Danielle, I don't quite understand your constant need for a bodyguard, unless you have been truly threatened by the Manzos, a threat that has been unseen, I think, by the viewers. I think you should have just let Dena have her say and then YOU remove yourself from her presence....not giving her the opportunity to walk away from you

Love that you can admit a mistake and apologize for it. Stay away from the the Kim twins though. They seem to push you into bad situations for the sake of creating drama and seeing how far you will go. Rise above it!!

Danielle, Wow, sitting here for 60 seconds not knowing how to start this. I don't want to be negative. I don't want to throw you under the bus, so to speak. I love the show, I don't mind some drama, but I just can't get into you. I don't know you, but I don't like you as a person. You're highly explosive to anyone, strangers included. You just have very poor social skills. I'm not saying that you are always wrong, but the other girls have positive attributes shown about them. I haven't seen any of yours. Anything that it seems that you are doing in the kindness of your heart, like giving a check for that little girl with cancer, was shadowed by deep layers of hatred, fear, and insecurities. My purpose here is not to "disc" you or to make you feel like dirt. I'm sorry if I have. You need to seek a higher love. I will pray for you to leave the path of destruction that you are currently on. Bravo is showing you a snap shot of your life and how you need to change it, for the better. Stop being a right figher, it's more important to be happy than right all the time. You have blessings but you don't show us that you recongize them nearly enough. You are not dabbling in drama, you are drowning in it. Save yourself and look around. Will you sink or will you swim? Right now you can't keep your head above water. Perhaps this show is not for you.

good luck danielle ignore the haters honey if it wasn't for you the show would be off tv.

You should be kicked off the show, this whole season is so lame because you just keep stirring up last year if i wanted to watch last years season I would. There is no need to continue your stupidity, if anything you bring the show down to a place, that in my opinion is, below the greatness housewives usually offers.

Danille...I am really proud of you for coming out of the gate saying that you are sorry for what you said..I imagine the anxiety you were feeling while at that event caused you to say things you are ashamed of..that being said.. Why in the world do you torture yourself the way you do..stay away from places and events that are most certianly going to cause tension until you are ready to go to them and just ignore what is going on around you. I was going back and forth about the feud between you and the other ladies but I feel Theresa's intent, waiting for you to come out of the restroom was a very well planned attack on you..

Just wondering...

How much do you pay 'your people' to write these latest blogs? It's very obvious your supposed positive attitude portrayed here doesn't transcend to your actions seen on the show. Actions speak louder than words. If you're going to preach love and light each week, try practising love and light.

Just sayin.

Danielle, Why did you even go to Kims Fashion show if you were going to be rude?Stay away from the people you don't like and act like a grown up not a child.Sometimes i think your daughters have more common sense than you do .Be a good example to them .You should count your blessings every day...those girls are your blessings!

Danielle, I wish you and the other women could be a bit nicer. It seems you are all still in junior high. You should really work on being a mother to your children and not their friend. Honey,you should really go fishing more its the best therapy.

I was so excited and happy for you last season when you said you really changed. During the reunion it really looked like you did. This season you proved you have not changed a bit. I hope you really look deep and someday recognize reality.

Danielle...your comments last night had me rolling on the floor....from calling that little girl "coke whore" to saying that your not going to clap when they announced Kim's name at the fashion show...lol...girl...I can say that this time around you did not start no mess......that was all Teresa...so good for you trying to walk away because you already knew she was being messy....

I really feel for you. I think all of your anger comes from a place of feeling left out by the other housewives on the show. I truly can understand your position and realize that you have to be a really strong person to put up with all of this and in such a public spotlight. I think Teresa was really looking for a fight on the last episode and wanted you to react in a negative way. She had ill intent when she said hello to you. Stay strong and please know that there are some viewers that hope for the best for you and your wonderful daughters.

Your Love & Light, Stay positive statements are only words, it is obvious based on your words and actions that are captured on video (and even at that you deny reality) prove that you are far from the person you claim to be. Seek help

you are talking about Ashley and her "middle school" behavior. Your normal behavior is childish, and your children are more mature than you are.

Danielle, I applaud you for the maturity with which you handled yourself on last night's episode. I think it was fair to say that it was SOOO obvious Theresa was not being nice and it was pathetic of her to actually attempt to convince others she was. You reacted to her like a lady, she was being vulgar, mean and displayed a true lack of class. You are very strong to hold your head up high when you are being attacked by others and betrayed by your friends. I know that must be hard, but losing those two is a actually a real gain because they are cheap, and seem to seriously lack character. You don't need friends that can be bought and sold. You need quality human beings. And there are true friends and people out there, and I sincerely hope you have or had found them. You are also very big to apologize about Ashley, without even mentioning anyone else's poor behaviour. I am not saying you are perfect or all your actions are correct, but you are human as we all are, and at least you are taking responsibility for your actions and trying to make them better. I know you came from a very tough world and experience, and maybe many of us would have behaved much worse in your shoes. It cant be easy, and see you have much courage and admire you, and a lot of others do too. Just have faith and only believe in those who believe in you, only believe in them and in God:)

Kim D and Kim G stir the pot STAY AWAY FROM THEM they just wanna be on T.V. and are playing you all!!! P.S bring your bodyguard to the reunion you might need em

I don`t think you acted like an adult through this whole show. Although, Ashely shouldn`t have push your buttons she is alot (really) alot younger than you and she still has alot to learn about how to handle herself in situation, what is your excuse?

What common denominator do all of the Real Housewives Series have in common? They have not cast relatives, and best friends until New Jersey.

I believe we all know why now...Of course any Sister, Sister-In-Law, and Best Friend are going to close ranks against the outsider, Danielle.

From my point of view Danielle has made mountains out of mole hills, but the other ladies have not exactly been angels either...The owners of the Real Housewives Franchise really need to do some re-casting, by keeping some of the original ladies from the New Jersey cast, and adding some *new* faces.

Love and light? Have you checked those words in the dictionary? Don't you wonder why all your firends leave you? If these friends always turn against you, think about why you pick these kind of friends. Your right. True friends don't turn on you. You aren't the true friend because you turn on them in a heart beat.

i think your great you trully make the show worth watching without you it would be nothing keep up the good work just brush those haters off!!!!!!!!!!

Danielle Starting to be and live you believe

please don't defend yourself

I feel you!!!!

If i had friends like that

I wouldn't need enemies TOTALLY AGREE WITH U

danielle why do you pretend to be italian?

So, I'm just wondering.. how come you never address more than the ladies? I read their blogs and they have over 3 pages worth of material covering the show and you don't even touch up on what happpened in the show. The only thing involving the show that you mentioned was your remark toward Ashley. You crave the media yet you shy away from saying to much.. whats up with that?

Oh, I so get you! I get so mad when I walk in a store and everyone doesn't know my name or stop what ever they are doing to take care of me. I mean how dare they! Don't they know us? Everyone and Everything must stop if I arrive!!

hey danielle,

just wanted to let you know that you are a super great person!! i love everything about you and everything about your life. i wish i had all of your experiences and maturity because you always seem to handle and comment on the other women with such poise and grace. you truly are an inspiration to me and one day i hope that i can be a bankrupt mother living beyond her means with two children whose careers i try to exploit down to every last drop. you are just a shining beacon of light for all of us plastic surgeried mothers out there who want nothing but to prove to the country how crazy we really are. truly truly a leader by example. i wish nothing but everything that you deserve. and believe me honey. you deserve a whole lot of something.

btw. next time you decide to criticize another parent's child make sure you take a look at what you've done as far as supporting your own children go. remember. they're CHILDREN not sacks of money you can just throw out there and hope to get more in return. LOVE AND LIGHT honey.

Danielle, you seem to take yourself really seriously,why? Body guards? Really? Watching the most recent episode you just seem really childish,and down right scary. I think the other ladies need protection from YOU not the other way around. You called one of the cast member's daughter a "coke whore" holy inappropriate! I am sure you would have hit the roof if someone said that about one of your children. I get that you have since apologized, but a rational adult would never say such a thing. Doesn't it make you feel weird that your friend (Kim G.) is clearly disgusted by your behavior, and is trying to help steer you in the right direction? Pretending to be on the phone? Paris Hilton taught you that?? That is laughable honey. How old are you?? Grow up and calm the heck down. Please seek some help for what are clearly mental health issues. And perhaps you should focus more on your beautiful daughters and not on what everyone else is doing/thinking.

Hey Danielle!!! We all saw how Teresa truly stalked you. I guess because it was her that makes it O.K.? Well your fans are here and we have eyes too. Teresa is lying about what happened and blaming it on you. She has changed and not for the better. I guess she thinks the viewers are stupid. Anyhoo , all the best to you and yours. Teresa has NO EXCUSES

Best wishes, I hope you find the light. Its time to move on and focus on your daughters. Be a Mom for C-Sack RP

Danielle,

Good job on the apology, it is never good to get into it with a teen-ager. Now, can you apolgize to Jacqueline for the nasty remark about her parenting skills? Because, as we both know you had no right to judge her about her parenting skills, when you were hanging around with Felons and driving around with your daughters in the car thinking of crashing Caroline's party, it was your daughters who talk some sense into you. Don't throw stones unless you want them thrown back at you. Enough is Enough.

I agree it was teresa's fault what happened this time. She hates you and then to suddenly try to come on like she wants to be friends well of course you don't trust her. I don't care for her anymore. Jacqueline should see that it was Teresa who wanted trouble not you. As for Kim D. she is really two faced. She loves you when she is with you but she ignored you at the fashion show and that really says it all.

I appreciate how you handled Teresa at the fashion show, you showed alot more class then Teresa Kim or Ashley did. I dont always agree with you but on this occasion, Teresa looked horrible again. Looking for a fight, you called it.

I would be upset if a friend of mine set me up, like that. Kim had alot of nerve calling you at home to attend, then putting you on the spot,

I dont know what happened next, because Bravo cut us off, but I gather Teresa chased you to your car.. Good thing she didnt have a lamp or table to throw at you. heads up girl

Danielle,I don't care for you and your thug behavior, but I have to admit and back you up that the worker at Posche was rude. I watched the show and if were treated like that I would have been very very mad. It was poor behavior and rude, very poor customer service. I would not keep her as my emplyee. Kim acted like it wasn't her fault, but it is. She is her employee and Kim should not accept that behavior . Kim should have her standards and have an employee manual that states the policies . I have fired many employees because of poor behavior and customer service and I have the P&P manuals to back up my rules for my business.

All I want to comment about is your terrible grammar. Everytime you open your mouth I cannot help but laugh because you do not know how to speak the English language. Oh and that fake "Jersey accent" does not make you look any smarter. For the record it is "these woMEN" NOT "these woMAN". PLAY ATTENTION PLEASE! If your goal was to look like an uneducated woMAN on national TV then please disreguard this message!

Your blog is just one big ad. BORING.

Danielle, there will be rejection, there will be talk, there will be drama, there will be friends, there will be haters, there will be negative feedback, etc. But one person simply cannot focus on that stuff, it will drown you and poison you. We all have a past and we all have drama but it is how you deal with it and move on that counts. Reach deep inside, listen to your heart, surround yourself with inspiration and thoughts that matter and friends that care, go to church, hear the word of God. You WILL feel and see a difference.

DANIELLE ,YOU ARE A VERY CLASSY ,INTELLIGENT ,AND BRAVE WOMAN. I KNOW THAT THOSE HATERS ON THE SHOW ACT LIKE THAT BECAUSE YOURE WAY BETTER THAN THEM.DONT YOU WORRY ABOUT THOSE LOSERS CAUSE EVERYTHING EVIL THAT THEY DO WILL COME BACK TO THEM! KARMA IS VERY POWERFUL AND JEALOUS WITHCHES LIKE THAT ARE ALWAYS MISERABLE AT THE END!ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THEY'RE NO ANGELS AND THEY PRETEND THEYRE PERFECT LITTLE GOODIE TWO SHOES,BUT DEEP DOWN INSIDE OF THEM THEY ARE NOT HAPPY AND HAVE DIRTY LAUNDRY TO HIDE!!!!!!!

Danielle, last year I was really in your corner, but this season, I'm really seeing that you truly do have some issues that you need some professional help with. Please get it before you totally self destruct and take your children with you.

YES... you were ambushed, that was obvious. But lets not forget your ambush at Teresa's dinner party, which backfired. With sensitive subject matter surrounding the book, it should not have been "discussed" at a dinner out in public & more importantly, with children around. As for the "obsession" you think the Manzo's & Teresa have with you, while they do seem to have nothing else to talk about (after editing, of course), you have made it a point to try to include yourself in their lives. They all have, on several occasions, made it quite clear they do not want to be friends with you. If you happen to attend functions with the others, it would be best to avoid any contact with them. There's no need to involve others in your "quest" to fuel the fued, that just makes you look childish. The two Kim's just want their 15 minutes of fame... I would not loose sleep over your so-called friendships with them. If a chance meeting with your "adversaries" inescapable, I suggest you remove yourself from the situation in a mature & calm manner. You seem to have an uncanny knack of creating more than you can handle. Stop obsessing & LETITGO!

I saw the clip where T pushed to interact with you. I saw right through it. Kim G should have let you walk away.

This time, T was insincere and stirred the pot. A little pretentious and it didn't go unnoticed.

When you described it as being "game-y", I agree - it was.

After she was touting her own horn about how sweet she is and how you weren't validating her, I think she got a little miffed and then the "honey" thing. Saw through that one too. It was phony as they come and not endearing, coming from a table flipping, screaming person.

I'm starting to see too much bashing going around and it's getting a little old. Time for a new punching bag!

I never understood the need for a bodyguard until I watched this last episode. You were indeed in need of protection. Makes me sick to see the direction Bravo has taken with the show. You have your problems Danielle and it shows, but last night Teresa went after you clear as can be.

Glad to see that you have decided to post such a positive blog, Danielle. Good for you! Keep it up. These are the types of blogs I like to read, not ones that are back biting.

Looking forward to hearing more versions of your song. It is pretty and you have a lovely voice.

Glad to hear your daughters are doing wonderful things with their young careers. Hopefully they will continue to excel in their endeavors.

Danielle, Kim G. is playing you too. Instead of hanging around people that help instigate more of the same drama. You should surround yourself with true friends, not someone who pretends to play nice for the cameras. As far as Kim D. - she's also "playing nice" for the cameras. They're both 2 faced!

Daniele -All I can say is "If I knew then what I know now". I'm sure you now know through life experiences that someone's (Theresa,Ashley and that slob Kim D) own insecurities make them act out. From personal experience people will make nasty comments about you because they feel horrible about themselves and want to bring others down. Their insecurities make them act out. Theresa thought she could buy happiness and acceptance and ended up bankrupt. When she tried to speak with you at the fashion show she just came off as really insincere and uneducated. Ashley is a moron who barely graduated high school and should have a mother with more of a backbone. Kim D is a two-faced slob. You can't feel get mad at these people. You have to almost feel sorry for them because they will never have inner peace. When you are happy, people will try and bring you down because they are jealous. Keep on being FABULOUS!!!!!!!

in the future try to be as nice as you are on this blog

Do you really think the world revolves around you? The lady was on the phone!! You come walking in thinking you are someone important and put your purse on the desk like you own the place. I think its funny that you get so offended when someone doesn't know who you are...get over yourself. And you don't have money to give to a charity for children's cancer BUT you can spend all this money at Posche? How dare you!

First - glad we don't live in Jersey anymore- it's embarrassing to see how grown women lower themselves to junior high behavior. Second - You need to make sure that you keep your lies straight from one episode to another. Third - bodyguards? Really? Get a life. Leave the show. Bravo must be desperate for ratings if they insist on keeping someone as low as you on tv, or wait, have you threatened them with your "lawyers," too?? Probably.

When pretending you're on your cell, iPhone, use a "contact" so the screen isn't white as in Safari is opened up. Just sayin'

Danielle,

You have talked so much crap and be vile all season long. While I don't condone how Teresa attacked you, you HAVE to know that your motor mouth and attitude provoked some of it. You can't go around acting they way you have and not expect someone to confront you. Where I come from, you would've been beat down long ago because people can only take so much of someone running their mouth all the time and living in a fantasy land that involves trashing other people. Its very sad what has transpired. I hope that you TRULY learn to live Love and Light b/c regardless of what you say your actions and words have been opposite of that! Just sayin....

I'm thinking you should hang out with Kelly from NYC. Maybe the two of you can understand each other's poor behavior because those of us who are in fact "Real Housewives" don't get you at all. Dina is right.

The only thing I can not believe about Bravo is that they allowed Danielle to bring those kind of people to watch her back( like she really needs it) to a fund raising event for a baby that has cancer. To me that is hard up for rating and show no heart for the baby. Have more class than that Bravo and Danielle