You are not a "fair weather friend" Caroline. Why do the "haters" see you as that but not Teresa? Teresa has not been a good friend to you ladies. Only while you agreed with her & backed her did she act like a true friend. As for Ashley & her attitude, there is absolutley NO excuse for the way she treats or speaks to her mother. She has obviously lived a really great life but she seems to have a very large sense of entitlement because her mother had her at 19. I don't think Jaqueline is "pushing" Ashley to go to Calif. unprepared but Ashley seems to think that because she wants to go then her mother & step father should pay her expenses. I think they should let Ashley go but make her supply her own finances. If she falls on her face then they can help her emotionally & by letting her come home under new house rules. My daughter is no 29 & we are very close but she also had a sense of entitlement when she was 19-23. I was always there for her but I gave my opinion & advice but she knew that no matter what she did We would be available to help her pick up the pieces if needed. Jaqueline & Chris need to stick to their guns & expect the same behaviour out of Ashley as they would from their 2 sons.