Ana Quincoces

Ana Quincoces explains how she couldn't have been the one texting Rodolfo.

on Sep 20, 20120

The first time I met Rodolfo was at the hospital while visiting Alexia's son, Frankie. I often visited Alexia for hours at a time since she rarely left her son's side. On one of those visits, Rodolfo showed up. There was a group of at least six people in the waiting room that evening. A few minutes into his visit Rodolfo (unbeknownst to me) took a picture of me in the waiting room and posted it on Twitter. I was surprised when I received the notification since I didn't even know him. The next few hours went by as one would expect during a hospital visit, lots of small talk and stories shared in an effort to bring some much needed lightheartedness to a very sad scene.

When I left the hospital late that night, Rodolfo insisted on walking me out. He asked for my phone number under the pretense that he wanted to stay in touch with someone close to Alexia in order to get reports on Frankie's progress. He began texting me regularly after that. I never initiated a communication between us and often just responded politely or with the standard "LOL," which as everyone knows, actually means “funny dude, but leave me alone.” By the time the Swine and Wine event at the Biltmore came around, the texting had pretty much ceased altogether.

It was interesting to see the footage between Adriana and Karent. It was particularly amusing to hear that this text I allegedly sent Rodolfo read: "te echo de menos :-(." I have never written, uttered, or even formulated a thought which included those words. You see, Cubans don't talk like that. That particular saying is used commonly by Spaniards, some Mexicans, and certain South Americans, not Cubans.  If I were to express that sentiment in Spanish I would say "te extrano" (which also means I miss you), but Rodolfo never gave me an opportunity to miss him, because he was constantly texting me.

24 comments
HonestMama
HonestMama

I find it incredibly annoying that someone who describes herself as a strong woman attacks another woman for being possibly cheated on by her boyfriend. You accuse Karent of having a fake relationship with her boyfriend because he texts and talks to you. You are being ridiculous and this guy is just a pig that you are making excuses for. I have never understood women who defend men for their bad behavior and blame the women in their lives who are getting screwed over. This is not the behavior or mentality of a strong woman, so please reflect on that.

skizzy79
skizzy79

I don't think you should be "taken aback" by Adriana's confrontation. I think you should not even look at it as confrontational. She stepped right up and brought the 2 of you face to face to address escalating gossip. It could have gone equally badly for her friend as it could have for you. Who cares about the setting or the event, she stepped up to nip it in the bud, right then and there and good for her!  That was probably the most honest bit of "reality" tv we have seen in a long time.  No one had time to prepare their best defense!

arrabella
arrabella

I so agree- who cares about this guy. I've never heard of him or his show. Maybe it's a miami thing. But he's not too bright to try to make things appear like a LAWYER is sexting him. FYI mister latin soap man- why a LAWYER- you should had chosen another dentist ...apparently. But this dentist girl has got to get a clue. I feel really sorry for how desperate she is for his love. She's really pretty. Such a shame. Maybe you should help a sister out.

liskaryhernandez
liskaryhernandez

Great blog ! I am very happy to have you represent us Cuban-American women ! You and Alexia make the show worth watching cant wait till the next episode. Almost forgot and mama Elsa definitely representing the crazy Cuban grandma type we most Cubans have l0l

smitty62
smitty62

you are hysterically funny... and my other fav on this show...

ambc45036
ambc45036

I am so glad you have joined the show.  You seem to be a level headed, intelligent,fun, gorgeous, confident woman.  Your daughter's are beautiful. You are everything she wishes she could be.

grayfox007
grayfox007

Ana, you are definitely the class act of the group. I am an expert in behavior and men are driven by their testosterone and sniff out woman to socially couple with, that is the name of their game totally. I am a retired Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner so I know what I speak of. Hunter

Gela916
Gela916

Good blog! Love the snark. Thanks for the recipe.

Goddess_Krystle
Goddess_Krystle

I'm glad I read your blog. U pointed good some good things. That guy is a playa .

paula.justice.129
paula.justice.129

Ana, you are breathtakingly beautiful. I love the quote. The truth is always revealed in time. I wouldn't sweat the small stuff.

mellowyellow
mellowyellow

So far, so good,Ana. I think the dude is a player like someone else said...he's all over the place and I'm sure not faithful. Watch Adriana, she's a trouble maker.

Hand2012
Hand2012

You are a great addition!  I'm really looking forward to getting to know you!

AKath
AKath

I too thought Karent nervously smiling thru the entire conversation was strange.  Her expression was not suited for the matter @ hand.

Maryjoshore
Maryjoshore

Another great post- truly "above the fray." Isn't "hecho" spelled with an "h"? Thanks for giving me a craving for natilla- I'm going to have to get my mom on the case. My little Rocco loves it with the sugar/cinnamon mix on top- they didn't have that when I was growing up- just the cinnamon that goes down "por el camino viejo" like "talco." You guys looked great on WWHL- looked like a blast. I want some MAZEL glasses!!!

viv100
viv100

You are a riot! I love your sense of humor and by the way I'm also Cuban-American and I've NEVER used that phrase either! She is in for a rude awakening.

BMBarbie
BMBarbie

"smile-encased anger" hahahahaa so true.

Joanna29
Joanna29

Ana, you crack me up with your sarcasm. You are right on... on point. I'm a cuban from Miami, too, and I didn't even know what "te echo de menos" meant when they said it on the show. We don't talk like that. I suspect you are definitely not the only one Rodolfo is texting and Karent is content to remain oblivious, even though she really is not. That little fake smile and dismissive attitude during her conversation with you "me saco de quisio!" ;) La pobre, this guy is playing her like a fiddle. Gotta go, my phone is buzzing.. could be Rodolfo. 

prtank
prtank

Hi, Karent seems to be jealous of you. As for the texts, it seems that the goon needs to leave you alone. He isn't worth the time. Karent needs to confront her man not you. You have a beautiful family.

ruby63
ruby63

Everyone can see the Latin lover is a player. And by the way he isn't even that good looking. Your ex is much cuter. Karent needs to clear her head and see this guy is not who she thinks he is. For Gods sake he fell asleep when she wanted to talk marriage.

VanessaNC
VanessaNC

LOVE YOU ANA!!!  Strong, successful, Latina!! Karent is ridiculous!! You've got it all and she is obviously jealous!! You are my favorite Housewife by far !!

305Fan
305Fan

Ana, I have to say that regardless of the situation, watching you last night on What Happens Live was like watching the movie, Mean Girls. You were extremely catty calling out Lea Black on her "face-lift". Do I think she's had work done, absolutely! But who cares..especially if the poor woman denies it. Let her be! Even Andy had a look on his face after you said that!

Referring to Prince Harry as "Gingy Crotch"..classy!!!

If you really are over this whole texting war with Rodolfo and are sooo innocent, then drop it and don't talk about it anymore. The smug comments about him being a "telenovela star" and the indirect cmments you make about Karent don't make it sound like he's the only one being shady!

Hearing your little comments about Roman's penis and about last night's bartender are red flags that you're not as innocent as you try to portray! It takes two to tango!

And I'm glad that I'm not the only one who's noticed how vulgar are the things that come out of yours and your families mouth. I applaud Bravo for creating that little clip on all of the garbage that you guys say! You just asked above, you don't know where your daughter, Beba, gets it from, but I think all of us viewers do!!!

And to think you're a lawyer??? The only think that reflects your profession is what a smart ass you are and quick to repsond. I'm sure you've learned a lot along that career path ;)

Tracirk68
Tracirk68

I enjoy your maturity and your sense of humor, look forward to getting to know you better.  PS Your home life is exactly that, YOURS, you are doing what you think is best for your family as any good mother and woman would do.  I may not understand it but I do admire that you and your ex are not dragging your daughters through some of the ugliness.  Other parents could take a lesson from you that the marriage is not just man and wife but the children involved get hurt also and it seems you have tried to minimize that.  Bravo!

mr305
mr305

305Fan - You sound like Karent's publicist or her one friend who says nasty stuff about Ana.  You are so transparent and make me puke.

BMBarbie
BMBarbie

@305Fan OMG venom this early in this season...impressive. You sure know a lot about a person on a TV show that has only aired two episodes!