We know, that Caroline, is not seeing things first hand, she is ASSUMING most of her, 'brain waves about you"... Ignore the bully, after all the audience see's the REAL BULLY in C, ever week.

Thumbs up girl!

Hi Danielle I read in your book that you are a really good cook. Could we have some of your recipes. Maybe you could post some in your next blog.

Lighten up, Danielle! We can't expect all people to love us, or want to be our friends. You are bashing your costars constantly. Please forget them and live your life. You have two beautiful daughters, and yes Christine did a wonderful job on the runway. Good luck to her.

All i have to say about your comments Danielle is way to stay in the love and light.

people who begin and end the day by wishing everyone love and light does not write the vitriol that you do.

Hmm. Wow.

I am not sure you are going to gain much support out here by trashing Jacqueline and Dina. J is genuine, sweet and in a loving, stable relationship. Dina is obviously a genuinely lovely person, as her charity endevors prove. People are ALLOWED to own guns if they choose.....living in the good ole USA allows us that. His safe is locked. Enough said. Trying to turn that into something bad about J isn't working for me. Just sayin'. Stay away from the Brownstone. It is private property and you clearly were not welcome. You came to stir up trouble...as evidenced by bringing your fake Soprano "friends". Give the Dad a check privately...that is what truly giving people do. I pray for your children. They surely need it.

Both daughters are very special and beautiful inside and out!!

You rock girl..Everyone has to be knowledge of your good heart. Coroline need to stop harrasing you and needs to get over it. I think this show needs newer realhouse wifes that are not family related.. It is to much drama with the Di Manzos and their friends.

I love how you start out your rants with compliments then go and try to tear your 'victims' apart. As much as you try, you will never have class. Of any kind except perhaps low class which describes you perfectly. Vile & low class.

I am too confused. I read Caroline's blog and I don't like you then I read your blog and I do like you. Guess all I can say is that I'm thankful neither of you are my neighbor.

PS When people get married and change their names, usually it isn't also their first names. LOL

Ahhh, I had to stop reading your blog as its all just so mean. What is wrong with you?

I felt like Caroline was overreacting to your being at the Brownstone. I felt even worse for you when I saw the family with the sick baby ask you to come - especially when you flinched when you heard where the event was. But any sympathy you gained from me was lost during the scene with Danny. People in the rest of the country don't hire an ex-con thug to accompany them to a charity event if someone that doesn't like them is going to be there. Do like the rest of us do and AVOID them!

Danielle, I get, heck we all get how hurt you are and how you're angry with the lack of sensitivity shown by the others in regard to your past...but truly, you are going down the wrong road in how you're handling this! It is evident that it is eating you alive! You've gotta find a way to let it go & live for yourself and your daughters. In every aspect of your life, you are determining whether or not Caroline, Teresa and the others are happy for you & your girls or not....who cares if they are or aren't? (which I believe they genuinely are) You are so obsessed with them and so full of desire to get even or cut at them that you are the one who looks crazed and irrational. The best way to get even is to 1) Forgive 2) Live happily daily w/out thought of or speaking of them 3) Focus on a positive future that involves joy & success for you & your girls. Eventually, this won't sting anymore & you will have prospered in every area of your life and all of this will mean nothing to you anymore as things in your past that were something at one time are no more now. Please let go & live! God Bless!!

Are you really criticizing a woman in labor for giving her child frozen french toast? That is grasping at straws. Why do care if Teresa's husband had coffee before they went into the hospital. Also, I am guessing 90% don't really know how to comfort their wife while she is in labor...they are WAY out of their element. You are missing the point that HE WAS THERE!!

wow danielle,

the "love & light" in your blog really sounds like jealousy & anger. just sayin'

You spoke about the fundraiser at the Brownstone...yeah, the Brownstone...you know they didn't charge the customary rental fee, right?...They donated the facilities and some other services to make the benefit a success...now exactly how much did you contribute to reduce the family's financial sacrifice? Hell from everything I've watched, you may need Caroline to hold a charity fundraiser for you...you could make home repairs, etc.

If you have written a memoir why hasn't your publisher given you a big advance?

I have one strict rule regarding friends, they must be sane.

You want to go into business with Caroline's son don't you?

Kelly and Danielle were sitting in a tree, talking ish about you and me.

You really have some issues...instead of wishing "love and light" on everyone else, you may want to pray it comes to you....

I think the hypocritical one, is your Darlin'. You lamblast your fellow members of the show, even after everything and basically rip the a new one, and then you wish everyon love and light. I'm not in the position to judge you or anyone, and vice versa, but Ms. Staub, as a viewer, from what I am allowed to see, it will backfire-the love and light,actions speak louder than words, and you aren't wishing anyone anything loving or full of light, except drama,and stressfulness.

I'm just saying: would you like YOUR daughter to bring home a guy like Danny? I'm just saying, "you lay down with dogs you get up with fleas"! Get your act together woman! And I'm just saying it's WomEN not WomAn when you talk about women in the plural!

Obviously you care about what they say or you wouldn't write that kind of stuff. I feel really sorry for you! You need a lot of help. Really stop caring about what people say and do your own thing. The Manzos and Giudices do. They really don't care about you and you should leave them alone!

Please post this because it is positive and encouraging.

I agree with everything you've said in your blog, just try to ignore this unforgiving and judgmental bunch and go on with your life. Talking about it only makes in worse, and it also make others think you are loosing your mind. Focus on your beautiful daughters because they need you, they are the only ones who should matter right now.

I think 99% of this country do forgive people who've made mistakes in their lives; who are we to judge? I thought that was God's job. Best wishes Danielle! :o)

Well said. For them to be so hypocritical in their actions. Perhaps they think the public will buy whatever they're selling. They need to remember that without you or without viewers(if you weren't part of the show) there would be no show and they would have to go back to being boring housewives who fill their lives with plush dinners and shopping trips. x

great blog...i would stop watching the show if it weren't for you and theresa..the other "housewives" are so boring..

Congratulations on your book, Danielle. I hope the grammar is better "then" it is here on your blog. And that expression "just sayin" is a little overused by you. Just sayin'.

Danielle, Love ya! Keep being strong and beautiful. Don't let the bullies get ya down.

There is enough negativity and stress in the world. Many of us have been watching The Real Housewives for years for the entertainment factor of watching accomplished women live fabulous lives. All of these shows have lost sight of this. You have managed to suck the life out of RHONJ and have only made your show anything but entertaining. I'm done wasting my time watching your negativity.

Love and light!

Danielle,

Unless the other housewives are saying things that are untrue and you want to set the record straight (like about Caroline's comments) I wouldn't spend the majority of my blog talking about them. Honestly, its a waste of your time and energy. Instead, I'd rather hear about what opportunities are happening for you and your girls. I know you are a good person, because anybody can see your girls are well-behaved and highly intelligent. If you are the trash Caroline keeps calling you, then I wonder how she can explain how wonderful your girls are since they are in your custody and you are raising them. Everybody has a past, but you are not your past. Pray and ask the Lord into your heart and to forgive you of your sins. Once you do that, you are judged by what you do after that. If you sin, Jesus is your advocated with the Father. Repent, try to make it right and move on. Love you.

Danielle, I'm sure somewhere deep down you are a good person. But as far as the way you have acted this season, I would not allow you to be on next year. You are scary. You threaten people and every second you get on the show and on the blog you bash these ladies for no reason. You say you don't care about these ladies but the way you talk about them, if I were them I would have fear for my life as well as my family.

Danielle-you represent the worst of the Housewives- at least Kelly (RHNYC) has an excuse- You are mean and nasty-and it was so obvious on last nights episode; every return to "Danielle" was marked by gloom and doom. If this gets posted I'll be surprised; but just in case- I watch all the housewives-love the shows- Love, Love Love Them!!! K

Danielle, First, I don't agree with everything that family does/says to you. But on that note, you don't help the situation, either by going on and on about them. Don't you think if you leave them alone they'll move on? I think they would. Don't you want peace? I have to commend you on something... even though they have brought up your past over and over and had plenty to say about it, you've never brought up that family's ties to the mob... which does say alot... b/c you could attack them and use that, but you choose not to, so good for you! I think I can say that most of the fans of NJ are just tired of the same drama, which has spilled into this year from last year.... you all need a new storyline. I hope they bring in a new lady that is one of YOUR friends so you won't be going at it with them alone. I think it would also boost ratings for the show! In closing, I read your People Magazine article... it was very insightful. I had no idea of everything you had been through... and they didn't even cover everything... the article made me understand you better. Continue to hold onto your girls and keep them close. I'm so happy for Christine, she's so beautiful! I truly hope she makes it big!

You don't need to address the other women. You give them fuel for the fire when you do! Without you the show is boring. Your daughters are absolutely beautiful and seem to be very well adjusted. Good for you.

I hope they absolutely tear you apart at the end of the season show. After reading these blogs you will not be able to deny any of your nasty behavior. You are so creepy!!!

Every time I read one of Danielle's blogs, my only reaction is to feel very, very sorry for her two daughters. Danielle proves by her words and actions over and over again that there really are people out there so clueless, they will never find their way back again...Danielle, you are a sad case...very pathetic...

Wow Danielle your blog is so filled with sarcasm and hate it's a little hard to read. Get over yourself.

Your blog is very negative. I don't understand why you have to attack every action of the other ladies. Like Teresa making microwave french toast for her daughter. Even people who have cookbooks don't make elborate meals every time they feed their families. She was in labor and I'm sure she knew her body well enough to know that she had time to fix her daughter something fast. Frozen foods are normal, especially if your in a rush, even if you have a cookbook.

Jumping on every little thing the other women do just makes you look bad.

Danielle, I think you should work on the idea of 'if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all' it works for me, which is why my comment is so short to you.

OMG, you are so filled with hate and venom, it makes me so sad.. it's terrible to see women treat each other this way... I know that so many negative things have been said and done against you, but please, RISE ABOVE IT... Walk with that light and love, reject the negativity and so much good will come your way.... bright blessings to you. -kelly

Wow.....what a Bitter Betty, you are. Nothing but negativity in that post (except when it came to your daughters). Shady shady...Why don't you find your OWN life and stop trying to live these other ladies' lives, hmm? If you didn't want THEIR lives, their friendships, etc.; you wouldn't go around stalking their homes, their parties, etc.

Wow, you really have a dislike for these ladies and turn the ENTIRE story around. I understand why they would not want to be around you under ANY circumstance. Wake up and leave the childish comments, coniving plots, threats against them and negativity in the closet. Leave these ladies alone and concentrate on yourself and your children. I thought you were in some kind of "light".....I'm expecting that to be a police spotlight any day now.

The only thing these ladies are guilty of is trying to get you out of their life. If I were these ladies I'd have gotten a restraining order by now!

New show idea! Get ready....Danielle, NeNe, Kelly and Vicki, what do ya think?

Danielle -

You are the bomb! Don't worry about Caroline. She obviously thinks that being a bully is not the same as being a coward. Well in her case it is. Let's face it -- your daughters are beautiful and she can't deal with that.

As for Jacqueline - I used to like her and thought highly of her for sticking up for you but now she is just another total bully/coward too.

That aside I think you should forget about them - they are not worth your time. You are more beautiful, your children are more beautiful then any of their children and you don't need them.

It is better you don't hang around them because as Caroline would say -- you hang around trash you start to stink!! And who needs that?

I just want to say I like you. The other cast members are just bullies and karmas a you know the saying. So what you have a past, so does everyone. Everyon has secrets and things that they regret. I feel you were only trying to be friends with them and they just want to listen to that one person and do what she says because they are scared of her and her actions. You don't need them, move on from them get some real true friends. Be a better person like your girls tell you, just be there for your girls. Your the only one I like from this show and I'm routing for you, so hang in there. I hope you become very successful and the others fail in there ventures.

Your entire blog entry consists of ripping people to shreds, yet you continuously speak of "love and light" in your life. Maybe you should look up the word "hypocrite" in the dictionary and read it to yourself while looking in the mirror. Also, you should stop saying that you "don't care" about any of these people because it's obvious that you care WAY too much.

Are you for real ?? Do you think you are part of the Sopranos or something?? And then you ask why no one wants anything to do with you, look who you hang around with and have things in "common" with felons!!!

You are so jealous of all of them it is clear as day. And Teresa's book is great and "she" is a great mother !!

You need to get your priorties in order "just sayin" lord when you STOP saying that !!

I have to say that I couldn't even get past the first page of your blog because it made me so angry. Who the hell do you think you are? God? Because if you ARE God, then I'll become an atheist. Have you REALLY changed, or was it just an act for the show? I haven't seen you change one bit - so who are you calling a hypocrite? just sayin'

You're a real piece of work. I feel sorry for your daughters - how embarrassed they must be when Tuesday rolls around and how they must get picked on because their mother is such a hypocrite and so hate filled.

You claim to have found religion - which one? I think that it was all for the show. Stop throwing the stones - you certainly can't take criticism which makes YOU a hypocrite.

For the love of God... grow up.