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Amber Calls Out Andy Cohen

Dina: What am I Doing Here?

Amber: Is Dina Coldhearted?

Dina: "The Reunion was Very Hard to Watch"

Teresa: We Love Hard, We Fight Hard

Dina: The Ladybug Event was Perfection

Amber: I Felt I Like I Was Being Hazed

Melissa: Continue to Pray for Teresa's Family

Why Amber Shares Her Cancer Story

Dina: I Was Team Santa

Teresa: I Don't Blame Jim

Bobby's Unacceptable Behavior

Amber: Dina is Jealous

Melissa: "We are Heartbroken"

Dina Reacts to the Sentencing

Kathy Talks Kevin Jonas

Amber: Dina Was Planning a Blood Bath

Jim and Amber Were on Different Pages

Dina on Bobby's "Bizarre" Behavior

Amber Calls BS on Dina

Nicole: Words are So Powerful

Teresa: "Kudos to Dina!"

Teresa: I Love the Show, I Love My Fans

Praying for a Positive Outcome for Teresa

"Tipsy Melissa is My Spirit Animal"

Dina's Lose-Lose Situation

Jacqueline on Her Status with Teresa

Why Teresa Told Dina the Rumor

Amber on Her Cancer Scare

Teresa: There was an Agenda to Hurt My Family

Melissa: I Do Feel for Amber

Dina: Gia's Beautiful Inside and Out

Nicole: This is Not 'Jerry Springer'

Amber on Her Meltdown with Teresa

Amber's Emotional Call to Teresa

Teresa Thanks the Fans

Dina: Florida Will Be the New Scary Island

Teresa: I Wish I Never Heard the Rumor

Amber on the Shocking Rino Rumor

Victoria Gotti's Big No No

Keep It Simple

Caroline Manzo tackles questions on gift giving, going back to school, and having a child in the military.

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Courtney from Boston, MA says: I am visiting my boyfriend's family's house for the weekend. He is one of ten kids, ranging from 12 to 28 years old. My mother taught me to never show up empty-handed, but how do I bring something that appeals to everyone? Do I bring a separate hostess gift for his mother? What gifts have you most appreciated in the past? 

Caroline says: I agree with your mom, Courtney, but I think you're taking it to an unnecessary level. You are in no way obligated to bring gifts for the entire family, and I'd be willing to bet that no expects you to either. 

A bouquet of flowers, a favorite cake, or cookies is more than adequate to bring as a hostess gift. Anything more than that would probably make your boyfriend's family uncomfortable; keep it simple. I'm sure both your boyfriend and his family will appreciate the gesture.

Debbie from Suwanee, GA says: Hi Caroline - My question is this: I'm a first time mom. My daughter is nine-months-old, and I'm at home with her. I recently came to the decision to go back to school to get my masters. I'm feeling a little guilty about that because she's so young. I'll only be gone four hours one morning a week and five hours one evening a week. She will be with daddy and her older stepsister, who is more like a daughter to me than a stepdaughter. Anyway, I just feel some guilt over this. I hope I'm making the right decision. Thanks for reading!

Caroline says: Good for you, Debbie! Don't feel guilty, your daughter is in good hands and won't even know you're gone. What you're feeling is normal. It''s called the mommy guilt button -- we all have it, but we need to shut it off now and again. 

Look at the big picture; you're doing something to better yourself, which in turn will provide better employment opportunities if you decide to enter the work force. Even if you don't use it for work, if it makes you happy, go for it.

I love that your husband and stepdaughter are filling in for you. It will give your husband some one-on-one time with his baby girl and allows your stepdaughter to bond with her as well.

Being a mother is probably one of the most important roles in your life, but it's important to take time for yourself and keep your identity as an individual. 

TJ from Columbus, OH says: First of all I want to say that I really love you and the show! Well here it goes: My one and only child (son) has decided to join the army. I am so shocked! It came as such a surprise and now all I do is cry. My whole life has revolved around him, and it is like a piece of my heart is torn out. I really don't know what I am going to do. I am very grateful for the men and women that fight for our country, but I don't want my son to be one of them. I honestly don't know how I am going to handle this. Any thoughts or advice?

Caroline says: I commend all the service men and women who serve to protect our country, but we often forget about the families and friends they leave behind.

Joining the military takes courage and character, be proud of your son and support him in his decision. Don't let him leave with a heavy heart, show him how proud you are of him. It's probably going to be the hardest moment of your life, but you have to put your best mom face on and send him off with love and a smile. (A teary smile is fine.)

Throw yourself into something positive; there are numerous organizations throughout the country that support our troops. Here's an example: 

Support Our Troops - An index of US Military Support Web Sites

Get involved, by doing so you will feel connected to your son and you'll meet people in the same position as you are. It helps to talk to someone who understands your concerns and feels your pain. 

Good luck to you and God bless your son and all those who serve to protect our country. xoxo

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Amber: Is Dina Coldhearted?

Amber Marchese dishes on her first reunion and why Dina Manzo confuses her.

Hello Housewife friends!  Welcome to the jungle baby! My first reunion was a wild ride. Call me sick and twisted, but I had an unbelievable time at the reunion when most, I have been warned, dread it. I felt like it was “The Great Purge” and when I went home I was felt relieved of any built up tension. I don’t care if anyone has a grudge against me, my slate is clean and I harbor no ill feelings towards anyone. I love to argue my point, and I truly stood by all of my convictions this season, so I was ready to say exactly what was on my mind, and then some. 

I know the twins and I went at one another pretty hard, but that is what the reunion is all about. It is an opportunity to get it all out and potentially understand one another's position better. Then we can each make our own decisions as to where we want to go with our relationships. I am very much the type of person that can say some of the meanest things and sling mud, but hug it out at the end forgetting anything negative that was said. It just rolls off my back. I actually think it is healthier to say what needs to be said, and then move on.

One thing I did question after the reunion was if Dina actually has a heart or if I should start calling her the Tin Man. I actually have not figured her out yet. Is she really just a coldhearted bitch, or has she been hurt so many times that she has become warped and jaded. I feel I don’t owe anyone any reason as to why I call cancer “the cancer,” but I will give it once more anyhow. “The cancer” is “the monster” to me. It is a way for me to take away its power and to minimize it. “It” destroys lives, so “it” does not deserve a name. It is just “the cancer” -- it was “the monster” or “the dragon.” Although Dina claims to have an understanding of how devastating cancer is to a family, her actions and blatant lack of empathy proves otherwise.

In addition, I did not think it was appropriate for me to interject into family quarrels at the reunion; however, this is something that I feel strongly about. I have met Jaqueline and I have spoken to her on many occasions. In the very short time that I have gotten to know Jaqueline, I know and have empathy with the struggles she has caring for Nicholas. I felt that Dina’s interpretation of her nephew was callous and completely out of touch with reality. The only thing that keeps playing in my mind is, "You know nothing John Snow."  No, thank God, he is not hooked up to machines with cancer; however, what the Laurita family goes through is extremely difficult on a day to day basis that will continue on for a lifetime. It is emotionally and financially devastating. Although, Dina "visits" children with cancer, at the end of her visit she gets to go home, leaving it behind and goes on with her daily life. Since Dina does work with children with cancer, I pray that she can abstain from a self-absorbed lifestyle and become a loving, involved aunt.