defensive. Really? Karent, you approached her and were questioning her about wearing fur, which was none of your business. Secondly, she meets Joe Francis for the first time and two minutes later is asking him if he slept with Joanna. WHO DOES THAT?! Are you really her friend?! Really?! With friends like that, who needs enemies? And it doesn’t stop there. She runs over to Joanna and tells Joanna what Joe Francis had said not taking into consideration the fact that she was in Lisa’s home at a charity event and Romain was present. What happened to all that class you brag about?

Oh, and let me not forget the interview she gave to Lesley Abravanel (journalist) where she clearly puts us down and attacks us with mean spirited statements. Again she lies by saying that she didn’t know who Lesley was, yet Lesley writes in our local paper (Miami Herald) in the People Page (Karent’s favorite section) where celebrity stories and gossip are featured. Karent and her publicist were very aware of who she was giving the interview to. Again she is lying. Karent never admits to things. She needs to take responsibility and own it, but instead she plays dumb and the victim.
I’ve never wanted to use my blog to bash the others, because I believe in telling people to their face what I think and feel. Therefore the reunion will be very interesting, because we will have a chance to clarify face-to-face all these situations that the viewers and myself have been aware of.

On that note, I don’t know why Lisa enjoys talking behind everyone's back in her interviews and is continuously attacking and criticizing Lea and anyone else she can. I don’t get it, just like I don’t get her party. Everything else was going on except what really should have been going on -- a fundraiser for breast cancer. I was happy not to be there. Seriously, given how little I go out these days I truly want to have a great time and enjoy my evening. Besides that, the following day was Lea and Roy’s gala, which Herman and I have been part of for years and had already committed to.I was thrilled to FINALLY film with my amiguita (friend) Marysol, and by the way, we spoke about many more important things than Karent as well.

I was also excited to participate with Lea, Adriana, and Joanna at Lea’s Committee Meeting. Unfortunately, Karent’s name was brought up again.
Until next time, I’ll leave you with this thought:
“An ounce of practice is worth tons of preaching”
God Bless!
Besos (kisses),
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Lea's Final Thoughts on the Season

Lea shares he status with each of the girls post-reunion.

It’s a Wrap!

It’s been an interesting season. I've been as honest and authentic as possible. I feel I owe that to myself and to you, our viewing audience. I've defended myself when wrongly accused or misinterpreted and in the process unfortunately, ugly truths have been exposed. I haven't gone out of my way to hurt anyone, but if I have, in the spirit of defending myself or setting the record straight, then so be it. I've had some fun, a few laughs, and experienced a lot of unnecessary stress.

I've showcased as many of my friend’s businesses as I could and got in a few shameless plugs for However, I haven't traded on the show or received any freebies, other than borrowing jewelry a couple of times! LOL! Some have interpreted it as being materialistic, I call it marketing. LOL!

I've listened to people re-invent the past, camouflage the present, and stoop to insults, foul language, and ugliness, all of which make me cringe. I've made closer bonds with some and made new friends along the way. I’ve learned to love and appreciate the work that goes into being on the show. Of course, I don't like what I see from time to time, but I hope I've maintained my integrity and what was important to me.I cracked a few jokes at others expense, made a few sarcastic remarks, and rolled my eyes a few times. I just can't (or won't) stop being myself. LOL! I've loved reading all of your comments and tweets. Even when I disagree, I'm OK with it if you were being intellectually honest. But the few comments which were mean-spirited, based upon uniformed conclusions, bias, or outside influence, I disregarded, ignored, and deleted. I have a low threshold for pettiness and unnecessary maliciousness.

Now, for the girls, in my usual style, let me be as honest as I can be.

Lisa: I feel she and I have a lot in common, and I'm closer to her than the others. I think she has a good heart, but is a little too sensitive. I think she often takes things too personally. She wants to have fun; she has a wonderful spirit and loves a good party. She did get on my nerves while attempting to be “the connector" but I understand the reasons and know her intentions were good. She can always depend on me, and we enjoy a loving and brutally honest relationship.

I'm the next closest to Joanna. I love a lot of things about her. Her love for animals, how much she works , her willingness to speak publically about her very personal problems, endure public scrutiny, and the manner in which she let's things go and moves on are all admirable. She doesn't live or die based upon the opinions of others. I am disappointed with some of the things that she said things during the reunion shows. I know she has suffered for it, regrets it deeply, and wishes she could take it back. But because of some of her choices, I have a reluctance to fully embrace or trust her. She knows exactly how I feel.
Alexia: For three seasons I have defended her, had her back, and given her the benefit of the doubt. Watching her all season, week after week, speak one insult or mean-spirited comment about me, knowing many of them were lies, causes me to wonder if she did it to patronize the hate club, play all sides, or if she has some hidden resentment towards me. Perhaps she did it for air time in an attempt to make herself more relevant? Maybe she just doesn't like me and doesn't want to say it? Whatever reason she got her digs in, it is not justifiable; they were uncalled for and she should regret it and say so.  Whenever the cameras weren’t rolling, she’d tell me how much she loves me and what great friends we are. So even though she threw me under the bus several times, as recently as the reunion, I'm not interested in going tit for tat. I wish her and Herman well, and I have a lot of empathy for her personal issues.

Now to Adriana:  Everyone knows how I feel about her. The one thing she did which showed her real inner self is when she ripped my son’s heart out and stomped on it. She intentionally, out of hatred, kept her son away from my son. To this day, I know that I’ve done nothing but try to help her or defend myself against her lies.  She has expressed her gratitude by stabbing me in the back. Whatever her motivation (I have my own conclusions), nothing will ever put Humpty Dumpty back together again. I can put the past in the past and be amicable towards her, but let me make the following point crystal clear: I will never fully trust her. And I really just don't like who she is. Since the show either she has changed or who she really is showed up. Either way it’s not compatible with who I am and what I want in my life.
Marysol: Again, I've called Elsa many times over the months, and I've continued to do so, whether Marysol chooses to believe it or not.

And to set the record straight, yes Frankie is a friend of mine. He is a comedian and has a You Tube channel of impersonations, he is a Broadway star and an entertainer. He only impersonates people he finds interesting. No, he never knew Elsa was sick and no, I didn't see him make the video, and no, I wasn't in the background. All of which can be proven. But if it was a big secret, he wouldn't have posted it on You Tube.

And by the way, he made the You Tube video months after the show was no longer filming. But of course Marysol brought it up about 5 months later, so she could justify and explain away her behavior of the season.

Overall, it’s been a learning experience. I've been surprised to discover how people will behave and how far they will go for attention, relevance, a storyline, or to make someone look bad. I've always said reality TV brings out the best and worst in people, and I stand by that belief.

My tag line “I live my life like everything matters, because I think it does" is true for me. As easy as it may be for some to just live in denial and brush things aside, I believe everything we do matters, including who we are to ourselves and to others. And who we are produces consequences, both good and bad. I choose to live my life trying to create good consequences and limit negativity.
Not all drama has to be negative. One doesn’t have to criticize others in order to justify their own poor behavior or make themselves feel better about their lives.

So maybe I'm a fit for reality TV or maybe I'm not, that would be up to the viewers. The one thing I am certain of is that my real friends, my family, my son, and my husband understand me and are more important to me than anything and everything else. They know that my charitable work, being true to myself, living like everything matters, giving more than I take, my sense of right and wrong, making a conscious effort to live a life of purpose, setting a good example for my son, and being mindful of future generations are the most important things in my life.

I love nice things and love living the good life, and sharing it, and I've earned every right to do just that. I will never apologize for my lifestyle, but I won't be defined by it either.

Thanks for watching. Life is time, and you took time out for us, and for that I am forever grateful. Whether you enjoyed me on the show or not, know one thing, I put as much into it as I possibly could, and then some. LOL! Thank you POP, our amazing producers and their incredible team, the Bravo Network, and the viewers for the opportunity to cross paths. Did we bond yet? LOL!

Spread the love and keep the peace.

Love, Lea

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