Adriana De Moura

Adriana shares her thoughts on her tear-filled talk with Lea.

on Oct 28, 20130

For many months I had been been really sad and beating myself up over the downfall of my friendship with Lea. However it was interesting last week when I watched her sister say, "As long as we did what she said, we all got along great."  That statement really resonated with me, since this is exactly how I feel. Lea and I got along just fine all these years as long as I did exactly what she wanted me to say or do, but the minute I didn't speak on her behalf, she just turned on me. It felt really hurtful to see someone you loved as a sister just decide to punish you for what Ana said or did. I never really did anything to hurt her. But after listening to what her sister said, I understood that the problem is not with me but with her, since she likes to control people or else she will release her wrath on them... Like Lisa said, "She just likes to be the head bitch in charge all the time."

Those are her personal issues, and I'm not going to hold that against her, but I also will no longer blame myself for everything that went wrong between us. Nonetheless I apologized to her, since I felt really bad for not being transparent about my marriage. I know I'm far from perfect, but I wasn't doing anything to maliciously hurt her -- I was just protecting my son and doing the best I could under the circumstances. I felt really happy to see her open up and be willing to talk things out!

It was great to see all the girls act like adults and move on from the petty issues...

I'm in such good place in my life right now that I no longer want to dwell on negativity. I just want to forgive and forget and let love lead my life.

Many blessings to all!

Until next week!

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108 comments
MARIA1509
MARIA1509

ADRIANA I LOVE YOU! You are real, sexy , fiery and beautiful. I really do think that you are a good person, who is misunderstood because of the hot temper. you are not afraid to stand up for yourself and that is a good thing. keep it up

 

xoxo

jules@1216
jules@1216

Just watched the reunion 2.  You looked great. The best. Your hair looked the best I have ever seen. It was so pretty. Best dressed.

maz_big
maz_big

its a sad day when when u have to apologize to a bully so she will back down and not devour u whole. She is no friend trust that. <3

 

JessPikey
JessPikey

Best dress and best comments from the reunion came from Adriana.  Someone had to put Joanna in her place. Well done Adriana. 

d416
d416

I just watched the reunion.  I have lost all respect for you. I only wish someone would bring up the "rumor" of you working as a maid and getting pregnant by your employer ...  especially since you are so fast to throw digs at everyone else, especially Romain.  It's so obvious that you are jealous of Johanna and the fact that Romain wouldn't give you the time of day.

 

MsFlylady
MsFlylady

Thank you for putting Joanna in check last night. Wow, you let her have it. Also, your comment about Roman was on point.

Reba39forever
Reba39forever

Seriously your a nut job. I have avoided you all season to bad I have to listen to your annoying voice in order to watch the reunion. Complete whack job. Cannot think of many people I have less respect for short of serial killers.  If this show comes back next season and you are a part of it I will no longer watch Miami Housewives.

Hannah_renn
Hannah_renn

You are disgusting and getting even more disgusting with every episode, the Reuinion tops it. Ugly inside and out. Ugh!

JessPikey
JessPikey

Lisa said that she was starting to think that Adrianna is the only sane one. With exception to how late you were for your  wedding, I have to agree. Everyone's true colors came out on the party bus in Vegas. You had plenty of opportunity to put the other ladies down but you didn't do that. When everyone started to fight you shut yourself out of it and sat in the fetal position (which was priceless to watch by the way). I think the core of who you are is good, Lea just sees her own evil in you. I think you are highly emotional and fiery, but that's just who you are and you own it. You know when it's appropriate to confront someone and when it's not. I like watching you on the show.

bunnymunro
bunnymunro

okay, I just viewed the reunion clip of this WRETCHED, HORRIBLE, EMPTY & CRUEL Adriana...

And that VOICE!! That high pitched, cracking, yappy, yammering, PERPETUAL voice and wonder how anyone can be

near her without knocking over whitened teeth out.

What a truly nasty, unhappy wretch.... eck! just what a repulsive subhuman.

i.indie
i.indie

I'm not sure why you need to attack Lea for the person you already knew she was.  We all have friends who are wildly imperfect (surprise!) and it's up to us to understand how to navigate those friendships peacefully if we want them at all.

 

What made me sad was that you thought it was so easy to re-establish your friendship and that all it would take is an "I'm sorry".  The truth is you threw that friendship away and you can't ever get that back. Real people and true friends are not that disposable. They are hard work, require humility and compassion, and should be cherished. By their very nature they're fragile and as soon as you throw them out, they're gone for good. I don't know why you didn't anticipate that.

 

Lea made her choice and decided that she does not want you as her imperfect friend.  And the truth from your above blog is that you don't want her as your imperfect friend either - you're just mad that she rejected you. The truth is that even in this separation she's treated you with more dignitiy because she's truthful about what's possible.  You're still pretending to her and yourself that you could ever really care for or respect her.  Grow up - it's not all about what you have that matters and trying to up your numbers.  It's about taking care of what you have that matters. That Lea knows.

kashmire1212
kashmire1212

Leah is a tough old broad !! don't hole your breath waiting for her to forgive you.

women_first
women_first

Adriana, for the love of god all of the past seasons lea was protecting u and caring about u. there's scenes where she was setting u up on dates.... I watch this show and I don't even know that u and Fred were serious. basically everyone just watch the past episodes she's lying so easily about everything! relationships, marriage, money etc why wld anyone want to be friends with her maybe all the Latinas are supporting her because she's Latina.if someone lied about being poor and single and alexia gave that person thousands of dollars do u think alexia wld handle that with class? no way well lea did.

hawaiikaihousewife
hawaiikaihousewife

Can't believe ur still being snarky to Lea and blaming her for the fall of your friendship...just after us viewers watching u say u want to move forward. It's best for u to stop pointing fingers at others other than yourself. Btw, u looked beautiful on ur wedding day, but that was that worth inconviencing all your guests? My guess is that ur answer is yes.

hbgirl
hbgirl

Adriana after seeing the latest episode, I believe that you lost a very very dear " friend for life"  in Lea. That's unfortunate. Time heals all wounds, you can forgive but can never forget. Lea will never trust you again and I think this relationship is fractured and will never be as it was. Just be glad that you were able to apologize to Lea in your own way so that you both can move forward.  Don't let this fractured friendship get in the way of the boys friendship as they seem like good friends.

skye8844
skye8844

I do not understand why you owe Lea an apology.  It is none of any of the ladies business if you decided to keep your personal life personal.   

Lea is just down right nosey and needs to take care of her own business.  That statement goes for the rest also.

Good luck with your endeavours.  There is a lot of jealousy to contend with on all the HOUSEWIVES episodes.  I do not understand all the screaming, crying and finger pointing.  I've never experienced any of this with my friends.  I guess that is why we are not on a reality show though.  We would be considered here in Louisiana BORING.  We can serve up some good food though.

 

WCW
WCW

Lea did you a solid by accepting your loony, tear filled apology - she let you save face. She will be cordial when she sees you but she will not trust you every again!

sabe785
sabe785

That was not an apology to Lea, You said "If I lied to you". There is no if. You did lie, period.

be@ch
be@ch

Not falling for it again Adriana.  Last season, you were nasty, went through a brief period where you were decent, then turned around and showed your true nasty colors again.  I had thought you had changed for a bit.  Same thing won't work twice for this viewer.

 Wonder if Lea will read this and see how non-apologetic Adriana really is. 

miranda99
miranda99

You sat back at the reunion while a good friend was attacked, never sticking up for her.  HOW is that protecting your son?  You are not a true or loyal friend in my book.

Irishgirl2
Irishgirl2

Your back! I loved seeing you together with Lea it will be slow but after some tine you two will able to move on! I can see ho w much you and your children enjoy each other...friendship that grow from childhood lasts a lifetime.

LoLo72
LoLo72

Adriana has the cohones to say she didn't do anything to Lea. This girl is really in "la la land". She lied to her for yrs & took her kindness for weakness. Now she uses her son as a punishment to RJ. Adriana was never sorry for what she did, she was sorry she got caught & embarrassed. When the show is over, Lea will be just fine financially & socially. Adriana won't be & she won't have Lea to help her & hopefully any other friends w/ money took note. I guess her & Fred will drift away on their rotten boat.

Shelleycon
Shelleycon

Ohmg you are a trainwreck dude!!

greekgirl
greekgirl

You quote what Lea's sister said about doing what she said to get along, yet conveniently left out that her sister and mother ALSO said that she cares about people and always offers help. I consider the latter a more important quality than bossiness. Heck, my younger sisters would likely say I was bossy too! Wonder what YOUR family would say about YOU, esp being that only your sister showed up for your vow renewal. If you showed a little humility and honesty, people would move on quickly. No one likes being BS'd. You lied to Lea for personal gain, to the viewers for a sympathetic storyline and are acting like she and likely us are judging you.....way to spin a tale!

JenPincha
JenPincha

Fake tears,fake wedding, fake person, fake life

Rebound
Rebound

"...after listening to what her sister said, I understood that the problem is not with me but with her..."  Yeah Adriana, we know.  It's never your fault, problem, issue... it's always someone else's Frederic's, Lea's, Joanna's, Lisa's, we get it.  You don't. 

Juanitajo19
Juanitajo19

Am I the only one who thinks that for a woman her age she is very immature ( and not so bright)?

lorenorway
lorenorway

I dislike you because you are a coward that plays victim. You are a vicious leech.

Even if you reach the highest branch, snake, you always creep dragging your venom within.

Monroebaby
Monroebaby

Dangit.  It was so nice to NOT see you last week, except for your forgettable scene chasing your son down the driveway.  I just knew it couldn't last.  Now we must endure your crocodile tears. 

Maybe, to show your good faith, you could pay back the money Lea gave you or raised while you were married and pretending to be single.  Or, perhaps you could buy back the "art" Lea bought to help out the poor, little "single mom".  That would go a long way toward an apology, but I still wouldn't trust you. 

FREEFLY100
FREEFLY100

Adriana, you absolutely MUST tell me where you bought that STUNNING long dress you wore in episode 12 at Alexia's house.  It is the navy blue and white one with an open "V" shaped back and is one of the most beautiful and unique dresses I've ever seen.  Please share!  :)

leenelvis
leenelvis

Adriana - I was so happy to see you and Lea talk and agree to forgive eachother and move on and I saw apologies on both sides. Then I read Lea's vicious blog - I am sorry for you and urge you - keep your distance from Lea - she is not a nice person.

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

You are right about Lea....in watching her this season, it is obvious she is one of those women who love to take on charity causes by making her friends the charity....if you can't be the charity or the one who is in need, you can't be her friend....I noticed it the first season, but this season it hits the screen.....you see that personality a lot with people who love to "throw" charity events....they want to be the one in charge, because they want to be the one who everyone thinks is charitable and giving.....and of course, they get to call the shots....it looked like her Mom was afraid of her....I am sure she is charitable with them so they will be beholdin....an old southern term they use in TX.....she knows it...

 

As for your omission about your marriage to Frederick....and your feeling "not married" .... well, on one hand it really isn't anyones business....but on the other.....if you have talked often about getting married as if you have never stood in front of an officiating minister or like person who has said, I now pronounce you....then, maybe that is what I call an Obvious Omission .... it would be understandable for close friends to feel confused about not knowing the circumstances....wouldn't it be nice if we could all determine our own legal circumstances based on what we felt and wanted.....a prisoner could say..."I didn't feel convicted, because I didn't get to testify"......so you see where the confusion comes in...

 

peace out

Gofish
Gofish

I wonder how you felt when Lisa bragged about Lea taking her to meet her family in Texas? After only  being friends for such a short time.  Your expression was a little shocked! I know you and Alexia had phony smiles during that conversation, like you could care less.  But deep down inside it must have bothered you that during the time you and Lea were BFFS she never introduced you to her family.  Lea must have not felt as close to you as you thought.  She must have pitied you then just as she does now.    She threw you a bone by somewhat burying the hachette.  After you read her blog this week you know where you really stand with her don't you? NO WHERE....  

maz_big
maz_big

 @Hannah_rennshe stands up to the bully and u cant take it... lol U have no backbone I c

 

 

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @skye8844

 I'm from Louisiana as well, and I agree with everything you've said!  You don't have to tell a friend all of your business. Adrianna has stated she kept some information private in order to protect her son.  If a "friend" doesn't understand, then they weren't a true friend to begin with.  They've taken thie marriage thing to an entirely different level.  Did I miss anything?!

carioca
carioca

 @skye8844 When you claim being a single mother, cry about your son tuition (cause you don't have any help) and take advantage of "your friend" financial situation .... YOU HAVE TO CLARIFIED YOUR MARRIED STATUS, and that is why Lea call her evil to the core, Lea is absolutely right!

carioca
carioca

 @Irishgirl2 well, sorry to bring the news that the boys move on, like Adriana and Lea said... Is time for you move on too... There is no way that friendship would be the way it was... Sorry Pollyanna!

JenPincha
JenPincha

@Irishgirl2 Friendships will not last at all when one of the mothers' happen to be a con artist.

Monroebaby
Monroebaby

 @Juanitajo19

 She is blinded to her real self by the overly-inflated image she sees in the mirror  Reminds me of another narcissistic character ... "Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?"  WHAT?  NO!  Not Joanna!

carioca
carioca

And the worse part is that she thinks that we are not so bright either!!!! She judge us for her self.... sad. @Juanitajo19 

women_first
women_first

@FlutterBy this sounds absolutely silly. now being charitable is evil, I've heard it all

Monroebaby
Monroebaby

@FlutterBy You've made some good points.

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 @Gofish 

Yeh! NO WHERE....all right! Because Lea could see through that fake tears the insincerity of her apology. She's a thief, a lier and phony!  She wasn't a friend, and can never be unless it benefits her. She used Lea and when it was her turn to show her appreciation just by defending her, she let it go on and on for that Ana to slaughter her. I care less about her and she's going down! 

...…IS THE BOAT READY FREDERIC??!!.......!!!

 

carom
carom

 @southern_goddess  If Adrianna has bought back all paintings Lea bought and put in her closet because Adrianna was lying to Lea about being a single mother, I wouldn't have issues with her. Until that happens, she is just a con-artist.

women_first
women_first

@southern_goddess @skye8844 it's about being personal I think lea was generally scared and concerned for Adriana giving her tons of money etc. a true friend also shd not lie about their situation and still take money. wouldn't u feel really hurt if your best friend took money from u but all the while lying

women_first
women_first

@carioca @skye8844 thank u! I wld be so damn pissed if my friend my BFF, took thousands from me based on lies its basically being a con artist!