You are all probably wondering where I was in this episode, because you didn’t see me at all. That’s because I really wasn't there. LOL!
I was invited to Lisa Pliner's lunch by Lisa, because I am friendly with her and she advertises her fabulous brand, Lisa Pliner Shoes, (green soles) in Venue Magazine. I was in Los Angeles with Herman for a couple of days visiting William Levy (my first time away from Frankie in 7 months). We had the pleasure of watching William live on Dancing with the Stars and having some alone time after all of these tough months.
I felt bad seeing Marysol confronted by Elaine at the lunch. Was it really necessary to bring it up there? I don't think so and neither did Lea, but obviously Elaine felt the need and no one was able to stop her.
Out of so many housewive episodes, your actions in taking pleasure at deliberately hurting someone in public tops some of the most heinous actions. There is no way you can possibly justify telling Karent about her boyfriend cheating on her in front of everyone, on camara. On a basic human to human level that was so morally wrong. The show's audience is overhwelmingy women and your disgusting self serving action made women just cringe. You really did show your true colors, a hateful, nasty woman who loves the juicy piece of gossip and basking in others pain. You ought to be ashamed.
For once I almost thought you were going to do right when you asked one of Karent's friends about how to handle the information you had. Lisa told you she wanted to tell her in private and what did you do. You barged in on their conversation, because your haste to see Karent in distress was just to close for you to miss. I was so glad, Karent wasn't having any of it. She stayed true to herself and did not react because she knows you meant to cause her pain, not concern. You really are awful. And don't blame it on editing either. What is with you women and bringing articles on every freaking trip to show Karent.
Your behaviour towards karent is/was reprehensible. So if her boyfriend is cheating on her, you have to tell her in front of a camera. Yes, you all agreed to do the show but at least take her into a bathroom, or better yet let Lisa tell her in private. Why did you feel the need to see her reaction? To make sure she was humiliated? To watch her fall apart? Well she did none of that and she handled the situation as gracefully and dignified as possible! Which I am sure will just bring out sharper and longer claws from you. It just seems the more graceful Karent is, the more vindictive you become. Why? Because she has what you lack? Because her behaviour shows you how classless you are and puts you in your place? Because if it does, it is not Karent's intention at all. She is not you obviously.
you are venemous and completely unlikeable, which is sad considering we all wanted to be in your corner. the only conclusion i can come to is that you are utterly unhappy in your marriage... probably even being cheated on (hello, did anyone see how uncomfortable she got when lea asked her about wanting to know if she was being cheated on). i hope someone delivers you the news in a much kinder way than you did....or not.
You truly must be very unhappy with yourself and your life, to be as cold and mean as you come across there must be something really hurtinig you. You have made Karent your punching bag and it is really unattractive. I am very sad to watch how you have lowered yourself to talk about others and get in the middle of their private business. Didn't it occur to you to politely excuse yourself from the table with Karent and let her know privately before blurting it out at a table full of people. It was just too tempting to see her world colapse and prove to everyone you were right about Karent. Please leave the other ladies alone and work on your own life.
Well I guess I am a really mean viewer but thank you Alexia for bringing the scandal and suspense this week! I was very entertained and it was like watching a really good novela (spanish soap opera). Sorry to come off mean but they choose to have their lives taped for entertainment the good and the bad and in terms of good realty T.V. this was it for me! I think it was a lose lose situation for you. You and her didn't get along and the information fell into your lap because he's a public figure and she claims it's her boyfriend. When the obvious is in front of you and your in a group of women you talk about it! They didn't go one and on forever about it. It was lose lose because even if you hadn't told her or gotten Lisa in on telling her then it would have been your mean for not liking her, knowing, and not telling her! No one wants to hear that information from someone they don't get along with but this is the real world, he was a public figure, and you don't always find out how you want to. I feel sympathy in that I think she is incredibly naive but then I question that because they said she had a publicist, and did the article even mention he had a dentist girlfriend? I could be wrong and maybe the article mentioned Karent as well..but maybe the ladies were questioning the validity of the relationship..not saying she is entirely to blame for that but neither are they.
Wow...I knew there was something dark about how they got their money. Ana tries too hard to convince people that she's some high class miami society business woman. Please, remember where you came from and humble yourself Ana.
The decent thing to do would have been to talk to Karent, in private, before the trip. Instead you packed a printout and traveled hundreds of miles with it so that you can present it to her in front of everyone. There was absolutely no compassion in that. Your decision was clearly designed to humiliate her. Despicable.
Alexia, Your intent was to hurt Karent BTW, its funny how Adrienna knew how old the girl was before you even finished your story.
I dont wanna start pointing you, but your heart must be black as hell, it was obvious you wanted to see Karent humilliated and enjoy it, right?
What is happening today is just a moment of your life...and Karma doesnt punish one time, karma punishes 3 times, also as mother .... you are not a good example.
It is not too late to change.
What a horrible person you are for what you did to Karent....Remember karma, what goes around, comes around...
Alexia, you should be ashamed. It appears that you could not wait to humiliate Karent in front of everyone. Your behavior is vile and disgusting.
Why do you feel the need to always get into Karents business? She is not your friend and you clearly do not have her best interest at heart. Are you just out to see Karent hurt because you are jealous of her? I know you cant help yourself because unlike you, she didnt marry money, she made her own. Just straighten out your train wreck personal life, and then maybe you can get happy and join the rest of the non haters.
Alexia Echevarria= Ambush.
She has grouped up with her 2 Cuban counterparts(Ana & Marysol) to keep the new girls from having a successful introduction into the show. Yelling at Karent "you have to earn it" is simply saying she expects the new girls go through her for approval/ acceptance, as if she were some sort of judge. Please reconsider officially removing this Bully from the show all together.
Aexia Echevarria is a Miami Ghetto housewive "disguissed" as an upscale socialite. She is an absolute BULLY, MALICIOUS, envious and goes ALL OUT to persecute Karent. Her body and arm movements as she bashed karent and threw Karent out of the party was one of a vicious and low-income housing ghetto. Also, it was soooo obvious just how much she wanted to witness Karent fall apart as she told her Rodolfo was cheating. She was salivating over the idea of distroying Karent. Alexia has bad karma coming her way, starting with her son's accident. as a result of her evil spirit. By the way, she is "old" looking. Just take a look at the wrinkles on her neck and nasolabiol folds.
PS IF you really "cared" about her you would have trusted Lisa and let HER talk to her but no you had to unload it in a room full of mean girls, like vultures on a witch hunt.
PS Go back to your natural color, that white blonde hair does not become you.
You know from the start i picked up on something with you. and boy was I right. You are a trouble maker mean girl who likes to pretend she is "doing things with the best of intentions". You are SO transparent. Your claws and fangs were practically out over being able to deliver such bad news to Karent. Shame on you. With the tragedies I read you went through with your son I thought that would have humbled you as it does to most, but instead you have gotten meaner. It was practically a witch hunt and it was hard to watch.
Jealousy is an ugly ugly quality.
cgarden I agree. Jealousy is a very ugly quality. I was wondering how someone could bring an object of pain and humiliation to a vacation of "healing and bonding", especially when it's directed at someone one can't stand for no good reason whatsoever. Even Adriana, who's just as contemptuous, admitted that though she doesn't consider Karent a friend, she felt for her as she didn't wish being cheated on upon her worst enemy (though considering Karent an enemy is like hating a bunny rabbit just because). But Alexia was salivating from the moment they got there. In fact, at the airport while Alexia and Lea were talking as they were the 1st ones to arrive, and Karent arrived and cheerfully said hello, Alexia immediately started grimacing, and not nearly enough volume-wise. She looked disgusted with Karent beyond words. I just don't get it, and never will. The Alexia in season 1 was nothing like the Alexia in season 2. It wasn't even a gradual change. I guess her real personality just couldn't be contained anymore. Very sad. I'm just so glad that Karent has Joanna and Lisa in her corner. I can so relate. I'm just like Karent, I hate any type of drama and confrontation. I truly believe (and live by) that niceness, kindness, empathy and respectful communication, whether I agree with someone or not, are the only way to go. Anything less than that is just mean-spirited and unnecessary. Some people just seem to not know or care about The Golden Rule.
Very nice post, and very true. Written very well, and you sound like a very nice person. It's a shame some of these gangsters in Miami didn't have you around to teach them about manners and human kindness.
dose belittling Karent making you feel better about your own mess of a life? they say you won't be hurting others if you are not hurting badly yourself!
I think you should truly focus on your own issues. For example, the fact that you married your old husband for money and to climb the social lather. Maybe you are trying to take attention away from that by creating drama around others. Karent is a dentist and has created a name for herself in her business. what are you without your husband?
Jealousy makes them act that way....just pure jealousy. So yes, she's hurting, jealousy is eating her alive....and her gang of misfits.
Glad to see you have listened to the viewers and didn't bother to post a blog. Clearly you have much more important issues to focus on in your life than whether the new girls are genuine or not. Either way, they are relevant and you are not. Besos! ;)
I thought part of these ladies job was to blog each week for Bravo? She's not blogging because she knows what the viewers are going to say about her, and she's hoping by next week we will have forgotten about her.
I don't understand why everyone tiptoes around this he/she/James/Elaine character as if he's the queen of the Rose Bowl Parade! Who the heck is he to think he can bully people around as he did? It has little to do with \Marysol being too timid to stand up to him/her; is it at all possible that she finds his attacks and poor behavior so out of line that she refuses to lower herself to his level? Why is he even invited to these gatherings? He certainly didn't appear entertaining at the shoe luncheon, only caustic and rude. Bravo, he/she needs to go.
Im a few eps behind. However your attitude towards Karent is very highschool mean girl. Attack the weakest new girl. You and Adrianna obviously decided early on that she was to be your target for some drama. You both proceed to make a big mountain out of every little molehill thing she does. There was no need for you to join her convo with Adrianna and then whip the whole thing up to some big drama! She didnt mention your son disrespectfully at all yet you went and twisted it that way to the others to make her look really bad. Very manipulative. As a mother with problematic children to deal with you really should be above such immature bitchy behaviour. Oh, and Im no fan of hers either as she's a gullible fool. Just think its sad to see you lower yourself when you have more serious personal issues to deal with at home.
calvin.right I agree with how mean you and rest been. I think to say,"you have to earn it" to Karent is very immature. I do see how Karent sometimes with malice ask things and go run tell that person but still no reason for such elegant beautiful woman to confront in group another woman. That is ghetto to me. Also I believe the word Gringa is racist and been Latina & Anglo really upset me to here group use that word. The word was referring to Lisa. You being Guerra should be against that word and it should offend you all. Go back and look the episode if care to see what I am talking about. It is not like you Ladies did know her name.
You are mean and irrelevant. Your blond hair makes you even more militant and scary. Leave Karant alone. O.k. she is too eager but at ' the end of the day', she is a nicer person than you
Alexia, really you invite Karent to discuss the issues...in the meantime Adrianna is talking crap in your home about Joanna while Joanna is there. Karent walks in with a bottle of wine and you act like she offered you garbage.
If I were Karent I would have walked out the moment it became "lets dump on Karent" Karent's mother told her right say nothing, but I would have left. Joanna is more verbal and Karent is quiet when it comes to confrontations. You like trouble and you, Adrianna, Ana, and Marysol continue to drag this nonsense out and it is getting old!
Who is this Lauren foster and why have we not met her before she seems so fun!!!!!! More of her and less of Alexia Come on Bravo!!!! PS can we please stop having to see Thomas Krammer on the housewives series he is tired, old and very dull not to mention the fact that he is sexist as hell. Why these insecure women need to be around men that treat them like that is beyond me, its sad really.
Whether you are right about Karent, doesn't change my mind of how mean you are.. You still need to keep your nose out of it and if you have problem with Karent you should talk to her privately not at a dinner party or lunch party where you are the host and have your homies to back you up, it's like teaming up to fight one person or bullying for that matter.
Elaine is so zzzzzzz. It's all about that Lauren Foster!!! She is 100x more entertaining to watch. Bravo, give her a show, or make her a housewife! She's the best one by far. She WERQS!
Elaine's presence & behavior I find low rent. Really Bravo??? Having her/him go after Marysol all season is a sad attempt to be relevant .
Alexia I have news for you; noone cares what you have to say. You werent on this episode and the few episodes you have been on you have tried to bring drama in order for Bravo to make you a real housewive but you are just a follower and have no back bone. You as a hostest or the "mending lunch" you proof that all you wanted to do was to have a mean girl session at your home. Arent you a little old for that?
You weren't on the episode and you aren't a housewive, stop trying to remain relevant by blogging...
you have always been my favorite! I don't know why so many people are calling you a bully. They obviously don't know what a true bully is and it is quite disrespectful on their part.
We are going from what we see on T.V. obviously. Sounds like you are watching the wrong show.
aliceandwonderland@626 TargaryenDany Agree with Aliceandwonderland@626. To, TargaryenDany: What is disrespectful and a bully is Alexia, inviting a group of women to her house (not sure it could be called a home,) for the sole purpose of bullying and yelling at someone and refusing to let that person say a word. It is scary that you don't think is is bullying. Is it because it is normal for you.
right because I'm a bully...??? wow looks like voicing your opinions on this site will result in people attacking my nature. Look I'm not going to sit here and point fingers at anyone calling them bullies. I don't think anyone on the show is a bully but they might be misrepresented or misunderstood. Bullying is very serious and drove me to a very dark place. I like Alexia. Her motive was probably not to attack Karent at th party. Was the party a good idea for meding? No. But Alexia probably realized that when it was too late. Karent could have left--or she could have reached out to have one-on-one dinners. Whatever. It doesn't matter--It's TV
How do you know that Alexia realized it was too late that it was a bad idea to attack Karent at her home? Alexia never apologized in her blog about it. Yes this is a tv show, so you should also realize these people agreed to be on Bravo, so if one's character gets shredded in the interim thats part of 'taking the good with the bad'. Alexia is clearly jealous of Karent because there is nothing Karent has done directly to Alexia for her to be so mean and nasty towards her and I just can't like a woman who is a follower and has to do things in groups when they want to confront someone, but thats my opinon on the situation. But I agree with you that you are NOT being a bully for voicing your opinion. :)