It is very upsetting to have a friend turn on you, a person you loved like a sister using everything and anything to punish you. I feel like I can never win with Lea, I've tried explaining to her that that we didn't disclose having the marriage license to ANYONE, not even our parents! I wasn't hurting her, this was not about her! That was my journey as a woman and as a mother. I said it once and will repeat again: I didn't tell anyone about the marriage license, because it would defeat the purpose of respecting my son's emotional readiness.
Furthermore, I also had my own issues to work on, and Frederic called the wedding off! Nonetheless, we had gone through all the steps of getting legally married by the time we realized the best thing was not to proceed with the wedding. That was my journey and had nothing to do with her. I didn't commit a crime! However, she continues to punish me and expects me to take it quietly -- like I always did in the past -- when she humiliated me and belittled me.
The bottom line is she is angry at Ana for what she said about her and she needs to take it out on someone and I'm the victim of choice! Why so much outrage? What are the ulterior motives for this obsession with my marriage license?
OMG Adrianna!!! You are MARRIED!!! Stop the lies!!! Take responsibilities for your actions...no one will really care about why you lied until you admit you did and you got married behind everyone ones back... No one cares that you got the marriage license, marriage was called off, son not happy with decision, and now you wanted a close friend to perform the ceremony...please stop it...I know you are not stupid, but you are trying hard o portray a ignorant victim... Lea did nothing to you but tell the truth and backed it up with COURT DOCUMENTS...one more thing, I bet if Frederick dropped dead today, you would proclaim widow status, and entitlement to his money and assets. I guess you would be married then. Oh..and stop it with the yacht...waste of money...it's draining you guys financially and will continue to do so...you will never be happy there...buy a house,settle down, raise your son and be a honest person.
I also feel like you and your fiance Frederick are trying too hard..with the whole yacht thing, gag me with a spoon. If you cannot afford a true NEW yacht..give it up. Its almost sad to watch you both trying so hard. Seriously its pathetic!
You are far from any 'victim' as you keep repeating over and over hoping we will finally believe you..you should have been honest from the beginning and even then..we all make mistakes but instead of admitting you made a mistake you continue to lie and lie and justify ... Learn some humility
Adriana, no matter how you 'spin' things, it was WRONG to portray yourself as a struggling SINGLE mother when you were married. If you had been in Lea's position helping someone and then found out later that the backstory was completely different you would be upset also. I think you and Frederick are both extremely strange that you both portrayed yourselves as single when you weren't....so strange. I just don't believe anything you say.
Adriana, the first season I wasn't a fan at all. You seemed so determined to present yourself a certain way. The sexy almost nude dances for Frederick. I thought you were trying so hard to prove a point (maybe to your x) and I can understand that, than thinking that your son or his friends seeing these would be very embarrassing. The second season I did because we saw a vunerable person who was struggling with trust issues after being betrayed by your x and in a very extreme way. Joanna needs to mind her own business and has no right carrying around legal documents that have nothing to do with her life. The thing is this, if you went to get married and called off the most important part to you I also understand that. The impression you gave is that you were half -in half -out. If you were living with Frederick the entire time it would be natural for Lea to think you had a husband and why wasn't he helping you during that time? She did not say anything about before that time. You never addressed this and that is what Lea seems furious about. Also, if someone like ANA slandered and said the things she said about my friend I would have spoken up. What Lea said to you about Joanna was no the same. Look at your behavior towards Joanna, which I can't stand. She told you to stop, for your own good, You went to a physical place. So if you were married, did Frederick support yourself and your son? If not you need to speak up. Lea would not feel like she has been duped or use that against you because of ANA as well.
How can you be so delusional?! First you attacked Joanna at Lisa's party by turning around and smacking her in the face. Lea was being a good friend by telling you to cool off, Hitting someone is a crime and you are lucky to have avoided prosecution. And secondly, you lied to a close friend (Lea) about being married. If you choose to be dishonest with your friends, that's your business, but when the lie is meant to encourage sympathy and financial support because you are a struggling single mother, that's another thing. Its fraud. This is also a crime.
The facts are there and the show has documented a lot as well. I find it absolutely incredulous that you can continue to make nonsensical excuses for your behavior. The "arguments" that you and Fredrick have are so obviously fake, neither of you have any acting skills.
maybe just go to lea, tell her you messed up, you are sorry, you want her friendship, you want to make it right, lea is a wise woman and would forgive you - why do you treat her so badly? the lies and lies are not working, lea still cares for you deeply as a friend and the continued lies are hurting her worse than the original one. you can do it.
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes, but for you not to take ownership is disappointing. Who cares how your "secret" marriage was exposed!?! You come across as a LIAR and a selfish person. It was always about you, but now karma has dealt its hand. Lea is better off without you anyway.
When I got married my husband and I went to the courthouse to obtain a marriage license, but in my state the license must be signed off by a judge or clergy to make it legal. Is this not true for the state of Florida? Love you Adriana!
Oh yea...one more thing...and Fredric's "I am going to send Lea a text message!!!!". Whoa. Big bad guy you got there. You both need to get a life!!!!
I don't care what anybody says about you, but I am a FAN. Lea is a HOT-MESS and obviously obsessed with Joanna and out to slander you.
You sat at the reunion show and watched your so called "best friend " get attacked and said NOTHING!!!!! You LIED to her about being married.with friends like you who needs enemies. Alexia and Marisol are STUPID to think of you as a friend. You're nothing but a CON ARTIST and a LIAR! Get off the show and save yourself from further embarrassment! Frederic is nothing but a little girl to allow his WIFE of FIVE YEARS play herself on national tv for the world to see what fools they are. Only 5 people on this blog believe you and yourself is included. You lie so much that I didn't read your blog. For what??? More lies?? I've had enough!!!
I understand that you might have had reasons to hide your marriage and it might not have been a true one at the beginning but you shouldn't bite the hand that helped you. He didn't help you when you needed him, Lea did. Friends like her are hard to come across. Your new gang will not do it, they are too vain.
@alexalena I think Frederic knew about this scam to get money from Lea.Adriana and her husband are both swindlers.!!!
My dad always said, "If you lie, you are only lying to YOURSELF.' Heed these words and do what you will with them.
Saying, 'SORRY, I messed up.' would show true strength of character.
Tania1234 I agree with you but I doubt she is even sorry. I think she believes her own lies due to the fact she has told so many that she doesn't know what the truth is anymore. She likes to blame others instead of taking responsibility for herself and her actions. She has no strength of character.
Lea is not missing out on anything by excluding you from her life. You are a liar and everything is on recording so don't even try to play dumb.
Ana attacked Lea on the reunion show, and you sat there and said nothing to defend someone who had been your friend for years! You didn't try and explain anything, you went on the attack, and didn't shut your big trap for two seconds. You know who you are and what you've done, now live with it!
Why should Adrianna have defended Lea, when Lea sat there and sided with Joanna? Yes, Lea sided with Joanna and said HER FRIEND, Adrianna, was wrong concerning the fight, AND IMMEDIATELY sided with Joanna, WHEN SHE WASN'T EVEN THERE TO WITNESS THE FIGHT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!! Had Lea felt a certain way about the altercation, she could have spoken about it with HER FRIEND in private! SOME FRIEND!
In MY OPINION, Lea has been wanting Adrianna out of her life for some time, and is finding EVERY EXCUSE to do so! Not only that, she has a "tell all" book coming out, so she has to keep the drama going! If Adrianna didn't tell HER OWN SON she had gotten married, I'm more than sure she had a valid reason for not telling anyone else! A REAL FRIEND wouldn't go around town gossiping about it, and start hanging with the very person Adrianna was having issues with! I'm not team anyine, but what's fair is fair!
"It is very upsetting to have a friend turn on you, a person you loved like a sister" would your sister know your married or would you lie to her to?
You were not honest about a very very big thing...friends don' lie about those those kinds of things so you need to own up to it. Lea is someone who doesn't seem to be particularly warm and fuzzy but still. i agree Joanna seems like her pet of the month right now and I see almost no commonality other than they are both blonde!
Where there is fuel there is fire, so there is some truth here....the truth will set you free, just own it and move on. You have a lot going for you....
So you only did not steal from Lea and her Charity but, also used her to SET YOU UP with ELIGIBLE MEN while you were married???! How could you do that to a friend? ...and you don't understand why Lea's so upset with you???
Oh! mother!, it's incredible just how far some people will go to enrich themselves!
Adrianna, you're a piece of garbage!
Am I the only one who believes that if she hadn't been exposed in the media that this season she would still be pretending she was a struggling, single mom who was afraid of getting married because of her past?
Obtaining a marriage license in certain states does not mean that you are legally married, that's the first step, you must exchange vows at the courthouse and have a judge or clergy sign the license to make it legal and binding.
Has anyone else been able to figure out why Frederic suddenly hates Lea to the degree that he does? He's biting the hand that fed them for years, but I can't figure out why.
I think Lea has been more than a true friend to you, and I think that you took advantage. You should have told her about your marriage, and even if you didn't, you should at least have a civil conversation about it now. I think she would be understanding .. and even listen to (your) reason why you didn't mention it, but its the screaming and yelling and you telling her what a horrible person she is, that is fueling this whole thing. She was giving you money and helping you out, did she ask for anything to be repaid? The least you can owe her is to be an honest and truthful friend that doesn't talk about her behind her back. She needs Joanna (and anyone else that can jump in) as a mouthpiece, cuz you don't listen to ANYONE, when you know your are in the wrong, you act crazy. My husband walked in the room during one of your many rants and said "how can you even WATCH this stuff, that mouth would drive anyone crazy' - he's right of course, but these shows are one of my guilty little pleasures... LOL
Good luck with your big fancy wedding now ... not sure how much people will be willing to spend $$$ on your gifts after watching how you've been behaving toward someone who befriended you and helped you out of the goodness of her heart.
You have spun this into a big lie. You should stop now and appologize. You are a mean girl. Take some lessons in freindship. You clearly have no clue!
Adriana is the queen for fork tongue! I am amazed at the cunning and sly way she takes her own fake shiz that has been discovered and turns it around on Leah. Leah has always been good to you! Just like you lied about hitting Joanna. . . it was on video and Adriana stilled denied it! Again, you have proven yourself a piece of rotten tool!
What's worst Adriana, the silence of your friends or the voice of your enemies?
Please pull your hair back fully, the two pieces of hair infront of your face are not flattering...
Adriana I wish you would stop talking like having a marriage license or being legally married is somehow not that big of a deal. There are people in this country who are suffering every day because they don't have the right to a marriage license or to legal marriage, and I am here to tell you that if those couples were given the right, they would absolutely see that as 100% real, legitimate, and serious marriage. It is offensive to those who are fighting for the right to legal marriage when you act like it is somehow illegitimate or unimportant.
You clearly lied about your "marital status" and got caught. You probably didn't want to admit you were married so your son could continue to get financial aid from the school. period.
Oh my gosh! This women is such an unbelievable evil train wreck. I remember her from the first seasons reunion on the "The Andy Show" and she was so foul mouthed and horrible I thought Andy was going to die as it was a live show! Then she slaps Jo Ann last season and lies about it and now right off the bat this season, is this obvious "got caught' scam (best word I can think of) and is continuing to lie about it. It almost pains me to watch her!
suzgat The word grifter immediately comes to mind when thinking of Adrianna. She seems to lie frequently.
Perpetrating a fraud to enrich oneself and others... Leah must have suffered consequences when your lie came out as it was she whom was begging on you behalf ... Since, all this is Frederic's fault... He should man up and offer all your contributors and victims a refund.
Clearly you miss the entire point of what friendship really means... Lea wanted to know why you would lie to her about being married...and YES SHE DID HELP YOU OUT BY BUYING YOUR ART!! Basically that was the same as giving you cash money looney-toons. The more the dig the more lies seem to come to the surface. Maybe if you wanted to live in some other reality you shouldn't have picked the "reality show forum" in which to expose yourself and your deceptions. You also accused Lea of verbally attacking you...When did this happen, off camera? since what the viewers saw was the was far from you being attacked but the other way around... all this woman wanted was for you to come clean... and to pick up your friendship from there... And about the man you married, not much of a man in my book since he went along with your lies and accepted the money Lea spend trying to help you out...And then trash talked this woman...LOW CLASS... NO MATTER WHAT LANGUAGE YOU SPEAK...
You completely lied to Frederic about your conversation with Lea.
That was enough for me. You'll lie in a dozen different ways just to get whatever you want. And now, in all of your lies, you've hurt the one person who stood by you before you were rich, famous and established. I can't believe you'd so maliciously throw Lea out of your life. She doesn't need a "friend" like you.
@JenniferFM Agree, and may I add, Lea is better off without Adriana.Friends like her who needs enemies?
Can someone please clarify . .we have been told that she has a Marriage license and then also was actually married in a civil ceremony 1 month later . . is this not correct ?? Adriana seems to be saying that they just got a Marriage license and that's it . . . . so yes I would agree then, a marriage license does not mean you are legally married. But if indeed she did get married in front of a Judge or Clergy a month later . .then yes . . she was definitely married . and if this is the case, I can understand why Lea has every right to feel used and lied too. Anyone would. And all of Adriana's wish washing lies is only making her look worse, and her new / old husband who clearly perpetuated the lies also.
hershey59 They did in fact get married in a civil ceremony one month to the day from getting the license. I think they got the license on Nov 4th 2008 and were married Dec 4th 2008. So they have in FACT been married for over 5 years.
Lubby hershey59 Just to clarify as to whether you have to have a ceremony..you don't. Just the correct people (at the town hall) sign and notorize the document. I thought I heard Joann say..she had it notorized on Dec 4th.