Lea, it is the " snarkiness" that proves the genuineness of your personality. Your self-confidence may seem to be "rude" to others, but I know it's your wisdom which causes you to speak many a truth in jest. You don't wish to hurt anyone, but sometimes the truth hurts. Keep being you and pay no attention to those who try to change that Texas-born genuineness that makes you so adorable. My wife and I watched the show to see you. You are the show.