Marysol Patton

Marysol recounts her mother's struggle in the hospital.

on Aug 27, 20130

This episode was a difficult one to watch, since the day before I went to see Adriana my mother almost passed on before my eyes. I had gone to visit my mother at the hospital as I did every day. When I arrived my brother was crying and said something is wrong with mom she's not responding, she won’t look in any direction or acknowledge that anyone is in front of her. We continued to look at her and say, "Mom it's me, can you see me or hear me?" and there was no response. We called her doctor who then called a code blue and one after another doctors and machines came running into her room until 17 people were inside trying to revive her. My family and I cried and prayed for 40 minutes as we feared the worst was occurring. Those 40 minutes felt like an eternity, but all of our prayers were answered and mom came to.

This year has been an extremely emotional time in my life, I try so hard to be strong and tell myself, "Everyone loses a parent(s) and they get through it and you can to."  I have run the gamut of emotions feeling positive, negative, angry, sad, irrational, and unable to eat or sleep. What I have practiced the most is visualizing my mother happy, talking, dancing, and laughing in hopes that these positive thoughts will heal her. I just don't know what to do anymore, but to stay positive and pray.

I went to Adriana's house to take her my mother's wedding mantilla, which she told me before she fell ill that she wanted Adriana to use during her ceremony. My mother had used that same mantilla at her wedding 56 years earlier. Anything and everything my mother ever wanted has now become so important to me to see that it happens. These are the things that make me feel as though she with me and a part of my life while she is absent.

35 comments
Hogan
Hogan

Marysol, you are my favorite person. I love your mother and want to see her back on the show soon, it is just not the same without her. God bless her, she is in my prayers.

Skinny_Who
Skinny_Who

Marysol I think you are awesome! I love that you are not fake and that you refuse to allow enemies and their bad energy linger around you. I can honestly say that when it comes to interacting with Lea I would act in the same way. In last season she tried to ruin the Patton Group's reputation and now she is keeping the lies going. I think it is outrageous that Lea would stoop so low as to say that you "stole from the Gala." This is the worst lie that she could have ever created! Keep your head up. I love that you keep making cameo's on the Show, Come back next season!!

Chankanaab
Chankanaab

I'm not really getting what's going on with you this season - you're seeming to be trying to cause trouble constantly and you're feeding the flames, and nothing else.  I also don't get why you're getting so much air time since you've been demoted to a "friend".  I think the only reason you're around is so that people get to keep seeing your mother.

AN-JO-LINA
AN-JO-LINA

I really don't understand why Bravo still has you cast on this show? I am so bored with you.

threesistersx3
threesistersx3

Marysol, so sorry you are going through so much with your Mom.  She is a star for sure.  Many are praying for her.

You can never prepare yourself to lose a wonderful Mother.  Part of my world ended when my mother passed.

My heart aches for you and what you are enduring.  I think if your mother  knew what Adriana was doing she would not feel the same about giving her the head dress to wear.  Adriana does not deserve to wear it.  Keep your distance from Adriana as she is nothing but trouble.  Lea is not a bad person - she has a pure heart - keep her close as you need good honest people around you now.

Sending you a hug.

Lovienya
Lovienya

My thoughts and prayers are with your mother and your family. I know firsthand how difficult this is, just be with her and tell her the things you want her to know. 

 

Hopefully this is teaching you that life is short. TOO short to waste on gossip and stupid little altercations.  Step back and take a look at what is going on around you, and instead of being part of the problem, try to find ways to bring everyone together ... or encourage walking away, if making amends with each other is not an option.  You make your own choices.

patcaseygold
patcaseygold

Your Mom is a great woman. I don't get your loyalty to Adrianna. She is a liar and very crafty. I think she would throw you under the bus in a heartbeat if she thought it would make her look better. Be careful.

Lubby
Lubby

You were absolutely one of my favorites on the show when it started. So disappointed in you, you are the company you keep. I wish your mother good health. 

eastcoastgal38
eastcoastgal38

I can definitely understand where you are coming from with your Mom. I see what a special relationship the two of you have, and it reminds me of the one I shared with my Mother. I used to be in your position, spending time with her at the hospital, going home alone and crying not sure how I would ever get over losing her. She was my everything. Now, 4 years later I do things like play her old radio when I wrap Christmas presents, kiss her picture, look over my nephews like she asked me to...Everytime I do something good or generous I think of her, because that's who she was. I remain close to her in these ways and her legacy lives on. Your Mom's day will come, and the beautiful person you are will reflect her life. I do hope that she gets better and you have more time with her...Special memories that you will cherish. Take care...

cgarden
cgarden

Prayers for your mom. I am sorry to hear she is not well. I always really liked you, you just have good karma and i like how you call it like it is. Keep up the great work..you are a class act.

cupoftea
cupoftea

Wishing you the best Marysol and also your dear mom. You have a wonderful career and life to look forward to. The last thing you need in your life are Debbie downers trying to destroy you and your business. Disgression is the greater part of valor...never mention your detractors. Keep positive and upbeat...smile you'll light up those around you! Praying for your mom's recovery. :)

rzanna
rzanna

I wish your mother well and think you are a good daughter even though you don't always think so.   I am glad you gave the mantilla to Adriana.   She may not be as bad as everyone thinks and could probably use a friend at this time.  But do take care in your relationship with her.

po
po

Marysol,

 

On past episodes you claimed the Lea was trying to destroy your reputation as a business woman, I think that you are doing that all by yourself. As to your Dear friend Adriana, she lied last year about Joanna being the instigator of the slap (as seen on TV) and she lied now about her marriage to Frederick, she lied to Lea and her own son and she will lie to you. If Adriana believed that you were her friend why???? did she not confide in you as her bestie, I know that I would have told my dearest friend....if I can trust someone with my financial information why??? would I not tell them of such a delicate situtation which, is recorded in public records and easily brought to light?

cassie920
cassie920

Marysol,  You need to shut up and take care of your mother.  If you are so concerned why are you out gossiping about Lea.  You are so boring.

jenn1221@
jenn1221@

Dear Bravo, can we change marysol for Elsa next season??

Dreid123
Dreid123

Unless Elsa is with you there is no reason for you to be on the show. You are so immature for a woman of your age. You must be in your 50's so act like it! I'm sick of the high school attitude. Just quit the show. Please!!!!

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

I don't think this season is emotional for you as you claim because you still have time to go to the club/bar with that ungrateful jackass to talk crap about Lea. I pray for Mama Elsa's speedy recovery and return but seems we'll not see her again because you seem to have nothing to offer apart from gossiping and being very petty, NOT interesting to watch. May be you need a break from the show? It's so exhorting to watch with all that hate and jealousy!

zoeyandzacksmom
zoeyandzacksmom

Marysol, I hope your mother continues to recover her health.

 

As a supposedly successful business woman you might want to re-think using the term you  'confused'.  If you watched the episode you could be able to easily ascertain your pal Adriana plays fast and loose with the truth.  Apparently it did not bother you she used your mother's gifts as a way to get screen time.  I was utterly disgusted when you and Adriana formed your own victim's club.  A more accurate title for your club would be the sham marriage club.   Neither of you are victims just pathological liars. Grow up and get a job.

Gofish
Gofish

UGH!!! You are so boring?  What is your storyline besides "I hate Lea" and my mother is sick in the hospital? Not sure what you add to this show.  Your mother was fun to watch and I wish her a full recovery.   

BZGUY79
BZGUY79

Marysol, i will always have you and your mom in my prayers. It's great to see you on this season of RHOM. Your Mom-Mama Elsa is an amazing person and many people, including myself wish her good health. I miss seeing her on the show and she made the show feel like MIAMI. Bottom line the others under that dark cloud need to reflect and see what really matters in life.

michelle.lucas.3150
michelle.lucas.3150

Elsa was more fun and entertaining to watch. Hope she feels better soon.

rosyposy
rosyposy

I hope we will soon be seeing that beautiful, wise woman "telling it like it is" again on the show.  Elsa is a jewel.

hello-560
hello-560

Stop pretending to be the mature one.. you and Adrianna are gossipy little sneaks. I'm not surprised that your marriage failed.. that's what happens when you marry a man young enough to be your son. You're boring to watch.

lovedesign
lovedesign

"As I watch the show I'm discovering many conflicting stories that have me a bit confused."

Adriana is an ENTIRE conflicting story! Everyone watching is confused!!

 

Dreid123
Dreid123

Girl bye!!! Go sit down somewhere. No one wants to read or hear your nonsense. Get off the show you're boring .

theresag92@gmail.com
theresag92@gmail.com

I hope Mama Elsa recovers quickly, the mean girls this season are Lea and Joanna. If you don't get more air time and Ana doesn't come back I am done with Miami wives, it seems if anyone does not agree with Lea there gone. Lea has bad friends and is a mean girl.oh and an annoying voice...........ugh

mrsdonut
mrsdonut

@@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1......First of all--Love your name and yes He is, isn't He?! ;-) Secondly, putting aside the ladies issues between each other for a moment, I have to say that when my father suffered a massive stroke and was in the hospital, paralyzed from the neck down, on a ventilator and unable to speak or eat solid food for six months before he died, I can relate to Marysol's wanting to be distracted from her mother's illness. I did. I was at the hospital 2-3 times a day-only missing one day the entire time my dad was sick. I would call the hospital every night after the midnight nurse arrived for her shift, just to make sure he was still okay, before I could fall asleep. It was probably the most emotionally draining time of my life, but I wouldn't trade that time with my dad, for anything. It was life changing, for me. :-) Shalom!

millertime
millertime

@lovedesign thank you! We have seen her and her husband play along with this lie. What man does that? She acted like she never really cared for Frederick. And he doesn't stop her BS. Why? What were they up to? I'm so confused with you!

rzanna
rzanna

I think that she loves to manipulate those less fortunate than she is and then accuse them accuse them of not appreciating her largesse.  I dislike Lea and think she is not trustworthy. 

Eurogirl
Eurogirl

 @theresag92@gmail.com

 Hi Adriana - although I don't care for her friends (you included), you are still a liar. Why would anyone want to see more Ana? She's about as interesting as watching grass grow

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 @mrsdonut 

Sorry to hear about the lost of your dad and the emotional stress you went through during that time, may his soul rest in PERFECT PEACE!

When i talk about not seeing MAMA ELSA again, it was a reference to she Marysol not giving us enough, she's boring.

Obviously, if Marysol is kicked off the show we shall not see MAMA ELSA agin. I rather see Marysol devoting most of her time showing us how much she cares for her mother rather than feeding into the nonsense of Adrianna. 

sajkel
sajkel

 @theresag92@gmail.com  @Eurogirl I am not a Lea fan either but i am certainly NOT an Adriana fan. Call a spade a spade theresag92. Adriana sucks and Ana (as much as i like her) was out of order and Marysol sucks!

Eurogirl
Eurogirl

 @theresag92@gmail.com  @Eurogirl

 Actually, no I'm not Lea and I didn't start liking her until last year's reunion. Still on the fence mainly because of who her husband is and who he defends (rich scum that are guilty but get away because of their wealth).