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Ana and Lea's Hypocritical Behavior

Alexia shares her thoughts on all the conflict at her Venue party.

Hi everyone! Hoping you all enjoyed your Labor Day weekend!

All I can say is wowww about my Venue cover party at Story Night Club! Did all of that go down that night? I was getting sick that night (the night before Lea's gala ) as you can hear in my voice, and on top of that being that it was a club it was very loud and difficult to speak and listen. On top of everything, it was my party and I was not getting involved. The good thing was that I didn't have to throw anyone out!

Seriously, it is not my fight. I had many other important things to be worried about that night, and fighting with girls was not one of them. I invited ALL of the girls, because I am friendly with all of them and always invite them to my things. I was a bit concerned because I knew they were all going and things could get ugly like they did.I was really happy to see Lea there. Like usual she was punctual and I wasn't. It's always a long night for me, so I try not to be the first one there, LOL! Herman always wants us to be there first since we are the hosts, but it never happens that way. Sorry, Lea! LOL!

I was happy to have that moment with Lea especially when she got on her knees. Lea has always supported Herman and I, and I am very grateful to her. She is that kind of friend, and I love and respect that about her. Even though it was the night before her gala and she was extremely busy, she made it a point to attend.

Looking now at all of this, I see that Lea was being diplomatic and trying to avoid conflict. She didn't want to be disrespectful towards me and didn't want any kind of trouble or drama, but it was inevitable. There is so much anger and resentment between the ladies that it had to come out. I was so nervous that I didn't even know what to do. I myself was shaking just like Lea. I wasn't aware of the problems between Frederic and Romain. What I was aware of was the fact that Lea and Ana dislike each other to put it mildly, and that's why I was in complete shock when I see Ana and Lea saying hello to each other and exchanging kisses! What? Seriously? They left me no choice but to call them hypocrites! I've been listening to both of them for all of this time, and now they are saying hello? I CAN'T! You don't have to go at each other, especially at my party, but simply ignoring each other would suffice. What is going on with these ladies? Do they forget what they say and do? Do they have selective memory? Whatever.

Needless to say, after the storm comes the calm and indeed everything calmed down. Some of the ladies stayed and some left, and I got to have my champagne and enjoy the rest of the evening with Herman and our guests that were there just like me to celebrate our cover with Juanes.So Adriana's story continues to get juicier… The only story I know and I'm believing is the one about her son Alex. It's the only one that makes sense to me. I'm a mother of two boys, and when I met Herman, they were 3 and 7 years old and they too gave me a very hard time. Except I didn't live with or marry Herman right away like she did. I waited 3 years until Peter and Frankie and I were ready. Adriana told me she decided to call things off as well as Frederic because of her son Alex. He didn't want her to marry Frederic at that time, because it was too soon and he was giving her a hard time. This started bringing problems and fights into their relationship, so they decided to call it off . They had gotten married civilly so it was too late, but they decided to keep it to themselves and just tell people they weren't doing it and never told Alex. I could honestly see a mom doing that, regretting it, and wanting to take it back even though it was too late.

What I am now confused about is the fact that it is a big deal NOW if they continued as a couple living together and everyone knew it? To me the piece of paper is just that, a piece of paper. To me the important thing is their love and commitment was there. They lived together the 3 of them under the same roof and as a family, married or not. I feel like Lisa right now – CONFUSED! In my eyes, they have always been married, piece of paper or not.Marysol asked me to come over to her apartment to chat. I've been spending quite some time with her since her mom's injury. She asked a tarot reader, Cari, to come over and give her a reading. Like Elsa, my mom would read my sister and I the tarot cards on Sunday afternoons. That was the day she was inspired. So I get that whole thing, especially at a time like this when she is so worried and concerned about her mom. She feels maybe Cari can tell her something about her mom's health. I personally am afraid and don't want to know. I like to live in my own little world. Denial? Maybe? Anyhow, I sit back and I listen and I continue to do what I do best: Pray, pray, and pray!

Thank you for watching. Thank you for all of your love, support, and prayers. I've received so many beautiful comments and tweets. I've met such amazing people in Publix, on the street, everywhere. Since the show started there are so many people that have thanked me for sharing my story, and honestly this is the best part of being on the show -- meeting exceptional people like you!


Until next week!

God Bless,

Besos (Kisses)


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Hoping to Move Forward with Lea

Marysol shares what she hopes will come out of the reunion.

For me the reunion is a forum to hash things out and engage in verbal mud wrestling and hopefully come out cleansed from the tension and disagreements. I would like to make it clear that I do not hate anyone; I am not a person that likes to live in anger as it only makes you miserable and takes away from the precious moments of our lives. It is no secret that I have spent a couple of years being accused of lying by Lea when we do not see eye to eye on something. It is very frustrating to have issues with someone and always end up at the same place of “her word against mine.”

Unfortunately, my father this year has also had a rapid decline in his health and has spent the better part of the past few months in and out of the hospital. While dad was in the hospital with nothing else to do besides sleep, read, and watch TV he watched every episode of RHOM. He was very upset when he saw Lea saying I was lying when I said she didn’t call, write, or send flowers to mom for 8 weeks. He called me and said to figure out a way to video tape me and put it on that show of yours because I’ve had enough of the lies. My father was by mother’s side every day from the moment she went into the hospital to the day she came home (2 months later). He saw everyone who passed by, saw every flower and card that was sent etc. I truly was uncomfortable videotaping him in a hospital setting, but I was leaving for the reunion and he called relentlessly several times a day insisting I let him speak his mind for the cameras. If you thought Mama Elsa was tough, guess who she learned it from, that’s right, her husband of 52 years, Donald Patton. You never met anyone more ornery, stubborn, or tough, but I wouldn’t trade him for the world.

I have said my peace, which is what I went to the reunion to do. I have moved forward and forgive those who have hurt me and I forgive myself for those I may have hurt. I truly want to move forward to a better place with Lea to the best of our ability. We may never be best friends, but I’d like to think we can at least be in the same room, be cordial, and maybe even share a laugh someday.

It has been a fun season with the ladies and it provided a great distraction from the personal emotional struggles I was going through with my parents’ declining health.  I hope you enjoyed the season, thank you for all of your support and best wishes for my mother as that has been the greatest gift the show has brought us.

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