Cast Blog: #RHOM

The Karent Trap

A Therapeutic Season for Alexia

Lea's Final Thoughts on the Season

Lea's Double Standards

Hoping to Move Forward with Lea

An X-Rated Reunion

Lisa's Vegas Regret

Joanna's Perfect Day

Lea and the Beefy Bus Boy Duo

Lea's Lip Service

Lisa's "Peacemaker" Problems

Alexia's Not Sweating the Small Stuff

Real Friends Don't Hold Grudges

A Fun Party, Minus the Distractions

Apologizing to Lea

Alexia's Anniversary Celebration

Lisa Loves Texas

Meet Joanna's New Puppy!

Lea's Walk Down Memory Lane

Adriana's Wedding Full of Waiting

Adriana's Two Loves

May Adriana Live Happily Ever After

Romain's Troubled Past

Alexia's Birthday Drama

Meet Dr. Sex Therapist Lisa

The Wedding Evite Explained

Targeted by the Hate Club

Lisa's Button-Pushing Behavior

Peter's Healing Process

Lenny's Lipo

Lea's Over the Haters

Adriana's Difficult Past

Joanna Talks Role Playing

Update on Elsa

Recovering Frankie and Peter

Lisa's Bridesmaid Ultimatum

Joanna's Outright Insult

The Birkin Bag Bonanza

Adriana's Glamorous 'Great Gatsby' Wedding

Lisa's In-Law Issues

Shocked by Lea's Secrets

The Karent Trap

Lisa thinks the other women were trying to humiliate Karent.

We all have a lot if healing to do within our personal lives and with one another apparently. I guess Joanna decided the best way to accomplish that would be on an island in the midst of a storm miles from home with no escape. This is not my idea of fun, and honestly it sounds like a recipe for disaster. The problems started right away with Adriana packing her entire closet as if she was going to the grand ball. How in the world she packed all of that but managed to forget her passport is beyond me. I thought I was yet to master the art of packing, but Adriana has me beat! I unsuccessfully suggested she have her housekeeper taxi it over to her. If she had listened to me, she probably would have made it!
Since Joanna invited us, we had dibs on the ocean view house. Thank god, because the view was absolutely breathtaking! I would definitely want to come back to Bimini with Lenny. I can be a real brat when it comes to getting my way sometimes, so of course I made a beeline to the master bedroom, but the ladies weren't having it! I thought it was hilarious that they literally dragged me out kicking and screaming. I didn't mind sharing a room with Karent at all. Thank god she doesn't snore! It was lovely to get to spend so much time with her and really bond.
It became evident why Karent and Rodolfo’s relationship was such a hot topic from the get go after seeing the women’s agenda for her. Unfortunately, then Karent was blinded by love and didn't see the truth about her relationship. Watching the women in the bathroom discussing Karent’s possible love triangle was bothersome to me. It seemed far too enjoyable to them and came across mean spirited. I did not see compassion, anger, or sadness for Karent whatsoever. Instead I saw smiles, smirks, and pleasure. It was distasteful.

Their actions during dinner and at our home for drinks afterward made so much sense after seeing the scene in Alexia’s bathroom. The intentions were not coming from a good place. Some wanted to attempt to humiliate and hurt Karent.

Why discuss with everyone EXCPET Karent about this embarrassing and hurtful situation? They were acting like private investigators and clearly put way too much time and energy into this. I of course would want to know if I were Karent, but not from a group of women who were not my friends.I had the pleasure of flying to NYC with Karent while watching this episode together. I could literally feel her cringe next to me after seeing these revelations. Thankfully she had me to comfort her.

I was disappointed that Lea attempted to get the ball rolling about the cheating article at dinner. I felt she used the private conversation had between her, Karent, and me in my room earlier. She undoubtedly knew Karent would not feel comfortable discussing that with the other women.

During dinner I spoke about losing my identity after being married. I used to be more involved, driven, and focused on my career as an actor and model. After marriage I was known for being Dr. Lenny Hochstein's wife, not Lisa. Being part of this new chapter in my life is quickly changing that. Lenny is suddenly becoming "Lisa's husband!" LOL! I would love to have my own nutritional supplements and skin care line. It is to be hoped that I reach these goals.

After dinner while having drinks at the house, the women were still trying to figure out the best way to tell Karent...oops I meant humiliate her I front of everyone. Innocently, she fell right into their trap! Finally Alexia has the decency to pull me aside so at the very least, Karent could receive the bad news from a real friend. It was agreed that I would be the bearer of bad news, take on this burden, and be put in an uncomfortable situation to have to hurt my friend. The uncomfortable situation worsened when Alexia and ALL the women decided to come parading in to be an audience for Karent’s reaction. Karent and I should have been should have been the only 2 people present. I unfortunately at this point had no choice but to tell her. It wasn't surprising that this was hurtful and uncomfortable for her. She managed to stay composed and handled herself the right way. I am happy she did not show too much emotion, because the other women did not deserve to see that. The only people who should ever see her react are her friends.

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Lea's Double Standards

Adriana explains why she was so surprised by Joanna and Lea's behavior.

I would like to start by saying that I tried my best to bond with Joanna and remain friendly after attending her bachorelette party and wedding. I truly was hoping for a budding friendship. All season long, she criticized me in her weekly blogs, criticized my wedding, and even then I took the high road and didn't engage in the low blows and continued hostility she has demonstrated towards me for a while now. However, I couldn’t stay quiet any longer when she started to attack my credibility. Enough is enough! I've learned that bullies like her will not stop the attack until you stand your ground. She showed me her true colors when she stated she wanted “to rip my head off.” Such aggressive behavior like that could no longer be ignored. Joanna is always stating that she is beautiful and because of that she thinks she has license to act UGLY!

Furthermore, I couldn't remain silent while she was attacking Lisa and being so cold to her and her struggle with infertility. Claiming that Lisa is a party girl and is always drinking is not the attitude of a friend. Joanna and Lisa had been friends and even had dinner together the night before and all was well between them, until Joanna decided to turn on Lisa... I was shocked, how can a friend blatantly attack her friend with such coldness?! She should not talk about things she knows nothing about!

Another shocker was to see Lea sitting there silently and not coming to Lisa's defense... She crucified me this season and did a complete character assassination of my person for not speaking up when Ana attacked her last year, so I was very surprised to see her do the exact same thing to her new bestie... Double standards, as usual!

In conclusion, don't judge others unless you have walked a mile in their shoes!