Cast Blog: #RHOM

Lea's Emotional Lynching

Adriana is tired of Lea's obsession with her marital history.

Lea has now reached the lowest she could go by going around town into businesses trashing my name! That is just gruesome! That marble store happens to be a place Frederic does a lot of business with; They actually called Frederic the next day to inform him that Lea had been there spreading her nastiness.

Every week she comes up with HER new reason why I didn't disclose my marriage, completely ignoring MY true reasons for it. Why is she so OBSSESED with this? I know she is vindictive and sadistic, but enough is enough. When will the EMOTIONAL LYNCHING stop? She got so upset with me for not fighting with Ana. And when Ana said some things about her she disliked, she said Ana of was doing a character assassination of her. Well, now Lea is doing even worse to me and my family, and being the perpetrator of my character assassination! I've watched her ghastly spectacle with horror. How can a "friend" attack me and try to destroy my family like that? Her level of cruelty and nastiness is daunting. What is the gain from this? To break down my spirit? She once quoted MLK to me trying to portray herself as a benevolent woman. So I ask her this question: Are these the actions of a dignified character? Oppression, slandering, and manipulation?

Later, she shamelessly goes around the party acting like a haughty aristocrat -- trying to beguile everyone with her fake smile and kissing people she just backstabbed earlier on. Like the card reader said: "She likes to manipulate people, and don't believe she is a friend, because a friend like that you don't want."

On that note let's read the transcript of her conversation with Frederic during this last episode:

Transcript:

Frederic: "... you two have a beef with each other..."

Lea: "I don't have a beef..."

Frederic: "When you two attack each other and you say things about me..."

Lea: "I never said anything about you that wasn't in the heat of the moment or I didn't apologize for it... "

Frederic: "...but you accused me and my family."

Lea: "OF WHAT?"

Frederic: "That while were together you were still giving her (Adriana) MONEY."

Lea: "NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, I never said that!"

Frederic: " this is what you say! I never needed it..."

Frederic: "So, let’s clear the air: Did I ever ask anything from you?"

Lea: "NEVER!"

Lea continued: "You have my WORD that you will not hear me say one more thing about you or her, okay?”

Frederic: "Perfect, that's CLEAR!"So all you readers now know the TRUTH about her accusations of me taking money from her while with Frederic! Like she stated above, it is not true! So let's hope that Lea will keep her word, embrace empathy versus hate, and stop attacking me and my family.



In remembrance of Martin Luther King's day, I would like to end with the following quote:

"Like an unchecked cancer, hate corrodes the personality and eats away its vital unity. Hate destroys a man's sense of values and his objectivity. It causes him to describe the beautiful as ugly and the ugly as beautiful, and to confuse the true with the false and the false with the true." Until next week!


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Lea's Double Standards

Adriana explains why she was so surprised by Joanna and Lea's behavior.

I would like to start by saying that I tried my best to bond with Joanna and remain friendly after attending her bachorelette party and wedding. I truly was hoping for a budding friendship. All season long, she criticized me in her weekly blogs, criticized my wedding, and even then I took the high road and didn't engage in the low blows and continued hostility she has demonstrated towards me for a while now. However, I couldn’t stay quiet any longer when she started to attack my credibility. Enough is enough! I've learned that bullies like her will not stop the attack until you stand your ground. She showed me her true colors when she stated she wanted “to rip my head off.” Such aggressive behavior like that could no longer be ignored. Joanna is always stating that she is beautiful and because of that she thinks she has license to act UGLY!

Furthermore, I couldn't remain silent while she was attacking Lisa and being so cold to her and her struggle with infertility. Claiming that Lisa is a party girl and is always drinking is not the attitude of a friend. Joanna and Lisa had been friends and even had dinner together the night before and all was well between them, until Joanna decided to turn on Lisa... I was shocked, how can a friend blatantly attack her friend with such coldness?! She should not talk about things she knows nothing about!

Another shocker was to see Lea sitting there silently and not coming to Lisa's defense... She crucified me this season and did a complete character assassination of my person for not speaking up when Ana attacked her last year, so I was very surprised to see her do the exact same thing to her new bestie... Double standards, as usual!

In conclusion, don't judge others unless you have walked a mile in their shoes!