Alexia Echevarria

Alexia tries to put herself in the Housewives' shoes.

on Oct 29, 20130

Hi everyone! Aren't you happy that we all finally seem to be getting along and moving forward? I sure am! I've tried not to get involved and respect all the ladies feelings and opinions in regards to their personal situations and friendships. Besides, I have a lot more important things to worry about. Like everything in life, you cannot change anybody's mind... until they want to change it for themselves. And that's exactly what has happened between Adriana and Lea. I know Lisa has tried to help and bring Adriana and Lea together, but it's not until now that they were ready and I respect that. Time heals all wounds. I also understand Lea getting annoyed by Lisa always trying  to butt in and force things to happen. 

Joanna may have overreacted a bit with Lisa, but I also understand her and her feelings. You cannot make people think and feel like you. I feel Joanna wants to move forward with Adriana, but every time she's reminded about the things Adriana has said in the past she explodes and that stops her. Honestly, life goes on. We all have our issues and concerns. Mine are just a little different. I don't sweat the small things in life anymore. 

I'm very excited for Lea being that she doesn't like fashion, but her handbags are very fashionable. I really liked a lot of her pieces. Love all the different options in sizes and models. I feel terrible that all that drama had to happen during her debut. Lea handled it well, and like I said about my Venue cover party drama, it's just another reason for people to talk about it! Ha!

The unveiling of the ball room at Lea's house was lots of fun. All the ladies were in a good mood and in a much better place with each other, and you can tell. Lea's interior designers, Fabio and Hernan, did a spectacular job. It's gorgeous! The evening turned out to be everything I hoped for... resolution and no drama! I'm glad Lea was able to enjoy her own party being that there's always drama and confrontation circling her.  

Tune in next week as we hit Las Vegas to celebrate Joanna's bachelorette. 

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65 comments
mpaigemax
mpaigemax

First let me say that your son's turnaround from the bad course he set upon himself is a testament to your strength and love for him.  You and your children are fortunate to have each other.  However, I am surprised that such a seemingly level-headed and intelligent person would believe anything said by a proven liar such as Adriana De Moura.  I'm sure Lea did say that your son deserved jail time but that is VERY DIFFERENT than saying she 'hoped' he got jail time.    Let's be honest - assaulting another human being, especially one as downtrodden to be homeless, is a seriously sickening offense that should be punishable by incarceration.  But what's equally as disturbing is Adriana USING that situation to malign Lea and turn you against her.  Exploiting you and your son clearly demonstrates just how low Adriana is.  I would watch your back with that one.

@Imjustsayin
@Imjustsayin

Alexia I really enjoy you on the show and I think you are one of the more level headed and down to earth housewives. However, I was watching part two of the  RHOM and I was a bit irked by the accusation that you made about Lisa being racist. Now I'm not Cuban and I'm not going to try to tell a Cuban about their own culture, but, Just to clarify Cuban is a NATIONALITY NOT A RACE. As you probably know there are Cubans who look like you who are white with blonde hair and blue eyes, there are Cubans who are black and have more African blood in them there are Cubans who are native Tainos, and you have Cubans who are a mixture of all of these things. White, Black and Taino, those are all races, what brings you all together is you're beautiful heritage and culture, that's what makes you Cuban. Cuba is a melting pot. I understand that what Lisa said could have easily been misconstrued, but. I really felt she meant no harm and she is certainly not racist. And I can totally understand Lisa's thought process when she said she didn't want you speaking Spanish in front of her. Have you ever been in a room full of  people who are speaking a different language? I don't know about you,but, my first assumption would be that they where trying to talk about me and make sure that I couldn't understand. So I think you should give Lisa a pass. But I digress, like I said earlier, I enjoy you on the show, many blessings to your family and both of your boys, Peter and Frankie.

piperbeau
piperbeau

I'm watching the reunion and you keep saying Lea throws people under the bus!!! LMFAO!! You and your lil posse talked way more sh*t about Lea then she did about you guys!! Point blank period!! Its annoying that you say otherwise!! FYI Alexia we ALL watch the show! and we ALL know you Adriana and Marysol talked sh*t all season!!  

piperbeau
piperbeau

If I were Lea I wouldn't even speak to you!!!

piperbeau
piperbeau

Alexia out of all the housewives in all the cities I really think you need to go!! You add nothing... You said at the reunion Lea talks about everyone!! You are full of sh*t.... Lea has had the least to say about any of you ladies!! FYI Alexia we watch the show!! LOL I guess you forgot...

DebWhitt2
DebWhitt2

You are the only one on this show who is grounded and makes sense.  Your life with your husband should be private and it's no one's business.  You and your family seem happy and truly love each other.  That's all that matters.  Being a special ed teacher is not an easy job.  People who do that job have my respect.  You seem very normal to me.

Dreid123
Dreid123

You are two faced! I truly hope you join Ana and Marysol in never never land! That stick needs to be dis lodged ASAP! Bravo please replace this plastic surgery wanna be Barbie ! I think Ana misses her! I know I don't! BORING!!!!!

DebWhitt2
DebWhitt2

Alexia, I enjoy you on the show.  You have been through a lot and I like your confidence and the love you have for your family.  I think you show a lot of class on the show.  Best wishes to you and your family.

women_first
women_first

why do women on these shows go thru the worst drama and still think they rhe envy of everyone?i really don't envy any of these women

be@ch
be@ch

OMG, I thought Alexia made sense and Adriana was a fun person in Vegas.  It's like I'm in an alternate RH universe. 

piperbeau
piperbeau

Alexia I really don't think you will be back next season! You just want everyone against Lea and thats it... That is your entire ammo this season!! Give it a rest.. All you and Adriana do is talk smack about Lea! Its ridiculous! After watching this season and hearing all the catty things Adrianna has had to say about Lea can you blame her for taking the friendship slow??!!

randrew
randrew

It was good to see you trying to put Lisa in her place, finally something I can agree with you.

carioca
carioca

For time you were right about something... Lisa was annoying and childish.... What a low blow talking about your age, typical of a person that has nothing to offer!

TessLacombe
TessLacombe

I feel that the ladies are acting like school girls, even though they are all grown," if you are her friend you can't be mine." So childish and such a waste of energy. How about deciding whom your friends are and not letting anyone intrude on your beliefs or choices. People may have friends that may not like your other friends, but as grown ups we respect our friends choices. I lost total interest in this show because it's to deceitful and back stabbing from most of the ladies. Marisol grow up and let it go, the longer you hang on to the dislike you have for Lea the uglier and obtuse you look. Ana you are an officer of the court, how about you behave like one? Alexia, you have too much on your personal plate to allow anything as petty as the gossip and hatred of your mates to influence you. Andrea seek within yourself and then seek professional help you are off your damn rocker.

falina_c
falina_c

Everyone sees right through you.

Relo-HOM
Relo-HOM

...Wow! ...nice backhanded compliment you gave to Lea, "being that she doesn't like fashion".  Only really insecure people need to bring others down in an effort make themselves look better.  You suck.

 

lorenorway
lorenorway

You walk the fence with little grace. Better to stand firm in conviction than to try to appear to be taking the high road, we see you get lost on your way to it and end up in a shameful dead end street. I understand that these women all try to sway you this way and that way and leave you to make hard choices with confusing half truths, leave them! They are not worth your time!

It is my humble opinion that it is best for you to step out and give your entire time to your sons. I hope to God that they both survive this horrendous trial that accident has been. So devastating. You have proven to be strong for them but the struggle is not over. May your boys be blessed with health and a long life of loving brotherhood.

Beabaggage
Beabaggage

Lea's remodel looked like something from the 60's.  it must have been free so the "designers" could get publicity.  the chandelier was nice, The kitchen was ok.   i see all her haters are on you again this week, hang in there girl.

nothing gets you down. you are stunning, saw you in the Bravo photo stream next to Brooke Burke at an event, you can surely hold your own next to anyone, in superficial physical things and in life for sure.  god bless you and your family.   I like your mom, she seems very sensible and clued in to the world.  hope to see more of her.  miss mama Elsa.   they should do the real moms of Miami,  Elsa, your mom, Lisa's mother in law, Lea's mom, etc.  would be fun like a new modern golden girls!  take care.  

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

I lost respect for you when you brought that article about Rudolpho to Bimini......you had a plan to hurt Karent it was mean girl behavior.....also your marriage appears fake it seems to lack chemistry

mpk
mpk

Unfortunately, there is no truth or humility in your words. You have to remember that many of us viewers, are indeed introspective individuals who watch because behavior such as yours is not part of our lives...does not circle us. Yet we are not oblivious to the jealousy and ill intent you display. Your attempt to be quiet and neutral is clearly guided by Lea's societal status and the impact your behavior may have on your husband's business and social network. HOPE

one day you embrace the true blessings in your life and treat others with the same kindness.

miranda99
miranda99

You always seem to mention that you don't sweat the small stuff yet each episode you stir the pot!  You lost this fan when you stiffed Lea at her ball.  I for one didn't buy the sick act, not after spending the day with the girls.

 

talmquist
talmquist

I am absolutely amazed at how fake you truly are.  You project to Lea how fond you are of her in one breath and then hit the confessional to rip her apart.  With a "friend" like you, who needs enemies.

Reba39forever
Reba39forever

If this is your version of neutral you should let your mouth know. You have been taking a sides all season.

maria89
maria89

Why do you dislike Lea so much? It's like you WANT bad things to happen to her.

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

You think you're the best dressed woman on the planet? Lea may not meet what you so call ''fashion'' but, you wish you have what she has. You hypocrite!  

piperbeau
piperbeau

The only "girls" causing drama on this show are "your" girls.... Lea has had the least to say about anyone! Its almost insulting reading your lying ass blogs!!

balmoralgal
balmoralgal

There's a HUGE difference between being civil AND being fake. Mature, courteous and gracious people  are civil (Lea), BUT immature, small-minded and petty people see civility as being fake, like you, Marysol, Adriana and Ana do. Just because you don't agree with someone, it doesn't mean you can't be polite and respectful when you see that person. Please stop the backhanded compliments. It does NOT make you look better. On the contrary, it makes you shrink and it makes the other person bigger. Please grow up.

JenPincha
JenPincha

"I've tried not to get involved and respect all the ladies feelings and opinions in regards to their personal situations and friendships" LOL !!! May I ask what were the viewers watching last season when you were all over Karent's business ? Your holier than thou attitude is simply nauseating , you are always trying to exhibit this superior self-righteous manner. -totally phony.

BMBarbie
BMBarbie

Alexia...SMH.  So disappointing.  You've now pointed out TWICE that Lea "wasn't into fashion."  Nobody gives a s***, honey.

she-devils-advocate
she-devils-advocate

You and Teresa Guidice should be best of friends since you both love to live in denial and give back handed compliments/zingers at those that are doing just as good or better than you.

Monroebaby
Monroebaby

Alexia! Girl, your extensions are pulling your brain loose from your skull. You need a medical and emotional intervention. Put one face on, and if it's an honest face you'll apologize to Lea. Shame shame shame on you.

rosyposy
rosyposy

Stay away from Lea.  The woman is sneaky and backbiting.  She puts on the fake tears over things she caused with her snarky mouth.  She was even snarky about her family.  And another thing....ignore the haters. 

Beabaggage
Beabaggage

 @susanzavagli if anyone's marriage is fake it is Lea's.  Roy is in hiding.  Herman is obviously the quiet strong (rich!) type, doesn't need to be all gushy over her.  her boys certainly love him and so does she.  Karent was fake although I did like her on the show.  she was too afraid to show who she was and to live life, worried about her image and ended up hurting it more.

falina_c
falina_c

 @balmoralgal There is a HUGE difference between "money" and "class".  This trick couldn't buy "class" if Herman gave her a university.

carioca
carioca

 @balmoralgal You nailed this one! The Haters group has no clue what class means! They should take some notes with Lea :)

River69
River69

 @BMBarbie But, people of the higher social class in Miami do care. 

Glimmer88
Glimmer88

@Reba39forever damn straight!!!!

Reba39forever
Reba39forever

@rosyposy Honey trust me she ignores us all :)

balmoralgal
balmoralgal

@carioca Thank you carioca :-) I agree.

balmoralgal
balmoralgal

@Monroebaby @balmoralgal Thank you Monroebaby :)

WCW
WCW

 @River69  @BMBarbie

 Social class? Maybe social circles!

And the truly wealthy don't dress like Alexia and her crew or act like them either.

River69
River69

Humans are social animals.  So, we all belong to some social class and hang out in social circles.  I don't know what is the difference between the truly wealthy and wealthy.  Perhaps, you mean the difference between old money and new money.  But, all these women have accumulated their wealth, recently.