Alexia Echevarria

Alexia was shocked to see the ladies talking together after the fight as if nothing happened.

on Oct 29, 20120

Hello again! Today I do not have much to say. I refuse to continue talking about this crazy party. You the viewer I feel have seen enough to make up your mind about this whole mess and about the characters involved. I feel the point has been made and furthermore actions speak louder than words (and there was definitely lots of action)! You be the judge of it. Who are the bullies now? Who are the mean girls? And why would Joanna even be calling Adriana the devil, perhaps she was referring to someone else.

I felt terrible for Lisa and for her guests, who were really there to support such a dear and wonderful cause. I must say that I was very surprised how at the end of the evening the ladies ended up sitting down in the same room and sharing the same sofa, some even laughing as if nothing had happened. I'm not sure I would have had the same reaction! By now, those reactions shouldn't be surprising; they are sort of common and normal in some individuals –- scary!

43 comments
Maya2
Maya2

Oh  and to those who say you interrupted Karent and Adriana's conversation the same way Joanna interrupter theirs ? Big difference  was  it was YOUR party, your event you wanted to make sure everythng went well and you weren't drunk ! and when Karent walk away NO ONE FOLLOWED !

Maya2
Maya2

Karent has no class and no social skills, for her to whisper in Joanna's ear while you wer talkng to her? im so glad you called her out on it ! she wants to be relevant in every storyline every siuation ! she had just met Joe Francis and she asks if he slept with both sisters? and made sur everyone including her fiance heard ! and Joanna thinks that's a friend? wow with friends like that you don't need enemies !

lorenjey
lorenjey

What happened our Cuban Barbie?  I too rooted for you but I would NEVER have picked you to be a gossiper or hater, especially to Karent.  You should have approached her differently.  You are way too smart to stoop to the level you did when you confronted her.  I am surprised and hope you realized the error of your ways. 

juliesoft
juliesoft

Alexia, I thought you had class, you don't you are a mean girl!

ceeacee
ceeacee

Make sure your friend Adriana read and UNDERSTANDS the Mark Twain quote because she fed you a bunch of lies about what happened at the party.  The both of you need to grow and stop acting like junior-high school girls.  Why do you let Adriana involve you in her pettiness?

Clarissa_and_Julian
Clarissa_and_Julian

You seem like a great mother....but you do not come across as a good friend. If you really cared about  Adriana, you would help her filter and rid herself of all the negative energy she puts out towards other, instead of instigating it.

You and your family should be a testament to the fact that there are waaay more important things in life than exhausting endless energy on jealousy or spite. 

Watching the show lately...we are amazed that so many beautiful women can be so ugly :/

Sweeteena1018
Sweeteena1018

Oh be quiet! nobody cares what you think .  Clearly you are up Adriana's Ass so whatever you say is going to be in defense of that idiot who was acting like a Bully Beast.  Focus on your son's and getting one healty and the other one out of trouble.

HeidyBeba
HeidyBeba

Yes, better for you to not give us your input.. Joanna was you a couple of weeks ago, you know interrupting a conversation! The outcome was different for 2 reasons: Adrianna didn't attack you bcs she was not the one leaving and you were on her side; 2. Karent, the one leaving, had more grace that Adrianna doing so.

So, no thank you!

As your son goes, I am amazingly glad that he is doing better! However, I wont say much about it bcs don't want your cuban side to attack me like you did Karent for her mentioning him.

LadyTeapots
LadyTeapots

You are a wonderful devoted mother and I wish you every blessing for you and your family. 

scrapper
scrapper

you may want to RE_THINK that know your place comment, jillzarin thought she was quenBee on hwn and we all know how that ended, you all just houswives with just as many problems as the rest of us. it does'nt matter how high your mone stacks up if your charactor is out the window

BigSister3
BigSister3

I still cannot get over the way you and Adrianna ganged up on Karent....both of you looked very ugly.  You told her "You have to earn your place"....Who made you the boss of other people?  Who do you think you are?  Just because you have been on the show for one whole year longer (LOL) doesn't mean you make the rules.  When Karent wondered where your ugliness towards her was coming from and told you she's been on your side and only wished you and your family the best during your difficult time, she was not trying to throw it up in your face.  You definitely overreacted.  You just blindly followed Adrianna in picking on Karent....Two bullies.  Your true character showed when you attacked Karent when she wasn't even fighting back.  News flash:  Just because your "Grandfather" Herman is well known in Miami doesn't mean you make the rules there.  Why don't you stay home where you belong and stop making trouble.

ciqua47
ciqua47

So sick of Joanna and Karent already! They are bringing out the worst in everyone, so negative! Joanna shouldn't be on the show and drinking the way she does- she is TERRIBLE when she has had a couple- screaming about fur, being brutal to her sister, disrespectful to her boyfriend and flying off the handle- asking for trouble. Karent is just a dope- causing drama then standing around like an idiot with nothing to say... get a clue! Stay out of the ugliness Alexia!! Don't let them drag you down to their level!

Latinaza229
Latinaza229

It was also scary when you attacked Katent last episode. I will say this though and maybe Im wrong. To me it looked like you were forced to attack karent, it just didn't fit your personality. Best wishes, Alexa, I hope everything gets better in the future.

marina.greenfield.7
marina.greenfield.7

Put aside all this negativity and craziness with the show....On a positive note....i pray for you and your family.  I could only imagine what your going through with both your boys.   Things will bet better.  :0)

Caligirldream
Caligirldream

Why do you even have any words about this party. Your not even there. You seem to be jumping in at any chance to stir it up.

BeachBlonde
BeachBlonde

Alexia - as a fellow mother I am just amazed by your fortitude.  My daughter suffered a severe injury last November while out with friends.  The parents who were supposed to be watching her let the girls go off without any supervision, knowingly breaking my rules, and my daughter had a terrible accident. After being discharged from the hospital, my daughter faced months of therapy and missed school, with no one giving her a break. For my part, I am a single parent with no family around to help, so the 24/7 care was physically & psychologically grueling.  It's been almost a year since the incident and I've yet to hear from the parents who so callously allowed this to happen.  However, in that same period of time, their own daughter has gone from a bubbly, bright young lady to a defiant, drugged-out, juvenile delinquent who has been arrested multiple times for drinking, drugs, shoplifting and theft.  These aren't parents - they're "roommates".

 

Your son has endured far beyond what my daughter went through - but my daughter's experience gives me even greater appreciation for all of the emotional and physical hurdles you, and your family, have had to overcome.  In my opinion, it is when things go WRONG, that our true nature becomes visible to others. It is clear that you love your family, your son, more than anything and that no matter what, they come first ... not career, not money, not beauty, not fame ... but Family and Motherhood are what drive you. 

 

Putting your faith in The Lord is the best thing you can do for everyone, and the close relationship you will all gain with Him is a just reward for being an Overcomer in Christ and giving Him access to and authority over All aspects of your life and the lives of your children. I can tell you that His rewards for obedience (especially in the face of utter opposition &/or despair) are even better than the greatest things we could possibly imagine - I am still brought to my knees time and time again by His love and mercy and kindness, as well as the truly precious ways He makes sure that I know He loves me/us.

 

We offer you our prayers for you, your son and your entire family.

 

Keep showing the public what True Motherhood loos and acts like, as you use your Bravo platform to reach millions of mothers.

 

Alexia, you are a true role model - keep the Faith!

IrisDan
IrisDan

Whats so scary about it? Women are catty and your are not innocent by any stretch.It makes for good tv what can I say..................

dchatham
dchatham

You are awesome, one of my favorite housewives! You speak your mind when necessary and do so in a strong, compelling way. It's great to see your passion and fire doesn't make you come across like a monster like some women. Perhaps it's because you have such real and profound things in your life to worry about and that's what keeps you out of the drama. It was so touching to see you with your son a few episodes back; I'm glad you put that out there and allowed the cameras to see the real struggles that some people deal with. I hope the other women saw that and learn to put things into perspective and focus on what's important in life. You are a great role model. I wish you and your family the very best! Go Team Alexia!!!

bravoteam
bravoteam

Why does Adriana insist on starting augruments at a party/event? You walked uninvited (your party or not) between Adriana and Karent's "talk".  Adriana did not tell you to leave, instead she welcomed your support against Karent. Ah, but when someone walks up to support Karent in yet another "talk",  Adriana demands that Joanna leave. Alexia it is sad to see you find fault in others for doing the same thing you did.

 

And how was the fight Karent's fault. She tried to tell Adriana to talk at another time but Adriana insisted they "talk" then. What occurred between Joanna and Adriana was between them two. 

newyorkgal01
newyorkgal01

you weren't even on the episode and you still managed to piss me off!!!

thenerve
thenerve

Stay away from the negativity of ‘knowing your place’ DON’T be the blonde version of Adriana!!

chigurl35
chigurl35

Thats great to hear about Frankie!

kiki13
kiki13

Alexia- Music is such a healer- I pray that your Frankie will stay involved with his music and having a studio to work in is wonderful!!  Much love to you and your boys. 

 

Stay away from all this other craziness- it's so unimportant in the scheme of things.  

xx 

mimilandia
mimilandia

I think all these grown women need to learn to have more control of themselves and learn, for once, to find a proper place to speak about their problems and stop the drama at all the inappropriate places. Adriana was way out of line - once again approaching Karent at the party to speak of something else that is bothering her about Karent. What happened to "let's meet for lunch" and talk.  Joanna was way out of line for butting in and then following Adriana around the house. They both need to go back and learn some etiquette.  On the other hand, Alexia, even though these women acted very childish and classless, it still does not take away that you acted the same the other night. Let's get that straight so your question: "Who are the bullies now? "does not excuse your own behavior which you still don't seem to own up to. On another note, I am truly happy to hear you son is continually progressing and improving health-wise. As a mother, I admire your dedication. We hope to hear only better news regarding his progress from here on.

allydachie
allydachie

You're just disappointed you couldn't get in the shit storm.

TulsaHousewife
TulsaHousewife

I think that Joanna wants to ALWAYS be the center of attention. She cannot hold her liquor and she needs to stop bullying her sister. I was shocked that Joanna felt the need to interrupt Adrianna and Karent's conersation. Joanna needs therapy and she needs it FAST. I also want to see more of you on the show and NONE of Joanna.

Rockerman
Rockerman

The first one to blog is the one who was not there!

pblover
pblover

Thank God u were not at that party! Why was Ana hangin w them?? It looked like they were all roped off -  so not to disturb the party outside! Karent and Ho-anna have real emotional problems and I hope they get help! Poor Romain!!!! Good luck w ur boys - xoxo!

sweetabou
sweetabou

 @Maya2

 Except Alexia escalated the situation by jumping to conclusions and thinking that Karent was uninvited and starting trouble at her event when her husband invited her.

Rockerman
Rockerman

 @Latinaza229

 oh, yeah, she was forced... her arm was twisted right up her back... seriously, she forced herself.

HWfan175
HWfan175

 @Caligirldream She has saw the episode and knows the people involved we have an opinion and express it here in the blogs why can't she?

Rockerman
Rockerman

 @kiki13

 agree. music therapy is a big help for all kinds of disability treatments.

katebreadandwater
katebreadandwater

 @TulsaHousewife I think that Joanna was told by the other people what was happening and she told Karent before the party that she was going to back her up if anyone tried to start something with her. I think in her mind, she was defending her friend.  Did she handle it well? No, but neither did Adriana.  She shouldn't have brought it up in the first place.  Honestly, why should Joanna care if Adriana calls her a wannabe??  She's obviously not so I don't know why she cares.  She does need to pick her battles. Adriana acting like the victim is ridiculous!!

Katie6330
Katie6330

 @TulsaHousewife I like Joanna. she stands up for herself and doesn't let the other women push her around!

Rockerman
Rockerman

 @janetz

 fair enuf--joanna and adriana in same boat, rowin in circles. In another I'd put alexia, ana and marisol-- don't know who'd row that one. Then Lea, Karent, Lisa and Mum Elsa for a mixture of humour, leadership, wit and smarts.Takin turns rowing, making cracks, havin a good laugh.

karenmom
karenmom

 @pblover I agree with you except the poor Romain part. That guy's cheating big time. Maybe Ho-anna did herself a big favor by driving him off.

Hotmommie
Hotmommie

@AKnNC @newyorkgal01 same here!!