Danielle Staub

Danielle thanks fans for their support and vows to turn away from negative thoughts and actions.

on Jun 14, 20100

Hi Everybody,

I have so much appreciation for all of my family, friends and fans for supporting me and my children in all of our endeavors as I greatly appreciate each and every one of you, and will continue to do so. And in saying this, I want to take this opportunity to stop living in my past, and start showing you how I am moving forward. I do apologize, I have gotten caught up entirely too much in the drama instead of just living my life through the growth that I’ve experienced since all those months ago of taping (nearly 10 months has now passed).

I have so much going in my own life and in the lives of my children that I would love for you to embrace. I will ask if any of you want to get to know me – really get to know me – to please pick up my book, The Naked Truth by Danielle Staub, my memoir. I will make no apologies for what has happened in my life, because it is what makes me who I am today. But now, I choose to move forward and I hope all of you will do so with me. Please visit my website, www.danielle-staub.com for my online store. Tune in on 6/21, for Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen as I will be singing my duet "Real Close" for the very first time LIVE. Keep an eye out for my daughter, Jillian Marie as she will be releasing her single "What You’re Talking About" in just a few weeks onto iTunes. Watch for my daughter Christine who is gracing runways with some of the greatest internationally renowned fashion designers.

It is much easier to turn away then to pay the price of interacting with negative thoughts and actions. Choose wisely. Stay in the positive.

I wish you all love and light.

Danielle

488 comments
carboqueen
carboqueen

Danielle you are good because I wouldn't let a bunch of women treat me like you let these women treat you. I don't care what you did in yor past that is no reason to be treated in that way. You girls are beautiful and well mannered; you have the nicest looking children on the show. The other girls are loud, rude, over-weight and lack class and education. Keep doing what you are doing because your girls seem to be going in the right direction.

martha berdiel
martha berdiel

Dear Danielle, I'm so sorry to see the way these women treat you. You seem to be the most honest real person on that show. The others only care about their fake statis and money money and more money. I respect you because you don't pretend to be a perfect person, your honest and I don't see that kind of honesty in any of them, they are sooo afraid of being tarnished or percieved to have flaws. The Lord Bless You and your Girls with a life full of Love and Happiness. Amen!! A Friend In Ohio, Martha

manda4408
manda4408

Danielle, I have to say you are by far my favorite housewife on the show. Don't let the others get you down. You are a wonderful mother supportive and and strong willed person. As for all the other housewives they just love the drama, and frankly i believe they are jealous of you and this is why they always cause a seen. Keep doing what your doing, and ignore the negative energy...I love watching the show, and i think you make it.

 In Your Corner
In Your Corner

Danielle The whole thing was a set up and you saw through it all. I wish you would have just kept walking. Theresa told Ashley "You were not supposed to do anything, we told you not to do anything.!!!!!!! They had it planned. Then sneaky Jacqueline said where did Theresa go? Did Ashley leave? Let me go look for her oh....I think I will go that way. Theresa is a lying cut throat and so is Jacqueline. Both Kim;'s are 2 faced. Get yourself some real friends. I like Caroline, she is no nosense and just want every one to get alone. Do what you do best. You said they will either love you or hate you, no in between. You are right. They are jealous of what you have going for you. Bothe of them need to lose weight and Jacqueline was never a real mom for Ashley or she would not be have the way she does. I Love You. Stay beautiful..................Michigan

Southerngirl0729
Southerngirl0729

Danielle, How is it that you are so self righteous that you don't even see your own flaws? These "women" not "woman" have tried to cut you out of their lives, and like a plague you won't leave. Not to mention you always go on about your "fans" and "viewers". But I haven't seen anything else on your blogs other then your opening statements unless, of course the blogs go in your favor, to even communicate with your fans/viewers. To me you look like a coward, just as you did the night of the fashion show. Grow up and be a respectable adult. Ohhh wait, and maybe even a decent mother. In other words, quit releasing sex tapes of yoursel! Your poor girls, I'm sure, are humiliated. On the other hand, if they are not, I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Now let's see if bravo will show my blog, if they don't I'm sure it will be in fear of you are your "gangsters"

Terrilynne
Terrilynne

Miss Danielle, some people are Kites and some are Grounded, you are a grounded person, attached, not `flighty` like the many kite people on the show.I learned about a group of female artists in art history called "dadas"-the female underdogs,you truly fit the bill if you researched them.I always side with the underdogs.You have more support than you know out here rooting for you Danielle.Do not change and try to fit in,remain who you are at your very core self, your highest vibration of you.That`s what makes you unique, one of a kind and stand out from the rest of your castmates.Stand alone if so be it.Roll with yourself,God Blesses you, Terrilynne, Nebraska Fan

Sindy Damon
Sindy Damon

Hi Danielle, I am watching The Real Housewives. Please ignore those women, they look really bad on tv.

HelpDanielle
HelpDanielle

Hey- as a friend and someone that has watched the show- Danielle, I wish I could give you a hug! I watched last season last night and I can't believe Dina and Caroline would have the gall to treat you like that! WOW is right! No wonder you are so angry this season. I mean, it's really not rocket science people. Danielle lost her husband...hello...she is a single mother and that is no easy feat...and then this horrible family airs Danielle's dirty laundry for their whole town AND every viewer. That is bottom line, wrong. I am proud of Dani for standing up for herself even if a dinner party wasn't the right place. She has guts! And not only, she didn't have another time or place to confront all of them together. They never would have agreed to meet with her- they hate her. If they really wanted to know about "the book" they should have called Dani up when Dina's mean ass found it and said "WTF is this" and atleast allowed her to clear the air before going for her juggular...WHERE SHE LIVES. That family is a bunch of bullies and that's it. I used to respect Caroline from watching this current season, but now that I know the history...I can't believe her or Dina. They are snakes waiting in the grass...probably genetic.

Danielle- You don't need them in your life. I know all of this has been hard on you, but you aren't going to get them back. Some people are just really unkind. What you need to do is turn the other cheek and act like they don't even exist. Don't try to hurt them, don't try to get them to understand how much pain this has caused you, just let it go. That will make them feel terrible. Silence is sometimes the best weapon. I respect you as a woman and as a mother. I am in no position to judge you because I didn't live your life. No matter what your past or present motives, you have two beautiful and smart girls and that shows for something inside of you.

Keep your chin up! Look the other way and spend time with those cute kids you have. That is my advice and you'll feel a lot better if you do, trust me.

Shirls
Shirls

Danielle, I like that you stand up for yourself, but sometimes it is best to ignore certain people, especially if they are not important in your life. Honestly, without you there is no Housewives of NJ. So, tell those bullies to get a life. You have more vigor in one strand of hair then the other housewives probably have had in their life time. If the show is too much for them, they should leave it for someone else, like Dina did.

NINA1
NINA1

YOU HAVE NEVER WALKED AWAY FROM ANY NEGATIVITY YOU RUN TOWARDS IT !!AND ANYONE THAT SUPPORTS YOU IN THAT IS AS MENTALLY ILL AS YOU !!!

sammezy
sammezy

oh and i almost forgot..you seriously need to get a reality check! and you shouldnt make dumb remarks or anything till you do.

Viewer456789123
Viewer456789123

I'm in total shock. I couldn't believe last night's episode. I thought these housewives shows were supposed to show how the "priveledged" live. And what about sisterhood? What happened to women being on the side of women? Teresa is totally low class and she has 3 daughters that are probably going to see these shows and grow up to be just like her. She's disgusting. I dont care how much money her husband has. She is the lowest of the low. Danielle, we love you. Hang tough. Hold your head high. There are a lot of people out there rooting for you. As soon as you see negative writing after this, don't even bother reading on. There are a lot of people who support you. Blessings to you and your daughters.

1ofakind
1ofakind

Dina did what GOD had paln for her to do. Remove urself from all negative energy. If u find urself always n the mist of negative energy it can trickle down on to u that is not of GOD .

Chinatown
Chinatown

Danielle- I only continue to watch the housewives because of you. I enjoy watching you be who you are and not some puppet like Jacqueline and Teresa. caroline herself is a complete nut case with her so called mob-style attitude, she makes me laugh!!!HAHA And Jacqueline's daughter Ashley needs to stay on the swing set and keep playing, she needs to realize that her mother (Jaqueline is a follower)she will never be her own leader. Teresa, Oh boy, that girl is the worst puppet creme-puff of them all!!! If that woman ever charged a woman like that on the street, she would be a part of the street. Danielle, you are genuine with wh you are and I only hope for the best for you and your daughters. Stay strong and most of all STAY YOU.

kelly "D"
kelly "D"

Danielle:

Clearly, by watching the show, you have support through friends and family; however, it seems like you spend so much time and energy on negative worrying about the "others" on the show that it detracts from that. Spend a little more time in "the light" dwelling on "love" and I think you will see your life truly transform. That being said, I get that this is T.V. and there wouldn't be a show without drama but seriously, get over all of this and stop thinking everyone is out to get you!

redmom
redmom

on tonight's episode you thought that lady was dissing you at posche. you need to stop thinking everyone is out to get you. We bring it upon ourselves what happens to us. Drop the attitude and maybe just maybe you might keep "real" friends and not thugs.

Awhstynnn727
Awhstynnn727

Miss Danielle;

From what I see on the show, you are a truly strong person and I really admire you for always standing your ground when it comes to the true "mean girls" of the show constantly attacking you and calling you crazy. Crazy for standing up for yourself and not letting people portray you as a monster?! You are completely right for standing your ground. I also think that your new friends are terrific for you, and I cannot wait to see you stand up against the mean girls again tonight!!

Also, the way Jaqueline turned against you was truly wrong. I really used to like her in the show as well, but now, I think her true mean girl colors are beginning to show, like the way she called you a pig and suggested that her own daughter was "bigger" on national television. Insecure much?!

Love ya girly. Looking forward to seeing more of you on the show:)

Much Love, Your biggest fan in Florida!

Embaressed for you
Embaressed for you

Honestly, you are your own worst enemy. You are the cause of all of the drama in your life. The Manzo's want NOTHING to do with you and you are just obsessed with them. You seriously need to get a hobby, a boyfriend, or something... Focus your energy on your children. Pathetic.

Kari7/-/
Kari7/-/

Danielle,

Without you, New Jersey Housewives is a bust! The others spend all their time talking about you! You should consider it a compliment. Not to mention, you are the only one with a real story, a real past that you take responsibility for. Unlike Dina, who still won't talk about certain things, she is definitely hiding something. I think thats why they focus so much energy on you, and why she left the show. She very conveniently makes it look like you are the reason she's leaving. HA! Dina hasn't done anything this season except sit in her house and pet what looks like a dead cat!

And the Manzo family are such hypocrites! They bust your balls about workin' the pole, but it's okay for Albie's whole life to be focused on opening a strip "club", cause according to Caroline strip clubs are classy - whatever! Danielle, you never had a chance with all the other housewives because they are all related - come on Bravo, you can do better than that. Get some of Danielle's friends on the show. I want to see some real fun, not this suedo-maffia crap.

minaal
minaal

i love you daniel. forget this house wifes.

Viewer987321
Viewer987321

Just bought your book, good luck to you in the future, stay strong and classy. Can't wait for next season!

A Sincere Fan.

MzScarlett9840
MzScarlett9840

Congrats on your song Danielle. I am curious as to why you'd give the Manzos a second thought....And here Teresa said YOU should get a job since you have financial trouble....she should remember about Karma and "what goes around comes around".......Hopefully YOU aren't 11 Million in debt.......Keep singing

DebiTYK
DebiTYK

I completely understand you. I understand why you're getting self conscious about these women, and why you behave sometimes in an unfavorable manner to defend yourself. I and many others know how it feels to be embarrassed in front of many and feel like you have let yourself and your close ones down. I understand what it feels like to only be able to trust my family, and even at that point have my doubts (disregarding Christine and Jillian, who are very mature for their ages). I understand entirely why you are who you are.

You aren't a bad person at all. Misunderstood? Somewhat. You have also somewhat stirred drama around. It is like a vicious cycle of misheard words, paranoia, and fear. But I know exactly what you fear, and it isn't manifested physically. You are afraid of being alone. Everyone is, to some extent. There are a multitude of reasons why one fears being alone; having to contemplate about their past, condemning themselves for everything bad that has happened to them... it could be anything. But that fear is strong enough to have you latch onto anyone and everyone who will listen. Some of whom you can't trust. (Kim G., perhaps?)

Let them go. You deserve to let them go. EVERYONE has a right to live the way they want to, peacefully, and not have to worry about the world publicly bashing them. The ladies on the show are somewhat antagonistic, but you are only feeding into what they give back. The best way to seriously deal with them, yourself, your family, and your life might be to quit the show. its not healthy to have so many people know about your life and give their opinions. and its not healthy to put your children in that position either. Think of them, and their wants, and in turn they will grow very proud of you.

Stay Strong, and please stop feeding into what everyone wants to tell you.

Sandia Allen
Sandia Allen

Dear Danielle:

I too have a troubled past. I encourage you to seek godly counseling so that you can heal from your wounds. It takes a lot of work to heal but the Lord Almighty can do it for you and it is worth it. Please consider it.

carolina girl
carolina girl

I really think you need to take a real look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you are 99.9% your own problem. Get rid of the thugs and spend more time with your daughters. Quite being so dramatic!!!!!!! people like you drain all around them!!

Beckyy
Beckyy

Danielle,

From the beginning of the show I thought of you as the strong person in the whole show (who didn't take "stuff" from anybody). But in the last few episodes you've confused me with the talk of others in the show trying to hurt you. When you went to the "event" there was no reason to take any of those "strong arm" people with you. You are classy enough that you should have walked in with your other friend (lady). You didn't need any protection. Don't worry about what they say, think or might think about you. Hold your head up and keep going...girl !

Viewer98989898989
Viewer98989898989

the funniest thing you have ever said "you don't get to cut people out of your life"... hahahahaha yes she does. she weeded you out.

BaBette24
BaBette24

Danielle - your song is absolutely BEAUTIFUL! I silently rooted for you before your performance. More drama, you certainly don't need. You didn't disappoint. I played it back multiple times, know the words by heart and can't wait to download it. It's certain to be a hit. You certainly missed your calling and I look forward to hearing more from you. Your daughter's photo shoot was incredible and they are both beautiful girls. Leave the drama behind for insecure people and pull out all the stops. Just rise above the fray and don't get sucked into it.

Reality Check
Reality Check

Danielle, there are so many things I could say to you. The most important thing is: You need a reality check. No one is out to kill you, especially he Housewives; and your 'friends' that just got out of jail are not good company to keep, they send out a bad message. Please, please, own up to what you've done and change it.

grammar puhlease
grammar puhlease

The plural of "woman" is woMEN. If you are going to try to empower women, maybe you should know how to say it.

growupdanielle
growupdanielle

It's good to see this attitude, I hope it lasts. You really need to show some class. Listen to other people when they are talking to you. When Dina asked you out, you should have listened to her and waited until she was done, then said "I don't think this is my fault, but you have to do what's best for you and I wish you the best in all that you do." Instead you shut your ears and opened your mouth to spewed bile about things that happened before. That is exactly the behavior that she was trying to tell you she couldn't be around anymore. Don't you aspire to be a better person than that?

thelookingwindow
thelookingwindow

Danielle out of the other ladies from the show, DINA was the only one who wanted to give you a chance and really get to know you as a person, because she is positive and believes that everyone deserves a chance. Don't get me wrong i really like you and i also like Dina. I think that you should have tried to work things out with her and look beyon her relation to the rest of the Manzo's. Danielle no one is trying to do anything to you, the Manzo's are just like everyone else, just looking out for them selfs and their families. They do not wish you any bad things, they just want your respect. Remember you get what you give.

Love you Girl

Andy GG
Andy GG

LUV UR VOICE what a song, out of the (Countless and the dumb blond from Atlanta) housewives U acctually have a VOICE, need to record an album. All left for U is 2 loose the (LAME) Manzo family, and the thugs. could care less for either. Keep recording!!!

margret
margret

I agree with The Real Jersey Girl! Bravo could create a whole show around you and your friends. Please Bravo, do it! Get her off the real show that I enjoy watching when she isn't on.

Viewer01
Viewer01

I guess watching the show makes you realized how foolish you look. I'm not sure if your duet will be a hit, but you do have a beautiful voice.

STOP BEING UGLY
STOP BEING UGLY

Wow, you really can sing...just you, a lesbian and a keyboard..no computer generated help..you sounded great! Now,a piece of advise, run with your singing and stop being so hard and mean spirited..

amandamiami
amandamiami

Love your new song!! Girl you can really sing!!WOW!!very impressed! Like i've always said, You make the show!Now those haters are really going to hate you even more...I see a record deal!! Go Danielle!!!All great things for you and yours!!

HouseWifeFan
HouseWifeFan

Last night during the show you said you got the surgery and all things new, meaning new direction for you life letting the past go.. One would maybe believe that until you did Watch What Happens Live, and just basically threaten the Manzo Family with revealing why Dina left..

If you had truly reformed you would not be threatening them at all.. Dina had it right you are crazy. As a mother of 2 I see how you exploit your daughters to certain people and life style that is not befitting

OlucciArmani
OlucciArmani

All i will say is...DANIELLE!...KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH.

because it is not easy being labelled ''THE BLACK SHEEP''. and of course everyone,the viewere is cashing on that. you know one truth in life......people pick on others to make themselves feel better, and to hide whatever problems they have going on in their own lives. watching the whole season 1 and the reunion i think i can boldy say that the sisters & sister in laws have their own hidden issues going on, there is a tension between them but they are fooling only those they can.

they made the whole drama circulate around you and it worked of course since you have a strong outspoken personality. Dina did not leave because of you

In season 2 even after you made your new friends,you were still the topic of their discussion, even on the dinner table that is (like guys move on, i thought y'all wanna move on.

I HAVE THIS ADVICE: stay on the positive, keep your head high, you have many good things going on for you,your daughters(which i must say are very gorgeous),their career......stay focused on these happy things, dont be distracted cos more good is yet to come as long as you stay focused. Stay away from trouble,Be the bigger person more often,stand up,say nothing and walk away.....

if there's something we human beings hate , its TO BE IGNORED....it frustrates every human being, so take my advice, give it a try,ignore them,don't give Drama the time and space cos once you're gone from their lives, they'll be left swallowed up in their own drama.....and we ll see who gets the last laugh.

Peace!. A top fan

CCGuido
CCGuido

Danielle, I think your wonderful. To borrow from another, I think you should see these women around as bullies. They are jealous of your looks( you are the thinist). You are beautiful inside and out. The others are rude childish bitches. I think your a great mother. If I wasn't married I'd love to go out with you!!! I am from California, I am a paralegal for the elderly and disabled. My son said that Caroline should grow-up she suffers from Peter Pan Syndrome. He says he's embarrassed by her behavior. Shine on Danielle. You have a wonderful voice. Much better than the other housewives who've tried to sing. I sang with a band then went solo. You have control over your voice. Did you take professional voice lessons. Love you Danielle and Nolo Corabundam bastardes. (Don't let the bastards get you down).

nik10
nik10

You ROCK dont let anyone judge you. it is never too late to change. the other housewives swer like they are not always talking crap about you and your children, they have no class, they need to get off their high horse. dont lower yourself to their level. ashley needs to mind her own buisiness and stay out off drama, she obviousley needs her 15 minutes. and jaqueline needs to stop making excuses for her daughters poor behavior, if some one wrote me threatening messages i would be upset to.

TeriG
TeriG

My daughter and I think you top all the other housewives across the board. Very entertaining. As a group I like NJ housewives the best because you guys speak very well not motor mouth like the NY housewives and you guys are tough cookies: you punch hard. We start to think that you are the star of the NJ housewives. Without you, the show doesn't have an edge.

jessielee hernandez
jessielee hernandez

I just watched the show 6/21/10, you look beautiful, and boy I love your voice. Keep it going girl Jessielee

LaneC
LaneC

Danielle, I have to be one of your biggest fans. I know you have so much comments and mist are negative, but I hope you read mine. Personally. I'm from a small town called Opelousas La. I'm an aspiring model and with that title comes alot of haters. Meaning that from the very start, people get jealus and literally dig into your life and make an initial judgment. An opinion based upon you without people even getting to know a person personally. My view is that if people feel threatned, they will attack or outcast. I agree with your choice of bringing your friends to the family venue. There were people there who wouldn't welcome you so of course you would keep a safe guard up. I agree with your defense last season to make that comment to Joe about the gay slur. I am a homosexual and I was very offended. Yeah, your friend said "faggot" but he had an actual reason from anger and negativity being bestowed on you and your friends. They were uncalled for. They are the monsters. You were attacked from season one, day one. I also want to congrats your daughter into modeling. That's great! And the same for your youngest in singing. If I could, I'd make you a huge fan poster and wave it to you and your family lol. Those girls could not possibly imagine a life you mightve have to had gone through. They are all money absorbed and spoiled lives. You're raw and natural. You've been through hell, I think, but you've managed to pick yourself up and raise two very smart and wise children. My best wishes go out to you and your family. I hope you continue to stay safe and reside in harmony. And readers, this isn't kissing ass. This is called civility and true sincerity. I may not be religious but my heart stays warm for you. People who hate, you sure do make your time around to come upon her blog and throw your garbage on someone you supposably "don't care for". Hello! Find better time with your life. Perhaps a gay highschool junior may have more decensy than middle age women to bash a scoured women on her public blog. She is thanking people for supporting her. What do you think you're doing? Don't embarrass yourselfs, beau. Love you, Danielle. Your song was beautiful; as is your voice. I think you surprised everyone. EVERYONE :)

Sal  R
Sal R

I love the new song.....is better then the other housewifes

Melizza St. Andrew
Melizza St. Andrew

Danielle I am going to continue to pray for you! You really need to stop looking for excuses as to why you are in the situations you get yourself in and just STOP the madness. All the ladies on the show have tried and it is getting ridiculous! Be Blessed!

A..Real..Woman
A..Real..Woman

I think it would be a wonderful day when Danielle is off the show! Clearly she's not a REAL WOMAN!! If you ask me she's childish. I'm getting so tired of looking at her. She made a comment about being a single mother and her daughters learning from her..that's scary!

Naomi from Brentwood CA
Naomi from Brentwood CA

I DO BELIEVE....I think that you went and created fake names and posted the NICE things here on your blog, sad to say but I doubt anyone in thier right mind posted those. Well, unless they are just like you??? You really need to get help!!! Try therapy, and NO not SEX THERAPY! You get plenty of that I'm sure!

Carol Golden
Carol Golden

I loved the song, you have a beautiful voice! Can't wait to download! Keep your head up