Every time you open your mouth, you make it worse ! All the blogs and comments are quite clear - everyone believes you were totally in the wrong. All you had to do was admit the truth to Lea and apologize. Instead you have churned out at least 5 different stories about your marriage, which only makes you sound even more ridiculous. And now you are trying to compare the fact that way, way back when Lea got married, they did so quietly and privately ( not a paid for BRAVO wedding ) . .so you think that even begins to compare you marrying Fred 5 years ago and pretending and lying for 5 full years that you were NOT married . . . how stupid do you think the viewers are ? We are not . . .her real name is her married name, which is her legal name: Lea Black . . . wonder if that is why you left your passport at home on that trip, becasue you didn't want the ladies to see that I'm sure your passport has your married name on it. Let it go . . .you have trashed your name and reputation, and 99% of the viewers do not like you and do not want to see you back . . .