Marysol Patton

Marysol was moved by Alexia's strength in the face of tragedy.

on Oct 18, 20120

I’m hesitant to write my blog after this episode, because I hate to be repetitive and beat a dead horse. Lea, I guess in an attempt to pretend she likes me and wants me at her fundraiser, invites me again. There is nothing wrong with that, but I’m just not feeling it, and there is too much gossip and bad blood at this point. I bring to her attention that I am going through a painful and confusing time in my life with my separation, but she doesn’t stop talking beyond the sound barrier to hear what I am saying. I couldn’t get a word in edge wise and was dismissed as “giving too much importance to non-important things.” I’m getting divorced for the love of God, where is the non-importance in that? It is very important to me, and it is emotionally consuming me beyond anyone’s imagination. I’m sure if Lea and her husband were going through a divorce, she wouldn’t think it was a “non-important issue” and no amount of jokes would go without castigation.

It is becoming increasingly uncomfortable to go to any social gathering, because Lea drags The Big Blonde with her everywhere now. He is always making snide and nasty remarks about me even when I am standing right next to him. Running into him at every social gathering is so unpleasant and uncomfortable. At this point, I prefer not to go to anymore functions if he is going to be in attendance. I often ask anyone I can if he will be at an event I am attending so that I can avoid him and avoid his drama.

Much of the gossip that Lea and The Big Blonde have been spreading has made it to my mother’s ears, and she is not a happy camper. She is social with Lea, but she knows who she really is. Mother decides to give The Big Blonde a piece of her mind in my defense. I’m sure his mother would have done the same for him, that’s what mother’s do. I don’t like to see my mother get so upset, and I would have preferred the whole thing to never have happened, but sometimes things just need to be said.

22 comments
Bibimigy
Bibimigy

What happened to the beautiful Marysol? I use to like you but not anymore, why are you being so mean to Karent, disliking her.  She has done nothing to you. Don't go along with the mean girls. That's not you! Alexia is also getting on my nerves, you and Alexia were my favorites, but I'm so dissappointed with the remarks you make, the gossip you are creating. Making fun of other people.  Be a lady, stop the nonsense. Put a stop to all this bulliness....

joan.giacchieccarius
joan.giacchieccarius

Marysol, LOVE you and your sweet mama Elsa, to see her stand up to the BIG blonde was stressful but also so beautiful :) I adore you both, keep being honest and doing the right things no matter what......God Bless Tanti Baci xoxoxo joan

deirdreb
deirdreb

my vote goes to you as the Gentle Soul of all the housewives shows, you are elegant and the camera never lies, it was sad to see your marraige did not work, but there are lots of fish in the sea  and you are bound to catch one, just beware of the sharks!

cranberrylaw
cranberrylaw

I hope you have continued to attend social events now that some time has passed (that is if you are not currently filming season). Don't let that spiteful & evil man James keep you from attending events, because then he wins. You have every right to attend any event you are invited to & you should not let his presences stop you. The only one who is going to end up looking bad is him. Because he is acting childish & petty by talking bad about you & complaining about you at social events....that is so tacky & inappropriate. You keep taking the high road, like the mature & educated woman you are & just ignore him. 

Twins98
Twins98

The Big Blonde favors Lea a whole lot to me.  I always think it's Lea at first then take a second look and decide nope, its her sister!

manhattanboy85
manhattanboy85

Hey! I love you this season. You are genuine, sweet and have so much fun with your mom. I think you seem pretty level headed, but I also think you should give Karent a chance to be a friend. I feel like you guys (cast from season 1 and Ana) planned from the beginning of filming this season to be against her and never actually "let" her enter your group. Give the lady a break, she doesn't have a mean bone in her body! xoxo

ddbird2l
ddbird2l

I think you need to get  thicker skin..Dont let the Elaine dude bring you down he just is trying to be relevant hoping Andy will make him a housewife.  Lea needs put in her place maybe mama Elsa should give it to her.. Lea is very aware of her snide jokes and how they may offend. She just needs a big dose of her own medicine. Stay strong. Also I think its very sad what Alexis is going through but she owes Karant an apology.

Maya2
Maya2

You  are my favorite ! and i enjoy your mom so much ! you are a classy lady, Leah needs a dose of her own medicine !

 

 

Caligirldream
Caligirldream

Tell the big blonde to go find another show.

Dispatchress
Dispatchress

Marysol, I like how you try to keep out of the drama but you need to work on some sassy comebacks for Lea... Unfortunately, that's probably when she'll finally back off... Another thing, I just viewed pictures of your mother in her younger years... very beautiful. You should consider keeping away from the plastic surgery. Learn to love yourself and age gracefully! It's obvious your mother had a bad experience with it, learn from that!

sharons217
sharons217

Love you and Elsa! You guys should have your own show on Bravo Marysol :)  Hope you find love and happiness.

tsgwpb
tsgwpb

You're awesome Marysol!!  Keep taking that high road!  So great meeting you last night and talking to your Mom!  LOVE HER and YOU!  

iris1
iris1

You seem to be pretty nice but give Lea a break already, Yes you are getting a divorce but already dating so you must not be that upset about it. I went through a divorce and dating was not even on my mind because of the heartbreak. Also, I do not believe Lea's comment was in bad taste it was a joke..get over it.

pblover
pblover

I feel SO BAD for you! I know how mean he/she' s can be.....very dramatic! They have no life or family so they make it their ONLY goal to ruin yours! Why does Lea hang out w that trash??? 

ruby63
ruby63

I think you are great. You try your best to keep out of all the drama and you are doing a good job. I am not liking Lea much this year. And her jokes are not funny. Keep your head high and keep doing just what you are doing. Best of luck!

Nebfan22
Nebfan22

Just ignore Lea.  You know that what you're saying is falling on deaf ears and quite frankly Lea just does not care.  As for your mother...OMG go Elsa!!!!  I was so happy she gave that bully in a dress and blonde wig a piece of her mind.  Loved it!! 

ibis
ibis

Everyone goes through personal struggles, I am sure that Lea does not mean to hurt you. She does have the dark humor in her, I know is hurtful to go through that. If you know in your mind that you did things correctly with the event, then what is important is that who was there and knows you will continue to work with you because they saw your work. 

Isee
Isee

I hear where you're coming from. Lea is a smart lady and seems to see the humor in most situations, But sometimes perception is lost in the emotional repercussions When one is trying to be funny. We've all seen footage of a stand up Comedian Bombing and crossing the line between funny and offensive, and as a Viewer, she did just that. But honestly, IMO, the best way to deal with It , is to let her shoot herself in her own foot, and hopefully learn from it. You were straight up, which is commendable, but please DO take the Higher road and realize that when you invest yourself into another's Follies, you end up where they are. I don't think she is a bad person, Although yes, dropping the whole Gala thing would demonstrate some Awareness on her part, but you are kind and beautiful, and that is what we Want to see. xoxoxo

arrabella
arrabella

Listen Marysol, Cruella DeVille isn't going to stop the green card thing because she knows it gets under your skin. That means it's time to make your skin thicker honey, and develop a backbone. But I must say, her actions beg the question that maybe she was the wrong party about this neverending gala. She's jealous of you about something. Perhaps it's your youth, looks, Momma Elsa, or the truth being on your side. Who knows. She doesn't seem happy and does her husband really exist? She comes off as someone who slummed then married for money so who cares about her. Live your life and ignore this woman and her jealous comments. Just remember, the only thing Cruella DeVille had going for her was a great coat. Kind of like Lea....

Jerseyitalianmom22
Jerseyitalianmom22

 @iris1 everyone deals with a divorce differently.  she may be trying to move on and dating may help her with the hurt.  u shouldnt judge because u dealt differently.  Lea's comments are mean spirited and ur probably just like her if ur trying to justify them

CL65AMGV12
CL65AMGV12

 @pblover Because Lea and Elaine are the same person. Elaine is just taller.