Danielle Staub

Danielle reacts to Teresa's allegations and Dina's threats!

on May 12, 20090

 

I was at Chateau that day to talk to Jacqueline about Teresa. Also, Teresa asked me to stop by to comment on her being over the top for getting her girls hair done before a dress rehearsal for dance. That part did not make it on the episode.

When Jacqueline arrived, I had been waiting nearly 2 hours for her. I was beyond agitated. She knew I wanted to talk to her about Teresa not being invited, and yet she didn't come because she was worried that I would say something about Dina. I made it painfully clear I had no intentions of saying anything negative about her.

I was beyond agitated.

Earlier that day, Teresa mentioned to me that it bothered her that Dina didn't invite her into the city to the Sex and the City premiere. She said she didn’t want to confront Dina about it. I mean she has been Dina's friend for well over a decade, but she didn't ask me to say anything. I took it upon myself to do so. At the time I was becoming very close with Teresa, and she would call me nearly 10 times a day. We spoke about everything that was on her mind. I simply wanted to know why Teresa had not been invited and Jacqueline knew this.

By the time Jacqueline arrived, Dina arrived to get ready to go. That's when Dina assumed I was there because I wanted to go.

185 comments
David Ramirez
David Ramirez

The Book thing back fired on those *itches.They bought it out to make you look bad and instead it made them look like monsters.They finally gave you something to be thankful to them for .So please Danielle what ever you do make sure you stay on track . Never let them make you lose it .Always keep your cool and never lose control in front of any of them. You be the one in control at all times and at every turn and always remember we always have the power to turn something Negative into something Positive. The only thing we cant do that with is humans .With humans that has to come from within.

David Ramirez
David Ramirez

Danielle , Not everybody u meet in this life is your friend and most people can count there friends on one hand .None of those women on the show with you are your friends and you should not feel bad about it because none of them are worth having as friends anyway. And Caroline who seems to be the leader of her clan is the worst of the bunch.She will stand by her people through thick and thin weather there right or wrong only because there family and that is not right. Everybody knows family will screw you before a friend will. So to her u say good luck to you and yours .And as for Theresa you may as well give up on that one . You know how hard it is to be friends with a piece of plastic.It is impossible. And Jackie too bad u don't have a mind of your own.All you have to do is cut the strings and Caroline wont be your Gipetto any more.U needs to grow a backbone too.

Raymor
Raymor

I like Danielle and I do believe she showed a lot of logic at times, however she became too obsessed with what these other woman thought about her. It seemed that she was determined to make them like her and/or respect her. That was her biggest mistake. She would have done better for herself if she would not have cared what these other women thought or said. I wish she had realized early on that their opinions do not matter. I would have liked to see her stronger and more secure about herself, her life and her choices. Maybe one day she will realize she is ok and dooes not need the validation of others.

Rose Nelson
Rose Nelson

Danielle is the most beautiful and sane person on the show!! I like the way that she keeps her chin up when things become a challenge!!

Azteca
Azteca

8/10/10 YOU ARE 1000% CORRECT

Sarah22
Sarah22

Haha because if Danielle was off the show...there wouldn't be a show. There would be no drama! and thats why people watch!

starlyn
starlyn

Danielle the world dosen't revovled around, you are showing some mental disorders maybe you should seek some professional help.

louiseHUNTER
louiseHUNTER

DANIELLE I AM WRITING THIS IN BIG LETTERS BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WHEN THE JUDGE SEES YOU SAYING IF TERESA WANTS TO FIGHT COME ON BABY WITH YOUR FISTS UP. WHAT THEN HUAH

Viewer123
Viewer123

I really think everybody should just leave Danielle alone. What has she done to anyone? I watch the show every time it comes on & I really like the show, I think it maybe my favorite of all. Does Danielle really read this and other comments that viewers leave? Anyway if you are reading this Danielle, you go girl. Stand your ground but don't let anyone get you into trouble. Take care. I also think you are a great mom & would be a good friend if they would have just given you a chance. But I guess its their loss.

Ashlyn13
Ashlyn13

After watching the show from the beginning, all I can say is that Danielle is CRAZY! She causes so much DRAMA and then wants everyone to feel sorry for her. Like with what happened with Dina. All she wanted to do was tell Danielle that she wanted her out of her life and she went allll Crazy on Dina. After awhile it gets a little old and I don't feel sorry for her at all anymore. She needs HELP and needs to GROW UP and STOP feeling sorry for herself. The show would be 10000% lesss Dramatic, if Danielle was OFF the show. Really if she was in so much danger she would take herself off the show, so obviously she isn't in that much danger.

Danielle, get a life!

ole eddie 1969
ole eddie 1969

i want to see you and the girls fight it out u are all pretty bad examples of women so much work on the face and package its really sick kiss off but i do like the drama and crap that goes on

REality Check
REality Check

Who cares about Danielle's past? I think only those who hate her and want to bring her down. We all have a past. There's nothing more they can do to her besides hunt for the worst thing that has ever happened to her to try and beat her into a quiet mode. The past is now the present and Danielle don't you keep explaining yourself to people. Yes it is a part of your "past." YOu have lived that story already and they deserve no explanation for something that has not affected or involved them. YOu attempted to lay the cards out and explain, but it was to much for them to handle. Live your life in the present. The show would be nothing without you. Stay strong and keep trying to be positive. As you continue to move into a new direction one can clearly see the hatred and jealousy of the other women. Congrats to your daughter with her modeling gig! She looked beautiful just like her mom.

Reality Check
Reality Check

Danielle I love you on the show. Without you the show would be so boring. Thanks for adding more class to yourself and making the "other" womens true colors come out. When you reacted to their harsh words there was drama. Now that you have toned it down and not be confrontation with them they still want to eat you up. I can't believe Teresa had the nerves to be so childish as to sit outside the restroom and wait for you to start a confrontation. She wasn't trying to be nice at all. You did the right thing walk away. I think that Jacqueline is the innocent one in this however. She just got consumed into what her inlaws think is best. She should have just remained neutral and be her own person. You should have respected the limits of your friendship with her and try not to talk about her inlaws which puts her into an uncomfortable situation. No matter what they say about you playing victim keep taking the high road. You are making these women look ridiculous! They worry about you all day. It's a shame that they are so consumed by your actions and every move. I love you and if Bravo took you off they should call the show the "boring housewives of new jersey."

Mizs-Jaii
Mizs-Jaii

Danielle, I think you are an amazing person and an amazing mom, I also think that about the other ladies as well, but they need to realize that the onlii reazson y u act the way you do is because of them bringing up you past issues, y did they bring it up in the first place, if they were really friends they would of let it go a long time ago, you do not need toxic ppl liike that in you life Danielle, you are beautiful and stressing over them and getting upset with them is just going to cause ugly lines and wrinkles on your face, so stay beautiful Danielle.

Splendora
Splendora

Danielle, you seem to be a truly nice person. If I were you, I would forget about these women. Clearly, they do not want you in their lives. I have gone through this same thing....this high school mentality. Walk away, no run away, you have more precious and more interesting things in your life. Look at your daughter and where she is right now, with you by her side. Concentrate on your children and keep your chin up. A very good friend once told me "if they like you, good; if they don't, better. Use the long-handled spoon approach with people other than your children and the ones who truly love you and want you in their lives.

May13
May13

Dear Danielle: I think it's a little unfair for you to be pitted against a whole family led by the tough-talking "we're as thick as thieves - Caroline". I'm proud of the way you are raising your daughters, and happy that your older daughter did so well with her photo shoot - the great one, Mr. Bensimon seemed pleased with the photo shoot - which is big. The one big mistake you made was to leave the "own woman" message for Jacqueline - you should have said "thank you for the beaut roses" and leave it at that -- but you are under so much pressure, you can't think of everything. You can't undo your past, which they are using against you, so pl hold your head high and I hope you get your settlement real soon. Love you and your daughters.

candyj
candyj

Danielle, you seem to cause the drama. If the family don't like you,then leave them alone.Stop trying to keep up with what they are doing. You are making yourself look stupid. Why would you go and get a excon man to escort you to the brownstone.Grow up you hav children to focus on you spending to much time worrieing about what the family doing. you saying that the amily are out to get you, it do not look that way on T.V. jacqueline is right you do not come before her husband,and that do not make her less than a woman. GO GET A LIFE.

ShaneStevie
ShaneStevie

Danielle, I feel really sorry for you and I hope you can get whatever help is necessary to give you peace of mind and enjoy the amazing life. I know you have had it hard growing up, and there are lots of scars and situations you've encountered which cause you to keep your guard up very high. But, focus on the the amazing blessings you've received in life, and remember not to let folks get the best of you. The good in you seems to genuinely be sweet and want well, but, I think you focus just a little too much on being accepted by others, and whew, vindictive seems to be an understatement!

Shake the haters off and focus on your life, and your kids future. Don't let rumors and gossip of others drive you to the nuthouse! The Priest gave you good advice...trust him.

"Women In Pa"
"Women In Pa"

Danielle,

Hey I am just an avrage girl from Pa. I go through what you are going through now. I am a single mother of two boys,and people put me down all the time. Dont let these women put you down!! I watch this show all the time and it makes me so mad to see what they are doing. You are so pretty and you have two wonderful little girls. The rest of them its as simple as this money is what talks. That is all they live on, and if they didnt have it were would they be?Like i said i am a nobody from Pa . I am not rich in no shape or form and my words mean nothing but i just want to tell you DONT LET THESE WOMEN DO WHAT THEY ARE DOIN TO YOU!!!! Talkin about your kids and your life when they dont even know what happens in your life and what happens in your home. god bless you and i will keep you in my prays....

"Women From Pa"

JOSE ALBERTO
JOSE ALBERTO

DANIELLE THOSE GIRLS ARE JEOLOUS OF U YOUR MY FAVORITE ONE ON THE SHOW F..... THEM ALL KEEP UR HEAD UP AND KEEP WALKING

fithful viewer
fithful viewer

You are crazy. YOu put to much out there for your girls to see. I am with the rest of the women when it comes to you are DRAMA, DRAMA!! You seem to always want to be in the spotlight. Sure everyone has a past but you choose to go on tv and nobody made you do it. I think you are classless and you have your own issues to deal with. You talk a big game but when it comes down to the wire you are left with your mouth open wide. I can see why the others don't want you to be around their family and childeren. You need help so please do all us a favorite and go see a shrink.

Caly12
Caly12

Danielle,

I feel really bad for you because you cannot even see that you appear scary. People who put themselves in dramatic situations are acting out what they are familiar with. Get some PTSD therapy. You deserve some peace in your life, because I know this is not the kind of life you want. Take care!

Viewer 61
Viewer 61

Danielle your friend that has the clothing store watch out for her because she was at caroline's party and said she was not your friend. So be very carefull.

Lu
Lu

After watching the dinner episode twice,I noticed that you didn't enter the dining room with THE BOOK.You only had a clutch bag. Who placed the book by you chair at the Dining table? I can't help but think it was the producers and that it was scripted.Am I wrong? Hope you are all doing well and that we will see you all again. Lu

W J W
W J W

daniele you are the best i love you

Sher
Sher

You are a great woman, and I wish you and your girl the best. Those sisters are EVIL. Stay away from them,

we love you danielle
we love you danielle

Vi amo il miglior questo femmine sono falsi. you are the best alot of people here in chicago and in puerto rico love you muahhhhhh youre the best.

edith sedgwick
edith sedgwick

i'm a real ghousewife of downtown Atlanta with my own radio show I have to say, Danielle, consider it a compliment when the likes of bloated old Caroline or crazed Theresa the greasy-looking stage mother don't approve of you. We think you're the bomb!At least you aren't pusing your kids to be fashion models, unlike Theresa. Her kid obviously hates posing and having her photo taken for very long-she'd best g t used to it if her momma is gona live vicariously through her as a "model.' That kid hasn't a chance n hell in that profession. I was a model and as you well know,it's not about comfort or entertaining oneself--if the shoot becomes a bore or a chore, tough titties!

 Mariaeita
Mariaeita

I think you people are all FULL OF CRAP!!!!!!None of you are real housewives!! Bravo needs too make a show about real house moms, Mother's... Ones who deal with everyday drama, like what bill can we pay this month. And how do i make this months paychecks pay all these bills!!!! I hate watching all these rich bitches act like spoiled little girls.. I leave in a small town in Texas, and most women here have no money too throw away... I take care of my three grown children they children all day everyday, Im doing all i can too keep from losing our home... And it don't look good! I may lose it anyway.. times are hard & i suffer from MS. and still i do more in one day than they do all they spoiled lives... You people are silly and need too grow up!!!! And bravo some women hate watching people throw money like its nothing.. Make a show of real people.....

SGLM
SGLM

Danielle, You rock!! PLEASE tell us who makes that HOT dress you wore to the last supper!

QV Housewife
QV Housewife

Just testing... I want to post this before posting what I'd like to say. Don't want to waste my time posting if it's not going to show up so bare with me people.. thanks and Peace ;)

Viewer
Viewer

dear Sweet Danielle.

First and for most "I must say What an eye opener " I have done a ghange in my thinking about the two sister wonna bees they should be ashamed of thems selfs dina ,dina ,dina have you forgotten about your past i wouldnt be on any pointing finger table right now Danielle My heart goes out to you . at first i really didnt care for how you were so needy and i really was not seeing the hole picture until tuesday nigth final ... OMG

Cindy/in calif

Viewer
Viewer

I know what it's like to be bullied by a large family because you are alone. This is a common problem in families - sort of a mob mentality. They love to attack the loner because it makes them feel powerful. Further, they love the feeling of victimizing and excluding for the same reason - a sort of indulgence in bigotry against the lone one. I would like to respectfully advise that you not make friends with large families, they almost always indulge in this behavior unless they are highly educated or trained in logic as are scientists, for example. The only time I do not see this behavior in my practice it is because of logical thinking rather than emotional due to advanced education and the usual associated higher integrity.

kylie
kylie

Danielle, I happy you got to confront the clan at Teresa's dinner party and was able to say what you wanted to say. Good for you! I found it strange that Teresa sat there at the beginning talking about her boobs and sex in front of the kids, but when you wanted to defend yourself about the book, she did not want it discussed in front of the kids. Teresa had very poor judgement.

I hope you are able to straighten your life out from here. I am hoping for you. Get a lawyer for the money problem you are having from you ex - that's what people do, obviously from the time you tried to talk to him on the phone and he hung up - you two cannot solve the problem by talking to him.

Maria
Maria

First of all your my FAVORITE housewive and Theresa,Dina need to get a LIFE!!! All they seem to talk about threw out the episodes is You!!

Viewer
Viewer

wow good blees you girl you look gorgeous

sara
sara

You're amazing; don't back down; 98% of ALL normal people realize....the past is the past. EVERYONE has skeletons in the closet. It is obvious to everyone in America: you were in the wrong place, wrong time = over and done with. Get over it. Be yourself, don't let these wannabe Mafia type people insult you.

Emma
Emma

I really like you .You are a wonderfull woman and nobody is perfect .You can force frienship ignore Caroline and her sister .Try to live your live without them ,find a job because your are a single mom take care of yours girls and don't wait for the rich man to help you.Start helping yourself by working .AGAIN FORGET ABOUT THE CAST

Viewer
Viewer

Danielle, no matter what happened in your past. I found you to be the most entertaining women in this show. You make it what it is. Without you and your drama, the NJ Housewives show who be a big BORE. Keep living life to the max.

nadege
nadege

hi Dineille you are a wonderful persone just know and bless with two wonderful girls you beautiful ,hot, and strong.of curse others will want to break you down people do that all the timespecially when they not happy with themselve.

Tabitha From San Diego
Tabitha From San Diego

I think you're awesome. And on top of that you are a single mother, beautiful, and your daughters dont seem to have the ridiculous sense of entitlement the other women's children have. And I think Dina is rather bland... so don't sweat in the heat of Dina and Family... I feel like her bark is far worse than her bite... and when a woman is all bark... put her outside in the yard until she calms down:)

Peace to you Danielle... everyone has a past... it is what makes us who we are.

Peace.

Jenny
Jenny

What comes around..........goes around!! Nobody knows how connected people can be!!!!!

Viewer in the Bay Area
Viewer in the Bay Area

Danielle....you go for what YOU know you want and deserve and dont let anyone stop you. For the most part, the other ladies (and I use that term loosely!!!) on the show are like the mean girls in school that no one liked but tolerated. Dina is so beautiful to look at however if she had the true face that her inside has she would be a totally horrible monster. The woman is so self absorbed its ridiculous. Just because you gave her a compliment she thinks you are obsessed with her!! I think it is CLEARLY that you love your friendship with Jackie and value her and are more woman that she happens to be, and with that are willing to let issues go so that she isnt caught int he middle and for that GOD will BLESS you because it clearly comes from your heart!!

YOU HAVE FANS LADY......AND YOU DESERVE THEM

Monica
Monica

I think these other cast mates spend too much time worrying about you Danielle. I think Jacqueline is two faced, and obviously not a good friend. Dina is obviously threatened by you. I think they all are extremely judgmental, and people in glass houses should not throw stones.

FanciT
FanciT

Daniele, you're a nice person and I agree that the other ladies should allow Jacquline to have other friends outside of them. In that same vein, I know its hard to make friends especially when you're single and other females are married but it seems that you are too desparate to fit in with these women who obviously take a more cautious approach to friendship. Also, it seems as if you're too desparate for a rich man. I'm sure if you get back out there modeling or somewhere in the industry, making your own money will be more liberating. You're a beautiful woman show your daughters how working hard making your own money pays off. Good luck making new friends, FanciT

Jersey Girl 66567
Jersey Girl 66567

Danille why would a mother of 2 young girls who has a past like yours go on a reality show? You HAD to know this was going to come out? Seriously?

The dancing scene with Caroline's son? You look so desperate. You need to find a career. If you are a professional dancer as you say then open a dance studio. At least you could have some money that you made on your own to feel good about yourself if nothing else. Get rid of the 26 year olds and stop trying to get guys with sex.... You also need some serious therapy because you are delusional

Viewer
Viewer

you say you are real first of all you look totally plastic and you seem to be out for money. You need to downsize your style of living and get a job like most people.

ViewerFrancine
ViewerFrancine

Danielle,your the older women dating a younger man,stop acting like your so desparate and leave the man alone. I understand you want someone to step up like youe ex.to late you put your shit out there,everyman knows what your about.

Tia
Tia

Danielle you rock!!! I think that the other ladies are jealous. Every conversation seems to be about Danielle.

Viewer
Viewer

I dont like Dina or her sister, and I think they are big bullies....