Cast Blog: #RHOM

Alexia's Questionable Host Etiquette

A Therapeutic Season for Alexia

Lea's Final Thoughts on the Season

Lea's Double Standards

Hoping to Move Forward with Lea

An X-Rated Reunion

Lisa's Vegas Regret

Joanna's Perfect Day

Lea and the Beefy Bus Boy Duo

Lea's Lip Service

Lisa's "Peacemaker" Problems

Alexia's Not Sweating the Small Stuff

Real Friends Don't Hold Grudges

A Fun Party, Minus the Distractions

Apologizing to Lea

Alexia's Anniversary Celebration

Lisa Loves Texas

Meet Joanna's New Puppy!

Lea's Walk Down Memory Lane

Adriana's Wedding Full of Waiting

Adriana's Two Loves

May Adriana Live Happily Ever After

Romain's Troubled Past

Alexia's Birthday Drama

Meet Dr. Sex Therapist Lisa

The Wedding Evite Explained

Targeted by the Hate Club

Lisa's Button-Pushing Behavior

Peter's Healing Process

Lenny's Lipo

Lea's Over the Haters

Adriana's Difficult Past

Joanna Talks Role Playing

Update on Elsa

Recovering Frankie and Peter

Lisa's Bridesmaid Ultimatum

Joanna's Outright Insult

The Birkin Bag Bonanza

Adriana's Glamorous 'Great Gatsby' Wedding

Lisa's In-Law Issues

Shocked by Lea's Secrets

Alexia's Questionable Host Etiquette

Lisa felt Lea was being attacked at the Venue party (and was not being hypocritical).

Let me just get right into it. Marysol and the psychic: This scene was disturbing to me. Of course I hope and pray that Elsa had a speedy recovery, and it's true that she is a strong woman. To imply “a blond woman” (Lea Black) was doing black magic to possibly contribute to Elsa’s accident is disgusting! I'm sure Lea doesn't have time to cast spells on other people or hate anyone enough to wish to hurt them. That scene was shady. Furthermore I don't understand why Marysol cares so much if Lea reaches out to her mother or not. From what I understand Marysol wants nothing to do with Lea, so why in the world would she want Lea to have any contact “or do right by her mother” if she wants nothing to do with her?

Moving on, can we talk about how fabulous Fabio and Hernan are? This is the first time I met these two, and I have come to just love them! For the record no one informed me that Lea and Adriana had that huge blow up at Lea’s house or that Marysol was seeing psychics telling her craziness about Lea. This is why I invited everyone to Baoli. I had no idea things had escalated so much. If I did, I would know better than to get them together after so much fire. Do they not remember just weeks ago they were at my home to try to work things out? For the most part, we ended on a good note.

I'm just getting to know all these women, so I don't know everybody's past and I certainly don't dig to find out. Slowly information is being passed along to me. Of course it's not right for anyone to be accepting anything from anyone under false pretenses, if that’s not 100 percent accurate. No one’s story seems to be 100 percent accurate. There are two sides to every story, and then there’s the truth.

Anyway I'm sick of feeling like a punching bag and having some of these women take digs at me for just trying to do what I felt was right. I'm done being a friend the best way I know how and going out of my way. I wash my hands of it. Moving onto Lenny and I, I don't think our sex life is as bad as Joanna and Romain's, because we definitely are having sex more than every other month like Joanna had mentioned. I think when you're married and you're exhausted, you know that person is always going to be there so there's no immediate rush. I personally think many people lie about how many times they really have sex, and it makes others feel like they're not getting the normal amount.

I was honored and very excited when Adriana asked me to be her bridesmaid. I am happy for her and Fredric if they are happy, and I've always wanted to be a bridesmaid. I fortunately had the opposite problem than most women, where I was the bride first and never a bridesmaid!

I decided to miss the Venue party because there is one every month and at this moment in time I wanted to focus on my husband, since he was able to be home early that night.I think Fredric was simply being a good guest and I don't think he had any ill intent when saying hi to Romain. If Romain and Frederic made amends after Fredric tweeted about Romain, he should have simply moved on.

I thought it was very immature of Ana to get such joy out of making Lea uncomfortable when she went over to say hi to Joanna. I felt bad for Lea, because she simply went to support Alexia at the Venue party and she was being attacked. She was pleasant to everyone, which is how any adult guest should act at a party. I was also shocked that Alexia got in Lea's face and called her a hypocrite, especially in front of Ana. Lea didn't go there to start any drama and all it did was make her feel uncomfortable. Not very good host etiquette. Some of these women have said that I like to “stir the pot” or get in other people’s business, but it seems like they are being a bunch of hypocrites.
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An X-Rated Reunion

Lea weighs in on all the drama from Part 1 of the 'Miami' Reunion.

The Reunion

Why do they call it a reunion? I don't see anyone re-uniting! LOL!

For me, I tried to set the record straight, but when people yell and scream every time you speak, it’s not easy. 

I did notice the same people I give the benefit of the doubt to week after week continue to take anyone’s side but mine and get their digs in every time they can. Shame on them.

As far as the bickering, well, I guess that's what one would expect at a forum such as this, but some of the X-rated, nasty comments and name calling were outright disgusting and embarrassing. Beneath what is acceptable for this franchise and for public viewing, in my opinion. 

I give thanks every day that I work the show into my life rather than my life into the show. I have been the same person all these years, and I haven't nor will I say or do things just for attention or relevance, or to make someone look bad. Watching this reunion reminds me how far some will go, and who some are at their core. I cringe for them. I hope you've enjoyed the reunion so far. Please stay in communication through social media, and I appreciate that you took time from your life to watch this season. I hope you were sometimes inspired, other times entertained and amused, enjoyed a laugh or two and sometimes learned from all of our mistakes.

Tune into my Reality Check tomorrow at 1PM EST to hear more recap with me and some surprise guests:
Join us on Thursday for Part 2.

Spread the love and keep the peace.

Love, Lea

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