Kathy Wakile

Kathy was a little disturbed by Teresa's ability to act as if they never had the argument on the beach.

on Oct 4, 20110

Melissa's performance was absolutely incredible. We are all proud of her. She overcame her fears, showed true courage, and did an outstanding job. It's wonderful to see Melissa follow her dream. Although her father had passed, he continued to motivate her. It's amazing what daughters will do to make their daddys proud, whether they are with us or not. I'm so glad I was part of that from the beginning. 

354 comments
Jamie4218
Jamie4218

Kathy please tell your husband to get a life. It is so funny how is is always bring Teresa up why? It there nothing interesting about him or you to talk about. Bus we all know how you love your cousin!! What a joke.

Justhisonce
Justhisonce

I am glad you and your family came on this season. You have a beautiful family. It is amazing watching the love your husband has for you. I have never been married and hope my future husband shows me that kind of once in a lifetime love. You are better off with out the drama queen-teresa in your life. You obviously feel physically ill when you are upset with someone and she doesn't even care about the effect she has on you. She is poison stay away from her. She is stuck on herself right now and is not listening to what anyone has to say unless it is how nice her outfit looks. Happy Holidays.

Ms.Collins
Ms.Collins

I like you Kathy but I feel like you and your husband are only on the show to bash Teresa and her husband. I think that it is strange that your husband is always bringing up Teresa and insulting her. Where is your loyalty to your own cousin who you claim to love? You are a beautiful woman with a beautiful loving family and you're a excellent mother. Your children are so cute and well mannered. I LOVE what they did for you for Christmas. Just don't talk about your cousin so much even if she is wrong; when its not pertaining to you just dont comment. Best wishes with your catering.

Christyaphillips
Christyaphillips

Kathy-I think its so funny people post about liking Teresa and commenting negatively on you and Melissa. You are completely genuine, and I think most women would love to have there husbands treat them like Rich treats you. Hes so respectful of you and you can tell cherishes you. I watch your family dynamics and its clearly obvious your family is in tact. I feel sad for the Giudices children. You can tell there is so much uncertainty and confusion with their children. Teresa continually tries to overcompensate for her husband and is so insecure and jealous of you and Melissa I actually feel sorry for her sometimes. You were fun to watch this year. You composed yourself which Im sure wasnt always easy. Happy Holidays.:)

uesaptnyc
uesaptnyc

Kathy,

It's good that you stood up for yourself, but you can't argue with stupid - there's no getting through. ;)

dee from fla
dee from fla

Actually you remind me of Cindy Barshop from New York Housewives, No real story lines except lashing out at one person for no good reason, Except you decided to help attack your cousin, Shame on you,

taffi
taffi

Dear Kathy, I loved the scene with your mother helping you pack, it made me miss my mom big time. Stay classy and ladylike.

Plain Jane
Plain Jane

I love you and Rich and your beautiful kids. I love to watch you all interacting...the Christmas present, their "contracts", Rich birthday party. I love, love, love you. Please come back.

I haven't read all the comments...but it looks like everyone loves you. You are beautiful (love you hair) inside and out.

I wonder how you relationship with Theresa was before you came on the show.

Good luck in your business and God bless you and your family.

I hope you get a kick out of this that came out of HLN yesterday..."scientists have identified a gene for selfishness."

That would explain Theresa behaviour. Don't blame her...she was born that way. Poor thing. Let's say a prayer for her.

Jacalyn
Jacalyn

At last you have the perfect response,"it was a joke don't you get it". Thank God no sound on this.

Sue Toynton
Sue Toynton

Hi Kathy,

great addition to the show. I only have one comment "fame is fleeting, family is forever"

Susan Toynton (Sydney)

ViewerinHI
ViewerinHI

Bad behavior all season. Are you happy now?

nen
nen

i think you and andrienne maloof are the best housewives in housewives history.

Tarry
Tarry

Kathy,

You daughter looked so beautiful I cried with you. You have such a lovely family and your husband is a HOOT just like Joe! (not juicy) lol. I hope Andy shows the clip of the christening when Teresas children were left unattended. I want to see her face when she see she is the one who used that word not you!! I would use my hard earned money to buy a cookbook from you as I feel you bake for the love of it and not for just making a buck to bail out deadbeat husbands!!

Best Wishes to you and your family this coming Holiday Season!! A Fan

am
am

You are pretty easy to read. You and Melissa came on this show to stir things up. I don't buy the fact that you didn't have any intention to make things bigger than what they were. You guys tagged teamed and played the others well. It was pretty obvious! You definitely underestimated Teresa. She got the last laugh!

wir
wir

You are beautiful inside and out. Love your family.

NJ4LIFE
NJ4LIFE

You are my new FAVORITE !!! You are kind hearted and NOT a fake!! Your family is beautiful, you are blessed!! Keep on Rockin!!

SusanBL
SusanBL

Although I detest Teresa's behavior, I think that you had to know that if you made a statement in front of her about "detaching" from your kids, she would feel as if you were implying the same about her. I have to say that I believe that your comment was not as innocent as you might like to make us think, and that you knew quite well that she would react as she did.

milaniayucky
milaniayucky

Kathy, you are adorable. I want to hang out in your kitchen with your family and share those wonderful treats you whip up. Do not let that miserable she-male ruin your time on the show.

RachelJane
RachelJane

I believe that you and Melissa were sincere with your efforts to make peace with Teresa. I would never purchase a "cookbook" that Teresa wrote but after seeing your cooking/baking skills would love to see one by you.

Patty 1010
Patty 1010

Kathy, some people can't be there for every single moment because some mommies need to work to support there kids. Like you I almost lost my child... My son was born at 1 pound and 8 ounces at 26 weeks... he almost died on 3 occasions and stayed in hospital for 4 months.. He is 2 now and the love o my life.. I am a true NJ momma.,, I have to work 15 hours a day to support him and pay his private school so he can get the best education... I would love to stay home and capture every moment, but that is not my reality...

WISLaur
WISLaur

Stay with your family Kathy! "Friends" (like Caroline) will only be on your side while it serves her then she'll dump you like she's dumping Teresa.

Panger
Panger

You are, quite simply, a delight. Despite the glare of the cameras (which surely must affect much of the "reality" we witness), you remain sincere and steadfast. You appear to be a wonderful parent and wife, a marvelous cook (if it all tastes half as good as it looks, well, kudos), and a thoughtful, smart, lovely, sane person.

That's my one concern. I can't imagine what it would be like to have my private life suddenly become public. There must be some benefit for you to take it on. Or maybe you didn't fully realize how intrusive the cameras would be?

Regardless, I find the need to caution you against "acting the part" - it's hard to stay sane when those around you are anything but and pushing every single button. Even worse, when your reactions are recorded and preserved for posterity. So, please, when it comes to your cousin, forget "blood." It is abundantly clear that Teresa suffers from narcissistic personality disorder. She will NEVER, EVER be sincerely decent to you or anyone else. It is all about her and always will be.

If you want to keep playing Charlie Brown to her Lucy and the football for the cameras, God speed. But if you're sincerely trying to figure her out? Give up. She's a lost cause.

Enjoy the quiet truth fall and winter bring. All the best. :)

jan jenkins
jan jenkins

Kathy you are beautiful and have beautiful children and a wonderful husband..I've watched every episode from day one and it's amazing how Theresa has changed it hurts to see her entire family try to show her love and all she feels is jealousy..what a shame you never meant to hurt her she just didn't get it..Your a wonderful person and so is her brother Joe and his wife..Keep smiling..

gvnn688
gvnn688

What each of these ladies need to do is watch the episodes we have seen. Maybe then they would stop it is her not me routine. Kathy has been mean to Teresa and formed allegiance against her from the beginning. The same holds true for Melissa. Teresa's behavior this season was far worst than Danielle and Kim G combined. I am not a fan of Caroline but what Teresa said about her and the rest of the cast in her latest cookbook was disgusting. I have always liked Jacqueline because up until recently she stayed above the fray. Lastly, I appreciated Joe, Teresa's brother because at least he knows how to say sorry and move on. Teresa and Kathy's husband can take a page out of his book.

debbieinmissouricitytx
debbieinmissouricitytx

kathy...The poet Alexander Pope said "To err is human, to forgive is divine" Medical research has shown that forgiveness is good for the heart as well as the soul. One study showed that when people such as yourself dwell on slights from their past, their blood pressure, heart rate and muscle tension all increase, indicating that their body was physically stressed when they were in an unforgiving state. Harboring a grudge or resentment against someone or something can only have a negative effect on your health and your life....Forgiving someone when she/he have hurt you can be very difficult...but true forgiveness can set the stage for a deeper relationship, help prevent disagreements about inconsequential things, and improve your health...Kathy first you need to start by forgiving yourself for all the mean things you have done or said to your cousin or anyone else for that matter and then that will set the stage for you to forgive your cousin and anyone else... and this will allow you to move on. Make a conscience effort to let the incident go...But dont keep bringing it up. dwelling on it. Dont insult or say anything lame or bad once you have forgiven that person...because it will prevent you from moving on...it works, try it and good luck

Suzfromco
Suzfromco

Love you, your husband and the kids on the show! Who cares about Teresa! Stay fabulous and down to earth, she is a waste of space to think or talk about, whether she is family or not! You can pick your friends, but not your family, and some family are best left out at sea!

kathy Fan
kathy Fan

Kathy you looked gorgeous in the episode talking about Victoria's prom. What lipstick were you wearing? The pink one? Please tell me! Thanks.

Rebecca
Rebecca

You should watch the tapes back. You do make tons of snide remarks about Teresa so she had every right to feel like you make lame jokes. You seem to always imply an insult. Just playing like you are perfect, and nice doesn't make you completely innocent even though you seem to think so. Teresa stuck up for everyone on the show during all the Danielle nonsense so I think people should not be such haters. I know you weren't on it then, but she deserves credit for that.

Angie73
Angie73

I love Kathy and her family! Great husband, great kids! But I am REALLY looking forward to the reunion of this season so Bravo can replay the scene when Theresa left her kids unattended at the christening and proves Kathy to have been right all along and Theresa feels like a complete azz! She can't deny it then...so all this fighting and ugliness for nothing. I hope Andy throws it right in Theresa's face!

sevi
sevi

Kathy; What a wonderful wife and Mom. Don't let T bother you. She needs a lot of pills; maybe St. John's Wort or something much stronger. You're a great lady and don't change. Sevi from Baltimore

Mystique917
Mystique917

I have stopped watching the show 4 weeks ago. It's horrible what Caroline, Jackie, Melissa and Kathy have done to this show. I will not watch season four. Please give Teresa her own show. It's sad for me to say this because I have been a loyal fan since the beginning but I am not entertained by the downfall of others at the hands of their family and so called friends.

rebecc2011
rebecc2011

Kathy, let me start by saying, I really like you! I think you have class (way more than Teresa and her entire family combined), brains, beauty and above all, HEART! You're a wonderful mother and wife; your children are such nice kids and Victoria's just a gem. However, I've noticed that your comments to Teresa aren't innocent. All your goodness aside, you're very passive-aggressive. For example, you've grown up with Teresa, you know how to push her buttons and on the beach in Punta Cana, you had to have known that saying, "ya know, I love to cook, but I'm not ready to start an empire and leave my children" would invoke her wrath. Come on, now, this is where I'll side with Teresa (if only for a very brief moment!). I think you were trying to get a little dig in, or at least, stir the pot and get a reaction so that you could play a little bit of the innocent card, as if to say, "see everyone! She's crazy! Look at how my innocent comment that clearly had nothing to do with her invoked such a nasty reaction!" I think that deep down, you knew what you were doing. Just some constructive criticism to think about for the future. If everyone expects Teresa to let go of the past and all things said and done, so should you. xoxo

debbieinmissouricitytx
debbieinmissouricitytx

kathy...you have a dark cloud hanging over you....hope they recast you and melissa...and keep teresa

another nj housewife
another nj housewife

Kath, love you on the show! Get rid of Caroline, Jaqueline, and teresa...

Patrice
Patrice

I am so happy that you and your family as well as the Gorgas are on this show. It's refreshing to see women who handle themselves with class finally on a reality tv show. You are class... so get it Girl! I love Caroline as well. And I'm tired of all the comments on here that try to bash you. I wonder at times if I watched the same show as those Theresa stans because she's not a nice person. Acting clueless doesn't win anyone sympathy points. I just read Theresa's blog and she said she doesn't hold on to things the way you did which is a complete contradiction to why she attacked you in the first place. She said it was stemming from the previous conversation at the Posche fashion show. She needs to get it together. But I really do hope you, Melissa, Jacqueline and Caroline remain on the show and continue to be great examples of mothers everywhere.

WindyCityWondering
WindyCityWondering

You are like a kid with a scab - you just can't leave it alone! Teresa is trying to get past your bs and you just can't stop yourself.

TanyaFrmNJ
TanyaFrmNJ

Kathy, I think you have been a delight. I find your husband funny. I LOVE LOVE LOVE how he tossed Teresa's cookbook in the trash! I have to say, that and the holy water was hysterical!

Alycat9705
Alycat9705

Disregard what the Teresa fans are saying here. They would slam ayone who dared to cross or offend their beloved "Tre." It would be funny, if it weren't so disturbing. I can't for the life of me figure out how they can stand this woman, let alone try to defend her. Maybe they're all like her? Scary thought!!

ViewerItaliano
ViewerItaliano

BRAVO PLEASE POST!!!!!! Kathy, what a beautiful moment with your Daughter's Formal event. You must be very proud and grateful. You and Caroline are my favorite.

sk1968
sk1968

I was watching all the episodes this past weekend for the first time (don't ask me why...), It is so pathetic! Is it the real - life of these wives???? or its Tv??? I have to say, if this is how the real thing, it is so SAD!!! people are so attached to material life It makes my life looks A-M-A-Z-I=N-G!! ( I don't live near this life style) Money can buy you a show-off life but can't buy you Family values & love... As to one HW Teresa, If its you for real, you are the most low-life I ever watched. Focus on your kids & give them love & attention so they will not get lost in the world you have created around them....

Brishy
Brishy

Hey Kathy, All these people w/their negative comments must be watching a different show than I am!! I feel you and Melissa are trying to do the right thing and make up w/Teresa, but the minute Teresa walks away she has something negative to say about you guys. Teresa may be jealous, I don't know, but if anyone has been watching the show all the fights involve Teresa! Your comment on the beach had nothing to do about Teresa and her kids.....She must have been feeling guilty about what happened at the Christening! Never stop being YOU!!

Saadia
Saadia

I not sure what is wrong with everyone!!! Teresa took what Kathy said as a direct jab because Teresa believes that the world is all about her. I’ve been viewer since day one and I have to say that Teresa has become not a nice person and either is Joe. There is lots of bitterness going on and Kathy and Mellissa are getting the short end of the stick. Everyone knows that Teresa didn’t want them on the show in the first place so why is everyone shocked by Teresa behavior. At the end of the day does it matter how big your house is and how nice you dress if there is nothing inside of you that makes you happy…

the freeze
the freeze

I have seen you roll your eyes especially when you said, "Good Luck with that". It wasn't heart felt. I still feel the comment you made to Teresa about leaving her child unattended was a dig at her and you never apologized for that. There was a lot of stuff going on at that christening and not everyones child was protected. You need to step up for that comment and stop saying poor me.

jacquelines
jacquelines

Your daughter victoria looked really cute, pretty , and beautiful last night and her date let me just say he was smokin hot like for real! I am happy that you and teresa got the chance to talk it over. But i was a little bit ticked off that she didnt mention you nor your family in the cookbook. See you in the reunion next sunday! take care! luv ya!

Nutt
Nutt

Kathy,

You truly are a lady in every situation, wonderful Mom and you look fab. Glad you came to the show this season!

Tngurl
Tngurl

Kathy, I think you and your family are a class act! I love your way and your husband is a hoot! Both of you have done a great job as parents. Tre makes me sick and is not all she thinks she is! You and Caroline are my fav's! Don't let the haters get you down.. Your food looks so yummy and would love to try all of it! Stay true to who you are, One classy and loving Lady! Best wishes!