This episode makes me sick Danielle treats her children as potential Income not children it's repulsive

let me know when Danielle and her girls get her own show a la Betheney style

I love the RHONJ!! but tonight I wanted to throw up. Danielle, why on earth did you make your daughters modeling about you? Why would you have a luncheon for yourself? You stole her thunder and she always looks devastated by your overwhelming zeal for yourself. Let her shine, its not always about you, or your issues!

Great photoshoot! Danielle keep your focus on your daughter and forget the other housewives...they are boring anyway...who cares about controlling Caroline and her children or boring sister Dina...and Teresa acts like an overbearing pageant mom...Bravo you need to dump the boring Manzo's, there has got to be other housewives in New Jersey that lead more exciting lives...

The way you stole the spotlight from your daughter while she was on her first photo shoot was hard to watch. just sayin'

Caroline should take some lessons from you about respecting herself. - By making it her mission to verbally abuse you, Caroline has become a small person.

Whoa...where to begin? I have to congratulate you on your daughters. They both seem very smart and level headed. Their pleas for you to stop your nonsense last week in terms of driving by Caroline's house during the party speaks volumes. Even your kids see how this whole mess has derailed you. I wish you would listen to them more often. I am not sure that your being on this show is in their best interest, or yours for that matter. It seems to bring too much drama and craziness that is not suited for a stable family. I hope you re-prioritze and move forward to a healthy life --- one where you are not obsessed with those persons that are not your friends, and one in which your kids do not have to parent you. You talk a lot about positivity and onward and upward, yet, we have not seen ANYTHING resembling that. Is it coming? Soon, I hope.

Aznd why was it necessary to throw a luncheon for YOUR frineds. Shouldn't the party have been for your daughter and her friends, as well as a few of yours? Even your youngest daughter saw that that would have been the right thing to do!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU DANIELLE, you are a wonderful MOM you and your daughters are beautiful, your daughter is so mature and very educated compared to the manzo clans, you and your daughters have more class in one toe than the manzoclan. Good God i know for a fact your daughter will go far, i hope your youngest relay on her brains instead of beauty one supermodel is enough in the family your youngest looks like she is very very intelligent and should be a top lawyer that would show the manzo clan. f them, as you see how many of us trully love you and cant stand them. HOw dare jacqueline giving your daughter advice on her blog, puhhhhlease,i hope your daughters are saying "like whatever, you were mean to my mom dont care what you have to say even if its nice". Surround yourself with good people DAnielle your are very classy and dont need those two bit mobster wannabes making 1000 parties and keeping it hummmmmm well you know hush hush, even jac said i dont know why were paying 1000 for a party. hummmmmmmmmmmmmm. just saying.... But all in all love you and congrats to you and our next SUPERMODEL.

Danielle:

I agree with you that Caroline shouldn't have said anything about your children.

THAT BEING SAID: you are totally contradicting....considering you spoke about Ashley on your blog just last week...as if she was some adult woman who needed her dirty laundry aired. Ashley is lucky that her mom is talking to her about birth control... a lot of parents avoid that all together, whether later than she should or not....it's better said now then not at all. Grow up, look in the mirror...don't expect better behavior out of others than what you are able to give.

On another note: Your daughters are beautiful & smart...you should be very proud of them!

OMG seriously stop with the drama. If you want to live a life without it stop talking about these women and move on with your life. You have two daughters be grateful and don't look back. ALL this jealousy isn't going to take you anywhere in life. You are a grown woman Get over it!!Stop bashing them and trying to hurt them and then they wouldn't have to say anything about you.

Kudos on the daughter photo shoot. The others, especially Carloine, are so jealous. Hold your head high and tell them "The birds only pick at the best fruit". They probably aren't smart enough to understand but, you know.....

Please for your own sanity and the sanity of your children, keep your focus on them and forget about the other women! Let it go! You have an opportunity to start your life over with your children! Take it and forget these women! You do not need their approval!

Ok! So proud of you for not going to negative. Teresa has a problem. I really wish she would find some new gossip on you because you being arrested blah blah is so last season. Dear, Teresa Get A Life! Your daughters are gorgeous and very respectful. I secretly enjoyed when Christine said not to invite Caroline. I wish you would not have invited any of them.

Danielle,

Congrats on your daughter's accomplishments! Let keep the focus on HER the next time you have a luncheon in her honor though...I was BAFFLED by that. Also, can you stop making your blogs all about the other women? Maybe you should just stay in the light and ignore everything else for once. You all seem too preoccupied with one another. If you don't like each other, stay away, and keep each other's names out of your mouths, and off your blogs. I'm just saying....

Danielle, despite what anyone thinks about you, you have raised two very beautiful girls and they seem really sweet and natural. But C'mon! YOU have a luncheon celebrating your daughter's magazine cover and she's not even invited? SERIOUSLY? Tacky, tacky, tacky. Just sayin....

Danielle,

Let me start off with the one thing I can say in your favor: I don't think that Caroline should have said what she did about your children and I'd be really offended if someone talked about my kids that way, too. However, I think your kids are who they are in spite of you. I can't believe that they have to be the voice of reason for you (i.e. them telling you that you shouldn't drive past Caroline's party) and it is aboslutely rediculous that you would rather have them see you bring straight drama into an otherwise enjoyable evening. You really have some issues I think you shoud work on yourself and your life before you try and address the other housewives. "Just sayin'"

Funny how YOU have a party about your daughter, but none of her friends aren't invited, JUST SAYIN"

I love you Danielle. Continue to stand your ground, and continue to speak your mind. It's starting to become painfully obvious that you are more concerned about what Manzo and company is doing rather than concentrating on you and yours. Let it go honey, your better than that. As far as Kim D, I CANNOT believe that cheap famewhore was using you just to get on tv, shes a snake and shes two-faced. I really hope her back stabbing ways effect her future relationships (in not a good way). Stay strong honey. Love you. Just sayin'.

Danielle, why is it so important for you to associate with these woman? You try so hard for people who don't like you, let it go already and moce on to better things! you seem obcessed with these women!

Danielle, you are out numbered.I am SICK of the italian family. Please FIND SOMEONE that has class that is a friend of yours that you can get onto the show.NYC ladies brought in a new one! Bring in someone that is a friend, start having her in your episodes, and slide her in, someone else.Im sick of "the family crap"' and picking on you. BUT... you CAN NOT trust the lady in the store, she took their sides. Please new people!!!!!!

“Love must start with you. You cannot love or be loved correctly until you love yourself correctly. Your love life is the result of the way you love yourself. Your relationship with others is the result of the way you relate to yourself. If you want to love and be loved, you are the starting point.”

I'm the first person to comment... hmmm?

Maybe, it's time to open your heart to other people and see what happens. Your current world is all about you, and you will only find happiness when you begin to give to others.

If you find yourself in a place where people have nothing nice to say to you, look in the mirror and try to see what they see. It might be the eye opener that you need.

PS: Read your bible, and you might want to start with Proverbs... I'm just sayin'.

Hi Danielle,

THANK YOU!!! I appreciate the fact that you are constantly defending yourself against these angry women who have children, husbands, homes and money, yet ALL THEY DO IS TALK ABOUT YOU!! I really want you to show us more of your TRUE friends and what yoiur life is really like.

You are a BAD(and I do mean good) woman!! YOU GO GIRL!

Danielle, I really admire you. At first, when I began to watch the show, I thought you might have been a little paranoid in thinking that Caroline and Dina were constantly talking about you. Well, was I wrong! You are a strong woman and a great mother! Keep doing what you're doing and continue to take the high road. And, believe me, your fans love you!!!

Danielle your children are absolutely beautiful !!!! You keep being positive because their are plenty of us out here hoping the very best for you and your kid's. Come on, "the proof is in the pudding." When I first saw your daughter at her very 1st camera shoot I thought to myself now there is the next Christy Brinkley !!! She's GOT IT ! Good luck, and your a great Mom too.

What a great idea Danielle, I want to have a luncheon for my son graduating college! Not to worry, I'll make sure he's not invited. Bravo!

Get off your high horse of starving people in other countries and wasted ham!! If you are going to talk the talk then walk the walk.. stop trying to paint yourself as the next mother theresa!

you have very beautiful daughters but please stop sounding so vindictive and angry. It can't be a good lesson for them. It's scary.

I'm sorry Danielle but for real? You have made negative comments to the Housewives' kids in the first blog and during your interviews but you get mad at Caroline for saying something out of context about your daughter Christine? The girls have always said nice things about your daughters and all you do is bash their kids. Think about it!

Danielle - I feel for you! and I do agree that everyone is somehow after you. But you need to stop bad mouthing them on your blogs - because two wrongs don't make a right! It's just bringing more drama in your life and preventing you from getting to this "light" that you talk about. If you don't blog about them, talk about them, acknowledge them .. then guess who wins? You ...

Danielle you and Dina are my favorite New Jersey Housewives sometimes Jacqueline...Whatever you Did in the past is your business...Im pretty sure if you was so dangerous you wouldnt have been apart of this show.....I think the Manzo family and Teresa are just being too dramactic...they can be so annoying at time...

Danielle, I am so happy for your daughter and the pictures are outstanding! Both of your daughters are so beautiful and I wish them (and you) well in all of each of your endeavors.

It really bothers me when people cross the line and bad mouth children because of who their parents are. I will take a word from Alex (NYC), it is very high school. I hope that this doesn't continue through the season. I understood what you meant about Gia, and I think she will have great potential as she grows up, matures, etc. She is cute now and I am sure she will turn into a beautiful young lady. Not everyone can be a fashion model, but there are other areas of modeling if her height doesn't work (you mentioned she was 4'). She seems to really like acting as well.

Your daughters are very wise young ladies and you should be proud of them. I would like to see them exposed to things that children should be exposed to and not the adult mellow drama that they have been exposed to. I am sure it hurts them to see you blasted like you are. It doesn't matter what happened many years ago, children love their parents unconditionally and it should be up to the parents to share this information with them when they feel it they are ready and can handle it.

Good luck to you and your girls. I am sure you are doing the best you can do considering their father doesn't seem to offer much help, which is very sad.

Has anyone heard of Danielle new male friend that is shown on the clip of her trying to box in a boxing ring?

Danielle, All I have to say is I admire your strength and courage for holding your head high. The past is in the past and it needs to stay that way and they should think about the damage the rumors could cause your daughters, aspecially since they're so family orientated:) Thats all I have to say there hun. Hope to see you smile more this season you deserve it!

Your Fan, Cassie

You Go Girl! F the haters and keep doing you! I love the way you put it about Teresa...she is always talking about you. She really needs a life. Caroline how disrepectful it is to talk about someone's kids. Total low blow. These women are so immature and nasty. I think Dina is grounded and trying to keep positivity in her own world and just wants that. Jaqueline is a good wife. You can't knock her for that. Just my opinion..hey it may not mean much but thank God we live in a country where I can express it!Smooches!

DANIELLE, WE YOUR FANS WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT. That is all that matters. I was so happy to watch your dinner and see that, with the exception of KIM D, you actually have a lot of people who love and support you. Focus on them and let karma come to those who have treated you badly. I will always be you fan.

I REALLY HOPE THIS SHOW IS SCRIPTED...DANIELLE YOU REALLY NEED TO SIT DOWN AND WATCH THESE EPISODES AND SEE WHAT YOU LOOK AND SOUND LIKE, kids do not come with instructions and its hard raising them and I couldn't imagine doing it on t.v., these are CHILDREN AND YOURS NO LESS...they should be surrounded with NON-ADULT DRAMA...

Was Danielle's daughter's photographer Kelly's (from RH of NY) ex-husband???

It's awesome that your daughter was in the magazine but having a luncheon honoring your daughter without having her there was awful. It was just about you. I mean you did say "yay me" at the end of the lunch.

Hello from the Sunshine State Danielle! I totally get the whole house up keep problem. I really don't believe that Teresa can keep her house up the way it's suppose to be without a staff. I don't understand spending all that money on the house and can't afford a staff to go with it? I have a small house, if it ain't one thing it's another. Anyway, but biggest advice to you in getting back with the Manzos is simply ignore them. You have no idea how a simple thing like ignoring can get under people's skin. They don't exist. Their opinion don't matter. Trust me, it's the BEST way to get back at someone and you ALWAYS look like the better person.

danielle, your daughter looked beautiful during the photo shoot, keep this in mind it was her photo shoot not Yours!!! her cover not Yours!!! why any mother would make her own daughter look bad is just questionable to me, she looked so devastated by the end of the shoot,share the moment dont take the moment away from your own child, bad,bad. as far as the other women let go, jacqueline yes can make up her own mind, but she is married and she and her husband seem to have a good relationship, as to you being single, having a friend come between a couple is a no-no respect them, remember you and your behavior but you in this place no one else.

YOU OPENED THE DOOR TO BAD MOUTHING OTHER'S CHILDREN? WHY SHOULD YOUR KIDS BE OFF LIMITS NOW? JUST SAYING

Let me get this straight, you don't want anyone saying anything about your kids, but you can bash the kids of everyone else? Kinda like when you talk about karma coming for other people....just remember when you point a finger at someone, you have 3 more pointing right back at yourself.

Danielle - if you would just watch the show and focus on the mortified look on your daughter's face you would back off. Seriously, let her shine. She is a beautiful, sensitive girl and you are making it all about you. I almost cried for her when you said you would go to Milan at a moment's notice, she wanted to crawl under the table. I understand you have to be there for her, but please stop trying to steal the spotlight.

How do you tell Caroline not to talk about your children when you talk about the other housewives children? Especially the comments you said about Ashley and BJ's! Just Sayin! Maybe you should practice what you preach. Your actions speak louder than your words. Get a grip girl. A changed person would not be saying such nasty things about people on a blog, regardless of what the other housewives are saying.

I think you should take a step back and look at what you are doing.

Danielle you should really quit being so concerned with what the other women on the show say about you. By feeding into their negative stuff you are giving them more fuel for the fire. You should focus on being the best person and Mom you can be. That being said I thought it was selfish of you to throw a party for your friends to show off your daughters magazine cover. I think its great that you are proud of her but REALLY the focus should have been on her with you being there only as the proud mother not the center of attention. I wish your daughter much success in her modeling but try not to be a stage mother like Teresa is with her daughter.

I am amused that you are so bent of of shape over someone talking about your children when you clearly trashed other peoples children in your blog last week. Just sayin'.

Andy Cohen has you on because you are a trainwreck. Giles Bensimon photographed your daughter because of his connection to Bravo through his ex wife Kelly. You slammed Ashley last week and now children are off limits? You are still obsessed with the Manzos.

Your daughter is beautiful and gifted and deserves all the success in the world.

You however, are disturbed and vindictive. You are negative and nasty.

Your daughters are wonderful in spite of you not because of you.

You daughters are beautiful and respectful so you obviously did a great job...now they are in school you need to think about your own career and making money. give it a try...you will feel great.