Joanna Krupa

Joanna thinks Adriana disrespected her fiancé by flirting with Romain.

on Sep 26, 20120

I feel like my life is falling apart at this moment -- my fiancé won't have sex with me, or marry me, and my sister wants to move out. The perfect world I live in seems to be crumbling down faster than the speed of light.

I won't say I am surprised that Marta wants to move out, as she and Romain have been going at it for a while, and unless they figure things out on their own, I don't think I can be of any help.  I see both sides and am sick of being stuck in the middle:  one is my blood and the other is my future. I won't lie that it breaks my heart and makes me want to disappear somewhere far away and not have to deal with it sometimes.

This is supposed to be a wonderful time for all of us to appreciate each other and thank God for what we have, and instead it’s high tension everywhere. Between Romain’s citizenship and his 10-year anniversary at Mynt, I feel like the pressure he is going through is taking a huge toll on our relationship. Now, I think Marta sees that, and it makes her resent him even more, but I’m hoping it will all get better. I guess Romain just wants Marta to be more helpful around the house, and I guess Marta just wants more brotherly love from him, like it used to be. Oh well, it is what it is at this point, and I’m not gonna put too much thought into it, and I’ll hope it works itself out…

This week was super important for Romain, since he was celebrating two things: his new American citizenship and 10-Year Anniversary at Mynt.  What attracts me to Romain is that we have a similar story: we both emigrated  to America with nothing, and worked from the bottom up without giving up for a second, even though there were many times when it would have been easier to just give up than to keep fighting, but we never ever gave up and still don't. I respect him so much more that he built everything on his own instead of being born into a rich family where he would take life for granted. Instead, he treats everyone equally, no matter the size of their wallet. I believe when you work hard for something, that’s when you appreciate it more.

54 comments
ash.gomez.71
ash.gomez.71

Joanna you should flirt with adriana's  husband and see if she likes. Who the hell would be ok with this seriusly???????????????? all this negative comments you all must be negative s-it talkers like adriana. Joanna your very beautiful inside and out do not let these negative bloggers darkened your days.

wisdom_g47
wisdom_g47

She doesnt wear her engagement ring becuase she is a golddigger and is just with that old man for his money, and on the side she flirts with anything. Its so obvious she is using him for the money. Adriana is such a golddiger and a hater. 

missmimimiami
missmimimiami

I feel everybody is going on an on about  this terrible thing that Joanna has done, and maybe some of it could have been handled better. But I do not see anyone saying anything the sister's ex--who seems to have acted selfishly, disloyally without giving much regards about deeply hurting others.

 

I see so many behaving like true traitors, and people saying it is just part of life.

 

Bullying used to be part of life until people just started having enough.

 

In some cultures, people that dishonor people deeply are even killed, so maybe she did have a bit of a point here.

 

As for the cheater, he will be dumped by his new find most probably. Once she finds a bigger, better deal. Just sayin...

mrsdonut
mrsdonut

Joannas life is hard because she CHOOSES to make it that way.

Our family came from Poland in the 80's and hid Jews on our farm when the Germans came looking. We grew the food we ate with our HANDS. We walked to town to get supplies that were NEEDED. THAT is hard work. Being 'discovered' as a young teenager means that she didn't work hard for very long. Modeling is NOT hard work.

 

Joanna doesn't NEED 2 houses. She WANTS 2 houses. She doesn't NEED a fancy car, she WANTS a fancy car.Her sister doesn't NEED to live with her. She WANTS her to live with her. She doesn't NEED to take care of her sister. She WANTS to take care of her sister.

 

I think she needs to humble herself and figure out what she NEEDS, instead of what she WANTS.

ambc45036
ambc45036

You were on your way to apologizing (which the viewers appreciate when you mess up) but then overly attacked Adrianna (whom I'm not a fan of) and ended your blog with, "Otherwise, I will make sure to expose them."  You're the snake and your true colors are being exposed.  It's obvious from your blog that you're a very angry girl and vindictive.  You're also self-centered and selfish.  You didn't stand up and defend your sister in the first episode while she was begging you to.  The reason, you were sober then and were able to comprehend that doing so would give your sister too much attention and take attention away from you.  You did defend her while drunk (when she wasn't asking you to) and in a manner that commanded all attention on you.  I believe you love your sister but also believe you can't stand for anyone to gain any attention in any given situation unless it's all on you.  It doesn't prove anything to your sister to supposedly stick up for her when she doesn't want you to and not to stick up for her when she does ask for your support.  Being a good sister or friend is about supporting that sister or friend when "they" need and ask for support, NOT when you deem it necessary.  To do anything otherwise it selfish, which you're showing the viewers you are.  Also, this blog doesn't show any remorse for the way you ruined Romain's big night at Mynt.  You basically said he understands how you are so no biggie.  Once again, instead of supporting your boyfriend all eyes had to be on you.  BTW, I'm also Polish and I was excited when you came on the show.  However, any excitment I had has quickly disappeared due to your horrid, immature behavior and wicked ways.  The viewers are smart and we see right through you.  Grow up!   

Lilymc
Lilymc

Don't listen to the negative comments! You owned up to having a little too much to drink. People who speak badly about you are just jealous, you are absolutely stunning and have a fun personality. Couples argue and I'm sure there's a lot more going on than what we see. We've all been guilty of letting pent up feelings explode once we've had alcohol thrown in the mix. Adrianna is so conniving for trying to use it as an advantage to hit on Romain. She is dirty. She clearly isn't into her fiancé and I feel bad him.

Mzlizzie1
Mzlizzie1

Hang in there, Joanna. You're a good lady. Adriana is reprehensible. Keep Romain away from her. Try to make amends with Romain.. he was probably mad at you and acting out himself, in a not productive way. Good Luck!

okc
okc

Joanna, You may be pretty, but you act like a drunken college girl! Romain who is a business man who needs a girlfriend who's going to act like a lady and not embarrass him in his place of business! Grow up! Also, I don't care how much you do or give your sister IMO you don't speak to her with much more respect than Romain does. Have you ever considered him? Maybe he doesn't want a 3rd party living in home? I would recommend you & Marta get your own place! There are plenty of pretty women out there who know how to act in public on a mans arm! btw Adriana didn't look as stupid as you did that night! Sorry, but your beauty isn't everything, need to class it up. FYI, you also like to stir up sh!t with the other ladies too.

LolaLalaBean
LolaLalaBean

Wow!  You really embarrassed yourself.  Very unbecoming.  You had this high pitched whiny voice and I couldn't help but laugh.  Drunk girl being dramatic.  You knew the DJ was going to be there.  If you couldn't handle it then YOU should've stayed home.  This is Romain's business you were messing with.  I really didn't like Romain because nothing we've seen of his treatment of you and your sister was flattering but now I understand why he has acted that way.  He is looking for a mature, sophisticated woman, and honey, you certainly aint it.

golden10
golden10

Why is everything so dramatic with you? Seems you need attention all the time. Grow up a little.

dreamscale
dreamscale

First of all let me tell you what a breath of fresh air the new cast is especially you, Joanna. I knew what was happening to you when you heard Marta kinda throw in your face that you don't defend her in front of Romain. It's a very hard spot to be in. So as the night progressed you were holding all that she said in. Until it was fueled with alcohol and then  it allll came out! Who hasn't been there before, you know? If anything it shows how much you love her!!

JENNSNOW
JENNSNOW

There is a lot of backstory that the viewers are not aware of. First of all, Joanna maintains a residence in LA that her mother and sister live in as well. Joanna works so hard for everything she has and she takes care of her mom and sis. Joanna gave Marta the car she drives. People have to understand that Marta and Joanna are a unit. They are polish and in their family, they all take are of each other because no one took care of them. Her mother came here with little money and had 2 girls to care for, when Joanna was old enough she returned the favor and continues to. In my opinion, it is disheartening to read some of these comments. The US is losing the meaning of "family" to superficiality. With that said, Joanna is the most giving, loving and caring friend. She stays true to herself. She is such a powerful, driven woman that cares for animals- She is an inspiration and a breath of fresh air. Her beauty is outer and inner... a rarity these days

Merzli
Merzli

You go girl!!!! Such a great addition to the cast!!!!

cassandra305
cassandra305

I do not think Marta and Romain have hooked up.  i think he doesn't like her because he puts business first.  That DJ still plays at his club and if he fired him because Joanna said so, then Joanna and Marta win.

Marta needs to get out of the apartment.  Just because Joanna wants her there doesn't mean she should stay.  They are sisters forever but they don't have to co-habitate forever.  

Romain and Joanna are both used to getting their way.  It's a battle of wills between them. 

cassandra305
cassandra305

How can Joanna criticize that conversation when she makes a living off taking off her clothes? Who is being more suggestive: Adriana who was asking about his sexual preferences? Or Joanna, who makes a living posing in Maxim selling sex?

I think Joanna is just controlling and jealous.  And the sister thing is ridiculous.  Romain will never like Marta, simply because he doesn't have to.  I think he is testing his role and showing Joanna that he is the boss/man.

Also, Mynt is an awful club.  Really cheesy.  It isn't VIP.   The crowd isn't "beautiful" or wealthy at all, and instead, really trashy.  Not a quality venue.  The people who go there look like the Jersey Shore crowd.  

kiki13
kiki13

I loved the part when he became an American citizen- it was truly beautiful to see his joy.  

kiki13
kiki13

Wow- you have your head up your own butt!  You treat Romain like sh*t and allow your sister to do so too.  Isn't this his house?  It certainly is not Marta's!!  I was appalled that your sister thinks she should just walk in a private bathroom where she is living as a GUEST and start shouting that the person who lives there is in that bathroom naked?? WTF???  

 

I think he should toss her out of the house on her ear and if that means you go too, then so be it.  Romain does not need you!  I am sure he has line waiting- one he probably doesn't even know about-of girls who are waiting for him to be single again.

 

I wouldn't be surprised to see him drop you in the the future- certainly not marry you! You are childish and selfish.  You better grow up and so it soon or you will be looking for all those other guys who "want " you so bad. Hey- let me know- I will take Romain off your hands and I will treat him right!!  Hear that Romain????  xxx to Romain!   

 

 

richards1stlady
richards1stlady

For you and your fiance to move forward and be sucessful in your relationship, your sister needs her own place. If money is an issue for her, I'm sure you can help out. She is your sister, not your child. Any relationship can be and most probably will be complicated if not totally de-railed when a third person is involved in the living arrangements. Especially family.

prtank
prtank

I know you were upset about that punk being at the club. It was Romain's night. You do so much for your sister. She needs to stay with Lisa for a bit until you work things out with your man.

Icruise
Icruise

Forget about  Adriana, you acted like a spoiled selfish brat.  This was a big night for Romain and both you and your sister spoiled it for him.  Frankly, I don't like you or your sister on the show.   You are successful in America, not because you worked hard, but because God gave you a beautiful face and body.  But it is up to you to be beautiful on the inside...you have a way to go.

rayan1124
rayan1124

you need to move on, your sister is not a baby anymore. you cannot have both of them. she is your sister you want forget about her but you need to focus more on roman if you want to marry him.

Anaviewer
Anaviewer

Just wanted to say that Romain reminds me of Channing Tatum, he's sexy.....make sure you don't lose him by being a crutch for your sister. She doesn't seem to care too much about how she affects your relationship.

LaurenInFlorida
LaurenInFlorida

You are such a great addition to the show! I think it's great how close and protective you are of Marta...I wish I had a sister like you! You may have been a little dramatic at Mynt, but we've all been there. I'm 100% with you...Adriana crossed the line the way she was totally flirting with Romain.  I love how he blew her off. I feel bad for her fiance too. I think she doesn't wear her engagement ring because he probably gave her a fake ring(or a very small one). Don't even waste your time on someone so pathetic.

RuOD
RuOD

I had the same passion for my exbf as you do.  I would loose it and we'd make up and then one day we didn't. I hope it's not too late and you can make things right with him. As for your sister, maybe time apart will heal whatever broke their relationship to begin with and then move forward. Don't worry about Adriana, she's no threat to you or to anyone.  She's desperate!

rickki6
rickki6

Joanna i enjoy you on the show, first time i have heard of you. i hope things work out with Romain but you are beautiful, young, strong confident woman. You will find the right person for you.  take care. 

Prettyfeet
Prettyfeet

Marta and Romain have had sex.  That is the only reason he is treating her so badly.  He has to prove to Joanna that he does not like her just to throw her off.  I've seen this before and recognize the signs.  He is a cheater!

sfshoegal23
sfshoegal23

Adriana is clearly jealous of you.  Be happy that you have a man that only has eyes for you!

Laurielu
Laurielu

I'm the first person to admit and understand how easy it is to overindulge and make a fool out of oneself.  I have done it myself and on more than one occasion (although I don't generally get angry).  I was hoping your blog would be a little more remorseful and apologetic but it really wasn't too much.  That is a shame because now I just feel that you are very self-centered.  You did not seem to care that it was your fiance's big night - it was all about you.  It would be embarrassing to anyone associated with you on any given night. 

 

I think your fiance is rightfully having second thoughts about making a long term commitment to you - anybody would in his position.  I'm sure this is not the first time you have gone off the deep end like that and it definitely wasn't pretty. 

melanie.white.102361
melanie.white.102361

You are supposed to be a mature woman, having a private intimate life with your boyfriend, and building friendships, and working on your career. You are avoiding being alone with your boyfriend by placing your volatile relationship with your sister in the way of everything you do, and every time you act out it always ends with you saying "But she's my Sister!!!" as though that makes all bad behavior ok.

 

You should count how many times you say "She's my SISTER" to everyone and anyone. We get that she is your sister. You have some severe boundary issues with your sister- you aren't 12 years old in the playground fighting with people about your sister. Teenagers fight in clubs over old boyfriends and jealousies- how can your boyfriend respect you when you act out of control angry whenever you feel like it? You need to develop self-control, and not use your sister as an extension of yourself.

 

 Your sister's boyfriend issues are hers to deal with. Your sister should have her own apartment and some of her own friends and her own career. It is like you have both not progressed past the age of 12 in maturity. Why would your boyfriend marry a woman who blows up and gets out of control in anger as much as you do? He knows that in marriage you would only be worse. You need to get immediate help for anger management, and focus on other people and less on yourself all the time. 

Holycrap
Holycrap

First, your a beautiful woman, stop acting insecure .  Your antics the night of Mynt's 10 year anniversary would have been the nails in your coffin for me... Let your sister fight her own battles...and let her grow up too!   Lay off Adrianna too..she was just kidding around...and she was flirting, so what?  How insecure are you???  

juliampeace
juliampeace

I wouldn't apologize for the way you behaved that night. I thought it was very endearing for you to stick up for your sister. If that is what Adriana considers ugly than sign me up! You looked real and beautiful. I too, have a very good looking significant other so I know what it feels like to watch other women vie for his attention. Take it as a compliment. I thought Romain made it quite clear that he only had eyes for you. But what I don't get is the bedroom scene. What? You could clearly have a man who cannot keep his hands off of you and you deserve that.

amber77
amber77

i no how you feel with somethings i dont wantto go into detail but i no what ur going thu i promise u i do . i want you to let ur sister move out  and save yourr relationship, you to are ment top be, and  you need ur space with your man , your not loosing ur sister ! she needs to find her self as well. i no im just a viewer but  i been thu allot,  ad listen to me k honestly save your relationship .. 

USParatrooperMom
USParatrooperMom

I loved watching last night's episode of Romain right after he received his US citizenship.  His utter joy and exuberance were incredibly touching.  It is such a shame that those of us "born and raised" in the United States don't feel the same way; and we forget how truly blessed we are.  Bravo and Romain reminded me of my good fortune just by birth.  When he said he started to cry at the playing of the National Anthem, he made me cry too.  The two of you are my favorite people in this show, along with Alexia, who is such a neat lady.  Another big moment for me during last night's episode was when Romain told us viewers that none of his wealth and good fortune would be possible if it wasn't for his coming to America.  You reaffirmed his words with your own story about coming here from Poland with your mother as such a young age.  This was the most refreshing Real Housewife moment I've ever seen (and I watch all the Real Housewives, except New Jersey which has become too negative).   Thank you both, and thank you to Bravo for reminding viewers that in the midst of all their wealth, popularity, and good fortune, some of these Housewives and their families truly do know what is most important in life.  Joanna, you are a fortunate woman just to have Romain and your sister in your life in Miami.  

cgarden
cgarden

Reading you here makes me like you seeing you and your diva antics on TV is a turnoff. I am sure your hearts in the right place and I do hope things work out between the two most important people in your life though I think the three of you living together is a recipe for disaster.

Roman seems like a great man, very handsome too! I hope things work out for you....I would have a hard time living in such a superficial world like Miami...too much phony fluff for my taste!

kekekinz1
kekekinz1

Adriana's flirting seemed so harmless and she's been naturally flirtatious with everyone since the first season. If you're secure with yourself and your relationship it shouldn't matter anyway but after hearing you brag in the previews about how much guys would want you to your fiancee just shows how insecure you really are.

Bravofan66
Bravofan66

Your concern for your sister is admirable, but even she seems to realize that if you are to progress in a one-on-one relationship with a man you want to marry, you need to have some privacy in your home for the two of you. She doesn't have to go around the world, but she's old enough to be on her own. It appears that you may be using her as an excuse to prevent the real intimacy you say you want with Romain. And he may see this too, which could help explain why he has become resentful and maybe a little bored with having his home treated like a college dorm--I don't think he's into the "Three's Company" scenario, but might be more interested in marriage if he saw you acting like a grown woman and not a girl.

Shoshannah
Shoshannah

I have a bad feeling you are going to lose your guy.

AlvinTx
AlvinTx

Wow!!!!  You have the maturity of a narcasstic high school girl.  Run Romain!!

mrsdonut
mrsdonut

 @Mrs.Saunders11

 

 "I think peoples misconceptions of models are quite ignorant! They act like all you do is show up and take a picture---there's a lot more than just meets the eye. Keeping healthy and fit is work all in its own!"

 

Some of us DO know about modeling. (I paid my way through 4 years of college doing it)

 

Compared to working in a factory, cleaning an office building or waiting tables, working construction... pretty much any other job out there- It IS easy! ;-)

Cheryl56
Cheryl56

 @mrsdonut

 I don't think Joanna and Romain are in love...anymore. I think that is why arta plays such a significant role in that house. Romain resents her and from what I've seen it doesn'tlook like Marta nor Joanna do much of anything. It feels like 2 college aged girls rooming with the rich boy who has a crush on one of them sparing at no expense to woooo her. But the two girls are more street smart than academically and know exactly how to play the game. Also I  believe I heard Joanna tell Romain how lucky he was to have her. When u have to tell your man this....something is wrong. And something about her story coming from Poland at 5 feels like she is a rags to riches immigrant story teller. But it feels like she borrowed the depth from Romain. Just sayin...

 

mrsdonut
mrsdonut

 @JENNSNOW

 Joannas life is hard because she CHOOSES to make it that way.

Our family came from Poland in the 80's and hid Jews on our farm when the Germans came looking. We grew the food we ate with our HANDS. We walked to town to get supplies that were NEEDED. THAT is hard work. Being 'discovered' as a young teenager means that she didn't work hard for very long. Modeling is NOT hard work.

 

Joanna doesn't NEED 2 houses. She WANTS 2 houses. She doesn't NEED a fancy car, she WANTS a fancy car.Her sister doesn't NEED to live with her. She WANTS her to live with her. She doesn't NEED to take care of her sister. She WANTS to take care of her sister.

 

I think she needs to humble herself and figure out what she NEEDS, instead of what she WANTS. 

Neversaynever
Neversaynever

@Prettyfeet Hmmmmm! I feel bad even THINKING that but I thought that also.

beachfan
beachfan

 @Prettyfeet

 Totally agree with you!  I was thinking there seems to be a LOT of sexual tension between these two.  They either have done the deed or they're flirting with it and its just a matter of time. 

okc
okc

@Holycrap I agree! Joanna looked much worse that night than Adriana did! Embarrassing Romain at his place of business. Needs to learn how to act in public and to drink socially! I think she was drunk before she got there. IMO Romain needs a lady.

Neversaynever
Neversaynever

@kekekinz1 I agree, Adriana was being playful (even though it was inappropriate). However, I do not believe it was mean spirited.

Hualani70
Hualani70

To say Joanna Krup is insecure is laughable.. Spicy and territorial maybe, but not insecure.. Her comment that men would want her, was bedroom talk!!!  To call her insecure for pointing out the fact the Adriana was out of line, is truth. Fact: Joanna didnt act out that night over insecurities with Romain and Adriana, but she should have!  Fact: Adriana was hardly harmless, it was in plain sight even Karent commented on how distasteful it was and she was sitting there the whole time.  Fact: Adriana had her boobies all over Romain's back. Fact: An insecure or secure woman would have flipped a script and blasted her for touching her man. Fact: ADRIANA looked like a fool on national TV practically begging Romain to want her when she knew her beloved french lover could be privy to that footage. How humiliating for him and very low class for Adriana!

Laurielu
Laurielu

 @kekekinz1 Yeah, pointing out how lucky your guy is to have you and commenting on how many other guys would love to be in his place actually made me wince.  It just seemed so unnecessary to say that and would have been a huge turnoff to me if I was the one hearing that.  Maybe that attitude is making him have some second thoughts about getting married.

okc
okc

@Shoshannah Yep! He deserves someone better, who knows how to show respect

kekekinz1
kekekinz1

 @Hualani70

 That is your opionion. And I wasn't talking about the bedroom scene. I said previews for the next episode. There is a difference between someone being confident and conceited. She sure is conceited but not confident. If she was secure with herself she wouldn't repeatedly have to remind him that other guys want her.