Adriana De Moura

Adriana opens up about the root of her issues.

on Sep 30, 20130

Going to see the church with Frederic and meeting with the minister was very important, because that made us realize our childhood does shape us and affects us for the rest of our lives. Choices made by our parents while we are children can later affect us and unconsciously shape our adult life. My difficulty trusting men and the latent fear of being abandoned by them was rooted in the divorce of my parents -- my father cheated on my mother and after that left our family. I was the eldest of four kids and many nights went to sleep hearing my mother cry. From then on I lived with demons that controlled me and made me believe that men would eventually cheat on me and leave me sooner or later. So my guard was always up, and although I acted tough, deep inside I felt like a fragile little girl starving for love and always seeking approval. Hence, the symbolic burning of my wedding dress that had been hanging in the closet for many years. I wanted to burn all the years of fear, mistrust, and pain that I had gone through.

Speaking of my bacherolette party, I would like thank Marysol for doing a very nice job planning it! It was a very pretty and civilized party, and I had a lot of fun with the girls in the comfort of my own home. Perfect evening!

126 comments
Jchavez
Jchavez

Hopefully appearing in this show may help you realize how mean spirited you are ... It is an opportunity to grow and let go of the past; you don't have to be nasty to stand your ground.

rukidding
rukidding

Your wedding was beautiful and I think Fredric is perfect for you.  Try to stay calm and cherish your friendships.  

jdolph
jdolph

Cannot stand your attitude Adriana.  You are a mean woman with poor judgement.  Almost everything you say is off the wall.  You and the "haters club" are sad sad women,  

falina_c
falina_c

THIS is the best you've got?  Lol....

premmie1
premmie1

You are truly sad...Lea did nothing but try and help you and was a true friend.  For you to turn on her the way you have shows just how classless you are. 

COMom
COMom

All you do is complain. Grow up. Do you think anyone believes anything that comes out of your mouth? Personally I always thought you were a boring,  lying, bullying fraud. Your wedding really showed who you are. Very Sad. For a woman in love it is the happiest day in our life. No surprise you have been behaving the way you have. I have yet to see any love between you and Fredrick.  

marie.garcia.7146
marie.garcia.7146

YOu do have alot of comments though....guess in your mind, that makes you think you are popular.

Indie44
Indie44

Adriana..... I wonder now how I ever thought you were interesting.  Your a lair and a bully.  Lea doesn't need you.I hope Bravo takes you and Marysol (the boring phony) off the show. Big deal.. your father cheated... we all  have to live with something and things that are much more devastating.   Get over yourself... you are not all that!

 

be@ch
be@ch

Adriana's preview "she can have my sloppy seconds" is just gross!  Get over yourself lady.   Although I would bet that she would love to have Joanna's sloppy seconds - I've seen her drool over Romain and get mad that her flirtations were rebuffed. 

housewifeforreal4
housewifeforreal4

Oh my! You obviously didn't want anyone to know you were married, because you thought with the fame you would eventually get from this show, you would bag a richer man. What a pathetic, low-down, dirty girl you are!

 

be@ch
be@ch

Adriana must really thing RHOM viewers are idiots who will buy the BS she is dishing to try to push the blame for all her lies onto everyone else.  She has lied to her friends, and to everyone who has watched her play the poor, single parent who doesn't know if she can ever trust a man role.  Seriously disgusting! 

KatiainHB
KatiainHB

How dare you call Lisa sloppy seconds. Get over yourself. You and that whacked our blonde both are acting so ridiculous Grow up , and as far as your past live in the moment and rise above the past and stop using it as an excuse

Cooper1995
Cooper1995

Adriana, you are a narcisist, habitual liar and vindictive hater. I don't think I have ever encountered anyone so angry and unhappy and explosive.  You need therapy badly.  Stand in front of a mirror and practice this line: "I am sorry.  I made a mistake."  Impossible, right?   I just heard your latest comment that you are offering Marysol to Joanna's wedding party as "sloppy seconds".  Don't you realize how grossly mean and disgusting these assaults are on others?  How can you expect anyone to like you with this behavior?  Even if you have friends now, they must be walking on egg shells because you are volative and untrustworthy and negative...over and over and over again.

Bravo, please drop her from the show!  It is so wonderful to read about the beautiful Joanna and her love and her fabulous personality!  What a sweetheart.  Marysol and Lia and the other women are interesting treasures, with fascinating personalities and wonderful passions.  With Adriana gone, they will mend any little rifts that have occurred because of Adriana's infection on them.  I turn the volume down and do a short chore when Adriana is profiled on the show.  I only watch for the other women.  Read these blogs.  It's clear that our only complaint with the show is the participation of Adriana.  She doesn't make the show better.  Dump her.

KatiainHB
KatiainHB

How do you live with yourself and justify all your lies? Do you realize you are not a very nice person?

bravobomber
bravobomber

The symbolic burning of your wedding dress, was to try to bring life to a boring party that maybe would have ended up on the cutting room floor. 

WCW
WCW

Marysol could only find two other women to come to your "bachelorette but already married" party? The highlight of the evening was burning an off the rack wedding dress?  You and Fredric lied to the individual who will be performing your sham wedding? IMHO, Bravo's storyline for you is one that will end with them showing you the door!

megmuchmore
megmuchmore

We all have baggage, tragedy, deep-rooted hurt or childhood trauma to a certain degree…Some brutally worse than others.  I’m sure I would be in prison today if I hadn’t chosen to mature, grow and overcome my horrific abusive past. Millions have suffered your juvenile woes…get in line Adriana.  You don't garner my sympathy.  Many people use their past to defend their present bad behavior.  How does your childhood hardship justify being deceitful with a close female friend of many years?  Don’t you know the difference between right and wrong…good and evil?


debmerc888
debmerc888

You look terrific and you're a great mom and businessperson.  That's more than most people can claim. Wishing you all the best. Ignore the mean comments, people can be so harsh! Like all of us, just try every day to be the best person you can be.

lisarc
lisarc

Everybody can see thru ur BS...its old and so annoying to hear your whiny voice always complaining about something. Please Bravo replace her and follower Marysol who is boring as hell and don't show Ana anymore shes so bitter she makes my skin crawl. Alexia is fake on the show and makes excuses for everything.  Love Lisa, Lea, and Joanna the only REAL women on the show. Adriana is a habitual liar...her and her HUSBAND for the last 4 yrs Frederic ugh their both gross...eat like 10 cheeseburgers u look terrible and need to gain some weight

Dimondgirl
Dimondgirl

"Choices made by our parents while we are children can later affect us and unconsciously shape our adult life." an this is the excuse you give for how you have conducted your life?!! As my children would say, "HELLO" !! Does this mean that your son can also say the same thing if he ever finds himself put on the spot for not being honest?  After all, you kept lying about your 5-year old marriage, you blame Lea, you blame your husband and oh wait, you even blame your son as the reason you kept this all of secret!! I have to hand it to you however, for someone who states that she has to get married in a Church to have a real marriage, you seem to have no problems in telling lies to the minister while in the Church where you want to get married!!

JenPincha
JenPincha

At the sit down lunch with the beautiful Joanna were you going for the Boy George look? I must say you looked hysterical!! Thanks for the comic relief.

samuelpolanca
samuelpolanca

 

You are full of surprises???

No my dear, just full of SHIT!

 

RRNYCITY
RRNYCITY

Adriana's childhood  story explains a lot.  It is conceivable that there would be scars from growing up in a broken home as the oldest child with a cheating father and an unhappy mother.  That this would affect Adriana's relationships is not hard to imagine.  Until you have walked in her shoes, you can't really pass judgment on how she should behave or how her past should affect her present.  So, I wouldn't be quick to judge.  With respect to her clerk's office marriage to Frederick, the fact is, even though she was legally married, she didn't do it in a church and have the big ceremony or wear the nice dress, so she didn't feel married. This is all she has been saying.  I get it.  Why its so hard for others on the blog to empathize, is beyond comprehension.  And who cares if she didn't tell anyone that she was married?  It is clear that she was embarrassed about the aborted plans.  If I was about to have a big wedding and the plans were aborted and instead I had to settle for a wedding at the clerk's office -- I wouldn't tell any one either.  Human nature.  We all have our pride.     

lilyrose
lilyrose

How can you get married in a Catholic church if you have already been married two times before?  Wasn't your other wedding in a Catholic Church as well?  In my church, you cannot get married again.  They keep your baptismal records together.  I call BS on your story...

sckusnetz
sckusnetz

Please leave the show and get some professional help. You are seriously delusional and it is almost painful to watch. I am actually sitting here shaking my head in disbelief!!!

carom
carom

They should look in that minister's record who is signing a document for already married couple.

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

You're always AFRAID and ANXIOUS about something; LMFAO!!!

AFRAID of MEN, but you used Lea to set you up with MEN even though you were married.

AFRAID to MARRY, but you're already on your 3re marriage and counting.

ANXIOUS to go to Lea's house but you went again anyway.

ANXIOUS and AFRAID to meet with Janna but, you went and faked an apology. 

You MORON! What else are you AFRAID of???!!!??? Your self???

 

LoveBravoBB
LoveBravoBB

Adriana,

Brilliant strategy! Try the victim angle to manipulate the viewers because we're really stupid!!!  

 

@Ricksgrl
@Ricksgrl

so true, and everyone can see it.

falina_c
falina_c

 @bravobomber I don't know what exactly that snoozefest was, but where I am from?  It sure wasn't a party....In ANY language!

maria89
maria89

@megmuchmore Very well written! I don't believe anything andrianna says.

Sweeteena1018
Sweeteena1018

 @debmerc888

 She's a fraud and a fake business woman, her whole life is a lie.  How could you admire a person who fooled a friend into believing she was a struggling single mother and being set up on dates with wealthy men when all along she was already married?  Also would rather have her son believe his Mom is living in sin with her Lover, instead of telling him the truth that she and Fredrik are in fact already married.  I'm convinced Adrianna has burned so many bridges this is the reason she has no real friends or family willing tape on air with her besides Fredrik, her Son and the cast.

 

Evangelia
Evangelia

@JenPincha Sorry but I thought it was the Michael Jackson look! But Boy George fits too.

falina_c
falina_c

 @RRNYCITY Thought she was 18 when this happened?  Yeah, that's a real traumatic CHILDHOOD.

CarlaB
CarlaB

 @RRNYCITY My parents divorced because my father was a cheater. My mom was heartbroken, thrown into poverty and life was extremely hard for a few years. She moved on, got her college education, had counseling, and is an independent lovely person. I was just getting ready to enter college and knew 100% what was going on. My father refused to help with my education. So you know what??? It was a huge change in my life but I got counseling, worked my tail off to pay for college, got my degree, got a great job in the profession of my dreams. I own my mistakes and don't blame any of my choices on my childhood. I see where there's been an impact but don't use those things as an excuse, but as a way of seeing how to change how it impacts me. I don't lie to my friends or myself. I know the difference between a marriage license and getting married.  She has the ability to get herself help. This blog is bs...she needs to take responsibility for her actions. She's a nut case, liar and needs professional help! She has no pride....and is more than willing to attack others so there is no way to feel sorry for her. 

SusannaBanana
SusannaBanana

 @RRNYCITY  If it was just a matter of her being quiet about her marriage she would've gotten a much different reaction than what you're seeing. The reason everyone has a problem with it is because she wasn't quiet at all. She whined about being single to Lea for years, using her charity and goodwill when she didn't really need it, as she already had a husband to support her. She told the viewers over and over about how she's so scared of marriage and commitment when, again, she was already committed! If she had kept her mouth shut about the whole thing no one would care, but she didn't, she lied countless times to everyone who would listen. That's why she's getting such a negative response, people really dislike liars.

maria89
maria89

@lilyrose Well that certainly was no priest

debmerc888
debmerc888

I was just trying to highlight the good and advise her to work on being better every day, like all of us should. I think the comments overall are too negative, and no none is all bad. I prefer to uplift people and encourage them to do better. Being a great mom, businesswoman and being beautiful are all true statements for Adriana, I didn't touch on the negative because everyone else has been so severe. I think we should all include the good in with our other opinions because otherwise it's too harsh and hurtful and any advice one have to give is lost. Of course some people just want to throw someone away if they don't like them or think they're "bad". I think people are multi-dimensional and need to be called out when wrong, yes, but also encouraged to do better. Having said that though, I do respect your thoughts and opinion very much.

RH805
RH805

@Monroebaby @samuelpolanca Me too!

TrudyAnn1
TrudyAnn1

 @SusannaBanana  @RRNYCITY

 Lea wa a true friend to her and now all se does is bash her... and Lisa is a sloppy second ? She is the real SLOPPY - friend, castmate,wife....and has a big lie on national TV for her son to see= thats sloppy

marie.garcia.7146
marie.garcia.7146

 @debmerc888 I haven't seen anything good about her. We have searched....she likes to hurt people for sport...look at what she did to the innocent  dentist last season who had done nothing to her. Evil should not be condoned.

Sweeteena1018
Sweeteena1018

 @debmerc888

 I appreciate your response, I agree that it's best to uplift and encourage a person to grow and be a better person when they become aware that there are things that needs to be worked on.  But the operative word is AWARE, Adrianna had a great friend in Lea who was in her corner and always encouraged her to take the high road and to be a lady, Lea was also very instrumental and making sure her son stayed in the private school that she knew he was excelling in.  I will admit and I have in previous posts that Adrianna has a wonderful son who is smart and talented, but sometimes this could happen in spite of the Mother and all her fraudulent activities and burned bridges that I'm sure she has hid from her Son.  Adrianna needs to be knocked down and exposed for the harsh and nasty person she is and has gotten away with for so long with all the Lies that she has told and has been clearly documented on video.  This has happened to many people and most times this will humble a person to become a better individual.  But Adrianna biggest problem is, she does not listen to advice because she's very manipulative and likes to scream victim which will definitely stunt a person growth.  My words were not harsh, as Adrianna's are to Joanna and Lea all the time, and I do believe she needs to hit rock bottom before she will MAYBE take ownership for all her lies that are coming back to bite her in the butt.